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Introduction

Good day to all. This year, I intend to guide everyone towards becoming proactive learners, as opposed to passive learners. Today marks the first of a seven-part series. There will be two sessions tomorrow, another two the day after, concluding in about three to four days. These recordings will be transcribed, and you can access them online. Later, I will establish a proactive learning guidance hotline, where your pastors will forward your questions, and we will address your concerns. Should you all experience a 20% growth in knowledge and wisdom this year, your financial income will also increase by 10% to 20%. If you grow by 50%, your income will correspondingly increase by 50%. God bestows wealth according to your abilities. So, today, we will discuss the first part of becoming a proactive learner, titled Proactive Learning is Key. Please write this down, especially emphasizing and bolding the word proactive.

In my family, my mother bore several children, each unique, which is quite interesting. Individuals like myself are rather fortunate, learning readily from a young age. When asked how I learned, I cannot provide a definitive answer. It is similar to what I am sharing today about becoming a proactive learner, which took me many days to comprehend clearly. Explaining it to everyone is challenging. For instance, my younger brother, I am uncertain if he is online now. If he is, I apologize for using his experiences as an example. My younger brother did not excel in school, yet he is a highly intelligent individual. Thankfully, I am not speaking ill of him. He later became an electrician. This Mr. Liu is renowned in the area, a highly skilled electrician.

I was unaware of my younger brother's capabilities at the time. One day, he visited my rented apartment, where the electricity in one room would frequently trip, which was quite frustrating. We had consulted the property management and electricians, but after much effort, the issue remained unresolved. My younger brother fixed it in under ten minutes. I could not help but commend him for his competence. This incident provided me with a significant insight. It was not that my younger brother was unintelligent; he simply did not excel in academics but thrived as an electrician because he was proactively learning that trade. Sitting in class, listening to the teacher, he would become lost after five minutes, unable to grasp the content. One learns poorly in class through passive learning, but one excels as an electrician through proactive learning.

I. Proactive Learning is Key

Therefore, can everyone understand that proactive learning is key? If your academic performance is lacking, do not believe your teacher if they tell you that you are unintelligent. Recently, we encountered a teenager whom the teacher labeled as having learning disabilities. His father, a Shenzhen University graduate, relentlessly tutored him. When I intervened, I scolded the father, questioning the effectiveness of such teaching. That is because it is passive learning. The teacher imparts a wealth of knowledge, leaving the child bewildered, unaware of the purpose or necessity of learning it. Later, I advised him to engage his child in hands-on activities. The father, who had two sons, was very grateful. He nearly ruined his child, almost convinced that he was unintelligent.

My point is that attending class is often a passive learning method. Do not assume that I, as an academic achiever, have attained my knowledge solely through attending classes. I am not a passive learner. People were unaware of my proactive learning, wondering why I slept in class but stayed up at night, yet still performed well academically. They did not know that I studied at night and on weekends, all on my own initiative. As for why one becomes a proactive learner, do not ask me; we will not address that question now. First, we must establish that proactive learning is key. Later, I concluded that attending class is a passive learning method, a teaching approach that has harmed many. During those days, we would turn off the lights and go to bed by 8 or 9 p.m., but I would secretly study until midnight. My mother would urge me to stop, concerned that I would exhaust myself. It was not a problem; I would catch up on sleep during class, deceiving many. My mother would even get up to make me egg custard and pour me a glass of milk, which is why I have a close relationship with her.

My learning style is inherently proactive, which has been a great grace to me. I do not know if outsiders can understand the term grace, meaning it is a good thing. After graduating from high school, I was admitted to a prestigious university, where my classmates were top students from across the country, all highly capable individuals. The educational standards in Northeast China were lacking, and upon entering, I found that my scores were relatively low. Those from educationally advanced provinces, such as Shandong and Hubei, scored several dozen points higher than I did. Later, I discovered that although my entrance examination scores were not exceptional, I seemed to learn with greater ease. Not only did I learn easily, but my learning ability was strong. My grades were good, and I was not particularly tired. In university, everyone was in their teens or early twenties, and comparisons of grades were inevitable, yet many people's scores did not surpass mine.

I observed that I, too, possessed two ears and two nostrils, and my nostrils undoubtedly faced downwards, with no discernible differences from others. Why was this the case? The reason is simple: I gained admission to that university through proactive learning, whereas they had drilled through massive test practices. The teachers taught well and were highly accurate in predicting exam questions, but when it came to relying on one's own abilities, proactive learning was essential. Therefore, learning methods are of utmost importance. Subsequently, I cultivated a habit of proactive learning, which became a crucial factor in my competitiveness in the job market and in my career.

Last night, I could not sleep, so I opened Zheng Linghui's book, China Venture Capital Map. Recently, I have been studying venture capital, researching what people are investing in. It is important to recognize that these venture capital professionals are highly skilled and insightful, as they are adept at identifying future trends. I opened the education section and read the discussion on the education industry and future development trends. Here, I will slightly flatter myself; please do not accuse me of being boastful. I discovered that his views on education and the things he described were what I am currently doing. The things I am doing are remarkable because I have been doing them for decades. Zheng Linghui writes that the current education system has standardized the transmission of knowledge. Industrialized mass production is also standardized, producing items in batches. However, the education industry deals with individuals, not screws. Regardless of whether students understand, they are uniformly classified into grades one and two. The education of individuals should not be taught using a production line approach, irrespective of the child. The focus is primarily on the transmission of knowledge and skills.

Zheng Linghui stated that in the future, attention will certainly be paid to the four C's. If people do not understand a bit of English, they will be confused when the four C's are mentioned. Do not panic; I will explain them to you. The first C is Critical Thinking. I do not agree with translating it as critical, but it is used for now. The second C is Communication skills, the third C is Cooperation, and the fourth C is Creative Problem Solving. These four C's will be highly valued in the future market because in the future of education, the value of academic qualifications will diminish; half of the population now attends university and possesses a degree. With degrees becoming commonplace, academic qualifications lose their value, and individual personalities begin to emerge. If you cultivate a personality from a young age, and that personality yields results, you will be successful when seeking employment. We will discuss this further later.

A significant contradiction arises between traditional education and the demands of future jobs. Today, I can tell you that with the advent of artificial intelligence, the current traditional education system will collapse in the future. If many people realize that holding a degree is useless and does not lead to financial gain, they will cease to pursue education, and those schools will fail. The teachers in those schools will become unemployed and be reduced to wearing yellow vests as delivery workers. Therefore, the contradiction between traditional education and the demands of future positions is increasingly prominent. To give you a striking example, I know someone who sent his child abroad, starting from the first year of junior high school. After many years, the child failed to obtain a diploma and simply wasted time overseas. Sending children abroad often results in wasted time rather than learning. We cannot outsource education. This father brought his child to me, and it was very difficult to convince him. Sending his child abroad to study cost at least 1.2 million RMB, but the child returned with nothing to show for it. Now, the child is almost thirty, and soon to be thirty-five, which is quite distressing.

