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I. Introduction

Good morning! Today, I will begin a new series with everyone, the series on God's presence. If a person does not know God's presence, it is a tragedy for their entire life. The most wonderful gift a person can receive in life is God's presence. Isn't it a tragedy if a person doesn't have God's presence? I will be sharing a series of messages on God's presence. You must understand that one needs to manage their life well. Some people say, Teacher, didn't you say that people should see through things? You can only manage well if you see through things, you silly child. One needs to manage their life well: opening a shop requires good management; working a job requires good management; getting married requires good management. Don't get married haphazardly without managing well, and then end up with an enemy. Managing a project requires good management. What is it that doesn't require good management? Everything requires good management. Some people, through their management, bring about God's presence; others, through their management, bring about the presence of demons. Now everyone must understand that some people are shrewd, while others are just silly!

During my prayer time today, I realized that some people are just foolish throughout their lives. When I point it out, they get angry with me and then mess things up, ending up with a body full of ailments. If you end up with a body full of ailments, don't you know that you've messed up? You must realize that you've messed up. So how do you manage things? I have to teach you this, but how? It exhausts me. While teaching, someone got cheated out of $100,000. I really wanted to smack them to wake them up. Slap! A big slap in the face. Are you awake now? Still not awake, still unable to discern good from evil. So some people, through their management, bring about God; others, through their management, bring about demons. Some people ask, How do I know if I've brought about demons? You still don't know? How many illnesses do you need to realize it? There are all kinds of people in the world, and there is nothing new under the sun. No one does what they think is wrong, and the results will prove whether you have brought about God's presence or the presence of demons.

Last time, I spoke about Samuel. God was with him, and God did not let any of Samuel's words fall to the ground. How wonderful it is to become like Samuel in one's lifetime. Samuel was a smart child. He grew into an old man, a smart old man. Even with a face full of wrinkles, he was smart, with bright, piercing eyes. He always had God's presence. Today, you must know who I will be speaking about: David. David acted wisely in all his ways, and the Lord was with him. This is the title of today's sermon. Is it good to be smart? Of course, it is. If you raise a silly son, wouldn't you be worried to death? Reaching the age of thirty or forty and still relying on their parents, a sixty-year-old son asking his ninety-year-old mother, Why aren't you still supporting me? I really want to smack him. Don't you think such a person deserves a beating? They really do.

So David's actions were simply amazing. Samuel's life, David's life, those lives were simply amazing, remarkable! People don't understand the things David did, but you don't really need to understand them. Just learn from them, and you will understand after you have learned. People didn't understand and thought David was wrong. You should know that when I used to lead Bible studies, people would often circle and criticize David, saying that David was bad in this way and that way. You should know that many sisters don't understand why? Because David had too many wives. Brothers liked it, but I don't like it. Why? Because I can't even manage one, what would I do with so many?

David was too powerful in this matter. People thought Abraham was wrong, Isaac was wrong, Jacob was wrong. Many of the sermons you have heard in the past talked about them, criticizing them. You should know that if you criticize those whom God delights in, won't you be cursed? Those who curse Abraham will be cursed, those who curse Isaac will be cursed, those who curse Jacob will be cursed. It's a matter of life and death! So people are foolish. How can you think David was wrong? He married so many wives, and God didn't care. Why do you care? Anyway, I don't care. I can't travel back three thousand years to ask David, Why did you take so many wives? Even God didn't mind.

One characteristic of my Bible studies is that if I don't understand something, I say, Ah, I'm not good enough, I don't understand yet. Even if others do things correctly, I still don't understand, just like a master chess player. After the game, people leave, having lost. How did they lose? They still don't know how they lost. They just don't understand. Others have done things correctly, but I haven't done them correctly yet. Remember, this is what I call being shrewd. Don't think that you are very capable by criticizing others, only to end up with a body full of ailments.

One day, while I was leading a Bible study, a kidney cancer patient came in. You should know that the kidneys govern the bones, and he was covered in plasters because his bones hurt. I said, Why is there such a strong smell of plasters? He said, I put them on. I had to send him home halfway through the Bible study. Why? Because he said, Teacher, what you are saying here is wrong. He brought up traditional arguments, saying that Abraham was no good, Isaac was no good, Jacob was no good, and only he was good. I said, If you are so good, go and build a church. I sent him away. What else could I do? It's foolish!

I tell you, once I feel that I haven't done things correctly, I will seek until I understand. You should know that sometimes when I lead Bible studies, like recently when studying the Book of 1 John, it is really difficult to read. To understand the Book of 1 John, you really need the revelation of the Holy Spirit. Sometimes, as I seek, I will suddenly say, Aha! You think I'm drinking a forget-me-not potion? No, it's because I understand. The more I understand, the more shrewd I become. Learn from Samuel, David, Moses, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, and Joseph, and you won't be far off! If you study these people, who are all exceptionally smart, how can you be far behind? How well have you learned? You haven't learned well enough, you're still far off, right? You also need to read until one day you say, Aha! I understand.

There is also a word I often say when ministering: Sigh! Do you know the meaning behind the word sigh? Do you understand what sigh means? The meaning is very deep. Sigh, you silly fool! The sentence that follows cannot be said, but it's very helpless. Three eights are twenty-three, overly confident, a mind full of nonsense, good for nothing. Wearing jeans, with a great figure, and then putting on high heels, the bell-bottoms of the jeans covering the high heels, walking with a clattering sound, a mind full of nonsense, what's the use? This is what I say. If there really is such a person, don't take it personally. I'm not talking about you, I'm talking about people on the street.

When I minister to people, I rarely minister to someone like David. Seriously, it's quite worrying. Why haven't I ministered to a shrewd person like David? Why haven't I ministered to someone like Joseph? I ask you, did David and Joseph need deliverance? They did not need deliverance. One day, a David came and said, Pastor, pray for me. But this David and that David are not the same David. This David has a body full of ailments. If a person is really like David, they wouldn't need ministering to. If that were the case, it wouldn't be me ministering to him, but him ministering to me. It wouldn't be me saying to him, Sigh! It would be him saying to me, Sigh! When I hear him say, Sigh! I know that I am a silly fool, and I need to be more confident.

I need to know that I am far behind. I don't need to rely on feeling good about myself to support my courage to live. Many people rely on their inner sense of well-being to support their courage to live. I rely on continuous learning to be shrewd, to manage well, and God is with me, supporting my courage to die. Some people say, During the New Year, what kind of talk is that? Don't think that I am wrong. I want to live for my God and die for my God. This is called Mingding Destiny! What is Mingding Destiny? It means to be born for God, to live for God, and to die for God!

Every time I minister to earthlings and feel helpless in my heart, I want to leave the world. I am really speaking from the heart. Leaving the world and being with the Lord is far better, because it means leaving behind the toil of this world. Being a heavenly person is far better, being on earth as it is in heaven. Of course, earthlings are much better than frogs in a well, but the well of earthlings is just a bit bigger. But this is still insulting. What does earthling mean? It means a frog in a slightly larger well.

