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【Bible Study】1 John Chapter 3 - Love One Another According to God's Commandment to Us!

2023-12-27 31,442 1 John 1 John Chapter 3 1 John 3 God's Standard Laying Down Our Lives for Brotherly Love God Answers All We Ask Complete Removal of Sin

Introduction

Good day, everyone. Let us study the third chapter of 1 John. 1 John is too difficult to read; I have never understood it since I became a believer. Moreover, the related Bible studies I have read have not explained it clearly. Whether it is that they have not explained it clearly, or that I have not understood it, I suspect they are much like me, and no one understands it. There is a crucial issue lurking here, which is why does everyone not understand it? Those born of God do not sin, so how can those who do not sin live? People sin daily; the problem is that we have lowered God's standards.

No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God’s seed remains in them; they cannot go on sinning, because they have been born of God. (1 John 3:9)

God's standards have never been lowered, but rather we do not believe in God's words and live in the world all day long, living according to the world's logical system. Others live out an official position, yet you live out arthritis, aching here and there, living out various strange diseases, even getting cancer. Others' prayers are effective, but ours are not; what is the problem? The problem is that the logic system within us is wrong. Upon seeing God's standards, our natural reaction is that it is impossible! Then we cannot read it.

Let us reread the third chapter of 1 John, written by the Elder John. This chapter is about loving one another as God has commanded us. Everyone should write this sentence down and let it be deeply engraved in our hearts. In the depths of my heart, there is a great perplexity, which I believe you must also have, and that is whether it is worth it for us to pay the price for the Lord in this world. My conclusion is that it is worth it, and that is to execute God's commands even unto death. Those are commands, and military orders are like mountains; do not think it is a joke. Some say that God's commands are so useful; can they be eaten as food, spent as money, or taken as medicine? I do not know what they are thinking, but that is not my perplexity. My perplexity is how to carry out God's commands?

Problems and困扰s Faced by the Church

I guess the church at that time did not understand this letter written by the Elder John, because they also faced many problems and 困扰s. The Elder John wrote this sentence with great significance, because the world's logical system constantly drills into the church, and demons love to enter the church. If you believe in the Lord, you must be careful, because demons love to attach themselves to believers. Are you frightened by hearing this? If not, then you need to be frightened.

The reason is simple; let me tell you a ghost story. Satan gave the demons a command, which is to corrupt the church for a reward. The demons said it is difficult to corrupt the church, but going to nightclubs is not okay, because there is no need to corrupt them. So the demons waited at the entrance of the church, and the brothers and sisters of the church went in and out. Whenever there was an opportunity, they would be possessed by the demons, depending on whether the system inside you is the same as the demons.

Over the past few years, I have deeply learned many lessons in the process of serving. One person I once served had nothing to show for her ten years in Singapore. Looking at her financial situation, she felt uncomfortable, and we were also anxious. Sometimes, we wished she could quickly marry a handsome and rich man, but what if she met someone who was neither tall nor handsome, and not even rich? Would that not be worse?

One day, the demon on her began to manifest. She originally could not sing, but on the day of the exorcism, she began to sing opera and even sang at a professional level. It was our first time seeing this. Upon dialogue, we learned that the demon attached to her was called Xiaoqing. Several generations ago, her ancestors were wealthy people. In the wealthy family, there was a concubine named Xiaoqing, who often sang mournful songs during her lifetime and later hanged herself. Up until her generation, Xiaoqing's demon lived inside her, because the system inside her was of the world.

After she came to the church, she began to slowly learn to love God through our teachings, and the demon could not hide. As soon as we exorcised the demon, it was revealed. I told it to leave, and the demon said it had nowhere to go. I told it to go to the nightclub in the back, but it refused, saying it had to go to the church. It told me that Satan sent it specifically to corrupt the church, and it could not complete its mission by going to the nightclub. It also said that it would die if it could not complete its mission. It was like a telecommunications fraud gang, very cruel. Demons are actually very helpless in doing their tasks. I suggested that it go to another church, because my friend is a pastor there. The demon still refused, saying that the church was full of farmers. I said it was picky, and it said that farmers love the world, and it specifically looks for churches that love God.

I am saying this because demons were doing the same thing in the days of the Elder John. I also thank God for revealing these things. Some churches have already been corrupted, and there is no reward for corrupting them further. Churches that love the world wrap themselves in a religious cloak, and the pastors on the stage tell the members to say to the people next to them: Jesus loves you, and I love you! I hate things that only stay on the level of words. Anyone can do superficial work, such as embracing the people next to you and saying Jesus loves you. I am unwilling to do such things.

Many problems and 困扰s faced by the church come from the spiritual realm. These people believe that one cannot live without sinning and loving the world. You will find that the church is the place that likes to do superficial work the most, verbally saying they believe in Jesus, but they do not truly believe! They are all doing superficial work, being hypocritical. They believe that if one has no actions, it does not matter. Did Paul not say that he is not based on actions, but on faith? They believe that if they sin, there is still an advocate, Jesus Christ, so Jesus becomes their rag. Rags are so useful; just wipe them when you use them. It does not matter if you sin, because there is the precious blood of Jesus. Are you all very used to this sound?

And this is his command: We must love one another. (1 John 3:11)

In fact, the key to solving the problem is to love one another, not with human love, but with God's love, and it is also God's command. The Elder John said that he seems to be telling everyone a new command, because you do not know the old command. But in fact, it is not. Jesus had already talked about loving one another, and this standard has never been lowered. The law was originally a very low baseline. If you love God, then loving one another would have long surpassed the law, and you would not need to keep the law. The problem is that people love the world. For example, the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life are everywhere in the church. How many people really dare to stand there and boldly say the words love one another? They only talk about love, and they can never finish loving.

