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Introduction

Reading Proverbs makes one wise, and the difference between being wise and unwise is vast. After reading Proverbs chapter 11, one might find it a bit disjointed. Why? Because it covers a wide range of topics, making it difficult to identify a central theme. While there are various ways to find a theme, I encourage everyone to learn to identify keywords. If a word is repeated frequently, it indicates its importance. For example, in Genesis chapter 1, you'll find phrases like God said, and it was so, and according to its kind repeated, highlighting their significance.

Besides repeated phrases, repeated content is also crucial. This is the main point we need to grasp, a concept I often refer to as the framework. Once you learn to grasp this concept, finding the theme becomes easier. Using Genesis chapter 1 as an example, the concepts God said, God saw that it was good, and it was so, and according to its kind form the basis of a framework that reveals the chapter's main theme. If you learn to do this, studying and learning become simpler. This ability to learn comes from careful reading, observation, and thinking. This approach is quite straightforward.

Another example is Proverbs chapter 11, which we are studying. This chapter discusses how different actions lead to different outcomes. We call this a pattern. Identifying these patterns helps you understand what is being conveyed. I tell you, the theme of Proverbs chapter 11 is: Carefully observe the end of people’s conduct, because it's all about how different actions lead to different outcomes. I hope all our brothers and sisters can become observant and wise, knowledgeable individuals. If you are not observant, you won't see the patterns of events, or the end of people’s conduct. Eventually, people end up doing things their own way, and when the consequences come, they are powerless to change them.

Carefully observing the end of people’s conduct is a concept that runs through the entire Chinese Mingding Destiny system of theology. How did the Chinese Mingding Destiny system come about? It’s about grasping the patterns and essence of things; understanding what God is telling us when we read His Word; grasping the themes and concepts; grasping the relationships between concepts; building a complete framework; and grasping the basic laws of things. Can this not make one wise? Surely it will! How do people become foolish? It's because they think partially and in isolation; they look at problems partially and in isolation, and that is why they become part of the problem.

We can make a bold statement: we are about to bring about a transformation in Christianity. Why? Because the devil has made Christianity very partial and isolated, sometimes even lagging behind atheism in its understanding of problems. A rigid, isolated, and partial way of thinking in Christianity leads to absurd conclusions when viewing issues in a partial, isolated manner. These ideas are extremely prevalent in contemporary Christian theology, to the point where people have forgotten what the Bible says, focusing only on what others say, and falsely believing it's what the Bible says. How challenging would it be to change this? Regardless of the era, the belief, or the person, looking at problems partially and in isolation is always a foolish way of thinking.

Do Not Use Double Standards

A false balance is abomination to the LORD: but a just weight is his delight. (Proverbs 11:1 )

My mother always told me not to cheat people with the weighing scale when doing business. The weighing scale is used for measuring things. In ancient times, weighing scales were expensive, so most families didn't have them. Many merchants cheated by tampering with the scale. This is tragic! People are unaware! Why? Because the weighing scale has a counterweight and a tray. On the side towards the tray, there is a hook to hold by hand. When weighing, you put the item in the tray and move the counterweight to the one-pound mark. If the scale balances, the item weighs one pound. However, if your counterweight is slightly smaller, the weight of the item will be completely inaccurate.

I had a maternal uncle who was a businessman. His family had been doing business since before the liberation and was very wealthy. This uncle of mine suddenly died one day in the 1960s. There weren't many cars on the roads those days, yet he was hit by a car. How strange! And this uncle's wife, my aunt, suffered from shortness of breath her whole life, struggling to breathe, and passed away at a young age.

Some years ago, someone in our family was possessed by a demon. When I was casting out the demon, the demon told me: Your maternal uncle, everyone says he was killed by a car, but I was the one who killed him. And his wife's breathing problems, I also caused that. I have a logic: if people do bad things, the demons will definitely come back to them. Sure enough, the demon said that the reason for doing this to them was because they cheated with the scale in their business. Later, I casted out most of the demon. And the relative who was possessed by the demon was the one who did business. Remember, doing business is very spiritual because the only standard in doing business is whether you make money or not.

It's bad news if God hates someone. If you observe carefully, people in this world like to use two different sets of weights. A couple, who are my friends, often quarrel. The wife is a graduate of a prestigious university, and she's not unintelligent. One day, after a quarrel, she complained to me that her husband looked at her problems with a microscope, but looked at his own problems with a magnifying glass. A thousand-fold microscope combined with a tenfold magnifying glass makes for a difference of ten thousand-fold. People don't see the log in their own eyes, but see the speck in their brother's eye. That's called double standards. Not only people do this, but nations do too!

