Introduction

What kind of person one becomes in life is a crucial matter. What exactly should we do in our lives? Previously, I thought living well was enough, but now it is about becoming a blessing to others, a blessing to all nations. This is our Mingding Destiny, to become a blessing to all nations, and transforming our family is the first step.

Within my own family, I have truly become a blessing. My mother, my relatives, they are blessed because of me. Isn't this the beginning of me becoming a blessing to all nations? The process of becoming a blessing to my family has been truly difficult. My sister, around the age of 20, developed a mental illness, often wielding knives and scissors. The family had to hide all these sharp objects. My sister and my mother lived in the house I bought for my mother, and my sister desperately wanted the house. My mother was often cursed at by my sister, and they were often controlled by each other. When one was unwell, the other was not well either. Behind this is an evil spirit, controlling people in pairs. I realized that in the Bible, spiritual matters are discussed with spiritual words.

Over the past few years, as my understanding of the spiritual realm has deepened, so has my understanding of evil spirits in the family. We have solved more and more problems and have come to know more and more spiritual things. The way these evil spirits operate is that one is willing to be beaten, and the other is willing to endure, making it difficult to solve their problems. I kept praying behind them, striking at this dark power. Miraculously, my mother could not return to this house; she would become breathless as soon as she returned. Then my sister moved into the house with her family. Why did she suddenly become breathless? One day, my mother suddenly became breathless, and we took her to pray. She would be fine for a while, then not again. During the prayer, we saw a monkey-shaped demon choking my mother's neck. We continued to pray for my mother. This is an endless cycle.

My sister took my mother to her house on the 7th floor, without an elevator. My mother climbed up without taking a breath. An hour ago, she couldn't breathe, but an hour later, she could climb seven floors. Isn't this the spiritual world? Separating from my sister was a key element for my mother's deliverance. However, this evil spirit is very corrupt, causing my mother to often call my sister. The more they contacted, the more controlled she became.

Why was my mother controlled? Because my mother loved this child very much. It is natural for a mother to love her child, but when love leads to being controlled, there is a problem. Therefore, family members can be your enemies, and being controlled is very easy. To become a blessing to the family today, one must strike at the dark powers behind the family. To release my mother, she had to be separated from my sister. This seems very irrational, but it is a spiritual matter that cannot be described with carnal things.

Scripture

“Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to turn a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. And a person’s enemies will be those of his own household. Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. And whoever does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.” (Matthew 10:34-39)

Prayer

Lord Jesus, please personally reveal your words to us, so that we can understand the workings of the spiritual realm and know that your words are spirit and life. Lord Jesus, open our eyes today, so that we can open our spiritual eyes and know what grace your words are. Engrave these words on our hearts today, so that we can love you and become a blessing to our family. Amen!

Many Diseases Are Genetically Inherited

Every family is controlled by a dark power. Many things are inherited: diseases are inherited, misfortunes are inherited, and suicide in a family is also inherited. Many people study genes, but this has little to do with genes. Instead, it has everything to do with the dark powers of evil spirits controlling the family.

In the past, we had no power, and family relationships did not change, nor was there much impact. Later, we began to rise up to fight and strike at the devil, our enemy. Many people came among us to believe in the Lord, and there was much disturbance. One sister, who was excellent in her work and studies, had her parents come to Singapore. They could not bear to see their daughter believe in the Lord. Her daughter did not lack anything by believing in the Lord, but her mother wanted to tear down the church (now they want to tear down the internet). This is the dark power behind it.

Another young sister, whose academic performance was not very good, was vehemently opposed by her parents because she believed in the Lord among us. We did not engage in any crooked ways. Later, we discovered that a person's enemies are their own family members. Behind them is a dark power. After a person believes in the Lord, the devil behind them is also very clear and will experience a battle.

The Bible says: I did not come to bring peace to the earth, but a sword. For I came to turn a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. And a person’s enemies will be those of his own household. Later, I discovered that being controlled by the family is closely related to the spiritual realm.

One of our sisters had an aunt who passed away one day. She had a good relationship with her aunt, who had raised her. Then this demon wanted to enter her. Her aunt had been an idol worshiper. After this sister believed in the Lord, she often found evil spirits disturbing her. When we prayed for her, her back bulged up like it was being whipped, and it was extremely painful. The evil spirit wanted to enter. Later, we led her in prayer, and the evil spirit left. We were curious as to why those evil spirits would harm their own descendants. This is how the world operates. If your ancestors have any evil spirits, they will definitely be passed down.