At the time, I advised him not to spend another 600,000 RMB sending his child to Australia for something useless. He finally listened to me and had his child start working. By forcing the child to learn about their work, he often called me for advice, and I tutored him. Currently, he is self-sufficient without any problems, earning a normal salary of 100,000 to 200,000 RMB per year. There are countless examples of children who spent hundreds of thousands of RMB studying abroad and ended up achieving nothing. This is a classic example of passive learning, where attendance in class is mistaken for learning. When some mothers see their children playing on their phones at home, they send them to tutoring schools, where the children daydream, wasting money and undermining their confidence. Therefore, brothers and sisters, you must thoroughly understand this. Listen to me because I am an expert.

Future education will undergo reform, and we are at the forefront of this reform. Today, I am sharing the concept of proactive learning with everyone. I may not be able to completely transform you into proactive learners immediately, but the idea of proactive learning will begin to take root in your minds. Many people are unaware of the purpose of attending school. When asked, most do not know. If you carefully consider and clarify this matter, attending school is for future livelihood. If attending school does not lead to future livelihood, would you still attend?

People assume that attending school will lead to future livelihood. Of course, in our era, only 3% could attend university; those who did were exceptional and had no problem finding employment. Now, 50% attend university, including those with poor academic performance, which diminishes the value of academic qualifications. Today, we must begin to promote proactive learning. Why did I found the hands-on laboratory? Because hands-on activities promote proactivity. For example, consider electricians or construction workers. They may not excel in school, but learning these skills is not a problem. We must understand this thoroughly. If one cannot make a living after completing middle school, and cannot make a living after completing university, it would be better to start making a living after completing middle school. From a financial perspective, the time invested translates into the cost of food, drink, and consumption. Each year, people spend money. The sooner one enters the workforce and engages in proactive learning, the sooner one escapes the passive environment, and the better.

Currently, some parents who send their children to study abroad pray in their hearts, God, please do not let my son return with another boy, or let my daughter return with another girl. I cannot bear it. Over the next two to three days, I will instill in you the concept of proactive learning. I have divided proactive learning into several sessions. Today, we discussed that proactive learning is key. Has this concept been internalized? If a child is struggling academically, making them a proactive learner will certainly help. In fact, my idea is that the sooner one starts making a living, the better. Do not wander around until you are in your thirties before thinking about making a living, only to find that you are incapable. This leads to frustration and emotional distress.

This series on proactive learning has several lectures. The first is that proactive learning is key. The second is the method of proactive learning; I will definitely tell you how to do it, not just engage in armchair theorizing, all talk and no action. I want to teach you the methods of proactive learning. The third lecture is about the habit of proactive learning. Many people do not have the habit of proactive learning and just want to listen to lectures from the get-go. The fourth is the proactive learning personality. If you develop this personality, you will be formidable. The fifth is how to proactively use various resources, and the sixth is to proactively abstract, summarize, induct, and organize. These four words together are called learning. It's not that after you've studied, it looks like you've read something or written some notes, and that's called learning. Only proactive abstraction, summarization, induction, and organization are true learning. The seventh is to become someone who enjoys solving problems. That is, the reason for proactively learning is to solve problems. Today, I want to give such an overall introduction.

II. Methods of Proactive Learning

If you practice the method I teach, you will definitely be formidable, and earning money will definitely not be a problem. Don't think you are stupid. People are stupid because they don't have the habit, method, and personality of proactive learning and are very passive. Today, I must tell you this method of proactive learning. I was very fortunate to be a senior manager at a university in Singapore when it was just established, becoming the head of the information management department. At that time, I was very passionate about education and felt that being a teacher in front of a whiteboard or blackboard, writing and speaking, was very dashing. Actually, it's not about being dashing, but it felt good. Although I entered the university as an administrator, the school had a requirement that regardless of your administrative level, you had to go to the front line to lead students. I have supervised graduation projects and taught a course called Critical Thinking or Problem-Based Learning.

While working, I met an education expert, the vice president of the university in charge of education. We had a good relationship and often ate and discussed work together. He invented a very practical problem-solving PBL, which is the problem-solving teaching method mentioned above. That is, solve a problem every day. If a child goes to school for a hundred days, they will solve a hundred problems. Every day, let them find information with questions, digest the information, and then solve the problem. I was very fortunate to be involved in it and later found it to be a very clever approach. Specifically, students are divided into groups, each group of five people receiving a problem. They have to fill out a form called MFT, which is a very simple template. It asks if you know the problem? What do you need to know to solve the problem? You have to figure this out first. What are the knowns and unknowns, and what else should you know? Then everyone goes to find information and study. After each person finds the information, it is summarized, and the teacher provides guidance on the information, picking out the correct and eliminating the incorrect. Then they start to digest the correct information and start solving their problems.

Because everyone has to go on stage to talk about their problem every day, it can only be a small class, and each team has to take turns to speak. The interesting thing is that people have to know what learning is. That is, to solve a problem, there are definitely known and unknown parts. If you see that only 20% of the problem is unknown, then learning the unknown 20% will solve the problem. If you only know 20% and don't know 80%, you have to spend more time learning. Of course, if you don't know 100%, then forget it for now.

Therefore, our correct learning method must be from simple to complex. That is, you must know at least 30% to 40%. If you are a confident, formidable, and very resilient person, you can do something even if you don't know 80%. However, if you know 50% and learn the remaining 50%, that is learning. It's like your circle expands a little, and then you make another circle, which expands it again. This learning method is very operational. Later, I found that many people's learning methods are wrong. They specifically look for things they can't do, and as a result, they keep failing. Moreover, they don't want to know what they don't know, nor do they want to understand what they should learn to solve the problem. They just want to solve the problem directly. For example, someone wants to make money and wants people to give them money as soon as they meet them. This treats people like idiots. Will they give it to you? Unless you hold a knife and force them to hand over the money.

This PBL has had a profound impact on me, and MFT has also had a profound impact on me. Of course, the MFT template was not taught to me by the former associate professor. When I was young, I did it this way. When I encountered a problem, I first sorted out what I knew and didn't know, and then looked for information and studied how to do it. Gradually, I developed a habit of proactive learning. For example, finding information, digesting the information, and observing how people do it are all my methods of proactive learning. Everyone must not think that knowledge is taught by teachers. In fact, knowledge is learned by oneself. The master leads you in, but the practice depends on the individual. So that's why I was able to rise quickly in the workplace, although there may be other factors.

I apply proactive learning in various areas. Once, my mother said she would make dumplings for me, but when I looked, I was making them faster than her. Actually, it wasn't much faster, about a tie. But my mother found it strange and kept asking me when I learned to make dumplings. Actually, I watched her make them before and wondered how she made them. Later, I tried to make one myself, but a lot of the filling was outside. That wasn't a dumpling; it was a pizza. So I adjusted, observed again, and made it again. This uses the ears, eyes, brain, and mouth together. This is called proactive learning. After making a few like this, I learned it and made it well. Because I used the method of proactive learning, the operation of making dumplings is just adjusting my understanding of making dumplings. Therefore, proactive learning has methods, and I will give a separate lecture in the future, giving more detailed examples of what the methods of proactive learning should be like.