A false balance is abomination to the LORD. People think using a false balance is taking advantage, but that's not true at all. But a just weight is his delight. Brothers and sisters should cultivate good habits. Whether it's conflicts between people, between husband and wife, or between parents and children, the standards are vague. Some have one set of requirements for themselves and another for others, or are critical of both themselves and others. But if you look at the end of these situations, you'll only see ruin. People think they're taking advantage, but if they are shortsighted, they don't care what God thinks. So once people do that, the result is being hated by God, and tragedy occurs.

If a person constantly thinks they owe others, that is also a double standard. If you have higher standards for yourself and lower standards for others, will you feel uncomfortable? People only feel uncomfortable when they think others have wronged them. Few people in this world feel uncomfortable because they have wronged others. If they take advantage of others, they secretly stay silent, and even less uncomfortable. Nobody would make a fuss about being uncomfortable for taking advantage of others. If you really asked them to return the advantages they took, they would be even more uncomfortable.

One day, a sister felt very uncomfortable, and her good friend told me that she was uncomfortable because she often felt inadequate. I said: No! If she really felt inadequate, then she should study hard, work diligently, and we would help her and teach her! Actually, this sister felt we had wronged her. The person who came to ask me said: Really? I said: Who feels uncomfortable for owing others? Actually, she always feels others owe her, that's why she's uncomfortable. People feel uncomfortable because they think they are right, and others have wronged them. The solution to this problem is simple: don't always try to cheat others with the weighing scale, but should always reflect on oneself. First remove the log from our own eye, and then see the speck in our brother's eye.

Do Not Be Proud and Arrogant

When pride cometh, then cometh shame: but with the lowly is wisdom. (Proverbs 11:2 )

There is a Chinese saying: humility leads to progress. Once people become proud, God will send demons to deal with you! So pride is really deadly! Why are people proud? Because they feel superior, they have something to be proud of. Many people live for pride. I once said to a member of the congregation: How do you live like this? He told me: There are people worse off than me! Are you living by comparing yourself to someone who is more wretched? There is a joke: someone asked another person if they were doing well, and that person said no. The questioner said, I am relieved! Afraid that others are living better her, hoping that others are living more painfully and miserably than her. No wonder God said, when pride cometh, then cometh shame!

Once, King Herod gave a sermon, and the applause lasted for more than ten minutes. Someone said: Herod! This is not the voice of a man, but of a god! Herod himself also thought so. As a result, he was bitten by a very small insect, and he died! So remember: when pride cometh, then cometh shame! In the past few years, I have found that whenever I am proud, shame follows, a very foolish thing. So we must be humble.

Don't be like the Egyptian Pharaoh, thinking that you are the strongest country in the world, and no one can stand before you, but you watched the Israelites go out of Egypt. God killed all the firstborn of the Egyptians, along with the firstborn of their livestock! People should never be proud and arrogant, that is foolishness and lack of wisdom, and what you get is shame. If people want to boast, they should boast in the Lord God!

The integrity of the upright shall guide them: but the perverseness of transgressors shall destroy them.(Proverbs 11:3)

In God's eyes, the upright do not use false balances, nor are they arrogant and proud. These upright people walk the path that pleases God. Why don't I use false balances, and why am I not proud? Because I know God does not like it. Why be an upright person? Because I know God will guide me. And the deceitful, the perverse, think they can take advantage, but the result is that they will destroy themselves. This is how spirit world operates.

Riches profit not in the day of wrath: but righteousness delivereth from death.(Proverbs 11:4 )

When God is angry, money is useless. It's not people being angry, it's God being angry. Like my greedy maternal uncle, there were no cars on the road, and he was hit by a car, wasn't that a joke? It was done by demons, and demons are actually sent by God. Many Christians are ignorant and don't know that demons are sent by God. So when God is angry, no amount of money is useful. If you still rely on money, it is really a tragedy!

What I say may not all be correct, but let's take a look at it. Today's wars are almost all about money. If I am an arms dealer, I am happy whenever there is a war. As long as there is a war, I can immediately sell a thousand missiles. One missile sells for $100,000, and a thousand missiles is $100 million. Wars are all about money. Why are there wars? It's all because of money. But when God is angry, money is useless. So only righteousness can save people from death. No matter how chaotic the world is now, brothers and sisters must have wisdom. Because we are born in a time of chaos and have caught up with a major change unseen in a century. This change is extremely chaotic, cruel, and bloody. Are we still relying on money? Money can't be relied on. We can only rely on God! All who trust in God will never be ashamed.

If you still rely only on money, it is useless, money cannot be relied on. Some people are old, their children are not around, and they worry about how to support themselves without money. Even if the children are around, they cannot be relied on. When God is angry, money and children are of no use. Only by letting God have mercy on us and be gracious to us. So don't use false balances, don't use double standards, don't be proud of your money, use the integrity of the upright to guide yourselves, don't be a deceitful person, but be someone who relies on God.