A few days ago, I ministered to a sister. You should know that this sister, by thinking too much, brought demons upon herself, and then she started to feel dizzy, her stomach started to bloat, and she started to feel uncomfortable. Eventually, she couldn't speak. When I drove the demons out, she woke up from a nap and didn't even know what had happened. The things she had said earlier were all said by the demons. She didn't know what had happened. Today, I ask you, can you guess what she was thinking at the time? She was just thinking about earthly things. Some people ask, Teacher, what was she thinking about? Don't ask, you can tell that she was pretty much like someone in an earthly well. You are not far from her, so slowly ponder what she was thinking.

If a Christian has hope in this world, they are more pitiable than anyone else. Worrying about this, worrying about that, worrying about what? Worrying about inviting demons. People need to learn to manage well, to live well, to bring God, to become as shrewd as David. That would be simply amazing! Today, I will continue to speak about David. There are many Davids among us. Later, I discovered that many people, like me, love David. Ponder slowly and learn.

Over the past few years, I have spent a lot of effort but haven't taught people a secret. Isn't that a tragedy? I am really disappointed. I was thinking, is what I am teaching so difficult? Am I teaching things that are vague and incomprehensible? Am I teaching things that you can't understand? It doesn't seem so. What I am teaching are all simple things. You should know that the one sentence I have spent so much effort teaching people is, at most, three sentences. Does everyone want to know which sentence? Some people say, Teacher, you have said so many sentences, how am I supposed to know which one? Today, I must tell you that people need to learn one sentence: Ah, I haven't done it correctly. What does doing it correctly look like? That's just one sentence. Initially, it's Ah, I haven't done it correctly. What does doing it correctly look like? One day, you will Aha! Understand. If you learn this sentence, you will be amazing. You will become shrewd. You will bring the presence of God. Simple, right? Easy to learn? Not easy to learn. I have been teaching for so many years, and it seems that only a few people have learned it. It's also a comfort.

Do you know why it's not easy to learn? Because you think you are doing pretty well. You think you are already number one in the world, the highest standard, the world standard. That's not a national standard, that's a world standard. If you have become a world standard, what else do you need to do? I would have to learn from you. Some people say, That thing you're talking about, it's not that I haven't done it correctly, are you doing everything correctly? You think you are doing well, you think I should praise you, but I am not even qualified to praise you. I have to learn from you. You think you are a shrewd person, and you rely on this to support your courage to live. Then I have to pour cold water on you, and you will want to die. Because when people think like this, they feel uncomfortable. Have you ever experienced I'm not wrong! It's all your fault. The sun, moon, and stars are all wrong. Everyone is wrong, I am right. You have all let me down! It's always like this.

But when it comes to really wanting to die, there is no courage to die. Is there courage to die? No, so they go to Canada. Have you watched dramas? That's how the shows are filmed. When things are hopelessly tangled, they buy a plane ticket and fly to Canada. Taiwanese, Hong Kongers, and Singaporeans like to go to Canada, and Chinese people are starting to go to Canada too. They go to Canada and hide in the deep mountains and forests. There, the land is vast and full of forests. They build a small wooden house. That's how the dramas are filmed, silly fools. Canada is also quite wronged, taking in a bunch of these people, and they become opposition parties in Canada.

Greedy for reputation, not shrewd in doing things, and demons are with them. Tragedy! It seems like everyone's reaction is good. Everyone understands. I have spoken so much, for twenty minutes, but it's actually just one sentence: Oh, I haven't done it correctly. What does doing it correctly look like? Don't keep trying to prove that you haven't done anything wrong. When some people talk, they always want to prove that what they have done is reasonable. No matter what you do, you need to be shrewd, you need the presence of God. Don't drive God away and invite demons. Wouldn't that be a tragedy? If you invite demons, I will drive them out for you. After I drive them out, the demon will say, Look how bad he is. He invited me, and then you come and punish me. I say the demon is quite wronged, but you don't think you are wronged.

Today, in addition to that one sentence, I will teach everyone two more sentences. When you face someone who is more capable than you and they tell you that you haven't done it correctly, your response should be what I just taught you: Ah, I haven't done it correctly. What does doing it correctly look like? Don't explain why you did it wrong. Don't explain why you did something foolish. It's meaningless. Does explaining make your foolishness reasonable? Putting shit in your brain, is that reasonable? It's not reasonable. When you face someone who is about the same level as you and they tell you that you haven't done it correctly, what should you do? At this time, think more: Ah, maybe I haven't done it correctly. What does doing it correctly look like? If you have done it correctly, the result will be correct, and you will be able to explain it clearly. I am a person who is relatively realistic and practical. If I can't explain something clearly, I really can't say it. If I am going to say it, I have to say it clearly. When you face someone who is worse than you and they tell you that you haven't done it correctly, what should you do? Very interesting, there are many such people in the world.

A few days ago, someone wanted to jump off a building. After I delivered him and ministered to him, he came a few days later to teach me how to be a pastor. What can I say to him? Let's not get angry, let's discuss with him and ask him, Do you know if this is correct? He says, I don't know either. Then what are you saying to me? Is what you are saying correct? How do you know if it's correct? She looked at me, and I looked at her. What are you gesturing to me for? She said, It's written in the book. Is everything written in the book correct? Don't explain. If you really think what you are doing is correct, can you explain it clearly? If you really think what you are doing is correct, you will definitely be able to explain it clearly. If you can't explain it clearly, figure it out. Everyone needs to slowly understand. Thank the Lord! Over the years, everyone has grown in understanding, and everyone is becoming more shrewd. I have also gained a lot of comfort.

In this recent period, all these demons are closely related to understanding. For example, if you are afraid, how do you release that fear? You must understand why you are afraid. Fear is just a feeling; knowing that I don't need to be afraid, and then the spirit of fear is driven away, it's powerless. If you bought a car with over a hundred horsepower, the spirit of fear is at best a small electric scooter, easily pushed away, nothing much. So recently, these demons require people to deal with them through understanding.

Although your problem is still there, not completely solved, you already know you haven't done it right. When you feel you haven't done it right, I can open champagne to celebrate; when you feel you've done it right, I get depressed. So today, let's all open a few bottles of champagne, knowing: I haven't done it right. What does doing it right look like? My requirements are really not high. When you feel dizzy, bloated, chest tightness, can't defecate, can't urinate, can't see, can't hear clearly, can't walk, can't eat, have difficulty breathing, and some people can't control anal leakage, there are so many things, demons are here, you haven't done it right. Then it's easy to handle. What does doing it right look like? Doing it right is in the word of God.

Becoming shrewd, things that benefit you, do I need to persuade you? No. Then you become shrewd, and God is with you. Let's work together, running towards this goal. Learn, start copying homework. Do you all know what copying homework means? It means doing what others do. We haven't learned David's way, Abraham's way yet, what are we messing around with ourselves? Replicating one David, Samuel, Moses, Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, Joseph after another. Open champagne, the angels will celebrate with us, another David on earth, another person with God on earth. Having said so much, today we'll talk about how to manage, how to be a shrewd person, how to be a person with God.