III. The Habit of Proactive Learning

This is a refinement of my past methods of proactive learning. As for why I did this from the beginning, I can't answer or explain it. I can only say that it was destined for me to do it this way from the start. Some people are born unable to learn, so you can only say they are unlucky. But today, after I abstract, summarize, induct, and organize it and tell you, it's your business if you still don't do it. If you encounter difficulties in the process of doing it, I can help you. The habit of proactive learning is relative to passive learning. Some people just want to be taught when they learn. In fact, I really want to break the habit of lecturing, which is why I want to build a counseling hotline.

Lecturing is just giving you a concept, and it ends after you listen. If you listen to the same thing every day, you're done. How to change from a passive learning habit to a proactive learning habit. Remember, wanting to listen to lectures is a passive habit. In fact, even today, many parents think that sending their children to school to listen to lectures is learning, and they don't know what real learning is. This is a huge misunderstanding. Learning is your constant digestion, understanding, and active exploration of the cognition of things, as well as how to use resources. I will gradually teach you.

This habit is really not difficult to change. The difficulty lies in whether you want to change it. People want to listen to lectures because they are impatient and want people to tell them the answers quickly, and then they memorize the answers but learn nothing, only learning a bunch of garbage. So it's bad when people rely on going to class when they want to learn something. There are not many people who can proactively learn because they want to get results quickly, and proactive learning is very hard, and the process seems slow, but it is very effective. It is real learning, and what you learn is your own. Today, we have to overcome impatience and fear of difficulty, change bad habits, and cultivate good habits. I often teach everyone to be down-to-earth. Only by saying clearly and understanding clearly have you learned it. Going to the exam without understanding it clearly and only getting 60 or 70 points is actually a waste of time and you still haven't understood.

Some people tell me that they have forgotten how to ride a bicycle. In fact, it's impossible to forget. Forgetting is ultimately because you didn't learn it back then. People were helping you maintain your balance in the back, and you were only in charge of pedaling in the front. It's like the small car that kids use when they learn to ride a bike, with two auxiliary wheels on each side in the back. You can't ride if you take off those two small wheels. This is a bad habit. Many people get a driver's license but don't know how to drive. They just want to get a driver's license. It's a tragedy to have an A license but not be able to drive. So turning a bad habit into a good habit is a painful experience. As for how to change, I will tell you in the third lecture. Today, I will give you a general overview.

IV. The Personality of Proactive Learning

A person's personality is charming. The reason why a person is considered charming is because they have a personality in their bones. You have to understand what the personality of proactive learning is. You couldn't establish the habit of proactive learning from the beginning, so you can't have the personality of proactive learning. Start today to develop the habit of proactive learning. For example, making dumplings, buns, and steamed buns is proactive learning. You have begun to develop the habit of proactive learning. But when you learn programming, you become passive again because you are not used to it. If you develop the personality of proactive learning, you will proactively learn when you do things because proactive learning is an exercise in faith.

The process of exercising faith through proactive learning is like this: At first, you don't understand things, and personality is generated by faith. I often say, Actually, there's nothing to it; it's just this little thing. Isn't decorating a house just water, electricity, floors, and ceilings, and then you move the furniture in? Why do you think so much and I think it's simple? Because my faith component is large. When a person's faith is large, the problem becomes small in front of you. When faith is small, the problem becomes large in front of you. So how is faith exercised? It is by solving a small problem with the method of proactive learning, and then solving a large problem with the method of proactive learning. Later, faith slowly rises.

It's bad when some people don't want to do small things and can't do big things. There are many people like this. They lack the personality of proactive learning. Everyone will slowly discover why I emphasize faith so much because faith is very important. Faith is a judgment of the future. If you say to the future that you can definitely solve this problem, you will persist until you solve the problem. If you feel that you can't solve the problem during the process, you can't continue. I have persisted in this way over the past few years, and nothing has been left unfinished. I am not someone who leaves things unfinished; I don't have appendicitis that bursts. Leaving things unfinished is a very bad habit. Everything you do is unfinished, so you might as well call it Unfinished. Therefore, the personality of proactive learning is a positive judgment of the future, so just persist.

Today, I insist on building a counseling hotline because I am willing to partner with your small leaders to bring you out of your current situation, not by relying on the little faith inside you, but by relying on the faith that I impart to you so that you can persevere to the end. This is definitely not easy to do, but the rewards are high. So what should you do if you encounter difficulties while proactively learning?


## V. Proactively Utilise Various Resources

You will gradually discover that those who know how to learn will utilise resources. One of our co-workers is more adept at finding information than I am. Sometimes, I ask him to help me find certain materials, and he locates them very quickly. Some time ago, I needed materials for human resources training, and he quickly found a wealth of excellent related materials, which were very well presented.

The first type of resource to utilise is information. The internet today is so powerful that all kinds of information are available. For example, on YouTube, there is something called MIT OpenCourseWare. All the courses there are taught by very capable professors, and the materials are extremely abundant. Therefore, when you go to school, do not focus on learning content; instead, learn how to utilise resources. Your professors are your resources, your classmates, and the capable individuals you know can become your resources. The same applies in the workplace. Besides these materials, there are also experts and scholars. If you did not know me today, how would you know how to learn proactively? Today, I am an expert, and I am telling you about proactive learning so that you can understand how to do it.

Everyone should now start training their skills in finding information. To solve a problem, you must learn the skill of proactively seeking information and proactively seeking assistance. Do not mistake proactive learning for passively asking questions. Passively asking questions means asking without having thought about it beforehand. I rebuke him because he did not think at all before asking the question. But if you have thought about it and then ask a question when you encounter difficulties, that is valuable because the questions asked are meaningful. Proactively utilising various resources, including online books and materials, is one of the resources. However, it is important what books you read. Reading miscellaneous books will result in a pile of rubbish, and you will only confuse yourself. Someone asked me about The Moon and Sixpence, but I have not read it. I have seen The Old Man and the Sea, but it held no meaning for me; I do not like that kind of book. I have not even memorised many Tang poems. As an engineer, my focus is on solving problems. I am not in the habit of poets and literati expressing their complaints and grievances. Proactively utilising various resources means that you should proactively seek information and use all available resources within our environment. We are willing to be utilised by you as long as you can grow.

## VI. Proactively Abstract, Summarise, Generalise, and Organise

Everyone should write down these four words, or rather eight characters. These eight characters are not your or my destiny (八字); they are the eight characters of proactive learning. Abstract, summarise, generalise, and organise – these eight characters determine your destiny (八字). They are very important because this is what learning is. A characteristic of the human brain is that anything that has not been abstracted, summarised, generalised, and organised cannot enter the brain. Therefore, whatever you do, you must go through a process of abstracting, summarising, generalising, and organising. Some people say they do not know how; this is what you are learning. You are here today to learn abstracting, summarising, generalising, and organising. The ability to learn lies in this.