In the day of wrath, wealth is of no avail, but righteousness delivers from death. The righteousness of the blameless makes a straight way for them, but the wicked stumble by their own wickedness. (Proverbs 11:4-5)

Many Christians think they are pursuing the righteousness of God, but in reality, they are pursuing the righteousness of man. Many Christians have a peculiar pattern of behavior, they like to participate in the so-called righteousness of the world. We Christians should not participate in these, we pursue the righteousness of God. There are also many people who like to do good deeds. There is a place in China called the Greater and Lesser Liang Mountains, which is very poor, and many Christians like to scatter money there. They still think they are doing good deeds, but they have corrupted the people there. The people in that place look forward to these people coming every year, and they become lazier and less willing to work. Is this the righteousness of God? No, it is not! If you really pursue the righteousness of God, you should release the people there from the curse. The righteousness of the upright is not the righteousness in the eyes of man, but the righteousness in the eyes of God.

Do Not Be Selfish and Stingy

The righteousness of the upright delivers them, but the treacherous are trapped by their own greed. Hopes placed in mortals die with them; all the promise of their power comes to nothing. (Proverbs 11:6-7)

All the hopes of a wicked person are absurd. Why do people become treacherous merchants when they become merchants, and corrupt officials when they become officials? It is all because of this absurd hope. Since ancient times and up to the present, no one has been able to solve the selfishness inside people. Those corrupt officials cannot be killed off. But if you observe carefully, in the end, those corrupt officials will also perish, and treacherous merchants will also be destroyed. Why? Because people are foolish. It is quite difficult to solve the problems of selfishness, self-righteousness, and foolishness among us, it is like calling on heaven and earth!

The righteous person is rescued from trouble, and it comes on the wicked instead. The godless destroy their neighbors with their mouths, but through knowledge the righteous escape. When the righteous prosper, the city rejoices; when the wicked perish, there are shouts of gladness. Through the blessing of the upright a city is exalted, but by the mouth of the wicked it is destroyed. (Proverbs 11:8-11)

These are all about people's actions getting corresponding results, so do what is right in the eyes of the LORD. If a person puts in a little effort, he will see from the Book of Judges that people destroyed the nation of Israel because of selfishness. The Israelites were God's chosen people, and God worked hard to bring them out of Egypt to establish their own country, but later they perished because individuals only cared about themselves.

I like to watch elections very much, because elections are very lively, like carnivals. The candidates stand in front of thousands of people to give speeches, talking eloquently, but later the city is destroyed. Not only will the city be destroyed, but the country will also be destroyed. Aren't they all elected by the people? Look carefully slowly: after electing a person, the country goes downhill; after electing another person, the mouth of this evil person will destroy a city or even a country.

Whoever derides their neighbor has no sense, but the one who has understanding holds their tongue. (Proverbs 11:12)

In this era, we must carefully study these words in the Bible. As long as you are alive, you still have to open your eyes and look around to see the situation in the world, and you will see that these words in the Bible will be fulfilled. For example, if you provoke your neighbor all day long, and your neighbor is a boxer, one day it will accumulate to a certain extent, and he will punch you. So let's not do this kind of thing.

A gossip betrays a confidence, but a trustworthy person keeps a secret. For lack of guidance a nation falls, but victory is won through many advisers. Whoever puts up security for a stranger will surely suffer harm, but whoever refuses to shake hands in pledge is safe. A kindhearted woman gains honor, but ruthless men gain only wealth. (Proverbs 11:13-16)

If you are violent, it is useless to get wealth. According to my incomplete observation, I found that a family is harmonious mainly because the hostess of this family has some kindness. If the family is not harmonious, it is often related to this woman. It is very stupid to make the family restless! Many stupid women personally destroy their own families.

Those who are kind benefit themselves, but the cruel bring ruin on themselves. The wicked earn deceptive wages, but those who sow righteousness reap a sure reward. Truly righteous people attain life, but those who pursue evil find death. (Proverbs 11:17-19)

These are all about cause and effect, and I would like to emphasize this word righteousness again, and don't misunderstand it. The Bible says, but the righteous will live by faith. What is a righteous person? A righteous person is a person who trusts in God.

The LORD detests those whose ways are devious, but he delights in those whose conduct is blameless. Be sure of this: The wicked will not go unpunished, but those who are righteous will go free. Like a gold ring in a pig’s snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion. (Proverbs 11:20-22)

This pig makes a hole in its nose and inserts a gold ring, walking on the street, twisting and twisting, it looks very ridiculous. If a woman is beautiful but has no discernment, that is a tragedy! When we read the Bible, we must learn to be discerning people. Of course, it is better for a woman to be beautiful than ugly, but that is not important, whether she has discernment is the key!

