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【Sermon】We Just Want to Be the Boss! –

2016-04-12 5,059 Sermon

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Last week, I shared a topic called A Brand New Service. This is an innovative generation. God does not want us to stay where we are. God's intention is to release us, enabling us with more power to serve more people. During this period, I have felt immense pressure. I often ponder how I can improve the efficiency of service given so many needs. Last time, in my sharing, I talked about updates to our training system, Bible study system, small groups (I will establish ministry and pastoral small groups), and teaching. Many brothers and sisters have responded that the rapid changes in the church are both exciting and stressful. Many say they lack the capacity to keep up with the church's development and wonder if they can pause and rest. My response is no! We must not rest, but catch up! Because I know this is not a matter of ability, but what the Lord Jesus wants from us is attitude! What kind of attitude? It is a sense of dissatisfaction. Hebrews 10:38 says, If he shrinks back, my soul has no pleasure in him. God is not a God who wants us to shrink back, but a God who wants us to be above and not beneath, the head and not the tail. Today, we must be the boss, and be the boss. Many will criticize me for saying this, calling it competition. But more than competition, the Lord Jesus dislikes those who are content with the status quo. God desires us to be above, hoping we can be in the first position in every area. Brothers and sisters, let us not be small, but be the boss of God's kingdom.

Scripture

Luke 19:12-27
Luk 19:12 Therefore he said, “A nobleman went into a far country to receive for himself a kingdom and then return.
Luk 19:13 Calling ten of his servants, he gave them ten minas, and said to them, ‘Engage in business until I come.’
Luk 19:14 But his citizens hated him and sent a delegation after him, saying, ‘We do not want this man to reign over us.’
Luk 19:15 When he returned, having received the kingdom, he ordered these servants to whom he had given the money to be called to him, that he might know what they had gained by doing business.
Luk 19:16 The first came before him, saying, ‘Lord, your mina has made ten minas more.’
Luk 19:17 And he said to him, ‘Well done, good servant! Because you have been faithful in a very little, you shall have authority over ten cities.’
Luk 19:18 And the second came, saying, ‘Lord, your mina has made five minas.’
Luk 19:19 And he said to him, ‘And you are to be over five cities.’
Luk 19:20 Then another came, saying, ‘Lord, here is your mina, which I kept laid away in a handkerchief;
Luk 19:21 for I was afraid of you, because you are a severe man. You take what you did not deposit, and reap what you did not sow.’
Luk 19:22 He said to him, ‘I will condemn you with your own words, you wicked servant! You knew that I was a severe man, taking what I did not deposit and reaping what I did not sow?
Luk 19:23 Why then did you not put my money in the bank, and at my coming I might have collected it with interest?’
Luk 19:24 And he said to those standing by, ‘Take the mina from him and give it to the one who has the ten minas.’
Luk 19:25 And they said to him, ‘Lord, he has ten minas!’
Luk 19:26 ‘I tell you that to everyone who has, more will be given, but from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away.
Luk 19:27 But as for these enemies of mine, who did not want me to reign over them, bring them here and slaughter them before me.’”

Prayer

Lord Jesus, we ask that you add to us a mind that constantly breaks through, so that we can earn more resources for your kingdom. We are not content to remain at the stage of a servant, but we thirst to grow continuously, to possess the identity of your son, Lord Jesus. May you use us more, and let us fight for your kingdom, becoming a group that is above and not beneath, the head and not the tail!

Be the Boss in Decision-Making – Understand God's Will and Make Decisions That Align with God's Heart

I remember once when I was young, there was no pocket money. To play arcade games, I stole 5 yuan from my grandmother. But after playing, I felt particularly guilty. I resolved never to steal money again! Not only did I make such a resolution, but I actually did it! A few months later, my mother came to me, because my grandmother told my mother that she had lost 10 yuan, and my mother came to question me if I had taken it. After some coaxing and threats, I finally admitted that I had indeed stolen money, but that was months ago, and I had only stolen 5 yuan. This time, the 10 yuan really had nothing to do with me! The final result was a beating. I was convicted of stealing a total of 15 yuan. As for who stole the 10 yuan, it remains a mystery to this day!