Some time ago, one of our sisters wanted to learn accounting. Although some of the brothers and sisters among us are academic achievers, they were at a loss when it came to teaching someone else how to learn. I took over this matter and asked the one who is good at finding information to help me find accounting materials. He quickly found Three-Colour Notes, which are books for various levels of accounting exams. When I opened this book, I discovered that it used three colours of ink, which was a way of abstracting, summarising, generalising, and organising. Then, if you read the accounting book and then read these notes, after going back and forth a few times, you will know what organised information looks like. They condensed a thick book into a thin one. If you can absorb and understand it, you will have learned it, that is, you will have clarified the relationships between concepts, and you will have also found the patterns within.

For example, I do not have much time to learn accounting either, but when I encounter a matter, I have to ponder it. I spent some time quickly flipping through it and made a summary. The reason why I learn things quickly is that I quickly grasp the concepts and then quickly grasp the relationships between those concepts. In this case, the accounting standards teach people how to do the accounts, that is, how to make accounting vouchers. What accounting vouchers are is something I do not have time to teach in detail today, but simply put, it means which account the money comes from and which account it goes into. This is called an accounting voucher, but that is not how people teach it. The second concept is the accounts, and the third is the balance of the accounts, which is calculated by adding and subtracting. Within that, there are increases and decreases, and the balance produces three statements. If you can organise the relationships and concepts clearly, you will learn it immediately; it turns out that is all there is to it.

Of course, having said that, although that is indeed all there is to it, there is still some distance to go before you understand each and every one of the six major categories of accounts. However, once you organise it, you form a framework. With a framework, things will not be in disarray, and the problems will be easily solved. This is why learning is so quick. Some people ask about human resources learning. Well, we also have our own set of methods. The same applies to programming. My strength lies in abstracting, summarising, generalising, and organising, that is, I am good at quickly grasping the relationships between concepts by summarising, generalising, and organising, thereby forming the highest level framework, and then delving into a deeper layer of the framework. The material in my mind is a clear network of ideas.

If you find this pattern, you will not go astray in your work, and you will be able to think. Accounting, finance, human resources, project management, marketing, being a social media influencer – these have all been organised by others, so just learn from them. I often say that learning is not something you invent yourself; it is learning from others. For example, none of the words were invented by you. If you invent a word during an exam, it is called a misspelled word. If you keep writing misspelled words and think that you invented them yourself, you cannot invent them; these are all learned from others. Today, we learn mathematics, physics, chemistry, and even how to speak from others. If your child is raised by a domestic helper, they will speak like the domestic helper. You have to understand thoroughly that everything is learned from others. So, if you proactively abstract, summarise, generalise, and organise, and clarify the relationships between concepts, how can you not be capable? Especially when you want to solve a problem, if you cannot clarify it, you cannot solve it. If you do something wrong, and it becomes a habit, you will be ruined because you are always messing around blindly.

## VII. Be Someone Who Enjoys Solving Problems

First, ask yourself why you want to learn? Because you want to solve problems. It is useless to learn something and then use it as conversation filler after meals. Learning is for solving problems, and solving a problem is more enjoyable than eating a full-course meal. I love solving problems. No matter what the problem is, I find it enjoyable to solve. If you can solve problems wherever you go, how can people not honour you? If you create problems and troubles for people wherever you go, you will become disliked. From now on, it is not me pushing you to learn proactively, but you wanting to learn proactively because you want to solve problems. You can only earn money if you can solve problems; who would give you money if you do not solve problems?

Solving a problem is very enjoyable. Some time ago, I realised a pattern: literary figures, artists, and the like are prone to depression and insanity; many commit suicide. But engineers rarely jump off buildings. As for the engineer who jumped off a building because of stock speculation that people talk about online, that is unrelated to what we are talking about now. Although he was an engineer, he later went into stock speculation, which is finance, something else entirely. Going back to the topic, engineers find great enjoyment in solving problems. Try it, and you will know. This is why I insist on placing the engineer's mindset within you. When you talk to someone and discover that they are a philosopher who likes to quibble over words or a literary figure who likes to be lyrical and express their emotions at every turn, it is clear that as an engineer like me, there is no time for complaining or expressing grievances; there is only time for solving problems.

A person will encounter many problems in their life. Some time ago, I encountered an elderly woman in her 90s whose legs were swollen. I had previously cured her leg swelling, so why was it swollen again? It turned out that she and her daughter were discerning good and evil. After untangling that knot and praying, the problem was solved, and the swelling subsided. Remember! I will say this to everyone again: do not explain the problem; solve the problem. There is a big difference between explaining and solving. Many people like to explain. For example, if they cannot open their mouth because the hook is stuck, they say it is a bodily disorder. There is no need for you to say it is a disorder. If it will get better slowly, that will not solve the problem. If someone can solve the problem, their explanation is correct. If they cannot solve the problem, their explanation is just trying to fool you. Therefore, we must be problem solvers, not problem explainers. There are many people who love to explain problems now, but the problem solvers are here with us.

Today, everyone should develop the habit of proactive learning. Proactive learning is not for learning about sixpence and then telling people that you have learned sevenpence, one more than them. That is useless. Start developing the habit of solving problems. When solving problems, you will discover that there will be times when you cannot solve them yourself, but do not be discouraged. Because you know that you need to learn in order to solve this problem. After you have learned and actually solved the problem, you will have learned something. And sometimes, you may have to learn nine things that cannot solve the problem in order to solve one problem. In reality, you only manage to solve the problem after learning the tenth thing. So, we become increasingly smarter. We must continue to pass on this concept. How wonderful it would be if an 11-year-old child listened to what I am saying now and decided to be a problem solver. Figure out what is going on with their bad relationship with their mother, and then learn and understand why the relationship is bad and how to improve it. Or, if a 17-year-old child is about to go to university and, after listening to this, feels that the most important thing is that they should first proactively find out what they should study.

I will end today's sharing with a story. A child who was in kindergarten came to us with his mother. Back then, they were poor and rented a very simple house in Shanghai. It rained heavily outside, and it drizzled inside. Later, we taught his mother how to learn proactively. His mother went from having no income to now earning seven or eight thousand yuan a month. With this income, they took out a loan to buy a cheap car, and it is fine to pay a thousand or eight hundred yuan a month in repayments. Before they knew it, this child had grown up. He remembered what I had said in the past. In fact, what I am saying today is nothing new; it is all what I have said in the past.

This child had a rural household registration. Later, Shanghai introduced a new policy that allowed junior high school graduates to attend secondary vocational schools, tuition-free and with subsidies, to study internet marketing. He is not very old now; it has not been many years since they first came here. Now, after listening to my teachings, he quickly started an internship and is earning a salary. His family's entire financial situation has been greatly reversed. This is much better than those who go to university and get this degree and that degree but, in the end, cannot do anything. Because those who study for a long time but still cannot do anything are passive learners, while this child, now sixteen or seventeen years old, has become a proactive learner. I want to congratulate him at this moment; he will definitely become a promising and intelligent child in the future.