The desire of the righteous ends only in good, but the hope of the wicked only in wrath. One person gives freely, yet gains even more; another withholds unduly, but comes to poverty. (Proverbs 11:23-24)

I like to be a giver, and what is the result? As a result, God adds more to me. I am not stingy, everyone should know that excessive stinginess leads to poverty. So brothers and sisters, go and observe: do we have this habit of being excessively stingy? Are we givers? Giving can edify people. This is a law!

There was a person who was very stingy. He received a lot of grace in our church. Not only did he get healed of many diseases here, but his family also received a lot of grace. How stingy was he? He came to my office and said to me: I just ate Din Tai Fung buns. What kind of brain is this? Why didn't you bring me a few when you ate Din Tai Fung buns? You are still embarrassed to tell me? He's really an iron rooster, unwilling to pull out a single hair! Will such a person be rich? No! He is destined to be poor for the rest of his life. He is so stingy even to those who have grace to him, even to those who have the grace to save his life.

A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed. (Proverbs 11:25)

Do you all know what I do? What I do is to give out, refresh people, and edify people. This is my core business. We are not turning people into stupid Christians who shout hallelujah very loudly, we are training people to be smart people. Don't blame me for describing these Christians as fool, God will have mercy on me for saying this, because God also thinks so.

I know a lot of rigid, stingy, and extremely selfish Christians. They also go to church, but they don't do what God says. Everyone will see it carefully and slowly. Therefore, people like this cannot stay with us. This is a place of giving, a place of blessing, a place of giving out. Do you all understand? If it is difficult to do what is beneficial to yourself, how can you serve others? You can't serve! This is a place of paying the price, not a place of taking advantage.

Many years ago, I used roast chicken, roast duck, and sauced beef to attract many rice buckets, who came to church just to eat. Later I found out what's the point of having so many rice buckets? It's useless! Later, the church only provided box lunches, and the box lunches slowly became a plate of fruit, and then there was no plate of fruit. I wholesale a lot of mineral water, and you have to put in a dollar to get a bottle if you want to drink it. It's not that I'm stingy, this place must be a place to train people to give.

If you are a very stingy person, it will be very hard for you to stay here! One day is just busy with his work, son, grandson those little things, can't afford to pay the price! Why? Because it is contrary to his expected goal, and there is a conflict in time. Therefore, this place not only has to manage the little things in your family, but the most important thing is to make you a person who blesses others. I tell you, if we do not rely on money, but rely on God, you will surely be rich, you will surely be added, and you will surely live a very comfortable life.

Whoever seeks good finds favor, but evil comes to one who searches for it. Those who trust in their riches will fall, but the righteous will thrive like a green leaf. (Proverbs 11:27-28)

Some of you are new here, maybe you believe in the Lord may be just doing it for your mother or your family. That kind of thing is useless, you have to have wisdom and intelligence in your mind, and you have to know that the road you took before is impassable, and you will walk into a dead end. Why? Because he only seeks his own benefit and only relies on wealth. Some people are so miserable, they are in their thirties or almost forty years old, and they owe a lot of debt, and they can't pay off this debt until they are sixty years old! What should I do? I don't know, I just watch him anxiously, isn't this stupid?

The fruit of the righteous is a tree of life, and the one who is wise saves lives. If the righteous receive their due on earth, how much more the ungodly and the sinner! (Proverbs 11:30-31)

The one who is wise saves lives, not gets fish. Look, even the righteous are judged before God, how much more will the ungodly and the sinner be judged? So miserable. Therefore, people must know that those who rely on their own wealth will fall, so miserable! If people do not observe and act blindly and recklessly, that is a tragedy! I want to sing a lament for him.

Those who bring trouble on their family will inherit only wind, and the fool will be servant to the wise. (Proverbs 11:29)

When people are selfish to a certain extent and rely on money to a certain extent, they will bring trouble on their family, and then they will only inherit wind. A person wanders alone on the street with the breeze and bright moon, and sees a tall building and imagines that if he climbs to the top, he will not look to both sides, and if he keeps walking forward, he will be digested in the blue sky. This is a tragedy! When people are selfish to a certain extent, they will harm their own family. Our brothers and sisters must live out the atmosphere, live out the image of God, and God will be gracious to you in this world, and you will return to God when you die. If a person lives in selfishness and narrowness all his life, he will live out the image of a ghost. Not only will ghosts come to you, but even if ghosts don't come to you, God will send a ghost to mess with you, and you will live under a curse.

Summary

Therefore, I advise everyone that being atmospheric is not stupid, it is smart to be atmospheric. Some people have been stingy all their lives, and they think that they can solve any problem by being atmospheric for one day, but it is far from it. I have been atmospheric all my life, and I am still like this today, what can you do if you are atmospheric for one day? Our brothers and sisters should not be foolish, but be smart people.