II. Scripture

David behaved wisely in all his ways, and the Lord was with him. (1 Samuel 18:14)

III. Prayer

God, today I want to emulate David. God, I also want to be someone who behaves wisely in all his ways, and has You with him. God, today open my mind, teach me, train me, mold me, constantly do the work of molding in me, remove my carnal habits. God, today give me a humble heart, let me constantly strive in the path of knowing You, let me learn to emulate those You delight in, constantly improve myself on this path, may Your Holy Spirit descend upon me, lead me to constantly seek, so that I may see Your glorious face. God, today restore in me the glorious hope in eternity, become a person who is after Your own heart on earth, pleasing to You; become a person who lives for You, dies for You, and offers himself to You. God, may You accept my prayer. In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen!

IV. Scriptural Background

The background of this passage is good, I especially like this sentence. Then you say: Teacher, don't you especially like Samuel's sentence? I like this sentence too. How did David come out when he debuted? David was about fifteen, sixteen, seventeen, eighteen years old, about that age, still a greenhorn, when God brought Samuel to find someone, to find the king God wanted to establish, because God regretted establishing Saul as king. Saul was the first king of Israel, the pioneer, but not after God's own heart, and was rejected by God, so Samuel found David. David was very spirited. After he was anointed, he was to become the king of Israel. Did David know what this anointing meant? Yes, it was an appointment, that he would become the king of Israel in the future.

But the next day, no, he didn't become the king of Israel; the third day, no. What was David doing? He was shepherding sheep. If someone had no faith, they would say: Forget it, still be the king of Israel? I'll just herd sheep today. Sometimes the sheep are disobedient, and when their temper flares up, they kick the sheep, thinking: Why haven't I become king yet? I still have to deal with you little sheep. Hey, why do you want to be king? I'm saying David didn't do this, but we might do this, impatient, anxious. So I always advise everyone not to be anxious, getting anxious ruins everything. Don't become someone that God anointed to be the king of Israel and regretted it, and went to find someone else, that would be terrible. The Spirit of God comes upon you, and then the Spirit of God leaves you, who comes? Demons come. An evil spirit from God will come upon a person, and the person will become mentally ill.

But David was amazing, obediently shepherding sheep, slowly waiting, sooner or later God will make me the king of Israel. But he knew: When I take the throne of Israel, I must be after God's own heart, manage well, govern well, govern Israel, govern the people of Israel, and bring them all before God. This is David. So what happened? David was very patient.

Finally, the opportunity came, Saul was facing Goliath, no one could defeat Goliath. It just so happened that David went to the battlefield to deliver food to his brothers, the bread his father baked, rou jia mo, pizza, baozi, Western food, Eastern food, and sent it to the battlefield. When his brother saw him, he said: What are you doing here, kid? He even insulted him. But he heard Saul say: If anyone can defeat Goliath, Saul will marry his daughter to that person, becoming the king's son-in-law. Now he doesn't have to herd sheep, the opportunity has come, and David defeated Goliath in one fell swoop.

David was 1.7 meters tall, Goliath was 3 meters tall, if you calculate by weight, it would be 500 kilograms. 500 kilograms versus 60 kilograms, David was fighting featherweight versus super heavyweight, who wins? David wins. With this win, it's amazing, David served in Saul's army. What's amazing about David is that David developed a whole body of skills. When did he develop it? When he was shepherding sheep, sometimes a bear came, and he would tussle with the bear. You tussle with a bear, and the bear slaps with 500 kilograms, tigers and lions are all 500 kilograms in one slap, who can withstand that? David was definitely an amazing person. David was smart, he had tools in his hand, made a slingshot, carried a bag of pebbles, bows and arrows, etc., he was very powerful, so David was very shrewd, able to defeat tigers, lions, bears, wolves.

David was really amazing, a person afraid of death cannot do this. David was also strong, Goliath had a knife in his hand, just think, Goliath's knife must be like Li Yuanba's hammer, very heavy, that knife is comparable to the Sword of Goujian, a good knife. David was also strong, small, agile, all muscle. Have you ever seen Western sculptures? Plaster statues. Have you drawn David in sketching? David's statue, with a slingshot on his back, drawn very well, becoming today's template.

What's amazing about David? What's amazing is that he has a whole body of skills, he's great at doing things, great at fighting, and later in his old age, he was still fighting on the battlefield, his martial arts were extremely high, so David came out of the mountains and became a general. A little kid of seventeen or eighteen becoming a general is a bit unbelievable, right? David is capable. I'm afraid that after I finish saying this, everyone will be a little discouraged. Some people say: I'm twice David's age, I'm two seventeens, and I'm still a failure. Why? Because there's something wrong with you, you have to deal with it slowly.

After David came out of the mountains and became a general, he served a boss who was not very capable, and this boss was often petty. As a result, people said: David killed ten thousands, Saul killed thousands. This made Saul very angry, so Saul wanted to kill David. You must remember David's reaction. Saul wanted to kill David, could he kill him? Are Saul's few skills comparable to Goliath? Not comparable. Are Saul's few skills, his movements as fast as a lion or a tiger? Not comparable. You with your petty skills, want to kill David, far from it.

So David was very shrewd, it's hard to kill this kind of person. As a result, Saul framed David again, and you have to learn David's reaction. Later, when David was on the run, he met Saul again, he had the opportunity to kill Saul, and his reaction was also very powerful, meaning that David's life, there are too many things we can learn. So the author of the Bible, the person who wrote 1 Samuel, said: David behaved wisely in all his ways, and the Lord was with him! Unlike us, some of our brothers and sisters lose their jobs while doing things, doing foolish things. If you're going to do foolish things, discuss it with me beforehand, I can give you an idea in three minutes, two minutes, no, you just mess around yourself, you slowly learn.

People who are not shrewd, it's really fatal. David was great at doing things. Later, David was chosen to be Saul's son-in-law, Saul's daughter married David, this is both a relative, a subordinate, and a son-in-law. As a result, Saul played David twice. The first time was to marry his eldest daughter to David, but he had already given her to someone else; the second time he married Michal to David, which was quite deadly. So the Bible says, David behaved wisely in all his ways, and the Lord was with him! Today we will study this, I suddenly realized that there is also a word in this passage, the Lord God was also with him, he was shrewd in doing things, let's talk about this slowly.

Later you will find that many places talk about David's shrewdness, he is respected, David's life was too amazing. So later we learned that David behaved wisely in all his ways. If you are not shrewd, you slowly learn. Why are you not shrewd? Because you know too little. Why are you not shrewd? Because you don't do what David did, because there are some things David did that you don't agree with. If you encounter a very bad boss, who wants to kill you, how do you react? Your reaction will definitely not be as shrewd as David's, you don't seem to have much sense of God's presence, then it's troublesome. You have to learn, if you learn, you will be great. This is the background of this passage.

V. Acting Shrewdly

I have studied management quite thoroughly, I have studied doing things and dealing with people quite thoroughly. How did I study it thoroughly? I learned it from the Bible. Learning this is very interesting, you have to do things, before you manage things, you have to learn to do things, if you can't do things, it's bad. So doing things is a very important part, if you can't do things, how can you deal with people? You have to learn to do things, then learn to deal with people, then learn to manage things, then learn to manage people, that's the key. Acting shrewdly, the business you manage must be refined, it's not that you become shrewd because God is with you, it's that you are shrewd and God is also with you. A person who is not shrewd is full of wild ideas, that is a tragedy.