Today, we have given a general overview. Starting tomorrow, we will talk about it section by section, explaining clearly the methods, habits, and character of proactive learning, as well as proactively utilising various resources, and proactively abstracting, summarising, generalising, and organising. I will explain it clearly to everyone in a course-by-course manner, so that in the end, you can be someone who enjoys solving problems, not someone who creates problems. How wonderful that would be. Now, many children have become accustomed to passive learning, and in the end, they become the epitome of moochers, which is too difficult. That is all for today. Happy New Year to everyone, and may your families be happy and healthy!
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大家好,这一年我准备带着大家做一个主动学习的人,主动学习的对应面就是被动学习。今天讲第一讲,这一系列一共有七讲。明天有两讲,后天有两讲,大概三到四天就结束战斗。这些录音都会整理成文稿,大家可以上网去查看。之后我会建立一个主动学习的辅导热线,这个辅导热线是透过你的牧者把你的问题接过来,然后解决你的困惑。如果大家今年这一年在知识和智慧上成长了百分之二十,那你的财务收入也会增长百分之十到二十。那你要是增长了百分之五十,收入也会跟着增长百分之五十。神会照着你的才干把财富赐给你,那么今天咱们就讲做一个主动学习的人的第一讲,叫做“主动学习是关键”。大家把这个写下来,尤其是主动这两个字要加粗加黑。 我们家我妈生了好几个孩子,可谓一个孩子一个样,这很有意思。像我这样的是命比较好,从小就会学习。你问我怎么就会学习,我也不知道。就是今天给大家讲做一个主动学习的人,我也是梳理了好多天才梳理明白。要想跟大家讲明白可困难了,比如像我弟弟,也不知道他现在是否在线上。如果在的话就不好意思了,借用你的事来举个例。我弟弟上学不行,但他是个很聪明的人,还好我没有说他坏话。他后来做了电工,这个刘师傅在当地可有名了,是非常厉害的电工。 我弟弟很棒我当时也不知道,有天他过来我租的房子,那房子有个房间的电一整就跳闸,烦死了。也找过物业,电工,一阵忙乱之后也没能解决。我弟弟一上手不到十分钟就修好了,我都忍不住夸他还挺厉害。这事给我的启发很大,其实不是我弟弟笨,他学习不好但是做电工就很好,那是因为做电工是主动学习。而上课往那一坐,老师开始讲五分钟他就懵了,完全不知道在讲什么。所以说上课不好是被动学习听的,电工学得好是因为他主动学的。

所以主动学习是关键这事大家能不能明白?如果你学习不太行,千万别相信老师说你笨。前段时间我们接触了个十几岁的孩子,老师给贴了个标签说他学习有障碍,他深圳大学毕业的爸爸就拼命地给他补习。到我这来一讲,我就把他爸给吼了一顿,这么教有什么用?因为那是被动学习,就是老师教一堆,孩子都懵了,不知道学了有什么用,也不知道为什么要学那些。后来我让他带着孩子去做动手的事,这个当爸的有两个儿子,可感谢我了。他差点就把孩子给毁了,几乎就认定这孩子太笨。 我的意思就说上课是一种很被动的学习方法,你千万不要以为我这个学霸都是上课学来的,我不是被动学习。我主动学习的时候人家都不知道,还奇怪我上课爱睡觉夜里却不睡,学习反而还好。他们不知道的是我夜里在那学习,周末也学习,都是我自己主动学的。至于人怎么就会主动学的,这个你就别问我,咱先不解决这个问题,要先解决主动学习是关键。后来我总结出来上课是被动的学习方法,这种教学方法害了很多人。那时候我们在八九点钟的时候就关灯上床睡觉了,我自己偷偷学到半夜。我妈一看就让我别学了,别累坏了。其实没事,我都在上课时间补了瞌睡,把很多人给蒙了。我妈还赶紧爬起来给我做鸡蛋羹,倒杯牛奶,所以我跟我妈关系特别好。

我学习的方式都是主动的,这给我一个非常大的恩典。恩典这个词不知道外行人能不能听得懂,意思就是这是一件好事。高中毕业我考上一所名牌大学,同学是各地来的学霸,都是很厉害的人。我们东北的教学水平不行,进去一看我的分数比较低。人家那些教育大省,像山东、湖北那些都比我高好几十分。后来发现虽然我入学的高考成绩不怎么样,但学下来好像比他们轻松。还不光是学着轻松,我的学习能力还强,成绩不差而且还不累。上大学的时候也都是十几,二十来岁的孩子,忍不住会互相比较成绩高低,然而好多人的成绩都比不上我。 我看自己也是两个耳朵,两个鼻孔,而且鼻孔肯定都是朝下的,和其他人没有什么差别,那为什么会这样呢?原因很简单,因为我通过主动学习考到那所大学,而他们是学校大量刷题练出来的。老师们教得又好,押题押得又非常准,可是到了靠自己的关键时候还是要靠主动学习。所以说学习的方法太重要了,后来我就养成了主动学习的习惯,主动学习的习惯也就成了我后来在就业市场上和工作上很有竞争力的一个关键因素。

昨天我夜里睡不着,就打开郑灵辉写的《中国创投地图》。最近我在研究创投,研究人家都在投什么。大家要知道这些创投专业人士非常厉害,都很有眼光,他们就知道首先要挖掘未来的趋势。我打开教育板块,就看到今天教育行业和未来发展趋势的论述。这里稍微抬举我一下,大家别说我凡尔赛。我发现他在对教育上的看法,说的这些事都是我在做的。我做的这些事很厉害,因为好几十年前就这么干的。郑灵辉写现在的教育体系把传授知识弄成了标准化。工业化大规模生产也是标准化,就是一批批地生产。可是教育行业面对的是人,不是螺丝钉,却不管学生是否听得懂,就是一年级、二年级统一划分。人的教育是不能用流水线生产这种方式来教,不管到底是哪个孩子,光知道偏重的是传授的知识和技能。 郑灵辉说将来一定关注四个C,你看人要不懂点英文一讲四个C就拉稀了。其实别发懵,我解释给你听,第一个C叫Critical Thinking批判性思维,其实这个翻译成批判性我不认同,但是没有办法也就这么用吧,就是有这么一个概念。第二个C叫Communication沟通艺术,第三个C叫cooperation协作精神,第四个C叫做Creative Problem Solving创造性解决问题。这四个C是将来市场上非常需要的,因为在未来的教育里面学历的价值在降低,就是现在一半人都在上大学,都有个大学学位。学位都烂市了,学历也没有了价值,然后每个人的个人性格开始凸显出来。如果你从小训练一副性格,而且你这个性格会产生有性格的结果。假如去找一份工作,如果在性格透露着魅力你就厉害了,待会咱们再讲这个。

传统的教育和未来岗位的需求之间产生巨大的矛盾,今天我可以告诉你,随着人工智能的出现,现在的传统教育体系在将来是会崩塌的。如果很多人都意识到拿着学位没有用又赚不到钱,人就不去学了,那些学校也就黄了。至于学校里的那些老师就都失业了,只能去做个穿着黄色马甲的快递小哥。所以传统教育和未来岗位需求之间的矛盾日益凸显,给你举个相当明显的例子,我认识的一个人把他的孩子送到国外,从初中一年级开始读了好多年毕业证也没拿到,光在国外混了。你要知道把把孩子送出去,很多不是去学习而是去混了,我们不能把这教育外包。这爸爸带着这孩子来找我,我要说服这个爸爸非常费劲,出国留学起码烧了一百二十万,结果小孩回来什么也不是。现在这孩子转眼就三十了,再转眼就三十五了,挺愁人的。 当时我就劝他不要把孩子送去澳洲再花个六十万读没有用的东西,后来他终于肯听我的让这孩子开始做工。一去做工就逼着这孩子去学习他工作上的东西,他也经常打电话来问我,我就辅导他。目前他自己养活自己没有问题,一年十万二十万的薪水正常。在国外花了好几十万留学的孩子最后一事无成的比比皆是,这就是被动学习的一个典范,都以为往课堂里一坐就是学习了。还有的妈妈一看孩子在家玩手机就把孩子送去补习学校,孩子在补习学校那做白日梦,又花钱又无效还败坏孩子的信心。所以弟兄姐妹要把这事琢磨透,你得听我的,因为我是专家。