I had a very smart classmate whose father was an alcoholic. After his father passed away, the spirit of the alcoholic came upon him. After drinking a little, he would go crazy and move trash cans and flower beds from the street into his house.

Becoming a Blessing to the Family Is a Battle

When a person believes in the Lord, the task God gives you is to become a blessing to your family, to strike at the dark powers behind the family. We must know that this is a spiritual war. Either we win, or we are defeated. This is a battle. The dark powers behind the family have been in the family for a long time, for generations. Every family has its own set of problems that are difficult to resolve; it is caused by demons and passed down from generation to generation, all very similar.

One sister was very weak and went to check various indicators. Her cancer cells were above normal. Her father also had this problem and was weak all over. This is passed down from generation to generation. Our church is a praying and warring church, a church that transforms families. We can only be blessed by striking at the dark powers behind the family. After we are blessed, our first responsibility is to transform our families. Therefore, Jesus came: Not to bring peace to the earth, but a sword. This is a spiritual battle, so we must understand the devil's schemes behind the family.

Some of our sisters are emotionally unstable, and demons often manifest. Recently, one sister experienced severe pain from her groin to her stomach. She felt uncomfortable in the middle of the night and contacted me. She was in so much pain that she couldn't bear it. When we struck at the evil spirits from her parents, she got better. I had a feeling that there were also spirits from her husband's family, and then the pain returned. Only after continuing to pray did she get better. This means that there will be many symptoms in our bodies that are symbolic signs of spiritual warfare.

Another sister had a family history of heart disease, and she herself had congenital heart disease. We prayed for her, and the problem was dealt with. This is the control of their family. To this day, her aunt is still taking heart medication. This is a spirit of death. Today, we must have a deep understanding of diseases. Her father died of cancer, and her family has a history of heart disease. Her congenital heart disease was healed through prayer, five hours the first time, three hours the second time, one hour the third time, and when her heart disease came the fourth time, she prayed for 10 minutes and it subsided. Later, it was just a few minutes, a few seconds, and now it is completely healed. Congenital heart disease with holes or something is hard for us to understand how it can be healed. But looking at it from a spiritual perspective is completely different.

Some time ago, a pastor had heart disease and had three surgeries to get better, but the evil spirit of heart disease was not eliminated. Today, Christians and pastors alike have too little understanding of evil spirits. We thought it was a disease, but it was actually a spirit. As a result, this evil spirit continued to work, and later he developed colon cancer. All kinds of diseases are the work of evil spirits. The disease in your body is a weapon to strike at the dark powers of your family. If you have a disease, thank God for letting us know how the evil spirits behind it operate.

We Must See Clearly the Dark Powers Behind the Family

If we want to become a blessing to the family, this battle must start with us. We must see clearly the dark powers behind the family, through the diseases on your father's side and your mother's side. You will find that there are many things that manifest in you. But you don't need to be afraid; our God is a God who leads us to victory.

If we want to become a blessing to the family, we must see the manifestation of God's power in ourselves. I am puzzled that the sister among us was healed of heart disease, but her family members do not want it; they only believe in doctors. We must not be discouraged in the face of such situations. Our enemies are family members. You see them as people, but the words they say are very surprising. They carry evil spirits, and many of the words they utter are spoken by evil spirits.

Some of our brothers and sisters have children with learning disabilities; that is an evil spirit. Start striking at the evil spirits of the family. We must rise up and greatly strike at the evil spirits behind the family. Do not think that your daughter is discerning good and evil. If you do not discern good and evil, you are also a person who discerns good and evil, because the root of your family's discernment of good and evil is very deep. Everyone needs to have a clear understanding and vision of these things.

Some time ago, a sister's child had scoliosis of 38 degrees and was healed, but the problem of discerning good and evil in her body was not healed. The disease was healed, but the evil spirits in her body were still corrupting her. Some time ago, I led her in prayer, and the evil spirit manifested very strongly, making her whole body tremble, her hands and feet were cold, and it was very scary. We must have a deep understanding of the demons in the family. He will often come to disturb you and attack you.

We are not so familiar with spiritual things and often look at them with carnal eyes. You will definitely be deceived, and you will be deceived miserably. One of our sisters prayed for many days, but something was not right. She wanted to cry and was uncomfortable, and being close to God for many days did not work. As soon as I saw it, I knew it was a ghost. I said, Put your hand on your chest. The Spirit of God told me that this was a family evil spirit that made her very uncomfortable.