Why do I tell this story? Because every time I think of such things, I still feel wronged. That 10 yuan really had nothing to do with me! But I got beaten for 15 yuan. That's too unfair! The feeling of being wronged is so painful! But I didn't know that as a mother, my mother's heart was even more painful! My mother's intention was not about 5 yuan or 10 yuan. My mother's intention was that I could not let such a child develop the bad habit of stealing.

This past week, we studied 2 Samuel chapter 7. Many people's understanding of God only stays in one place. Let's look at verse 14 of 2 Samuel chapter 7: I will be his father, and he shall be my son. When he commits iniquity, I will discipline him with the rod of men, with the stripes of the sons of men. Many people read the Bible only to this point. That is why many Christians in this generation live in confusion and suffering. Yesterday, Sister Qianran shared with me that she had lived in such a state for 2 years, full of the pain of punishment. The root cause is that many people have not read verse 15: but my steadfast love will not depart from him. Everyone must know that God is a God who loves us, not a God who wants us to die in sin!

Today, in the passage we are looking at, chapter 21, the servant describes his master as taking what he did not deposit, and reaping what he did not sow. This servant thinks his master is evil, that even if he has nothing, his master will take everything away from him. Is our God really such a God? No! We ourselves choose to believe that our God is such a God, so we will always live in punishment. It's like if I keep living in being wronged, then I will keep suffering, and such suffering will miss the opportunity to understand my mother's heart, and live in being unloved. Recently, many brothers and sisters have asked me, what should I do if I am in a curse? What should I do if I have sinned? Isn't God a God who lets us overcome in sin?

Today, brothers and sisters, you must know that our God is a God who loves us! Our God's intention is to give us 10 cities to manage, 5 cities to manage, and definitely not to let us live in difficulties. Many times when we feel pain in difficulties, it is not God who makes us suffer, but we suffer because we do not understand God's will.

Now that we understand God's will, we must begin to make decisions that align with God's heart. We are the boss of how we make decisions. God has given us the absolute right to choose. Just like what is written in this passage, we don't just hide the mina we receive, but we take action and use it. God hopes that we can use this mina better, to earn more. And such decision-making power is in our hands. We are the boss of our decisions.

Mindset of a Leader – Removing Fear

Why did some servants use their one talent to earn more, while one servant wrapped it in cloth and hid it? Because of fear! The servant thought God was a harsh master! Fear paralyzes one's fighting spirit, and this servant was indeed paralyzed. He was so afraid that he had no strength to act, completely controlled by fear!

And I have observed that many Christians in this generation live in fear. Yesterday, as I led the study of Genesis chapter 42, which tells the story of Joseph intentionally wronging his brothers, their reaction was extremely interesting. In Genesis 42:28, they were anxious and trembling, saying to one another, What is this that God has done to us? We can see that the reaction of Joseph's brothers to being wronged was very different from Joseph's own.

Recently, I read a book that describes these managers as 3P (Personal, Pervasive, Permanent). From a personal perspective, they feel inadequate, lacking the persuasive power to communicate with clients, and lacking credibility, leading to constant complaints from customers. From a pervasive perspective, they don't see things as isolated cases but amplify them, believing that everything they do will be like this. Every customer thinks I am bad, our investment projects are bad, my life is bad, my friends don't like me anymore, and everything becomes negative, with nothing going smoothly. Later, they see things as permanent, thinking that the market can never change, the customers can never change, and all the bad things will continue like this, with no hope for their lives and no reason to hold onto hope. This 3P thinking completely strips people of their enthusiasm and confidence to continue working, and many even lose interest in living. This was the reaction of many managers during the economic crisis.

Fear makes people feel inadequate, then makes them feel inadequate in many things, and then makes them believe they will always be inadequate. I think this is the mindset of the servant who hid the talent! But in reality, to fear or not to fear is a choice within us. We are the masters of how we choose, not fear. We have enough autonomy to make choices.