未来教育会改革,而我们正走在改革的前沿。我今天先把主动学习的观念给大家,一时半会也不一定能把你完全改成一个主动学习的人,但是主动学习的观念就开始进到你的脑子里去了。很多人不知道上学是做什么,反正都要去上学,实际一问大多不知道。如果仔细思考把这事弄清晰了,上学就是为了将来能谋生,如果上完学将来不能谋生,那你还上学吗? 人就假设上学将来能谋生,当然我们那个年代只有百分之三能考上大学,能考上大学的就像人精似的,当然工作没有问题。现在百分之五十都考上大学了,学渣也都混了进去,学历的价值当然就不行了。今天我们要开始推动主动学习,为什么我要创立动手试验室,因为一动手他就主动了。像做电工、做装修,你看他在学校读书不行,学这些还不是问题。我们要把这事琢磨明白,如果说读完中学不能谋生,等读了大学还不能谋生,那不如读完中学赶紧去谋生多好,投入的时间从财务的角度看,时间成本就是人吃、喝,以及消耗。人每一年不都得消耗钱,越快走上工作岗位,越快主动学习就越快脱离被动的环境,就越好。

现在有些父母送孩子去国外读书的时候还在心里祈祷,上帝啊,不要让我这儿子再给我领回一个男孩,或者让我女儿别再领回另外一个女儿,真受不了。接下来这两三天时间就跟大家灌输主动学习的概念,我把主动学习分成几讲,今天讲的是主动学习是关键,这个观念到现在应该进去了吧?孩子如果学习不好,一定让他变成一个主动学习的就会好。其实我的想法是越早谋生越好,别溜达一圈年龄都到三十好几了,、才想起来谋生,然后还干什么,什么都不行,很有挫败感,心里会很难受的。 主动学习这一系列有几讲,第一讲是主动学习是关键;第二讲是主动学习的方法,我一定会告诉你怎么做。不是就在这纸上谈兵,光说不做,我要教你主动学习的方法。第三讲是关于主动学习的习惯,很多人没有主动学习的习惯,上来就只想听课。第四讲主动学习的性格,如果养成这种性格你就厉害了。第五讲是如何主动使用各种资源,第六讲主动去抽象、总结、归纳、整理,这四个词加起来叫学习。不是说学完了,看起来读了点东西,写点笔记就叫学习,只有主动去抽象、总结、归纳、整理才是真正的学习。第七讲做一个享受解决问题的人,也就是说之所以会主动学习,就是因为解决问题。今天我就想做这么一个整体介绍。

你要实践了我教的这个方法肯定会很厉害,赚钱肯定不是问题,千万别以为自己笨。人笨是因为没有主动学习的习惯、方法和性格,就很被动。这个主动学习的方法,我今天可得告诉你。我自己很幸运,在新加坡的一所高校刚成立的时候,做了那所高校的高级管理人员,成为信息管理部门的负责人。当时我就很热爱教育,觉得做个老师在白板或者黑板面前,用笔一边写一边讲非常帅。其实也不是帅不帅的事,就感觉挺好。虽然进到高校做管理人员,但那学校有个要求,不管你是哪个层次的行政管理人员都得走上一线去带学生。我带过毕业设计,也教过一门课叫做Critical Thinking批判性思维,或者叫做Problem Base Learing解决问题式教学。 工作的时候遇到一位教育专家,就是那所高校管教育的副校长。我们俩关系不错,经常在一起吃饭、聊工作。他发明了一套非常落地的解题式PBL,就是上面说的解题式教学方法。也就是一天解决一个问题,如果一个孩子上学一百天,也就解决了一百个问题。每天让他带着问题去找资料,消化资料,然后解决问题。我很幸运能够参与其中,后来发现这是一个非常聪明的做法。具体是这样的,把学生分成小组,每个组五个人拿到一个问题。他们要填一个叫MFT的表格,就是一个很简单的模板。里面问你知不知道这个问题?要解决这个问题需要知道点什么,这得先弄清楚。其中已知和未知的各是什么,你又应该知道点什么?然后大家分头去找资料,学习。各自找完资料之后再汇总,老师对资料进行指导,挑出对的,剔除不对的,跟着开始消化对的资料,着手解决他们的问题。

因为每一天都要上台把你的问题讲一遍,所以只能是小班授课,每一个团队都要轮流上台讲。这事有意思在于人得知道什么叫学习,也就是要解决一个问题肯定有已经知道和不知道的部分。假如你一看到手的问题只有百分之二十不知道的,那学不知道的百分之二十就把问题解决了。如果你知道的只有百分之二十,百分之八十不知道,就得耗更多的时间去学。当然也有百分之百不知道的,那暂时就算了。 所以我们正确的学习方法一定是从简单到复杂,就是你起码得知道百分之三四十。如果你是个信心强大,很厉害而且非常有韧性的人,可以不知道百分之八十也能干出点事来。然而如果你知道百分之五十,再学会剩下的百分之五十就叫学习。就好像你的圈扩大一点,再整一个圈就再扩大一点,这个学习方法很有操作性。后来我发现很多人的学习方法错了,专门找自己干不了的事来做,结果翻来覆去都是做一个做不成,再做一个还是不成。而且他也不想知道自己什么东西不知道,也不想去了解要解决这个问题该学些什么,就想直接解决这问题。比如有人想赚钱,见到人就想让人家把钱给你,这是把人家都当脑残了,这能给你吗?除非你手里拿着刀去抢,逼着人家把钱交出来。

这PBL对我影响的很深,MFT对我影响也很深,当然MFT这个模板不是前面那个副教授教我的,我年轻的时候也就是这么弄的。遇到问题我先梳理一下我知道和不知道的,然后再找资料,研究怎么弄,逐渐就养成了一个主动学习的习惯。比如找资料,消化资料,观察人家是怎么干的,这都是我主动学习的方法。大家千万不要以为知识是靠老师教的,其实知识是靠自己学的。师傅领进门,修行靠个人。所以这就是为什么我在职场上能够快速升迁,当然也不排除还有其它的因素。 我主动学习的方式应用在各种层面,有一次我妈说给我包饺子,结果一看我比她还包得快。其实也没快多少,算打个平手。但是我妈就觉得奇怪了,非问我什么时候学的包饺子。其实她以前包的时候我在旁边看,脑子里琢磨她是怎么包的。后来自己试着包了一个,结果馅很多都在外面,那不叫饺子成了披萨。于是调整,再观察,再包。这是耳朵、眼睛、脑袋、嘴巴一起用,这叫主动学习。这样没包几个我就会了,而且还包得不错。因为我用主动学习的方法,包饺子的操作只不过是调整我里面对包饺子的认识。所以主动学习是有方法的,以后会单独再讲一课,更详细地举例说明主动学习的方法到底应该是什么样。