Then the 困扰 of love comes. Paul and John pushed the standard back to God's height. Why is that not okay? Why are people confused? Now put your hand on your chest and ask yourself, am I a child of God or a child of the devil? The child of the devil is the nature of sin. Some say that they were only half born from Jesus Christ, a difficult birth, and their heads had to be pinched like zucchini? So let us brothers and sisters no longer have this 困扰, okay? This is God's standard, no longer defending ourselves.

If we love one another, would there still be these problems? Would we still show a sullen face? No. The reason why you give me a hard time and argue with me, and argue so fiercely, is because you love yourself. When have you ever loved me? Some people say they love me very much, but they are not much different from those in the previous churches; otherwise, why would they still argue with me?

It is not that I am a standard. If we are all benefiting each other, there should not be any problems between us. But now the problem is that I want to deal with your flesh, and you want to follow your flesh, so there will definitely be conflicts between us. Chinese Mingding Destiny has solved many confusions. The first one it solved was the standard problem. Although I have not yet reached God's standards, I am working hard to move towards God's standards. How many of God's standards are there? Loving one another is one of them, and being healed is also one. If you carefully examine the Bible, whether it was in Jesus' time or the generation mentioned in Acts, everyone was healed, but people do not believe. It is not difficult for all that we ask for to be satisfied, nor is it difficult for us to receive God's response to all that we ask for in God.

We thank God that we see a cloud of witnesses among us, but you are satisfied, but I am still not satisfied. There are still many prayers that do not receive a response, and the reason is very simple: there are still many ways in which we are not like God. So the greatest 困扰 is the 困扰 of love. The questions in our Q&A sessions all stem from confusion, but that is not difficult for me. Because I have a concept: this is God's standard, which solves all confusions at once.

The 困扰 of Love

The word love is the most confusing. In the past few years, what I have experienced the most is that he loves me but wants to control me. I was wondering whether he was loving me or loving himself? Later, I discovered that the love between many couples is also this kind of love, loving each other to death, extremely painfully. Because of love, they love and kill each other. In fact, that is all loving oneself. If they all loved each other, they would not do that. People will not deliberately make the other person uncomfortable because they love that person. If you love God, you will diligently obey God's commands and love one another, but if you love yourself, you will make God very uncomfortable.

These confusions of love are all because they use carnal love and bring in the world's logical system. The love of children for their mothers and the love of mothers for their children are not God's love, and many things are very evil. This worldly, carnal love, even if a tiger does not eat its cubs, is still a carnal love, and this kind of love is useless. When you get to the church, this love becomes even more confusing. Do you think you love when someone casually says, Jesus loves you, and I love you? Even if you shout it ten thousand times, and I shout it twenty thousand times, and everyone drinks tea together and shouts until their throats are dry, drinks some tea, and continues to shout, that does not represent anything.

Some people see brothers and sisters in pain and say, Jesus loves you, and I love you. If I were in a hospital bed, I would really want to know how you would love me. You cannot answer, just like an old-fashioned teapot, only the mouth is good. Maybe now even the mouth cannot be bought for a few cents, and then the mouth becomes the mouth of a dead duck, which is stubborn. What, he absolutely loves God, sings a love song to God, and then he loves God? It is not like that. You must diligently obey God's commands and do according

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Good brothers lay down their lives for one another, yet I haven't even asked you to lay down your life for me, and you're already reluctant. If I were to truly ask you to lay down your life, you'd probably be making a quick escape. Let's test whether we're really willing to lay down our lives for one another. What's in our bones? Let's deal with it practically. Don't call the guilty innocent, don't pretend to be holy. Use God's standard to examine yourselves and see your filth.

If a person admits their sin, Jesus can still save them. But if they don't admit their sin, if they think they're very holy and can swagger down the street, with steam practically rising from their head, that won't do. Jesus can't save them. The Lord has already set an example for us. Everyone must truly deal with sin and be willing to lay down their lives for one another. Laying down one's life isn't a common standard. It means seeing through life and death, seeing through the triviality of human life. People must let go of these things to be able to lay down their lives for one another. If your hope is still in this world, you can't go on. This is where the confusion of love lies.

**We know that we have passed from death to life, because we love our brothers. Anyone who does not love remains in death. (1 John 3:14)**

I know who you prayed for in the middle of the night to be healed. Paying a price is normal, but that's not laying down your life. If it really endangers your core interests, what will you choose? We don't even need to do it for real. Even in a simulation, you might not pass. So, know that loving God is the key to solving sin. You don't need to cut off this curse or that curse. Loving God can cancel out all curses. Loving God is the key to solving problems, but loving God isn't just casually saying, I love Jesus. A test will reveal whether you truly love your brothers.

If someone offends us, can we bear their offense? Jesus was offended by us, but He didn't crush us. Jesus didn't argue for Himself. If we measure ourselves by this standard, few people truly love Jesus. But everyone must know that even if few remain, this is God's standard. Some might ask, Can you do it? I'm also trying. How do we measure it? By whether God listens to my prayers, whether everything I ask for is granted, and whether God remembers me.

## The Confusion of Sin

**Everyone who sins breaks the law; in fact, sin is lawlessness. But you know that he appeared so that he might take away our sins. And in him is no sin. No one who lives in him keeps on sinning. No one who continues to sin has either seen him or known him. Dear children, do not let anyone lead you astray. The one who does what is right is righteous, just as he is righteous. The one who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil’s work. No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because God’s seed remains in them; they cannot go on sinning, because they have been born of God. This is how we know who the children of God are and who the children of the devil are: Anyone who does not do what is right is not God’s child, nor is anyone who does not love their brother and sister. (1 John 3:4-10)**

These words seem simple, but they're hard to accept. We must ask why Christians in that generation were just as confused as Christians today. What are they confused about? Those born of God don't sin; those who sin are of the devil. Let's consider why people sin so carefully. It's because people have the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life within them.