The condition of our diseases and the condition of our mental illnesses will represent some things that are family-related and have deep roots. It is also more difficult to deal with and requires long-term strikes against the devil, our enemy.

I said to this sister, Put your hand on your chest, and she was completely healed in five minutes. This proves that driving out demons is to strike at the devil, our enemy. Don't be close to God there. Jesus did not drive out the demons when he was close to God. Jesus commanded these demons to retreat, and they retreated.

We will find that every family is controlled by a spiritual dark power, and this control will be reflected in everyone in the family and in you. We must see clearly the dark spiritual powers in the family and understand the schemes of these demons. Then rise up to fight. Do not look at problems with carnal eyes, and with discerning good and evil, you can always find this or that explanation.

A Man’s Enemies are the Members of His Own Household

The most common form of control between people is the control of interpersonal relationships. It is strange how my mother and sister were willing to hit and be hit. Later, I discovered that many families have this situation.

Some time ago, I visited a sister whose family had many bizarre things happening. Her grandmother favored one uncle, but the uncle did not like the grandmother—a mother's love for her son. Another uncle liked the grandmother very much—a son's love for his mother. As a result, her grandmother was taken in by the uncle and then locked up. Everyone who went to see her grandmother was refused. Many years later, her uncle said that her grandmother had died. Everyone found it incomprehensible.

What happened? Behind it are demons, and we must understand them well. You will find that the relationships between people are very strange—this is a spiritual matter. This kind of spiritual matter can really make people miserable.

Our sister's aunt liked a boy, but this boy later married someone else. As a result, the aunt became mentally ill and jumped into a well. Even more strangely, this sister's father, who was very good and loved the brothers and sisters very much, rescued his sister from the well. After the sister went mad, he took care of her, and strange things continued to happen to her father. From the story of her father and aunt, we can see how hateful the evil spirits are.

There is a kind of evil spirit in the family, and the operating mode of the evil spirit is a state of unrequited love. Unrequited love is very painful. I once ministered to a mentally ill person whose problem was unrequited love. If the relationship between people is an unhealthy love, this kind of love will lead to control. Therefore, those who love their parents more than they love the Lord Jesus are not worthy to be disciples of the Lord Jesus. You cannot turn your family around, nor can you become a blessing to your family. If you love your children more than you love the Lord Jesus, you are not worthy to be disciples of the Lord, nor can you become a family blessing.

Our emotions are closely related to the people we love. If you love your mother, you will be unwell when your mother is unwell. If you love your children, you will be unwell when your children are unwell. Thank God that I can be a blessing to my family because my emotions are not disturbed by anything. If my family members are unwell, then they are unwell—it doesn't matter, I know what to do.

Think about it, if your mother asks you to call your younger brother and say, I am dying soon, what would be your reaction? If you love your mother very much, you will hold your mother and cry. Your whole emotional state will collapse. However, if we love God in our hearts, beyond everything we love, our emotions will not be easily disturbed or collapse in any situation.

One day my mother really said this to me, and I grabbed her collar and said, Sit up, and after I cast the demons out of her, she was running around on the ground ten minutes later. My mother said, How many more days can I live?

We must know that many times, loving our family members can become our control. A man’s enemies are the members of his own household. But if we love the Lord Jesus more than anything else, we will take on our Mingding Destiny and become their blessing.

Today we must know that many corrupt officials are great. For example, they don't want to be corrupt officials, but their sister-in-law owes money, and their brother-in-law owes money, and they have to earn money. Their family members put all these things on their shoulders, and they have only one way: to be a corrupt official. Some officials send their family members abroad to become naked officials while they themselves are corrupt officials. Who harmed them? Their own family members harmed them.

Focus on Loving God, and There Will Be Less and Less Control

Interpersonal relationships are really closely related to demons. A person's own corruption is closely related to their family. The more you love your family, the deeper your control. But the more you love the Lord Jesus, the less control there is. Our Lord Jesus is really great. He wants us to be released and free. You will find that the demons in your family will make you poor. If there is a demon in your family that makes you poor, it will be difficult for you to turn it around. The demon of poverty is passed down from generation to generation. Today, rise up to cast out demons, become a blessing to your family, and bring your family into the Kingdom of God.