When you have finished observing, one day you will look up and find that there are so many foolish people, and you will know that you have grown up. In fact, you used to be like that too, but you didn't know it yourself, but when people stand at a high place and look down, it's like watching a joke. Therefore, we must begin to humble ourselves, know that we are not good, know that we need God, and then trust in God well to run the road of this life.

May a good ending be fulfilled in us, may God bless everyone!

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仔细观察为人的结局,这样的观念贯穿整个华人命定神学的体系。华人命定神学的体系是怎么来的呢?**就是抓事物的规律和本质;读了神的话,弄明白神要告诉我们什么;抓主题,抓概念;抓概念与概念之间的关系;建立一个完整的框架;抓事物的基本规律**。这样能不变聪明吗?肯定会变聪明!人怎么会变傻的呢?人就是因为片面地、孤立地思考;片面地、孤立地看问题,所以就成了问题的所在之处。 我们可以唱一个小小的高调:我们将要带来一场基督教的变革。为什么呢?因为基督教被魔鬼搞得非常片面,非常孤立,有时候看问题甚至还比不上无神论。一个僵化的、孤立的、片面的基督教思维方式,以片面的、孤立的方式看问题,就把事情搞得非常的荒谬。这些观念在当代基督教神学里面极其盛行,盛行到人都忘了《圣经》是怎么说的,光想着人是怎么说的,还以为那是《圣经》说的。如果这事要改变起来,有多大的挑战呢?不管是哪个年代、哪种信仰,不管是什么样的人,**片面,孤立地看问题,永远是一种愚蠢的思维方式**。

**诡诈的天平为耶和华所憎恶;公平的法码为他所喜悦。(《箴言》11:1 )** 从小我妈就跟我说,做商人永远不要用秤杆子撅人。其实这个秤,是称东西用的。在古代,秤是很贵的器皿,所以一般人家里都没有秤,很多商人就用秤杆子撅人,就是在秤杆子上作假。这是悲剧啊!人不知道啊!为什么呢?因为称杆子有一个秤砣,那边是托盘,偏向秤盘的地方有一个钩,可以拿手抓着。称的时候,把东西放在秤盘里,秤砣挪到秤杆一斤的刻度上,秤杆平了说明东西就是一斤。但如果你的秤砣是小秤砣,只要稍微小一点,称出来东西的斤两就完全不对了。 我有一个表舅是做生意的,他家做生意可以追溯到解放前,是很富裕的家族。我这个表舅六十年代突然有天就死了,那个年代大马路上都没几辆车,可他却是被车撞死的,多蹊跷!而这个表舅的老婆,也就是表舅妈,一辈子都是气短,经常上不来气,很辛苦,年纪不大也去世了。 前些年我们家族里,有一个人被鬼附了。我给他赶鬼的时候,鬼跟我说:你有个表舅,都说是被车撞死的,但其实是被我整死的。他老婆喘不上气知道么,也是我整的。我心里有一个逻辑,人只要干坏事,鬼一定会回来找他。果然鬼说,之所以这么整他们,就是因为他们做生意在秤杆子上作假。后来这鬼被我赶得七七八八,而被鬼附身的这个亲戚就是做生意的。记住,做生意这件事是很属灵的,因为做生意唯一的标准,就是赚钱还是没赚到钱。

神要憎恶一个人,那可就麻烦了。大家仔细去观察,**这世界上的人就是喜欢用两样的砝码**。有一对夫妻是我的朋友,经常吵架。做老婆的是名牌大学毕业的,人也不笨。有天夫妻俩吵了架,她跟我抱怨说,她丈夫看她的问题用显微镜看,但是看他自己的问题却是用缩小镜看。一千倍的显微镜加上10倍的缩小镜,一下就差了一万倍。人看不见自己眼里的梁木,却看到弟兄姐妹眼里的刺,那叫双标。不但人如此,国家也如此! **诡诈的天平为耶和华憎恶**,人以为用诡诈的天平是占便宜,其实根本不是。**公平的砝码为神所喜爱**。弟兄姐妹要养成好习惯,不管是人和人之间的争斗,夫妻之间或者父母和子女之间的争斗,标准都是模糊的。有的人是对自己一个要求,对别人是另外一个要求,或者是对自己和对别人都很挑剔的。但只要看看这些事情的结局,都只能看到败坏。人以为这么做是占便宜,人要是目光短浅的话,就不管神会怎么样。所以人一旦这么做了,结果为神所憎恶,就会出现悲剧。 如果一个人常常以为亏欠别人,也是双标。对自己要求比较高,对别人要求比较低,你会难受吗?一个人难受都是觉得人家对不起他,这世上很少会有人因为自己对不起别人而觉得难受的。占了别人的便宜就偷偷不吱声,更不会难受了。谁也不会闲着没事,为占了别人的便宜而大声嚷嚷自己难受的。真要这样,让他把占了的便宜还给人家,他就更加难受了。