If we fill ourselves with the world's logic system, we can't help but sin. That's Old Ma. Then, after sinning, when we see others doing better, we become envious, jealous, and hateful. We think, If it weren't for people like you, my sin wouldn't be revealed. Why do you have to be ahead of me? But comparison is useless. We must use God's light to shine on ourselves. If sin belongs to the devil, then the devil is legally dwelling in you. Those who idly discern good and evil, indulge the flesh, and love the world will pay a painful price. Remember, there must be a standard to measure these things, a standard that lets us know what's more important and what's less, what's worthwhile and what's not.

If people don't believe, it's a sin, and they'll pay a heavy price for it. If the devil doesn't come looking for you, God will send someone to mess with you. So, resolve the confusion of love and the confusion of sin. Don't think that if you can't reach the standard, you should just give up. Even if you can't reach it, try hard, and God will remember your effort. We must adjust our attitude. If our ability is lacking, God will add to it, but attitude is your choice. Our attitude is too terrible, whether we come from different churches or are homegrown in our own church. We're very skilled at pretending. We must take off this false exterior and come to God with our hearts and in truth, because it's worth it.

You can offend the world's ghosts, you can offend people, but you must not offend God. Sinning is offending God. Being of the flesh and of the world is offending God. If people love money, they can't help but sin, but why can't I find anyone who loves ghost money? Who puts a stack of ghost money under their pillow to burn when they die? No one does that. Everyone recognizes green as dollars and red as RMB. A stack of ten thousand yuan is made up of hundred-yuan bills bundled together. So, everyone must get this right. We should learn a lesson from Cain.

**Do not be like Cain, who belonged to the evil one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his own actions were evil and his brother’s were righteous. (1 John 3:12)**

People shouldn't sin. No matter how much confusion you have, you must know one thing: your illnesses are closely related to your sins. People have already paid a heavy price for their sins. Why continue to do such foolish things? Why continue to be so foolish? When will people turn away from evil? Because I love God, I lay down my life for you. I don't have the right to ask you to lay down your life for me, but you have the right to ask yourself to lay down your life for the love of your brothers. If you lay down your life, money is no longer a problem. The world, face, the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life are also no longer problems. Everything is easily solved.

## The Children of God Must Have the Likeness of God

The children of God must have the likeness of God. This is an important discourse in Chinese Mingding Destiny. It wasn't invented this year. Many years ago, my heart longed to be like Jesus. But how can I be like Jesus? I thought about this every day. I've wanted to be like Jesus since I was in my thirties. Some people think, How can someone like you imagine being like Jesus? They negate me with one sentence. But that's what the 《Bible》 says: the children of God must be like God. When He appears, we must be like Him.

**Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. All who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure. (1 John 3:2-3)**

Don't think that we'll be like Him only when the Lord Jesus appears at the end of the world. The Lord Jesus appears to those who love Him. Our Lord Jesus is also very humorous. After being crucified and resurrected, He didn't appear to the Jewish chief priests who killed Him. If the Lord Jesus had walked through the wall and patted those Jewish chief priests, saying that He was alive again, it would have scared them to death. After our Lord Jesus resurrected, He appeared to the disciples who loved Him, eager to appear among us every day. What does He reveal? It's to have the power of His resurrection cover us, so we must be like Him.

We yearn to be like God, to do what Jesus did, because we're the children of God. Believe what Jesus believed, believe what Jesus said. Our logic system is that we're the children of God. If you're the children of God, you won't lack anything, so is it necessary to love the world? If you say you're the children of God, a noble prince, but you still love the world, isn't that strange? Loving the world to the point of always feeling like you don't have this or don't have that. Not knowing that you're a noble prince, not knowing that we're born of God, that we're the children of God, not knowing that we have God's likeness on us, and not knowing that we hold the authority given to us by Jesus Christ, that becomes a tragedy.

Why should people's logic system be like Cain's? Cain was a psychopath, very painful, just because his offering wasn't accepted, he killed his brother. Why should we be like him? If a person is already a child of God, then they lack nothing. Let God's love become our command, to love one another according to the command God has given us. Why not do something so worthwhile? That's the likeness of God. God died for us when we were still sinners, and died on the cross.

But now we get angry when we see a little fault or bad temper in others. We really need to understand what's inside us. Do you want to be like the children of God, to have God's image? If you have God's image, your creativity will explode, and the blessings within will explode. If you're the children of God and have God's likeness, will you still ask a bunch of questions about how to live?

**If anyone has material possessions and sees a brother or sister in need but withholds compassion from them, how can the love of God be in that person? (1 John 3:17)**

Some people see their brothers and sisters in need, but they withhold compassion. Of course, you shouldn't give money to a drug addict to pay off their drug debts, nor should you give money to a gambler to pay off their gambling debts. But if they're short of a meal, it's very simple to give them money for a meal. A bowl of hot dry noodles costs 15 yuan in the city, but it only costs 7 yuan on the outskirts of the city. No matter how far away, we can scan a code for them.

So, we must know that God wants us to completely remove sin and overcome sin. Sin lies at your door, and you must overcome it. You can't be Cain; you must do what Jesus Christ did, be the children of God. Because you have God's likeness on you, will you still discern good and evil? Even if you still discern good and evil, you'll feel that you're not qualified to discern good and evil. Look at the things inside us. No matter how many thousands of reasons you have, if it's not like Jesus, then forget it. You're talking about your reason; I'm talking about God's reason.

## Everything We Ask For Comes From God

Everything we ask for comes from God. It's worth it, don't you believe it? If you don't know the dangers of things that are of the world and of the flesh, then you really have to suffer a little. If everything you ask for is granted, then what do you lack? The prayer that our Lord Jesus taught us: we ask for God's kingdom and God's righteousness.

**This, then, is how you should pray: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us today our daily bread. (Matthew 6:9-11)**

You don't need to worry about tomorrow. There will definitely be something to eat today, and there will be something to eat tomorrow, and you definitely don't need to worry about the day after tomorrow.