这是我对过去主动学习方法的一种提炼,至于为什么一开始我就这么做了,我回答不了,也解释不了,只能说命里就这么注定我一上来就这么干了。有的人天生不会学习,只能算他倒霉。但是今天我把这些抽象、总结、归纳、整理完了告诉你,你要是还不做那就是你的事,如果你做的过程中遇到困难我可以帮你。主动学习的习惯是相对于被动学习来说的,有些人一学习就想让人教,其实我很想打破讲课的习惯,这就是我为什么要建一个辅导热线。 我光讲不过是给你梳理一个概念,听完就结束了。如果每天听完了都一样,你就完蛋了。从一个被动学习习惯如何变成一个主动的学习习惯。记住,一整就想听课就是一个被动的习惯,其实直到今天我们很多父母都觉得送孩子去学校,去听课叫学习,不知道什么才是真正的学习。这是一个天大的误会,学习是你不断消化、了解,主动去探索对事物认知,以及怎么利用资源,我会逐渐教你。

这个习惯要改起来真的不难,难就难在你想不想改。人想听课就是急燥,想让人快点告诉你答案,然后把答案背下来却什么也没学到,只学到一堆垃圾。所以人一想要学点什么就依赖这上课就坏了。会主动学习的人不多,因为想快点拿到结果,而主动学习是很辛苦的,并且过程好像也很慢,但却很有效,是真正的学习,学会了是自己的。今天我们就得克服急躁和畏难情绪,改掉坏习惯,培养好习惯。我常常教大家脚踏实地,只有说清楚,弄清楚才是学会了。弄得不清不楚去考试,只考六七十分实际上就是时间浪费了还没整明白。 有的人跟我说他忘了怎么骑自行车,其实那不可能忘,忘了归根结底就是当年就没学会。人家在后面帮你掌握着平衡,你在前面只管蹬。就好像小孩子学骑车时候的小车,后面两边各有一个辅助的小轮,那两个小轮子一卸就不会骑了。这是个坏习惯,很多人拿到驾照不会驾车,就是为了拿个驾照。手里有个A照却驾不了车,你说这不是悲剧吗?所以把坏习惯变成好习惯是一段痛苦的经历,至于怎么变,等到了第三讲我会告诉你,今天就给大家讲个大概。

人的性格是带着魅力的,一个人为什么会让人觉得有魅力,是因为他骨子里有性格。你得了解主动学习的性格到底是什么,一开始你没有建立主动学习的习惯,所以也不可能有主动学习的性格。今天开始养成主动学习的习惯,比如包饺子、包包子、做馒头是主动学习,开始养成主动学习的习惯了。但是一学编程完了,又变被动,因为不习惯。如果你养成主动学习的性格以后,一做事就主动去学习,因为主动学习是一个信心的操练。 主动学习对信心的操练过程是这样的,一开始你对事物并了解,而性格是由信心产生的。我经常说一句话,其实没什么东西,就这点事。装修房子不就是水、电、地面、天花板,再把家具往里一搬就完工了。为什么你一想就那么多,我一想就简单了?因为我信心的成份大,人的信心大,问题在你面前就小,而信心小的话,问题在你面前就变大了。那信心是怎么操练来的?是用主动学习的方法解决一个小问题,然来再用主动学习的方法解决一个大的问题,后来慢慢信心就起来了。 有的人小事不想干,大事不会干就坏了,这种人特别多,缺乏主动学习的性格。大家慢慢会发现为什么我这么特别强调信心,就是因为信心非常重要,信心是对未来的判断。对未来说自己肯定可以解决这个问题,你就会坚持到解决这个问题。如果做的过程中你觉得自己不可能解决这个问题,就干不下去。过去这些年我都是这样坚持过来的,没有一件事烂尾。我不是一个烂尾的人,没有烂尾炎。烂尾是一个很坏习惯,做来做去都是烂尾的事,干脆起名叫烂尾得了。所以主动学习的性格是对未来一个正面的判断,你就好好坚持吧。

今天我坚持建一个辅导热线是因为我愿意跟你的小领导一起配搭,把你从现在这种状况带出来,不是靠着你里面的那点信心,而是靠着我分赐给你的信心,让你能够坚持到底。这做起来绝对不容易,但回报高。那么主动学习的时候遇到困难怎么办?

慢慢你会发现,会学习的人都会使用资源。咱们当中有一个同工找资料比我厉害,有时候让他帮我找一些资料,一下就找到了,非常厉害。前段时间需要人资培训的资料,他很快找了一大堆特别不错的相关资料,里面讲得非常好。 第一种使用的资源就是资料,现在的互联网太厉害了,什么资料都有。比如在YouTube,也就是油管上,有个叫做MIT Open course ware麻省理工学院公开课件。所有里面的课都是很厉害的教授讲的,资料极其丰富。所以到学校千万别学内容,要学会怎么使用资源。你的教授就是你的资源,你的同学还有你认识的一些牛人可以成为你的资源,到了职场上也是一样。除了这些资料还有专家学者,如果今天你不认识我,上哪知道怎么主动学习?今天我是专家,我告诉你主动学习,你才明白原来要这么做。 大家现在要开始训练找资料的技能,要解决一个问题,你要学会主动找资料技能。主动找帮助,千万不要以为主动学习是被动问问题的方式。被动问问题是未经过思考,张口就问。我怼他是因为他问之前根本就没有思考,如果经过思考以后遇到困难再问就厉害了,因为问的问题都是有意义的。主动使用各种资源,其中网上的书籍,资料就是资源之一,但是读什么书很重要。杂书读完了以后都是一堆垃圾,还把自己给读懵了。有人问我《月亮与六便士》,我没有读过;《老人与海》看过,但也什么意思,我不爱看那种书。《唐诗》更没背过几首,我这种工程师就想解决问题才行。诗人骚客在那发牢骚,吐槽,却不是我的习惯。主动使用各种资源的意思是你要在咱们这个环境里面,主动去找资料和使用各种能够利用资源,我们这些资源甘愿被你使用,只要你能够成长。