People have to act shrewdly, look at David's attitude in doing things. David definitely herded sheep well, if a sheep was taken away by a wild animal, he would snatch it back, that's a truly responsible attitude. How did he herd sheep so well? Who did he learn from? This person is called Israel, he is Abraham's grandson, Isaac's son Jacob. Jacob herded sheep well, David heard that Jacob herded sheep well, and he pondered it every day, his way of herding sheep is very similar to Jacob's way of herding sheep, why? He pondered it all day long. You have to know these two words, you have to write these two words down for me.

Some people lack this kind of pondering attitude, how can they act shrewdly? They don't ponder. I often say to ponder, to think, so some time ago, I led my colleagues to do a training for them, summarizing what I have said in the past few years. One day I must put these things together and send them to everyone, and I hope everyone can learn these things. Regarding pondering, such as making plans, you have to ponder, don't just write with your head covered, and then say to me: Teacher, this is my plan, can you help me take a look? What do you want me to look at? It's obvious that you haven't pondered it. If you haven't pondered it, am I going to ponder it for you? I see that what you wrote is all garbage, useless.

Whether it's a plan, learning, or thinking, you have to practice these things, you have to practice a whole body of skills, if you don't know, you have to learn. For example: Ask yourself, am I doing this right? Never say: If it's not done this way, then how should it be done? It has become the world standard, but when you look at it, they actually do it faster and better than you. Like some people doing things, I said: You are not doing this right. He said: What's wrong with me? He's not completely wrong, but it's a less efficient way of doing it, there's a better way, so there's no best, only better, have you heard that? Then you have to ponder whether there's a better way, not prove that your thing is also okay. Then I also have something that's okay, if your thing is also okay, then my thing is better than your thing, then you have to use my thing, right? You have to practice skills.

Actually, I tell you, who is the most difficult to pastor? People who have accomplished nothing in their lives, who can't do anything, that's fatal! I have to tell you, it's a bit of a tragedy if a person can't manage by the age of thirty-five. You say you can't manage people, people manage you, how can a twenty-seven or eight year old manage a thirty-five year old? They don't like you at first glance, why? You've been doing it for thirty-some years, and you've accomplished nothing, how can people like you? You must be a stupid person. Why do you become stupid? Because you always think you're doing it right. Everyone should now understand what I said; Oh, I didn't do it right, what does doing it right look like? You didn't learn that stuff clearly, and you still think you're very clear.

We have a colleague, I have a name for this kind of person called a college dropout. What is a college dropout? It's like taking a college entrance exam, you seem to understand, you seem not to understand, but when you take the exam, your score is not enough, so you reread for another year, you seem to understand, you seem not to understand. He himself feels very clear, but when he takes the exam, he doesn't pass, so he takes the exam again for another year, doesn't he drop out? Some people leak urine, some people leak stool, some people leak college, isn't that fatal! The most difficult to serve are those who can't do anything, but I have the patience to teach you, but don't bring an attitude and say: What about this, what about that? It's annoying!

We call it being established at thirty. I give you until thirty-five, an extra five years, can you get established? Times have changed. In doing things, conducting oneself, managing affairs, managing people, learn to do things before thirty. David was already king at thirty, and knew how to do things at seventeen. Don't pat your head or your backside when doing things. Patted heads and backsides are about the same, one is a burp, the other a fart, useless. So why can't this person do things? It's an attitude problem. Today, we must all know that you have an attitude problem. Why are you not skilled in your work? It's an attitude problem. You have to solve the attitude problem. So how do you do things? You must learn to learn, learn to plan, learn to think.

For example, after you've done something, you get so angry that your legs hurt, your back hurts, your neck hurts, your chest feels tight, your vision blurs. Have you ever calculated the cost? Why are you so angry? Helpless, no solution, no ability. You don't practice your skills, you just get angry. What's the point of getting angry? Some people get so angry that they don't do anything for a week. So, at most, you only spend fifteen years doing real work, and fifteen years being angry. You’re not fighting for the sake of a steamed bun but simply for pride, boiling a pot of water and only getting steam, nothing inside. Even a cornbread bun could be steamed into something, but you open the pot and there's nothing but steam. How can you have ability?

That's why I say it's an attitude problem. The problem isn't that the method you're learning is wrong, but that the method you're learning is not good. The way I learn takes a tenth of your learning time. Do you think you can compare to me? Because I ponder. Ponder slowly, and don't be self-righteous. Self-righteousness is quite evil, harming yourself and others. Have you learned to be shrewd in your work? Being shrewd in your work starts with attitude. You need to put in effort. Can you gain ability by just scrolling through TikTok? Whatever you thoroughly ponder will yield twice the results with half the effort; whatever you don't thoroughly ponder will yield half the results with twice the effort.

You'll find that I don't like acting like old women. Two old women together just gossip, you all know that, right? You grew up in an environment with plenty of neighbors, gossiping about the East family and the West family. Can that make you shrewd? Having the face of an old woman, saying the words of an old woman, talking the gossip of an old woman, wasting the time of an old woman, and in the end, you just become an old woman. Manage your time well, use it to do real work. To be shrewd in your work, you need to put in effort, ponder things thoroughly, and figure things out. How to raise sheep? How to do things? In the end, a lifetime of loneliness, no ability. People without ability are bound to be helpless; people without ability are bound to get angry. People without ability are like this because they have no solutions.

Six, Interacting with Colleagues

You have to learn to do things. That's the foundation. If you can't do things, who will respect you? No one will respect you. You can't do anything, and you still want people to respect you. Respect for what? David interacted very well with his colleagues. We don't know how he did it, but he did it very well. David and Jonathan were good brothers. Why did they become good brothers? Because David was not only good at doing things, but he was also good at dealing with people. So how did he deal with people? When he interacted with people, he wasn't arrogant, not thinking that everyone owed him something. Slowly study David's thoughts and intentions, and you'll find that he didn't demand that others respect him. Later, when he was old and king, he was still the same even when his son drove him away. Do you think he wouldn't be like that when he was young?

David was a general under Saul and had to interact with other generals and colleagues. Jonathan was also a general, leading troops into battle. If David said to his colleagues: I killed Goliath, what about you? You can't do it. Wouldn't that be asking for trouble? One day, a colleague might poison him to death. Don't be arrogant, so learn to interact with colleagues. Don't learn to speak aggressively, be humble, low-key, and focus on doing things. The way he and his colleague Jonathan were good to each other was truly remarkable. He didn't compete, didn't envy, he had no jealousy inside. Jonathan didn't envy him, and David didn't flaunt or envy others. Then saying: Look, you're the king's son, I'm the king's son-in-law, I'm your brother-in-law. One is the son-in-law, and one is the son, Saul is good to his son, do you need to be jealous? But you're still not the son, right, so there's no need.