**And whatever we ask we receive from him, because we keep his commands and do what pleases him. And this is his command: to believe in the name of his Son, Jesus Christ, and to love one another as he commanded us. The one who keeps God’s commands lives in him, and he in them. And this is how we know that he lives in us: We know it by the Spirit he gave us. (1 John 3:22-24)**

Because of the Spirit He gave us, can we not receive what we ask for? God's Spirit dwells in us, and we radiate God's likeness inside and out. Everyone must know that it's more blessed to give than to receive. Giving will definitely be blessed. You have to experience this slowly. We keep His commands, so everything we ask for will surely come from God. If what we ask for isn't received, then have you kept His commands? The logic is actually very simple.

I live in the Lord, and the Lord lives in me. That's how the song goes, but is that really the case? Singing it for a long time is useless. I can also give you some chicken soup for the soul, saying that tomorrow will be better. If you don't keep God's commands, tomorrow will only be worse. If you only love yourself, only care about yourself, and don't follow God's commands, this road will be difficult to walk.

When we start to establish a new value system, we know how wonderful it is to love one another according to the commands God has given us. We know what a rich reward this is, lacking nothing good on earth. To return to heaven and be with God, and in the future, when the Lord Jesus returns to earth, we'll govern this land together, as kings under the King of kings. Let's govern one or two cities. Which city do you want to govern? Lanzhou, Wuhan, or Hangzhou? We don't know what these cities will be called in the future. I'm just using an analogy. Maybe God will give you Singapore. Then you can govern it well.

Has our value system been rebuilt? Actually, I'll be honest with you, just because I see brothers and sisters walking on their own paths, my heart is very sad. This sadness sometimes makes me lose faith in God, and I start to beat my drums and make a fuss inside, and then I sin. That's because I'm discerning good and evil. People will look according to their own standards, and everything that doesn't come from faith is sin.

Some faith can lead to action. I'll give an example: Why do some people sell their houses and tithe? Because they believe it's right, it's blessed. But some people sell their houses and don't take out the tithe because they think it's better to keep the money. Now we have to figure out that doing this is not worthwhile, and the problem is solved. It depends on whether people believe it or not, and that can drive the way we do things. The decisions we make are based on our internal logic. Some people think that living requires a lot of money, and they still have to buy a house for their son in the future.

If you offend God, the demons will mess with you. Even if the demons don't mess with you, what if God sends a demon to mess with you? I'm not trying to scare everyone. The value concepts inside everyone have to be readjusted to God's standards. If we value money so much, we can't love our brothers and sisters, lay down our lives for them, and how can we gain eternal glory?

If we can't even pass the test of money, then how will we pass the tests that follow? Now let's challenge ourselves. Go back and reread the third chapter of 1 John and see if it's true. It quickly exposes the false things inside us, that is, whether our value system belongs to God. Once we understand it, we'll no longer be confused in an instant. May God bless everyone!
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大家好,咱们来学《约翰一书》的第三章。《约翰一书》太难读了,从我信主以来就没读明白过,而且我曾经读过的相关查经也都没说明白。到底是他们没说明白,还是我没有读明白,我猜他们跟我差不多,大家都没整明白。这里潜伏着一个很要命的问题,那就是为什么大家都读不明白?从神生的就不犯罪,那不犯罪人怎么活?人天天犯罪,问题就是我们把神的标准给降低了。 **凡从神生的,就不犯罪,因神的道(原文是种)存在他心里;他也不能犯罪,因为他是由神生的。(《约翰一书》 3 : 9)** 神的标准从来都没有降低过,而是因为我们不相信神的话,整天活在世界当中,照着世界的逻辑体系活。人家活出个一官半职,你却活出一个关节炎这疼那疼,活出各种奇怪的病,甚至得癌症。人家祷告可以好使,我们祷告却不好使,问题出在哪儿?就是我们里面的逻辑体系错了,一看到神的标准,天然的反应就是这不可能!完了,那就没法读了。 我们就把老约翰写的《约翰一书》的第三章重新读一遍,这一章是在讲“照神给我们的命令彼此相爱”。大家把这句话记下来,也让这句话深深地刻在我们的心坎上。在我的内心深处有一个很大的困惑,我相信你肯定也有,那就是我们在这世上为主付代价到底值得不值得?我总结出来是值得,那是死都要执行神给我们的命令。那是命令,军令如山,你别以为开玩笑。有人说神的命令那么好使,能当饭吃、当钱花、当药吃吗?不知道都是什么脑子,然而这不是我的困惑,我的困惑是如何来遵行神的命令?

我猜当时的教会就没读明白老约翰写的这封信,因为他们也面临很多的问题和困扰。老约翰写这句话是非常意味深长的,因为属世界的逻辑体系不断地往教会里钻,鬼就喜欢进教会。如果你信主可得小心,因为鬼就爱附在信主的人身上,听到这吓坏你没有?如果没有,那你需要被吓一吓。 原因很简单,我来给大家讲讲鬼故事。撒但给了鬼一个命令,就是败坏了教会有赏。鬼说败坏教会很难,可是去夜总会也不行,因为那根本不用去败坏。于是鬼在教会的门口伺机以待,教会的弟兄姐妹进进出出,一有机会就被鬼附上,就看你里面装的那个体系是不是跟鬼一样。 过去这些年我在服侍的过程当中深深地学到了很多的功课。以前曾经服侍过的一个人在新加坡十年却两手空空,看着她的财务状况,她难受,我们也跟着着急。有时候恨不得赶紧找一个高帅富嫁了,可要是遇到一个既不高不帅,连富有也谈不上的,那不是更糟? 有一天,她身上的鬼开始彰显。本人原来也不会唱歌,可是当天一赶鬼她就开始唱大戏,还唱出了专业的水准。我们也是头一次见,一对话才知道这附在她身上的鬼叫小青。祖上几辈子以前是大户人家,大户人家里有一个小妾叫小青,生前经常会唱哀怨的歌,后来上吊自杀了。一直到了她这一代,小青的鬼就住在她里面,因为她里面的体系是属世界的。 她来教会之后经过我们的教导开始慢慢学着爱神,这鬼就藏不住了。一赶鬼,鬼就显露出来。我让牠出去,鬼说牠没有地方可去。让牠去后面的夜总会还不答应,说非得要去教会。牠跟我说撒但派牠专职来败坏教会,去夜总会就没法交差,还说回去交不了差会死的。就跟电诈集团似的非常残酷,鬼其实也是很无奈地做自己的任务。我建议牠去另外一个教会,因为我朋友在那做牧师。鬼还不去,说那个教会都是农民。我说这还挑呢,牠说农民都爱世界,牠就专门找这爱神的教会。