有一天,有一个姐妹感觉很难受,她的好姐妹就告诉我,她难受是因为她常常觉得自己不行。我说:不是!她如果真的觉得自己不行,那就好好地学,认认真真地做事,我们也会好好地帮助她、教她!其实这个姐妹是觉得我们对不起她。来问我的人说: 不是吧?我说:哪有人觉得对不起别人,还觉得难受的?其实是她总觉得是别人对不起她,她才难受的。人难受其实都是觉得自己有理,都是别人对不起自己。解决这个问题很容易,不要总想拿秤杆子撅别人,而是应该常常拿秤杆子撅撅自己。先除去我们眼中的梁木,再去看别人眼中的刺。

**骄傲来,羞耻也来,谦逊人却有智慧。(《箴言书》11:2 )** 中国人有句话:虚心使人进步。而人一旦开始骄傲,神就会派鬼来整你!所以骄傲真的很要命!那人为什么会骄傲?因为自己感觉优越,比别人有东西值得骄傲,很多人就是为骄傲活着。我曾跟一个会友说:你这样子怎么活?他跟我来一句:还有比我差的呢!难道靠着比谁更烂活着吗?有个笑话是这么说的:有人问别人过得好不好,那人说不好,问的人说,那我就放心了!生怕别人比她活得好,指望别人活得比她难受、糟心。难怪神说,骄傲来,羞耻也来! 曾经希律王讲了一篇道,底下的掌声持续了十几分钟。就有人说:希律王!这不是人的声音,是神的声音!希律王自己也真这么觉得。结果被一个很小的虫子咬了一口,他就死了!**所以要记住:骄傲来、羞耻也来**!过去这些年,我发现只要我一骄傲,接下来就是羞耻,很愚蠢。所以我们一定要做一个谦逊的人。 大家千万不要像埃及法老一样,以为自己是世界第一强国,没有人能站立在他面前,结果却眼睁睁地看着以色列人从埃及出去。神还使埃及人的长子,连同头生的牲畜全都死了! **人永远不要骄傲、狂妄,那就是愚昧、没有智慧的表现,得着的就是羞耻。人要夸耀,就当以耶和华神为夸耀 !**

**正直人的纯正必引导自己;奸诈人的乖僻必毁灭自己。(《箴言书》11:3)** 神眼里的正直人就是不用诡诈的天枰,里面也没有狂妄和骄傲,这样纯正的人就走神所喜悦的路。为什么我不用诡诈的天枰、不骄傲呢?因为我知道神不喜悦。为什么要做一个正直人呢?因为我知道神会引导我。而奸诈、乖僻的人以为可以占便宜,结果就是必毁灭自己,这是属灵世界里的运作规律。 **发怒的日子,资财无益,惟有公义能救人脱离死亡。(《箴言书》11:4 )** 当神发怒的时候,钱财是没有用的。不是人发怒,是神发怒。就像我那贪财的表舅,大道上都没有车,走着走着却被车子撞死,那不成笑话了吗?这是鬼干的,而鬼其实是神派来的。很多基督徒无知,不知道鬼是神派来的。所以神发怒的时候,再多的钱也没有用,如果还依靠钱财那真的是悲剧了! 我说的不一定都对,但是我们来看一看,今天的战争几乎都是和钱有关。假如我是一个军火商人,哪里打仗我都开心。只要打仗,马上就可以卖出去一千枚导弹。一枚导弹卖10万美元,一千枚就是一亿美元。打仗都是和钱挂钩的。为什么要打仗?都是因为钱。但是,当神发怒的时候,钱就没什么用了,所以说唯有公义能够救人脱离死亡。不管现在这个世界多么混乱,我们弟兄姐妹一定要有智慧。因为我们生逢乱世,赶上了百年未有之大变局。这个变局是极其混乱、残酷、血腥的。我们还要靠钱财吗?钱财靠不住了,我们只有依靠神啊!**凡信靠神的,必不蒙羞愧**。 如果还是只依靠钱,没有用,钱靠不住。有的人老了,儿女也不在身边,考虑到没有钱怎么养老,即使儿女在身边也都靠不住。当神发怒的日子,钱财和儿女都一样是无益的。只有让神来怜悯我们,恩待我们。所以不要用诡诈的天枰,不要用双标来看人,不要因自己的钱财骄傲,要用正直人的纯正来引导自己,不要做一个奸诈的人,要做一个依靠神的人。