Learning to interact with colleagues is very important. In the past years, I can definitely be a role model for everyone in this regard. I learned how to deal with people and how to do things from David. Don't think it's all natural. Natural things are useless. I told you before that I couldn't sing, but later I learned to sing. So today, we must know that to interact with colleagues, you have to be willing to give. A selfish person can't get along anywhere. So you have to think about your interpersonal relationships and your relationships with your colleagues: Ah, I didn't do it right. When doing things, you have to think: Ah, this way is not right, what is the right way? When interacting with people, don't always say: Ah, how can you treat me like this? You should say: Oh, I didn't do it right. Everyone looks down on me, why? People hate my bad temper, they see me coming and take a detour. Wouldn't that be a tragedy?

Seven. Interacting with Subordinates

Colleagues are at the same level like Jonathon, and David handled his inferiors well. Today’s chapter doesn’t talk about how David got along with his subordinates, but later, when David was on the run, he took six hundred men, all riff-raffs who were like hooligans - in today’s terms, with tattoos of blue dragons on the left and white tigers on the right, and having characters carved on their heads to scare people. But David could still manage this kind of person, and you better learn from David’s philosophy of management. How to get along with subordinates? Those subordinates wanted to kill David, so see how David managed them. In the end, those riff-raffs that David managed became famous generals who were very powerful. This is what it means to manage.

The people managed by David were really powerful – David said he wanted to drink water, and as a result a few of his soldiers and generals went to the enemy camp to fetch it and nearly died in the process. That’s how good his relationship with them was. Just think: the entire management philosophy is something we still can’t copy today, so let’s learn slowly. Half of the people who followed David were tired and did not want to go to battle any more, but David went ahead with 200 men, and after winning they divided the spoils equally. The things he did were beyond our imagination today and you would definitely think it was unfair, so we can’t understand how he handled these problems, but David had a sure hand in dealing with subordinates and was guaranteed to be able to solve any issues at hand.

Eight. Interacting with Superiors

The front is about doing things, and the back is about being a person. Doing things is the foundation – one can only be a person after doing things, and one can only manage things or manage people after doing things and being a person. Later, God gave David revelations, drawing him the plans in His finger to let him know how to build the Temple of the Lord God. You have to know how to decorate, how to do construction, and if you can’t see the plans, how can you get the job done? As for getting along with your superiors, I can give you a suggestion today: If your superior is not good, you have a lot of room to grow. If your superior is good, you can learn many things from your superior. Whether your superior is good or not, you can still handle your interpersonal relationships well – this is very important.

So don’t be like some people who are against everything they see – some people are born rebels and are dissatisfied with everything, wanting to revolt everywhere they go. Don’t think that people don’t know. All the brilliant people in this world know that this person is a born rebel and troublemaker. If you are a troublemaker here, you won’t stop being one if you come to me. So you need to learn how to be a person and not oppose everything. What are you doing if you are always fighting with your boss no matter who hires you? Let me tell you today that I will never hire pastors rejected by large churches and that I don’t even want them as attendees.

For example, with accounting firms, you must never hire people who have been rejected by large firms, even if they had a high position, because there must be a reason. Getting along with your superiors is very important, so I've been reading the Bible and learning from David since I became a believer. That’s why I got along well with my superiors, and after two or three years of cooperation, our relationships became very good.

Nine. Interacting with God

How did David manage his interpersonal relationships and approach situations? His most important foundation, his most important phrase was: God was with him. Later, in the Book of Kings and in other places in the Bible, people would say: So-and-so king followed his master David in doing what was pleasing to God. So everyone must know that we must interact with God. God is in heaven, and we are on earth. We must know that we are earthlings. So how do we interact with God? We must read God's Word, understand God's logic system, and know what kind of person God likes and what kind of person God doesn't like. Why was David able to do well? Because he had God with him.

You must understand God's will, and you must know what God's Word says. How did David know how to shepherd sheep? Because he learned it from the Bible. How did he know how to interact with God? He learned it from the Bible. He emulated Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, and Joseph, so he had that kind of character later. What is natural is useless; it must be learned later. To interact with God, never be someone who is ignorant of God's Word. When you have some understanding of God's Word and construct the entire system, you will know what kind of person God likes and what kind of person God doesn't like, and it will be fully reflected in you.

Make up your mind - brothers and sisters must begin to know what kind of person God does not like and not cause God to leave. Saul caused God to leave in the Book of Samuel, Chapter 8, because God's Spirit left Saul, and an evil spirit entered Saul, and Saul became mentally ill. Never compete or be jealous. Some people are jealous of their peers, some are jealous of their subordinates, and some are jealous of their superiors. They're just looking for trouble and causing God to leave. So to interact with God, you must understand Him well. We have summarized these things simply as distinguishing between good and evil, being sympathetic to the flesh, and loving the world.

Have you learned it? I want to be a shrewd person, and I want to have God's presence! You must walk this way; this is the path for wise people. If you can't do things, then let's be down-to-earth and do things right. Even if you are already over thirty, it doesn't matter - I must start from scratch and do things right. Even if you are over forty, it doesn't matter; you must do things right. Some people cause God to leave when they are doing things; some people cause God to come but can't do things. How can God be with you if you can't do things? Sometimes I make up some sayings; don't misunderstand me. I say: You don't even qualify to love the world; how can you qualify to love God? So it is important when people are qualified to love the world but choose not to love the world and instead choose to love God. I hope that this year, all of our brothers and sisters can put in effort in the word shrewdness, not just patting our heads or patting our backsides, but putting in effort, becoming a wise person, a shrewd person, and a person with God's presence. May God remember us!

Let's sing a hymn and prepare to receive today's offering. If you understand the meaning of offering, please do not offer. If you are in a difficult situation today, it is because you were not shrewd in the past, so start learning to be shrewd from today. For example, with offering, many people don't know that offering comes from God and is given to God - giving to God what comes from God is called shrewdness. So I don't like receiving people's offerings if you are not willing to offer, if you don't give cheerfully, because you must know that you are giving to God what comes from God. It is a tragedy for a pastor to love money. There was a pastor who gave a sermon called, Not many should become teachers. Later, I translated it for him into, Not many should receive offerings, since he even put the offerings into his own pocket. So the person who is shrewd, if the person can’t use the ability well would be leading others astray.

I encourage everyone to know the meaning of offering. For example, one of our sisters sold a house and happened to benefit from a new policy that reduced the deed tax and other things, saving her hundreds of thousands of dollars. Is that yours? God gave that to you, don't get it wrong. It's not because of anything else, it's because God had already added these things to the price, giving you the portion that you should have offered, otherwise what would you have done? The market was so bad, how could you have sold it? So putting in effort to be a shrewd person must start with offering. I don't want your offering, I want you to become shrewd.

Raise your hands and say with me: Lord Jesus, today I will be a person who offers. God, may You open the windows of heaven and pour out Your blessings upon me. God, may Your Holy Spirit descend upon me and remove the bad habits inside me that displease You. Give me the strength to fix the things that I didn't do right in the past. God, today I want to offer to You; I want to offer myself as a living sacrifice. Everything I have comes from You, and I offer to You what comes from You. God, have mercy on me and let me enjoy Your grace and love on this earth. God, guide me, emulate David, be a shrewd person, and have Your presence! In the name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen!

Our Father who is in heaven, hallowed be Your name. Your kingdom come, Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen!