我说这事,就是因为老约翰年间鬼也干着同样的事。我也感谢神把这些事显现出来,一些教会已经被败坏了,再去败坏也得不到奖赏。爱世界的教会再包上一个宗教的外衣,牧师在台上让会友跟旁边的人说:“耶稣爱你,我也爱你!”我最讨厌的就是这种光停留在言语上的事,表面功夫谁都会做,什么和旁边的人拥抱,说耶稣爱你,我这人就不愿做这种事。 教会面临很多问题和困扰都是从灵界来的,这些人认为人不犯罪、不爱世界就不能活。你会发现教会这个地方最喜欢做表面功夫,口口声声说信耶稣,却不是真信!都是在做表面功夫,假冒为善。他们认定如果没有行为也没关系,保罗不是已经讲了他不是以行为为本,是以信心为本?他们相信犯了罪还有一位中保耶稣基督,那耶稣成了他们的抹布了。抹布多好用,用就抹一下,犯罪也没关系,因为有耶稣的宝血。大家有没有很习惯这种声音? **我们应当彼此相爱,这就是你们从起初所听见的命令。(《约翰一书》 3 : 11)**

其实解决问题的关键是彼此相爱,那不是人的爱,而是神的爱,并且还是神的命令。老约翰说给大家讲的好像是一个新命令,因为旧命令你们都不知道了。但其实不是,耶稣早就讲彼此相爱,这个标准从来都没有降低过。律法本来就是要求很低的底线,如果爱神,那彼此相爱早就超越了律法,也就不用守律法。问题就是人爱的是世界,比如说肉体的情欲、眼目的情欲和今生的骄傲在教会里比比皆是。有多少人真的敢站在那里大胆地说彼此相爱这句话?只是在嘴上说说爱,爱不完而已。 那么这爱的困扰就来了,保罗也好、约翰也好,他们把这标准重新推到神的高度,怎么就不行了呢?怎么就读懵了呢?现在把自己的手放在胸口上问一问,我是神的儿女,还是魔鬼的儿女?魔鬼的儿女就是犯罪的本性。有人说自己才从耶稣基督里生了一半出来,难产,那还不得把他的脑袋夹得像个西葫芦似的?所以说咱们弟兄姐妹不再有这种困扰,行不行?这就是神的标准,不再为自己辩护。 如果彼此相爱,还有这些问题吗?还会甩脸子吗?不会的。之所以给我脸色看,跟我杠,还都杠得挺狠,就是因为你爱你自己,什么时候爱过我?有人嘴上说很爱我,其实和以前教会的那些人差不了多少,否则为什么还跟我杠呢?

不是说我是个标准,如果我们彼此都是图对方的益处,我们之间本来不应该有问题。可是现在的问题在于我想对付你的肉体,你想顺着你的肉体,那我们之间肯定就有冲突。华人命定神学解决了很多困惑,最先解决的一个就是标准问题。虽然还达不到神的标准,但是我很努力地朝着神的标准走。那神的标准有多少?彼此相爱是其中一个,都得了医治也是一个。你仔细查考《圣经》,耶稣年间也好,《使徒行传》里说的世代也好,那都得了医治,但是人就是不信。我们所求的都得到满足不难,我们在神里面所求的都得着神的回应也不难。 我们感谢神,在咱们当中看到见证如云,然而你满意,我却还不满足。真的还有很多祷告得不着回应,原因很简单,我们还有很多地方不像神。所以这个最大的困惑就是爱的困惑,咱们答疑解惑里的那些问题都源自困惑,不过那也难不倒我。因为我有一个观念,这是神的标准,一下子解决了所有的困扰。

爱这个字是最令人困惑的。在过去这些年当中我经历最多的就是他爱我,但却想辖制我。我就在想这到底是爱我,还是爱他自己呀?后来我发现很多夫妻之间的爱也是这么个爱法,爱得死去活来,极其痛苦。因为爱而相爱相杀,其实那都是爱自己,要都是爱对方就不这么干了。人不会因为爱这个人而故意让他难受。你若爱神就谨守遵行神的命令,就彼此相爱,而你爱自己就会把神弄得很难受。 这爱的困惑都是因为用属肉体的爱,把属世界的逻辑体系拿进来了。孩子爱妈妈和妈妈爱孩子也都不是属神的爱,很多东西都是非常邪门的。这个属世界的、属肉体的爱,就算是虎毒不食子,也是一个属肉体的爱,这种爱是毫无益处的。到了教会里面,这个爱就变得更加困惑了。以为谁随口一说耶稣爱你,我也爱你,就爱了吗?你喊一万次,我喊两万次,大家没事儿泡壶茶,彼此喊到喉咙干了,喝口茶接着喊,那什么都代表不了。 有的人看见弟兄姐妹在病痛当中,就说耶稣爱你,我也爱你。那要是我在病床上,我很想知道你要怎么爱我。你也回答不了,只是二分钱茶壶,就剩一个嘴好。可能现在二分钱连个嘴都买不下来了,然后这个嘴变成死鸭子的嘴,那就是嘴硬。什么他绝对爱神,跟神唱一首爱情的诗歌,唱完了就爱神了?不是这么一回事,你得谨守遵行神的命令,照着神的话去做,那才叫真正的爱神。所以老约翰面临这个困扰的时候说:主已经为我们做了示范。