Mindset of a Leader – Seeking Opportunities in Adversity

Recently, I read a book called Boundaries for Leaders, which tells the story of an event during the massive global economic crisis of 2008 to 2009. Wall Street brokers were all dispirited, shrouded in gloom. Because no matter how hard these brokers worked, the market had fallen by 50% from the market's perspective, and customers had lost half of their investments from the customers' perspective. These managers faced complaints from customers every day. Many managers simply didn't want to go to work, and if they did, they wouldn't answer customer calls because they knew they would only hear complaints. Eventually, many managers lost their jobs during this crisis.

However, there was a small group of managers who had a different perspective. They saw the problem this way: if my customers are complaining to me, then my peers must also be receiving many customer complaints. When my customers complain to me, I feel depressed and lack enthusiasm for work, and my peers must feel the same way. If I become proactive now, calling more potential customers with enthusiasm, wouldn't they easily become my customers? Then they took action, and because they worked diligently and with enthusiasm, many customers of their peers switched to them, and they gained a large customer base. Then they prepared low-risk, low-profit businesses for these customers, which were easily accepted. Later, these managers made a lot of money in what seemed like a crisis.

Mindset of a Leader – Abundance Mentality

Let's revisit verse 23 of this passage: Why didn't you deposit my money in the bank, so that when I came back, I could have collected it with interest? You know, God doesn't ask much from us. Zechariah 4:6 says, Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord Almighty. Many people say they have limited abilities, so they can't serve God. But that's not the case. In the parable of the servant and the master, it is followed by Jesus riding a donkey into Jerusalem. God deliberately chose a donkey, and God is telling us that even if you only have the ability of a donkey, as long as you are willing to be used by the Lord, God will exalt you to the highest place.

[Metropolitan Life Insurance Company] and scholar Martin Seligman conducted a research report in the United States, examining the work performance of over 1,000 insurance agents, comparing two groups of agents: those who passed the company's aptitude test and those who failed. As a result, the performance of the failed group outperformed the passed group. This is amazing!

How did the failed group win? The [failed] group were all [optimists]. The other group of [smart people] were not optimists. At that time, scholars came to the conclusion: compare someone who [doesn't do well] but thinks they can do well with someone who [does well] but thinks they can't do well, and the difference is obvious: the person who believes in themselves wins every time. Studies show that people who [lack ability] but know how to think positively perform 50% better than people with good abilities!

Mindset of a Leader - Building the Largest, Best, and Most Influential Church

We must strive to become the servant who can earn 10 talents. It is the same with building a church. We must be leaders and build the best church. Recently, I, the pastor, and Sister Anning are writing a book called Blessed Church. We will write our stories, our visions, and our pastors. God wants us to be leaders.

Conclusion: We are the Leaders – Restoring the Image of God's Son

We are the leaders, we must be the firstborn.

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上周我分享的题目叫做崭新的侍奉。这是一个创新的世代,神不希望我们停留在原地,神的本意是释放我们,让我们得着更多的能力去服侍更多的人。在这段时间里我感到了巨大的压力,我常常在思考有这么的多的需要,我应该如何才能够提升服侍的效率呢?上次我在分享的过程中,我讲到了我们在培训系统上的更新,在查经系统上的更新,在小组上的更新(我会建立事工牧养的小组),在教导上的更新。有很多弟兄姐妹们反映,教会如此的速度更新换代,大家心里既兴奋也充满的压力。很多人说我的能力不足没有办法跟上教会的发展,我能不能先停留在原地休息一下,我的反应就是不可以。一定不能休息,必须要迎头赶上!因为我知道这不是一个能力的问题,主耶稣像我们要的是态度!一个什么样的态度呢?就是内心的一种不满足感,《希伯来书》10:38,他若退后,我心里就不喜欢他。神不是让我们退后的神,神是要让我们居上不居下,做首不做尾的神。今天我们要做老大,而且就是要做老大,很多人会批评我这么说,说这是一种争竞。其实比起争竞,主耶稣更讨厌那些满足现状的人,神是渴慕我们能够居上的,神希望我们能够在任何领域都能居首位。弟兄姐妹们,我们不要做小的,要做就做神国的老大。

主耶稣求你加添给我们不断突破的心智,让我们能够为你的国度赚取更多的资材。我们不甘愿停留在一个奴仆的阶段,我们渴慕不断成长,能够拥有你主耶稣儿子的身份。愿你更多的来使用我们,让我们能够为你的国度征战,成为居上不居下,做首不做尾的一群!