Therefore, we must carefully study the schemes of the dark forces behind the family and their mode of operation. My mother was very superstitious and made my eldest sister deal with weasels and fox spirits when she was a teenager. These demons reigned in my eldest sister for many years. As a result, my eldest sister’s emotions were very unstable, and she would lose control and become very irritable. My eldest sister loved this family very much, but it was a love within control. The path that the devil leads people to take is ostensibly to love their family members, but in reality, it corrupts their family members.

My eldest sister’s relationship with her daughter and her husband was a mess. The devil did this, but my eldest sister did not know it and always thought she did it herself. We must become smart, and the most crucial step is to study the operating mode of the demons behind our own family who control the family.

Know that fighting the devil and the enemy within the family can often be very hurtful. The words that the demon says through your family members make you uncomfortable. Why am I not uncomfortable? Because as soon as he opens his mouth, I know it is a demon. I love the Lord Jesus above all else, and these things cannot disturb me.

When I look with spiritual eyes, I have a dream to become a blessing to my family. Even if it is difficult to bless them, I must become their blessing. When you want to become a blessing to your family, the devil will harm you through your family members, and they will harm you with words.

The most typical case is Joseph. Joseph wanted to become the salvation of his family, but his brothers sold him into slavery in Egypt. Some people say that this was the result of Joseph having a big mouth. But today I want to tell everyone that as long as you want to become the salvation of your family, the demons in your family will definitely come out to harm you and mess with you, and you will have to walk a path of being hurt.

There are many fallacies in the Christian faith. Some people use life to preach the gospel. If you wait until a person's life is changed before preaching the gospel, by that time the person has already entered the coffin, so how can you preach the gospel? Although we are still very rotten, God is still working in our lives to manifest God's glory—this is the powerful gospel.

Transform Family Members in Conflict

Transform your family members in conflict. A man’s enemies are the members of his own household. If you don’t know this principle, the road will be difficult to walk. A brother had difficulty doing business, so he took a friend’s advice and believed in Jesus. He heard many stories among us, and his business inexplicably improved. Then he wanted to give tithes, but his wife fainted. This scared the brother so much. Should he still give the offering? Every time he mentioned the offering, his wife fainted. This brother was also strong. He contacted the pastor to pray, and his wife woke up. He began to give boldly.

This is a conflict. To be a strong Christian, your family will be your first obstacle. In a Christian’s life, this hurdle must be overcome: overcoming family obstacles. If you cannot face conflict, you cannot transform. Stop being afraid of conflict. Our God can manage these things.

We have a sister whose elderly father is over eighty years old and takes knives and scissors all day long. I gave this sister a suggestion: pin your old father down. Later, her father learned to behave and would repent. Stop thinking about being a gentle and refined Christian.

«Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to turn a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law— a man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.’ Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. Whoever does not take up their cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it.» (Matthew 10:34-39)

“A man’s enemies will be the members of his own household,” these are the words of Jesus. If for the sake of Jesus, we put our own lives and the lives of our family members on the line, the result will be that you will become someone without fear and without bottom lines—not for your own selfish desires, but to become a blessing to your own family.

If you are a soft Christian, you will not be able to walk the road at all. The brothers and sisters among us must practice being strong and also have the wisdom to speak well. Being soft doesn't work, and being strong but not knowing how to speak doesn't work either. Look at problems with spiritual eyes and don’t be hurt. In this way, the devil will be defeated by us.

I encourage you to raise your status in the family so that you can bless the family. Joseph became the Prime Minister in Egypt and then became a blessing to his family, instead of being a beggar. God will make you the head and not the tail, above and not beneath. Whether rich or poor, your status in the family must be elevated.

My sister and I take care of my mother, but many people do not agree with it. But regardless of whether others agree or disagree, we break down my mother's flesh. Create conflict, manage conflict, and transform in conflict in order to become a blessing to the family. I read this sentence from The Sacred Romance. This book is very good, and I long for the things recorded in this book to come upon us. I didn’t expect that three years later, it really came upon us.

We are people with a Mingding Destiny. If we become disciples of Jesus Christ, we are not gatekeepers, but we are to become a blessing to this generation and a blessing to our families, even if we pay the price. If you love God, you will do according to God’s words to become the salvation of your family—this is true filial piety.

Summary

This is a generation that blesses our families, this is the ability we receive from God, and this is the day to avenge ourselves on the devil and the enemy. We can demand that the devil repay double for the corruption the devil has done in our family. Today we are reading the Bible, and we are to become the salvation of our families. Do you long to become the salvation of your family? Come and dream a dream. If you love your family, you must become their blessing.

May God bless everyone!