**主为我们舍命、我们从此就知道何为爱.我们也当为弟兄舍命。(《约翰一书》 3 :16)** 你真的愿意为弟兄舍命才叫真爱,可是我觉得基督徒为弟兄舍命的这种状况很难教给你。我清洁教会清洁了好多年,教会里有一个人,我用他的名字定义了一个灵,这里就不讲他的名字了,免得将来有一天他听我讲道,说我又提他。 他脚底下长疔,搞同性恋把生殖器官搞出一堆病来,还有脚气,都是我祷告好了。他的妈妈得高血压,他奶奶脑溢血,我也祷告好了,他在这都领受了多少恩典?最重要的就是在他犯被害妄想症要死要活,也就是得了精神病的时候,我给服侍好了。那还是在我的工作忙得焦头烂额的时候,而且没多久我就失业了。但是只要他来找我,我就放下我的工作去服侍他,按咱们世俗的话这也算挺够意思了吧。 结果后来他上班做工了,我也推着他出来参与服侍。他说如果不能像我一样能够服侍到后半夜两点,是不是就不能在我们教会待着?我问他能服侍到几点,他说十点半就得上床睡觉。我说那如果我服侍他的时候也要十点半上床睡觉,现在他还在吗? 后来他去了个鬼都不爱去的教会,为什么鬼都不爱去的教会,他选择去了呢?去之前还跟我说很爱我,听起来很肉麻,这种话我最不爱听,最好还是别爱我。他说想离开教会一段时间,出去考察一下别的教会,要是考察不好了,他再回来。这是把我们这里当做备胎了,考察完还是别回来了。走了没多久,又回来说他找到了一间教会。果然是体贴肉体的牧师牧养一个体贴肉体的信徒,那是非常合适的。这叫蛤蟆对绿豆,对上眼了。我觉着这种嘴上的爱是毫无益处的,老约翰年间这种人大把,今天的教会也一样。

关于爱的困惑,耶稣给我们做了一个示范。问题是你认为做这件事照着耶稣的命令,照着耶稣的样子做划算,还是照着你自己的标准做划算?大家可千万别以为我傻,有人还说看我这张脸可睿智了。那当然,不划算的事我不会做。如果遵照神的命令彼此相爱不划算,我肯定不会做,只是有的人傻,不知道而已。如果十一奉献不划算的话,我也不会去做。刚信主受洗的时候,十一奉献省下来的话,一年也就两千块钱,那么低的薪水省了也没用,跟神投资才划算。 有人还问奉献是税前的10%还是税后的,卖房子的钱是按照赚的钱呢,还是按照卖出的整价算呢?这就要看你觉得这事划算还是不划算了,傻瓜才会问这种问题,就是认为不划算才这么问。我爱我的神,我的命都是属于神的,那钱还是个问题吗?所以神就祝福我,简直就像天上掉馅饼砸到我头上。如果懒一点儿的话,那饼中间还有个口,一下就套在我脖子上,张嘴就吃,馅儿都还没掉。 人困惑就是因为价值观的问题,遵照神的命令是划算的,别犯傻。有些人看着很精明,但是在对待神的事情上,一看就知道很傻。人嘴里说出来的话就是他里面价值体系的表现,所以人对爱的困惑实际上不是别的,是他里面有一套逻辑和价值,再加上神的一套逻辑和价值。神所定的是神的标准,而你定的标准却是非标,那东西连你自己都不知道行不行。体贴肉体、爱世界和识别善恶都不划算,为什么要整一个非标来守着,而不是守着神的标准?

主已经为我们做了示范,为我们舍命,从此我们就知道何为爱,我们也当为弟兄舍命。舍命一听好像挺吓人,其实不是要你为弟兄两肋插刀,而是如果人活在永恒当中不相信永生没法走这条路。不相信永生,那你又为什么相信神呢?只相信钱,你就好好去爱钱。 以前有个工作人员对我说他不在乎钱,既然如此,干脆下个月开始不给他钱,让他白干活。一听他不乐意了,说他还要还房贷,那他说这话有什么意思?所以我身上有一些习惯,特别讨厌人说虚假的话,能不能说点实实在在的?如果我真的不给他薪水,他能坚持多久?问题就在这,如果真的不在乎钱,就像我们当中的一个同工,他在外面做一份工,我还给他一份薪水,但他却把薪水全部奉献了,这是他很清楚这是很划算的事。 好兄弟就为弟兄舍命,而我还没让你为我舍命,你就舍不得了。等我真要让你舍命,你可能早就脚底抹油,溜了。要不然咱们试一试是否真的为弟兄舍命。骨子里到底是什么?我们就实实在在地去对付。有罪的别说成是无罪的,别假装圣洁,用神的标准照一下,看看自己的污秽。 人若承认自己有罪,耶稣还能救你。若不承认自己有罪,觉得自己很圣洁,走在大街上都可以横着膀子逛,头顶都冒青烟了是不行的,耶稣也救不了你。主已经为我们做了示范,大家真的要对付罪,真的要为弟兄舍命。舍命不是一般的标准,是要把生死看透,把人活着这点屁事看透,人得把这些东西都放下才能够做得到为弟兄舍命。如果你的盼望还都在这世上是走不下去的,这爱的困惑就在这。