记得一次小的时候,那个时候都没有什么零花钱,为了出去玩游戏机。我就偷了我外婆5块钱,可是玩完以后就觉得心里特别的愧疚。我下定决心从此再也不偷钱了!我不但下了这样的决心,我还真的就是做到了!过了几个月后妈妈来找我,原来我外婆告诉我妈妈说她丢了10块钱,我妈就来质问我是不是我拿的。一阵软硬兼施过后,我终于承认我确实偷过钱,但是那是几个月前,而且我只偷过5快,这次的10快着实跟我没关系啊!那最后的结果就是被一顿暴走,我被定罪为一共偷了15块钱。至于那10块钱到底是谁偷的,其实直到今天还是个迷! 为什么我要讲这个故事,是因为每每想到这样的事情还是觉得很冤枉,那10块却是跟我没关系嘛!可我却挨了15块钱的揍,这也太冤枉了!被冤枉的感觉好痛苦啊!但是我却不知道其实作为一个孩子的母亲,妈妈的心里更痛苦!妈妈的心意不在乎5块钱,还是10块钱,妈妈的心意是我不能让这样的一个孩子养成偷盗的恶习。

刚刚过去的这个礼拜我们查了《撒母尔记下》第7章,很多人对神的认识只是停留在一个地方,我们一起看《撒母尔记下》第7章的第14节,我要作他的父;他要作我的子。他若犯了罪,我必用人的杖责打他,用人的鞭责罚他。很多人读圣经就读到这里,这就是为什么这个世代的很多基督徒都活在困惑和苦难中。昨天谦然姐妹就跟我分享,她在这样的光景中生活了2年,充满了刑法的痛苦。根源就是很多人没有读到15节的话,但我的慈爱仍不离开他。大家要知道神是爱我们的神,不是让我们在罪中死掉的神! 今天我们看的这段经文的第21章,这个仆人形容他的主人是没有放下的,还要去拿;没有种下的,还要去收。这个仆人认为他的主人很恶,就算他什么都没有,主人也要把他的东西都抢夺走。我们的神真的是这样的一位神么?不是啊!是我们自己选择认为我们的神是这样的一位神,所以就会一直活在责罚当中。就像如果我一直活在被冤枉的里面,那我就会一直痛苦下去,而这样的痛苦就会错过了解母亲心意的机会,就活在不被爱的里面了。最近这段时间很多弟兄姐妹问我,我在诅咒中怎么办,我犯罪了怎么办,难道神不是让我们在罪中得胜的神吗? 今天弟兄姐妹们要知道我们的神是爱我们的神!我们神的心意是要给我们10座城给我们管,5座城给我们管,而绝对不是让我们活在困境当中,很多时候我们在困境中觉得痛苦,不是神让我们痛苦,是我们因为不了解神的心意所以痛苦。 那既然我们了解了神的心意,我们就要开始说做合神心意的决定。我们是我们如何做决定的老大。神给了我们绝对的选择的权利。就像这段经文所写的,我们拿了这一锭银子不是就藏起来,而是行动起来去用这一锭银子。神希望我们能够更好的用这一锭银子,能够赚更多。而这样的决定权就在我们的手中。我们是我们决定的老大。