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大家好!今天我跟大家开始讲一个新的系列,神同在的系列。如果一个人要是不知道神同在,那就是人一生的悲剧,一个人一生最美好的礼物就是神同在,人没有神的同在那不是悲剧吗?这要讲一系列神同在的道,你要知道,人一生要好好经营,有些人说:老师你不是说人要看透吗?看透了才好好经营啊,傻孩子。人一生要好好经营,开个店需要好好经营;打个工需要好好经营;结个婚需要好好经营,别稀里糊涂结婚,不好好经营,然后整了一个冤家;管理一个项目需要好好经营,你说什么东西不需要好好经营呢?什么东西都需要好好经营。有的人经营,把神同在给经营来了;有的人经营,把鬼同在给经营来了,这回大家得知道,有的人精明,有的人就是傻呀! 今天我带祷告的过程当中,我就发现这人一辈子傻了吧唧的,我一说,说完了还跟我生气,然后他就瞎整,整了一身的病。你说你整一身的病,你不知道你整错了?你得知道你整错了。那怎么经营?这事我就得教你,怎么教?这给我累坏了。教着教着,有个人被人骗了十万,我真想揍他一顿,让他清醒一下。啪!一个大耳光,清醒过来没有?还没清醒过来,识别善恶了。所以有的人经营,把神经营来了;有的人经营,把鬼经营来了。有的人说我咋知道把鬼经营来了呢?你还不知道啊?你得多少病你才知道?一种米养百种人,阳光下的事说也说不尽,啥事都有。没有人做自己认为错的事,做出来的结果会证明你是把神同在经营来了,还是把鬼同在给经营来了。

上一次我讲到撒母耳,神与他同在,神使撒母耳所说的话没有一句落空,这多好啊,一辈子能做成撒母耳这样的人,你不得了。撒母耳小的时候是个聪明小孩,后来长成了老头,成了聪明的老头,满脸褶子也是聪明,两眼炯炯有神,那简直了,一直有神同在。你今天得知道,我今天要讲谁?讲大卫。《大卫做事无不精明,神也与他同在》,这是今天讲道的题目。你说聪明好不好?当然好了,如果养个傻儿子不就愁死了么。到三、四十岁还啃老,六十岁的儿子问他九十岁的妈妈:你怎么还不养我呢?我真想揍他一顿,你说这样的人是不是欠揍?真是欠揍。 所以说大卫做事简直了,撒母耳的一生,大卫的一生,那一生简直了,了不起!大卫做的事,人看不明白,其实真的也不太需要你看明白,学就行了,等你学完了就明白了。人看不明白,还以为大卫搞错了,要知道我以前带大家查经,经常有人圈圈点点大卫,说大卫这不好,那不好。你要知道很多姐妹不理解,为啥不理解?因为大卫老婆太多。弟兄就喜欢了,但我不喜欢,为啥?因为我一个都搞不定,我整那么多干啥?

这事大卫太厉害了,人以为亚伯拉罕搞错了;以为以撒搞错了;以为雅各搞错了,你们以前听的道很多都是讲他们的,对他们圈圈点点。要知道圈圈点点神所喜悦的人,你不受咒诅啊?咒诅亚伯拉罕的受咒诅,咒诅以撒的受咒诅,咒诅雅各的受咒诅,要了命了!所以人傻呀,你怎么能以为大卫搞错了呢?他娶了很多老婆,神都没在乎,你在乎啥呀?反正我不在乎。我也不能穿越到三千年前去问:大卫,你怎么整这么多老婆?人家神都没管。 我带查经有一个特点,我不理解的,我就说:哎呀,我不行,我还不明白。人家整对了,我还看不明白,就像高手下棋,下完了,人家散伙了,输了。怎么输的?还不知道怎么输的,就是不明白,人家整对了,我还没整对。记住,我这叫做精明,你可千万别以为对人家圈圈点点,就觉着自己可厉害了,最后整了一身的病。

有一天我带查经,有一个肾癌患者进来了,要知道肾主骨,他浑身贴着膏药,骨头疼。我说:怎么这么浓膏药味?他说:我贴的。我查经查到一半,我就得送他回家,为啥?他说:老师,你这里讲的不对。他就把传统的那一套给拿来了,说亚伯拉罕不行,以撒不行,雅各也不行,就他行。我说:就你行,你出去建个教会吧。我送他走,那能怎么办?这傻呀! 我告诉你,一旦我觉着我没有整对,我就去寻求,总有一天我会明白。要知道我有的时候带查经,比如前一段时间查《约翰一书》,那玩意儿真难读啊,能把《约翰一书》读明白了,那真的需要圣灵的启示。有的时候我寻求着寻求着,我就来了一句:啊哈!你以为给我一杯忘情水呢?不是,因为我明白了。明白了就越来越精明,跟撒母耳、大卫、摩西、亚伯拉罕、以撒、雅各、约瑟学,差不了!你学习这些人,这些人都是人精,你能差得了吗?你学得怎么样?学得还不怎么样,差老远了吧?你也得有一天读着读着:啊哈!明白了。

还有一个词,我服侍的时候经常说:唉!你知道唉这个字里头的意思吗?听明白什么叫唉了吗?这里面的意思很深。唉,傻了吧唧的!后面那句话不能说,就很无奈,三八二十三,很嘚儿,满脑子稀屎,啥也不是。穿着牛仔裤,身材老好了,然后整一个高跟鞋,那牛仔裤下面的大喇叭把高跟鞋一包,走道嘎嘚儿响,满脑子稀屎,有啥用?这是我说的,如果真有这样的人,别对号入座,我说的不是你,我说的是大街上的。 我服侍人的时候,很少会服侍到像大卫这样的人,真的,也挺要命,怎么就没服侍过一个像大卫一样精明的人呢?怎么没服侍过一个像约瑟这样的人呢?我问你,大卫和约瑟需要释放吗?不需要释放。有一天,来了一个大卫,说:牧师,为我祷告。但是这个大卫和那个大卫不是一个大卫,这个大卫一身的病。人如果真的跟大卫一样,他也不需要服侍了,如果有的话,不是我服侍他,是他服侍我,不是我跟他说:唉!是他跟我说:唉!完了,我一听他说:唉!我就知道我傻了吧唧的,我得多嘚儿啊。

我得知道自己差远了,我不太需要靠着自我感觉良好撑起我活下去的勇气,很多人靠里面的自我感觉良好撑着自己活下去的勇气,我是靠着不断学习精明,好好经营,神也与我同在,撑起我死下去的勇气。有的人说:大过年的,这叫啥话?可千万别以为我讲错了,我要为我的神而活,也要为我的神而死,这叫做命定!什么叫做命定?就是为了神而生,为了神而活,为了神而死! 每一次我服侍地上的地球人,心里头无奈的时候,就想离开世界。我真的说句掏心的话,离开世界,与主同在好得无比,就是离开了这世上的劳苦啊。做一个天上的人好得无比,在地上如同在天上。当然地球人比井里的蛙好多了,只不过地球人的井稍微大了点,不过这还是损人的话。地球人啥意思?就是大一点的井里的蛙。