**我们因为爱弟兄,就晓得是已经出死入生了。没有爱心的,仍住在死中。(《约翰一书》3 : 14)** 我知道你半夜为谁祷告病好了,付点代价是正常的,但这不叫舍命。如果真的危害到你的核心利益,你怎么选择?我们可以不用做真的,做一场演习,你都不一定能过。所以要知道爱神才是解决罪的关键,不用斩断这个咒诅那个咒诅,爱神就能让所有的咒诅都一笔勾销。爱神才是解决问题的关键,但是爱神不是随口讲讲爱耶稣,一检验就知道是不是真的爱弟兄。 被人家冒犯,我们能不能担待人家冒犯?耶稣被我们冒犯,耶稣都没有捏死我们,耶稣也不为自己争辩什么,就拿这个标准一衡量,爱耶稣的人就所剩无几。但是大家要知道就算剩不了几个,这也是神的标准。有人说你能做到吗?我也在努力。那用什么来衡量?看神听不听我的祷告,就是我所求的神都应允我,神也记念我。

**凡犯罪的,就是违背律法;违背律法,就是罪。你们知道主曾显现,是要除掉人的罪,在他并没有罪。凡住在他里面的,就不犯罪;凡犯罪的,是未曾看见他,也未曾认识他。小子们哪,不要被人诱惑。行义的才是义人,正如主是义的一样。犯罪的是属魔鬼,因为魔鬼从起初就犯罪。神的儿子显现出来,为要除灭魔鬼的作为。凡从神生的,就不犯罪,因神的道存在他心里;他也不能犯罪,因为他是由神生的。从此就显出谁是神的儿女,谁是魔鬼的儿女。凡不行义的就不属神,不爱弟兄的也是如此。(《约翰一书》 3 :4 - 10)** 这话看起来很简单,但很难接受。我们得问问为什么那个世代的基督徒和现在的基督徒一样困惑,都在困惑些什么呢?从神生的不犯罪,犯罪的是属魔鬼的。我们再仔细琢磨一下人为什么会犯罪,因为人里面有肉体的情欲、眼目的情欲和今生的骄傲。 如果咱们里面装的是属世界的逻辑体系,你不可能不犯罪,这就是老马。然后自己犯了罪,看到别人比你好,心里面就开始羡慕、嫉妒、恨。心想要是没有你们这些人就显不出我有罪了,为什么非得跑在我前面?然而比这个没什么用,咱们得用神的光照一下,如果犯罪就属魔鬼,那么魔鬼住在你身上就是合法的。闲着没事识别善恶、体贴肉体和爱世界的,必为此付上很惨痛的代价。要记住这些东西必须有一个衡量的标准,这个标准就是让我们知道哪头大、哪头小;哪个划算、哪个不划算。 人要是不信就是罪,就要为罪付上很沉痛的代价。魔鬼不来找你,神都会打发一拨来搞你。所以把爱的困惑和罪的困惑都给解决掉,别想着达不到这个标准就躺平。就算达不到也努力去达到,神也会记念你努力的态度。我们里面的态度要调整好。能力不行,神会加添,但是态度是你的选择。我们里面的态度太恶劣了,不管是从不同的教会来的,还是我们教会自生自养的,在装样子这事上做得非常娴熟。我们要脱下这个虚假的外表,实实在在地用心灵、诚实来到神的面前,因为这样做是划算的。

世上的鬼可以得罪,人也可以得罪,就是不能得罪神。犯罪就是得罪神;属肉体、属世界就是得罪神。人要是爱钱是不可能不犯罪的,但我怎么就找不到几个爱冥纸的?在自己家里的枕头底下放一沓冥纸,等他死的时候给他烧?没有这样的。不都是一看见绿的就知道是美元,红的是人民币,一沓一万元,都是一百元成捆的。所以大家要把这事整对,我们就应该从该隐身上学一个功课。 **不可像该隐,他是属那恶者,杀了他的兄弟。为什么杀了他呢?因自己的行为是恶的,兄弟的行为是善的。(《约翰一书》 3 :12)** 人还是别犯罪,你不管有多少困惑都得知道一件事,身上的病跟犯罪紧密相关。人为自己的罪已经付上沉痛的代价,为什么还要继续干这么愚蠢的事?为什么要一直这么愚蠢下去,人得要愚蠢到什么时候才肯离弃罪恶?因为我爱神,所以我为你们舍命。我没有资格要求你们为我舍命,但是你们有资格要求自己为爱弟兄的心舍命。如果命都舍了,钱就不再是问题,世界、面子、肉体的情欲、眼目的情欲和今生的骄傲也都不是问题,全都迎刃而解。

神的儿女要有神的样子,是华人命定神学一个重要的论述。这不是今年才发明的,很多年前我心里就渴望要像耶稣,可是要怎么才能像耶稣呢?我天天在想这事,30多岁开始就很想像耶稣。有人觉得就我这样还想像耶稣?一句话就把我给否定了,但是《圣经》里就是这么说的,神的儿女要像神,主若显现,我们必要像祂。 **亲爱的弟兄啊,我们现在是神的儿女,将来如何,还未显明;但我们知道主若显现,我们必要像他。因为必得见他的真体。凡向他有这指望的,就洁净自己,像他洁净一样。(《约翰一书》3 : 2 - 3)** 千万别以为是到了末日主耶稣显现的时候,我们要像祂。主耶稣向爱祂的人显现,我们的主耶稣也非常幽默,被钉十字架从死里复活以后,并没有到杀祂的那些犹太祭司长面前显现。假如主耶稣穿墙而过,拍一拍那些犹太祭司长说祂又活了,会把他们吓死。我们的主耶稣复活以后向爱祂的门徒显现,巴不得天天在我们当中向我们显现。显现什么?就是让祂从死里复活的能力覆盖着我们,我们就必要像祂。 我们心里渴望像神,做耶稣所做的,因为我们是神的儿女。信耶稣所信的,信耶稣所讲的,我们的逻辑体系就是我们是神的儿女。如果你是神的儿女,就什么都不会缺,那还有必要爱世界吗?如果你说自己是神的儿女,是个尊大的王子,却还爱世界,不是很奇怪吗?爱世界爱到总觉得自己没有这个,没有那个。不知道自己是个尊大的王子,既不知道我们是神所生的,是神的儿女,也不知道我们身上有神的样子,更不知道我们手里拿着耶稣基督赐给我们的权柄,这不就成了悲剧?