为什么有的仆人会利用那一锭银子赚了更多的钱,而那一个仆人却把钱用布包起来,藏了起来呢?是因为惧怕!仆人认为神是一个严厉的神!惧怕会使人的战斗力瘫痪,而这个仆人就是战斗力瘫痪了,已经怕到没有力量行动,完全被惧怕掌控了! 而且我发现这个世代活在惧怕当中的基督徒很多。昨天我在带领查《创世纪》第42章,这里讲到约瑟故意的冤枉了一把他的哥哥们,结果他的哥哥们的反应及其的有趣,《创世纪》42章第28节,他们就提心吊胆,战战兢兢地彼此说:“这是神向我们作什么呢?。”我们会看到约瑟哥哥们受冤枉的反应和约瑟截然不同。 最近我在读一本书中形容这些经理人是3P(Personal,Pervasive,Permanent),就是个人,普遍和永久。从个人的角度,他们认为自己没出息,没有跟客人沟通的说服力,没有可信度,所以顾客天天抱怨他们。从普遍的角度,他们不会把事情看做一个个案,还会把事情放大,认为自己做每一件事情都会是这样的。每一个顾客都认为我不好,我们的投资项目也不好,我的生活也不好了,我的朋友也不喜欢我了,万事万物都变得很负面,没有一件事儿是顺利的。再后来就会把事情认为成永久的,这样的市场怎么可能改变,这样的顾客怎么可能改变,所有的不好的事情都会这样延续下去的,我的生活从此不会再有希望了,我也不再有理由怀抱希望了。这样的3P思维,让人彻底的失去了继续工作的热情和信心,甚至很多人对活着都失去了兴趣。这是在经济危机的时候很多经理人的反应。 惧怕会使人觉得自己不行,接着就会让自己觉得很多事情自己都不行,在然后会认为自己永远都不行。我想这就是那个把钱藏起来的仆人的心态!但其实惧怕还是不惧怕就是我们里面的一个选择,我们才是我们如何选择的老大,而不是惧怕。我们有足够的自主权来做出选择。

最近我在读一本书叫做《为领导立界限》,这其中讲了这样的一个事件。在2008年到2009年期间,是一场巨大的经济危机并且波及全球。华尔街的经纪人们都是个个意气消沉,如乌云罩顶。因为这些经纪人们不管怎么卖力,从市场的角度市场跌了50%,从顾客的角度,顾客一半的投资都赔光了。天天这些经理人面对的就是那些顾客的抱怨。那很多的经理人就根本不想去上班,如果上班了,顾客打电话也是不接,因为知道接了也是听一些抱怨的话。后来在这场危机中很多经理人失业。 但是有那么一小群经理人,他们的眼光和这群经理人不一样。他们是这么看问题的,他们认为如果我的顾客都来投诉我,那么我的那些同行们肯定也接受很多顾客的投诉。我的顾客投诉我的时候我很郁闷,而且没有工作的热情,那我的同行们肯定也是这样。如果我现在积极起来,带着热情给更多不属于我的顾客打电话,那么他们是不是很容易就成为我的顾客呢!然后他们就行动起来,后来因为他们工作认真带有热情,很多这些他们同行的顾客都转投到他们的手下,他们就有了很多的顾客群,然后他们为这些顾客预备了很多风险低、盈利也低的业务,这些顾客很容易就接受了。后来这些经理人在这样看似是危机的里面,赚了很多钱。

我们回头来看这段经文的第23节,为什么不把我的银子交给银行,等我来的时候,连本带利都可以要回来呢?你知道神跟我们要的其实并不多,《撒加利亚书》4:6,万军之耶和华说,不是倚靠势力,不是倚靠才能,乃是倚靠我的灵,方能成事。很多人说我能力有限,所以我没有办法服侍神。其实不是这样的,在这个仆人和主人的比喻之后,就讲了主耶稣骑着驴子进耶路撒冷。神故意选了一个驴子,神在告诉我们就算是你只有一头驴子的能力,只要你愿意为主所用,神就会把你升为至高。 美国[大都会人寿公司]和学者马丁.塞利格曼做过这样的一个研究报告,他们检视超过1000名保险经纪人的工作表现,比较两组经纪人:通过公司的能力测检的和测验考不及格。结果,不及格这一组的绩效赢过及格这一组。这太奇妙了! 那不及格的这一组怎么会赢呢?【不及格】的这一组都是【乐天派】。另一组【聪明人】不是乐天派。当时学者就得出一个结论:找个[做不好]但他认为自己可以做好的人,和[做的好]却认为自己做不好的人一比,高下立判:肯定自己的人,每一次都赢。研究显示[能力不好]但是懂得正面思考的人,表现出来的绩效,比能力很好的人多百分之五十!

我们要努力渴慕成为那个能赚10锭银子的仆人。我们建立教会也是一样,我们就是要做老大,建立最棒的教会。最近我、牧师和安宁姐妹在写一本书叫做蒙福的教会,我们会写我们的故事,我们的异象和牧者们。神愿意我们做老大。
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