前几天我服侍了一个姐妹,要知道这个姐妹想着想着就把鬼给弄来了,然后头就开始晕,胃就开始胀,就开始难受,后来说不了话。等我把鬼赶出去的时候,她睡了一觉醒来,竟然不知道所发生的事,她之前说的话,都是鬼在说,不知道发生了什么的事。今天我就问你,你猜她当时在想啥吗?就想地球上的事了。有些人问:老师,她想啥了?别问,一听就知道也是跟在地球的井里差不多。你跟她差不远,要慢慢琢磨,她想的是啥? 一个基督徒如果在地上有盼望,就比众人都可怜。担忧这个,担忧那个,担忧啥?担忧把鬼给招来了。人要学会好好经营,好好活着,把神给整来,整到像大卫一样精明,那就简直了!今天我就给你继续讲大卫,咱们当中好多个大卫,后来我就发现,很多人跟我一样喜欢大卫,你慢慢琢磨,学啊。

过去这些年,我费了九牛二虎之力也没教会人一个秘诀,你说这不是悲剧吗?真的很失望,我就在想,我讲的东西有那么难吗?我有讲云里雾里那些东西吗?我有讲你听不懂的吗?好像没有,我讲的都是很简单的东西。要知道我费了九牛二虎之力教人的就那么一句话,充其量三句。大家想知道哪句话吗?有些人说:老师,你说了那么多句,我上哪儿知道去啊?今天我得告诉你,人要学一句话:啊,我没整对啊,对的啥样?就这一句话。一开始是:啊,我没整对啊,对的啥样?总有一天你会:啊哈!明白了。你学了这句话可了不得了,你就会变精明,你就会带来神的同在,简单吧,好学吗?不好学。我教了这么多年,好像终于有几个人学会了,也是个安慰。 你知道为啥不好学吗?因为你认为你整得不错,你认为你已经整得天下第一,最高水平了,全世界的世界标准。你那个不是国标啊,你那个是世标啊,你成了世标了,你还整啥呀?我都得跟你学呢。有些人说:就你说的那玩意儿,还我没整对,你整得都对啊?你认为你整得不错,你认为我应该表扬你,其实我都没有资格表扬你了,我都得跟你学了。你认为你是个精明人,你靠着这些撑起你活下去的勇气,那我得给你浇瓢冷水,你会要死要活的,想死。因为人一这么想就难受,有没有经历过:我没错!都是你们的错,太阳、月亮、星星都错了,大家都错了,我对了,你们都对不起我!我什么时候对不起你们呢?都是这个。

但是真正要死要活的时候,没有死的勇气。有死的勇气吗?没有,结果就去加拿大。大家看过电视剧吗?戏都是这么拍的,纠缠不清的时候,买张机票飞去加拿大。台湾人、香港人、新加坡人喜欢去加拿大,中国人也开始去加拿大了。去了加拿大,藏在深山老林里,那里地大物博,到处都是森林,搭个小木屋,电视剧都是这么拍的,傻了吧唧的。加拿大也挺冤枉的,收了一大堆都是这个,到了加拿大也做反对党去了。 贪图虚名,做事没有精明,鬼也与人同在,悲剧!好像大家的反应不错呀,大家的反应都挺好,听明白了。我讲了这么多,讲了二十分钟,其实就一句话:哦,我没整对,对的啥样?别在那儿一直证明自己没整错,有的人一谈话就老想证明自己整错多合理。不管你做啥,需要精明,需要神的同在,千万别把神给赶走了,把鬼给邀请过来,你说这不是悲剧吗?你把鬼给邀请来,我再给你赶,赶完了,那鬼说:你看他多坏,他把我邀请来,然后到你这,你又给我修理一顿。我说这鬼挺冤枉了,你还不觉得冤枉。

今天我教大家,除了这一句话以外,又多了两句。当你面对一个比你厉害的人,他告诉你这个没整对,你的反应就是我刚才教你的:啊,我没整对,对的啥样?别解释为什么做错了,别解释为什么做了一个愚蠢的事,没有意义。解释来解释去,解释你愚蠢得合理呀?把屎都整到脑子里去了,合理吗?不合理;当你面对一个跟你差不多的人,告诉你没整对,怎么办?这个时候多思考:啊,可能是我没整对,对的啥样?如果你整对了,那结果是对的,你能够说得清清楚楚。我这个人还算是比较实事求是一点,比较实在,我讲不明白的,我真的讲不出口,我要讲就得讲明白。当你面对一个比你烂的人,告诉你没整对,这时候你咋办?很有意思,这世上的人多呀。 前几天有个人要跳楼,我给他释放完,服侍完了,过几天来他教我怎样做牧师来了。你说我能对他说啥?咱也别发脾气,咱得跟他探讨,问他:你知道这是对的吗?他说:我也不知道。那你到我这来说啥呢?你说的对吗?你怎么知道这是对的呢?她看着我,我看着她。你到我这比划啥呀?她说:是书上写的。书上写的就都对呀?别去解释,如果你真的认为你做的是对的,你能不能讲清楚?如果真的认为你做的是对的,你一定能够讲清楚,如果你讲不清楚的,弄清楚,大家要慢慢明白。感谢主!这些年大家在悟性上都成长了,大家都开始变精明了,我也得了不少的安慰。

最近这个阶段,所有的这些鬼都跟悟性紧密相关,比如说你害怕,害怕咋释放呀?你得在悟性上知道,我为什么害怕?害怕不过是个感觉,知道我不需要害怕,然后害怕的灵一赶就走了,那玩意没有劲。你买了一辆一百多匹马力的车,那惧怕的灵充其量就是个小摩电,一推就走,没什么东西嘛。所以最近这些鬼,都需要人在悟性上去对付。 虽然你的问题还在,没有完全解决,但你已经知道自己没整对了。当你觉得自己没整对,我就可以开香槟庆祝了;当你觉着自己整对的时候,我就郁闷了。所以今天咱们大家多开几瓶香槟,都知道:我没整对,对的啥样?我的要求真的不高,当你感觉到你头晕、胃胀、胸闷、拉不出屎、撒不了尿、看不见、听不清、走不了路、吃不下饭、呼吸困难、还有的人控制不住时肛漏的,这些事老多了,鬼来了,没整对。那这不就好办了嘛,那对的啥样?对的就在神的话里。 变精明,对你有益处的事,需要我劝你吗?不需要,然后你变精明,神也与你同在。咱们一起努力,朝着这个目标向前奔跑。学吧,开始抄作业,大家知道什么叫抄作业吗?就是人家咋干,咱就咋干。大卫那一套、亚伯拉罕那一套咱还没学会呢,咱自己瞎整啥呀?复制出一个又一个的大卫、撒母耳、摩西、亚伯拉罕、以撒、雅各、约瑟。开香槟了,天使都要跟我们一起庆祝,地上又多一个大卫,地上又多了一个有神同在的人。讲了这么多,今天就讲怎么经营,怎么做一个精明的人,怎么做一个有神同在的人?