人的逻辑体系为什么要像该隐?该隐是个精神病,非常痛苦,就因为自己所献的供物不蒙悦纳就杀了自己的兄弟,为什么还要像他呢?如果一个人已经是神的儿女,那就什么都不缺了。让神的爱成为我们的命令,照着神给我们的命令彼此相爱,这么划算的事为什么不做?那就是神的样子,神在我们还是罪人的时候就为我们死,且死在十字架上。 可现在我们看到别人的身上有点毛病脾气就来了。我们真的需要把我们里面的东西给整明白,你要不要像神的儿女,有神的形像?如果你有神的形像,你的创造力都会爆棚的,里面蒙福的那些东西都会爆棚的。如果是神的儿女就有神的样子,那还会问一大堆要怎么活之类的问题吗? **凡有世上财物的,看见弟兄穷乏,却塞住怜恤的心,爱神的心怎能存在他里面呢?(《约翰一书》3 : 17)** 有的人看见弟兄穷乏的,却塞住怜悯的心。当然你不要给一个吸毒的还毒债,也不要给一个赌鬼还赌债。但如果是他缺了一顿饭,你给他一顿饭钱还是很简单的事。一碗热干面在城里的15元,那去城边吃也就7元,隔得再远我们也可以给他扫码。 所以一定要知道神要我们彻底地除掉罪、胜过罪。罪就伏在你门前,你要胜过罪。你不能做该隐,要做耶稣基督所做的,做神的儿女。因为你身上有神的样子,那你还会识别善恶吗?你就是再识别善恶,也会觉得自己没资格识别善恶。看看我们里面的那些东西,不管你有一千一万个理由,只要是不像耶稣的那就算了。你讲的是你的理,我讲的是神的理。

一切所求的就从神得着是很划算的,你信不信?如果你不知道属世界、属肉体这些东西的危害,那你还真的要遭点罪。一切所求的都得着,那你还缺什么?我们的主耶稣教我们的那个祷告:我们求的是神的国、神的义。 **所以,你们祷告要这样说:我们在天上的父:愿人都尊你的名为圣。愿你的国降临;愿你的旨意行在地上,如同行在天上。我们日用的饮食,今日赐给我们。(《马太福音》 6 : 9 - 11)** 你不用为明天忧虑,今天肯定有今天吃的,明天也有明天吃的,后天肯定也不用担心。

**并且我们一切所求的,就从他得着,因为我们遵守他的命令,行他所喜悦的事。神的命令就是叫我们信他儿子耶稣基督的名,且照他所赐给我们的命令彼此相爱。遵守神命令的,就住在神里面,神也住在他里面。我们所以知道神住在我们里面,是因他所赐给我们的圣灵。(《约翰一书》 3 : 22 - 24)** 因祂所赐给我们的圣灵,那我们所求的能不得着吗?神的灵住在我们里面,我们身上里里外外都泛着神的样子。大家一定要知道,施比受更为有福,给出去一定是蒙福的,这个得自己慢慢去体会。我们遵守祂的命令,所以一切所求的就必从神得着。如果所求的得不着,那你遵守祂的命令了吗?这个逻辑其实很简单。 我住在主里面,主住在我里面,这歌也是这么唱的,但是真的是这么回事吗?唱了半天也没用,我也可以给你一点心灵鸡汤,明天会更好。如果不遵守神的命令,明天只会更糟。如果你只爱自己,只在乎自己,不遵照神的命令,这路可不好走。

当我们开始建立了一个新的价值体系,就知道照着神给我们的命令而彼此相爱是何等美好的事。我们就知道这个回报是有何等丰盛的荣耀,在世上什么好处都不缺。回到天上与神同在,将来主耶稣回到世上,我们一起来治理这地,做万王之王下面的那个王。咱们就管一、两座城,你要管哪一座城?兰州,武汉还是杭州?将来这些城叫什么名咱们也不知道,我就打个比喻,也许神给你一个新加坡也不知道,那到时候你就好好管。 我们里面的价值体系是否重新被建立起来?其实我不瞒你说,就因为眼睁睁地看见弟兄姐妹行在偏行己路的路上,我心里很忧愁。这种忧愁让我有时候对神丧失了信心,里面就开始打鼓、闹腾,就犯罪了。那是因为识别善恶了,人会照着自己的标准看,凡不出于信心的都是罪。 有一些信心可以带来行为,我举一个例子:为什么有人卖了房子就做十一奉献了?因为他相信这是对的,这是蒙福的。而有的人卖了房子就不把十一奉献拿出来,是因为他认为把钱留着比较好。那现在咱们得琢磨明白这么做不划算,问题就解决了。就看人的里面相信还是不信,那可以驱动着我们做事的方式,我们所做的决定都是基于我们里面的逻辑。有的人认为活着很需要钱,将来还得给儿子买房子。 如果得罪了神,鬼会来搞你。即使鬼不搞你,神派一个鬼来搞你,那怎么办?不是我在吓唬大家,是大家里面的价值观念得重新调整到神的标准。如果我们把钱看得那么重,我们就不可能会爱弟兄,为他们出死入生,又怎么可能得着永恒里的荣耀? 连钱这一关都过不了,那下面那些关于我们怎么过?现在就挑战我们一把,回去再读一下《约翰一书》的第三章,看看是不是那么回事。几下子就把我们里面那个虚假的东西给戳穿了,就是我们里面的价值体系到底是不是属于神。一旦看明白,一瞬间就不再困惑了。愿神祝福大家!
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