**神发怒的日子,资财无益。惟有公义能救人脱离死亡。完全人的义,必指引他的路。但恶人必因自己的恶跌倒(《箴言》11:4-5)** 有很多基督徒以为他们追求的是神的公义,其实他们追求的是人的公义。很多基督徒有一种非常奇怪的行为模式,喜欢去参与世上所谓的公义,咱们基督徒不要去参与这些,我们追求的是神的公义。还有很多人喜欢做善事。中国有个地方叫大小凉山,非常穷,很多基督徒喜欢去那里撒钱。他们还以为自己做的是善事,却把这里的人给败坏了。那个地方的人每年都盼望着这些人来,就变的更懒,更不想干活了。这是神的公义吗?这不是!如果真的追求神的公义就应当把那里的人从咒诅当中释放出来。正直人的义,不是人眼里的义,而是神眼里的义。

**正直人的义,必拯救自己。奸诈人必陷在自己的罪孽中。恶人一死,他的指望必灭绝。罪人的盼望,也必灭没。(《箴言》11:6-7)** 一个恶人,他所有的指望都是很荒谬的。人为什么做了商人要做奸商,当了官要做贪官?都是因为这个荒谬的指望。自古以来直至今日,没有人能够解决人里面的自私。那些贪官是杀也杀不完。但是仔细观察,到最后那些贪官也必灭没,奸商也必灭绝。为什么?就是因为人愚昧。在我们当中解决这个自私、自以为是、愚昧的问题都相当困难,那是呼天唤地啊!

**义人得脱离患难,有恶人来代替他。不虔敬的人用口败坏邻舍。义人却因知识得救。义人享福合城喜乐。恶人灭亡,人都欢呼。城因正直人祝福便高举。却因邪恶人的口就倾覆。(《箴言》11:8-11)** 这些都在讲人所行的就得到相应的结果,所以要行耶和华眼中看为正的事。如果一个人稍微用点心,从《士师记》中就会看到人因为自私灭了以色列的国。以色列人是神的选民,神辛辛苦苦将他们从埃及带出来建立了自己的国,可是后来却亡国了,都是因为个人只顾自己。 我很喜欢看竞选,因为竞选很热闹,像嘉年华一样。竞选的人就站在成千上万的人面前演讲,说得天花乱坠,但后来这个城市就倾覆了。不但城市会倾覆,国家也会倾覆。那不都是人选出来的吗?慢慢仔细看:选了一个人,后来这个国家就往下坡路走;又选了一个人,这个邪恶人的口就会倾覆一个城市甚至一个国家。

**藐视邻舍的,毫无智慧;明哲人却静默不言。(《箴言》11:12)** 这个时代要仔细琢磨《圣经》里这些话,只要活着你还要睁开眼睛四处观望,看这个世界的局势,你就会看得到《圣经》里这些话都会成就。比如你整天没事招惹你的邻居,你邻居是个拳击选手,总有一天累计到了一定程度,他会挥拳来打你。所以咱可别做这种事。 **往来传舌的、泄漏密事。心中诚实的、遮隐事情。无智谋、民就败落。谋士多、人便安居。为外人作保的、必受亏损。恨恶击掌的、却得安稳。恩德的妇女得尊荣,强暴的男子得资财。(《箴言》11:13-16)** 如果强暴,得了资财也没啥用。据我不完全的观察,我发现一个家和睦主要是因为这个家的女主人有点恩德。家如果不和,常常都跟这女人有关系。把家弄得鸡飞狗跳,非常愚蠢!很多愚蠢的女人就亲自拆毁自己的家庭。

**仁慈的人、善待自己。残忍的人、扰害己身。恶人经营、得虚浮的工价。撒义种的、得实在的果效。恒心为义的、必得生命。追求邪恶的、必致死亡。 (《箴言》11:17-19)** 这里讲的全是因果关系,这个义字,我再强调一下,千万别理解错了。《圣经》里说,惟义人因信得生。什么叫义人?**义人是信靠神的人**。 **心中乖僻的、为耶和华所憎恶。行事完全的、为他所喜悦。恶人虽然连手、必不免受罚。义人的后裔必得拯救。 妇女美貌而无见识、如同金环带在猪鼻上。 (《箴言》11:20-22)** 这猪把鼻子掏个洞插个金环,走在大街上,一扭一扭的,看起来就很可笑。如果妇女美貌又无见识,那是个悲剧啊!我们读《圣经》,要学做有见识的人。做一个妇女当然美貌比丑陋要好,但那并不重要,有没有见识才是关键!