大家把这四个词,或者说八个字给记下来,这八个字不是你我的八字,是主动学习的八字。抽象、总结、归纳、整理,这八个字决定了你的八字,之所以非常重要,因为这就叫学习。人的脑子有一个特点,就是没有经过抽象,总结、归纳、整理的进不了脑子。所以你无论做什么,都要经过一番抽象、总结、归纳、整理。有人说不会,这就是在学,你今天来就是学习抽象,总结、归纳、整理,会学习的人厉害就在这。 前段时间,我们当中有个姐妹想去学会计。别看在咱们当中有些弟兄姐妹也是学霸,但教人学习却不知道怎么教,有点发懵。我把这事接过来,让那个会找资料的帮我找一下会计资料,他很快找到《三色笔记》,就是考各级会计的书。我打开这本书发现里面有三种颜色的字,做了抽象,总结、归纳、整理。然后你读一下会计的书再读一下这本笔记,来回几次你就知道整理出来的资料长什么样了。人家把厚厚的一本书整理以后变得很薄,如果你都能吸收和理解了,就学会了。也就是把概念和概念之间的关系整清楚,里面的规律也找到了。 比如我也没太多时间去学会计,但遇到事就得要琢磨,花了点时间快速翻一遍,做了个总结。我学东西快的原因,就快速地把概念抓住,然后快速把概念与概念之间的关系抓住。这里面会计准则就是教人怎么做账,也就是做会计凭证。会计凭证是什么今天没时间教得太详细,简单的说就是这笔钱从哪个科目出来,进到哪个科目,这叫会计凭证,当然人不这么教。第二概念就是科目,第三就是科目的结余,加加减减算出来的。其中有增有减,结余就产生三张报表,如果把几种关系和概念整理清楚,一下学会了,原来就这点东西。

当然话是这么说,虽然的确只有这么点东西,但距离把每一样,那六大类的科目都整明白还是有点距离的。只不过你一整理出来就形成了框架,有了框架东西就不会乱,跟着就迎刃而解,这样学习就非常快。有人问人资的学习,那咱也有自己一套,同样编程也一样。我最厉害的就是做抽象,总结、归纳、整理,就是厉害在很快通过总结、归纳、整理,把概念与概念之间的关系给抓住,从而形成最高层次的框架,然后再深入一层框架,东西在我脑子里是清晰的脉络。 找到这个规律干活不跑调,就会思考。像会计、财务、人资、项目管理、市场营销、做网红、都有人整理好的,跟人家学就行了。我常常说一句话,学习不是你自己发明的,是学人家的。比如说哪个字都不是你发明的,如果你考试的时候发明一个字,那就叫错别字。你总写错别字,还觉得是自己发明的,可是那个你发明不了,这些都是跟人学的。我们今天数学、物理、化学,连说话都是跟人学的。假如你生出来的孩子让女佣带,说话就像女佣。你得要琢磨透,那都是跟人学的。所以主动去做抽象,总结、归纳、整理,理清概念与概念之间的关系,你能不厉害吗?尤其你要解决一个问题,理不清就解决不了,一做就做错,做错成了你的习惯就毁了,因为每次都是你自己在瞎整。

首先问自己为什么要学习?因为要解决问题。不是学完之后做茶余饭后的谈资,没什么用。学习就是要解决问题,解决完了比吃了满汉全席还要开心。我就爱解决问题,不管是什么问题,就觉着解决问题很享受。不管你走到哪里都能解决问题,人家怎么可能不尊荣你?如果走哪都给人家制造问题和困扰,那就成了讨厌的人。从现在开始,不是我推着你要主动学习,而是你要主动学习,因为你要解决问题。会解决问题才有钱赚,你不解决问题谁给你钱? 一解决问题就很享受,前段时间我悟出来个规律,文学家,艺术家之类的人得忧郁症,疯了的挺多,有不少自杀的。但工程师很少有跳楼的,至于网上有人说的那个炒股跳楼的工程师跟我们现在说的没关系。他虽然是个工程师,但后来炒股去了,那叫金融,是另外一回事。话说回工程师在解决问题当中是非常享受的,大家试试就知道了,这就是为什么我坚持要把工程师的观念放在你里面。跟人一谈话就发现这人是个哲学家,喜欢咬文嚼字;或者是个文学家,喜欢抒情,一开口就是抒发吐槽的情。作为和我一样的工程师是没有时间吐槽和发牢骚,只有时间解决问题。

人一生会遇到很多问题,前段时间遇到一位90多岁的老人家腿肿了,以前把她腿肿治好了,怎么又肿了呢?原来跟她女儿识别善恶了,然后把这扣解开,一祷告问题解决了,腿就消肿了。记住!我再把这句话给大家,不要解释问题,要解决问题。其实解释和解决的差别可大了,很多人就喜欢解释,比如嘴巴张不开挂钩卡住了说是什么身体紊乱了,那还用你说紊乱了,还慢慢就好了,那么说解决不了问题。如果一个人能解决问题,他解释的就是对的,解决不了问题那他的解释就是在忽悠。所以我们要做一个解决问题的人,不要做解释问题的人。现在爱解释问题的人多,而解决问题的人就在我们这里。 今天大家要养成主动学习的习惯,主动学习不是为了学六便士,然后跟人说他学的是七便士,比人家多学了一个便士,这些都没有用。开始养成解决问题的习惯,在解决问题的时候会发现会有自己解决不了的时候,但是你不要气馁。因为你知道自己要解决这个问题需要学习,等学完了以后真的把问题解决了,你就学会了。而且有时候可能为了解决一个问题,而去学了九种不能解决问题的东西,实际上学到了第十种才搞定,那我们就因此变得越来越聪明。我们要不断地把这个观念传递下去,如果一个11岁的孩子现在就听我讲的,决定要做解决问题的人该多好。搞清楚跟他妈妈关系不好是怎么一回事,然后去学习和了解为什么关系不好,怎样才能把关系弄好。或者17岁的孩子要考大学,听了之后觉得其实最重要的是自己应该先去主动了解应该学什么。

我用一个故事结束今天分享,有个上幼儿园的孩子跟着他妈妈来到咱们当中,当年他们因为穷,在上海租了一套很简陋的的房子,外面下大雨,屋里下小雨。后来我们教他妈妈如何主动学习,他妈妈从没有收入到现在每个月收入七八千块。有了这份收入贷款买辆便宜的车,一个月还个千八百的也挺好的。这小孩转眼就长大了,他记着了我过去所讲的。其实我今天讲的也没有新的,都是我过去讲的。 这孩子是农村户口,后来上海出了个新政策,初中毕业就可以上中等职业专科学校,免学费、给补贴,专业学互联网营销。他现在岁数不大,这离他们刚来还没几年,现在听了我教的很快就开始实习拿薪水了,他家现在整个财务状况得到了极大的翻转。这比那些上大学读了这个学位,那个学位,最后做什么,什么都不行的强多了。因为读了半天最后还不行的是一个被动学习的人,而这个孩子现在十六七岁就成了主动学习的人,我要在这个时候恭喜他,将来一定会成为有出息的孩子,很聪明。 今天我们做了个笼统的介绍,明天开始一段一段地讲,把主动学习的方法,习惯,性格,和主动使用各种资源,主动做抽象,归纳、总结、整理。我一课一课给讲大家清楚,最后做享受解决问题的人,而不是制造问题的人,这是何等美好的事。现在很多孩子被动学习惯了,最后成了啃老的典范,就太辛苦了。今天就分享到这,祝大家新年快乐,全家幸福安康!
匿名
There are quite a few engineers who commit suicide or murder, right?
命定小助手
That's true. It seems to be caused by layoffs or interpersonal problems.
@Anonymous: There are also many engineers who commit suicide or murder online, right?