**义人的心愿尽得好处;恶人的指望致干忿怒。有施散的,却更增添;有吝惜过度的,反致穷乏。 (《箴言》11:23-24)** 我喜欢做施散的人,结果怎么样呢?结果神就更加添我。我不吝啬,大家要知道,**吝啬过度的反致穷乏**。所以弟兄姐妹要去观察:我们是否有吝啬过度的这种习惯?我们是不是一个施散的人?施散能够造就人。这是个规律啊! 有一个人他非常的吝啬,他在我们教会得着很多的恩典,不仅仅他自己很多病在我们这里得到医治,还有他的家人也得着很多恩典。他吝啬到什么程度呢?来到我办公室跟我说:我刚刚吃完鼎泰丰包子。这是什么脑子?吃鼎泰丰包子怎么不给我带几个过来呢?还好意思来跟我说?真是铁公鸡,一毛不拔啊!这样的人会不会富有?不会!他这辈子已经注定穷得叮当烂响。不要说对他有恩典的人,就是对他有救命之恩的人,他也是这样吝啬。 **好施舍的,必得丰裕;滋润人的,必得滋润。(《箴言》11:25 )** 大家知道我是干什么的?我做的就是施散出去,滋润人,造就人的事,这是我的核心业务。咱们不是把人弄成一个喊哈利路亚很大声的那种傻不拉叽的基督徒,我们是把人训练成一个聪明人。别怪我形容这些基督徒傻不拉叽的,神会怜悯我说这话,因为神也这么认为。 我认识的僵化的、小气的、极度自私的基督徒多得一塌糊涂。他们也去教会,但是不照着神的话做,大家仔细慢慢观察就知道了。所以,像这样的人在咱们当中留不下来。咱们这里是施舍的地方,是祝福人的地方,是给出去的地方。大家明白了吗?如果连做对自己有益处的都困难,怎么去服侍别人?服侍不了啊!这里是个付代价的地方,这地方不是占便宜的地方。

很多年前,我用烧鸡、烧鸭、酱牛肉,吸引来了很多的饭桶,他们来教会都是为了吃来了。后来我发现来这么多饭桶干啥呢?啥用也没有!后来教会就只提供盒饭,盒饭慢慢变成一盘水果,再后来那盘水果也没有了。我批发了一大堆的矿泉水,想喝得投一块钱才能拿一瓶。不是我小气,这地方必须是训练人奉献的地方。 如果你是一个很小气的人,你就是在这里待着也很辛苦啊!一天就是忙着他的工作、儿子、孙子那些小屁事,付代价付不起啊!为什么呢?因为跟他期望的目标相违背,时间上相冲突。所以,这个地方不但要把你家里的那点小屁事管好,最重要是要让你成为祝福别人的人。我告诉你,如果我们不是依靠钱财,而是依靠神,你一定会得丰裕,一定会增添,一定会活得很滋润。 **恳切求善的,就求得恩惠;惟独求恶的,恶必临到他身。倚仗自己财物的,必跌倒;义人必发旺,如青叶。(《箴言》11:27-28 )** 我们当中有一些是新来的,也许你信主可能是做个样子给你妈或者给你家人看的。那样子没有用,你脑子里得有智慧和聪明,得知道自己之前走的路走不通,走着走着就走到死胡同里去了。为啥?因为他只求自己的益处,只依靠财物。有的人老惨了,三十好几了,快四十岁的人,欠了一屁股的债,这债还到六十岁都还不完啊!这咋整啊?我也不知道,我就看着他着急, 这不是笨吗? **义人所结的果子就是生命树;有智慧的,必能得人。看哪,义人在世尚且受报,何况恶人和罪人呢?(《箴言》11:30-31)** 有智慧的必能得人,不是得鱼呀。 看哪,就是义人在神面前尚且受审判,何况恶人和罪人,要受何等的审判呢?老惨了。所以,人一定要知道依仗自己财物的必跌倒,惨啊!如果人没有观察就瞎整、胡整,那就是悲剧!我要给他唱一首哀歌。 **扰害己家的,必承受清风,愚昧人必作慧心人的仆人。(《箴言》11:29)** 人自私到一定程度,依靠钱财到一定程度就扰害己家,然后,就必承受清风。一个人独自徘徊在清风明月的大街上,看见一座高楼就在想象,如果爬到顶上,不要往两边看,一直往前走,就会消化在那蓝天里。这就是悲剧啊!人自私到一定程度就害了自己的家。咱们弟兄姐妹一定要活出大气,要活出神一样的形像,在世上的日子神就恩待你,死了就会回到神那里去。如果人一辈子活在自私、活在狭隘的光景当中,就活出了鬼的形像。不但鬼来找你,就是鬼不来找你,神也派一个鬼来搞你,你就活在咒诅当中。

所以,我劝大家大气不是傻,你大气了那是聪明。有的人过去小气了一辈子,大气了一天以为就能解决什么问题,差老远了。我过去大气了一辈子,今天尚且如此,你大气了一天能干啥?咱们弟兄姐妹不要愚昧,要做一个聪明人。 当你观察完了,将来有一天抬头一看,发现怎么有这么多愚蠢的人,你就知道你成长了。其实你以前也那样,自己却不知道,但是人家站在高处往下看的时候,就跟看笑话似的。所以,我们要开始谦卑下来,知道自己不行,知道自己需要神,然后好好地信靠神,来奔跑这一生的道路。 但愿美好的结局成就在我们的身上,愿神祝福大家!
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