神啊,今天我想效法大卫。神啊,我也想成为一个做事无不精明,也有祢同在的人。神啊,今天就开启我的心窍,教导我,训练我,陶造我,在我身上不断地做陶造的工作,除去我属肉体的恶习。神啊,今天就给我一颗谦卑的心,让我在认识祢的道路上不断地竭力追求,让我学习效法祢所喜悦的人,在这条路上不断地提升自己,愿祢的圣灵降临在我的身上,带领我不断地寻求,使我可以见祢的荣面。神啊,今天就在我里面恢复在那永恒里荣耀的盼望,成为在地上合祢心意,讨祢喜悦的人;成为一个为祢而活,为祢而死,为祢将自己献上的人。神啊,愿祢悦纳我的祷告。奉耶稣基督的名。啊们!

我把管理这件事研究得还算比较透,把做事、做人这些事研究得还算比较透,怎么研究透的呢?是从《圣经》上学的。学这个东西很有意思,你得做事,你管事之前你得学会做事,你做事不行那就坏了。所以做事是一个很重要的环节,你不会做事,怎么可能会做人呢?你得学会做事,然后又学会做人,然后又学会管事,又学会管人,这才是关键。做事精明,你所经营的业务要精,不是神与你同在了变精明,是你精明了神也与你同在,一个不精明的人满脑子胡思乱想,那是个悲剧。 人得做事精明,你看大卫做事的态度,大卫放羊放得绝对好,羊被野兽叼去了,他又给抢回来了,那真是负责任的态度。他怎么就把羊放得这么好?他是从谁学的?这个人叫以色列,他是亚伯拉罕的孙子,以撒的儿子雅各。雅各放羊放得好,大卫听说雅各放羊放得好,天天就琢磨,他放羊的方式跟雅各放羊的方式是很像的,为啥?他整天琢磨。你得知道琢磨这两个字,琢磨这两个字你得给我记下来。 有些人他缺的就是琢磨的这种态度,他怎么可能做事精明呢?他不琢磨呀。我常常讲要琢磨,要思考,所以前一段时间,我带领我的同工给他们做了一个培训,总结了一下过去那几年我所讲的东西。将来有一天我得把这些东西整出来发给大家,我也希望大家能够学到这些东西。关于琢磨,比如做计划,你得琢磨,不是蒙着头写,然后跟我说:老师,这是我的计划,你帮我看一下。你叫我看啥?一看就是没琢磨,你没琢磨,我给你琢磨呀?一看你写的都是垃圾,啥用都没有。

计划也好,学习也好,思考也好,这些东西都得练呐,你得练一身的本事,你不会你得学呀。比如:问自己这事我整得对吗?千万不要说:这事不这么干,那怎么干?成了世界标准了,结果一看,其实人家比你干得又快又好。像有的人做事,我说:你这事干得不对。他说:我怎么不对?他不是完全错,但他是一个效率比较低的做法,有更好的做法,所以没有最好,只有更好,大家听过这话吗?那就得琢磨有没有更好的办法,不是证明你那个东西也行。那我那个也行啊,如果你那个也行,我这个比你那个还行,那你不得用我这个吗?得练本事。 其实我告诉你,什么人最难牧养?一辈子一事无成,干啥啥不行的人,那就要命了!我得告诉你,一个人到了三十五岁,还不能够做管理,那就有点小悲剧。你说你管不了人,人家管你,二十七、八岁的人管一个三十五岁的人,咋管?一看你就不顺眼,人家不爱要你,为啥?干到三十好几岁了,还一事无成,人家咋爱要你呢?你肯定是个笨人。为啥会变笨?因为老觉得自己做对了。大家现在要明白我说的那句话;哦,没整对,对的啥样?你学那玩意也没学明白,还觉得自己挺明白。 我们当中有一个同工,我给这种人起个名字叫大学漏子。什么叫大学漏子?就是考大学,好像明白,好像不明白,一考,分数不够,又重读一年,好像明白,好像不明白。他自己觉得可明白了,一考,没考过,那又考一年,不就漏了么。有的人漏尿,有的人漏屎,有的人漏大学,你说这不要命了么!最难服侍的就是干啥啥不行的人,但是我有耐心教你,可是你千万别带着一个态度说:要不这样,那要咋样?气人哪!

我们叫做三十而立,我让你三十五岁立起来,还给你五年额外的时间,你能立起来吗?现在年代变了。做事、做人、管事、管人,三十岁以前学做事,人家大卫三十岁都做王了,十七岁就会做事。做事别拍脑袋,也别拍屁股,拍脑袋和拍屁股都差不多,一个是拍出来的嗝,一个是拍出来的屁,没啥用。所以这人为什么做事不行?是态度问题。今天咱们大家得知道你有态度问题,为什么业务不精?是态度问题,你得解决态度问题呀。所以做事,你怎么做?一定要学会学习,学会计划,学会思考。 你比如说做完了,自己整着整着,气得不行了,气得腿疼、腰疼、脖子疼、胸闷、眼花,你算没算过帐啊?为啥气得不行?无奈、没招、没本事,你不练自己的本事,你在那生气,气完了干啥呀?有的人一生气,一个礼拜啥也没干,所以三十岁充其量也就有十五年在做正事,十五年在生气。不蒸馒头争口气呀,烧一锅开水,蒸了一锅的气,里头啥也没有,哪怕是有个窝头,也能蒸出个东西来,结果一开锅啥也没有,都是气,那能有本事吗?

这就是为什么我说你是态度问题,你做的那个东西,不是说你学的那个方法不对,是你学的那个方法不好。我学习的方法是你学习时间的十分之一,你说你能比得过我吗?因为我琢磨呀。你慢慢琢磨,千万别自以为是,自以为是这东西相当邪恶,害人害己。学会做事精明了没有?做事精明从态度开始,要下功夫,不下功夫,光刷抖音能刷出本事来吗?什么东西琢磨透了都事半功倍;什么东西没琢磨透,都是事倍功半。 你会发现我不喜欢做老娘们,两个老娘们待在一起就是扯淡,大家知道吧?你们自己生长的环境,左邻右舍多了去了,东家长,西家短的,那能变精明吗?长了一个老娘们的脸,说着老娘们的话,扯着老娘们的淡,浪费的是老娘们的时间,最后你就成了老娘了。把时间管好,用在做正事上,做事精明要下功夫,要琢磨透,要整明白。羊怎么养?事怎么做?最后一辈子整了一个寂寞,没本事呀,没本事的人一定是无奈;没本事的人一定会发脾气,没本事的人一定是这样,因为他没招啊。

你得学会做事,这是根基。你如果做事不行,谁尊重你?没人会尊重你,干啥啥不行,然后还要人家尊重你,尊重啥?大卫与同事相处,我们不知道他是怎么处的,但是他处得非常好。大卫跟约拿单是好兄弟,为啥成为好兄弟?因为大卫这个人不但做事厉害,他做人也厉害。那他是怎么做人的呢?他跟人相处的时候,他不是那种张狂,不是觉得人家都欠他的,你慢慢研究大卫里面的心思意念,你就会发现他不太要求别人怎么尊重他。后来岁数大了,做王了,被他儿子赶走了他都那样,你说他小时候能不那样吗? 大卫在人家扫罗手下做一个将军,得跟其他将军、其他的同事相处。约拿单也是个将军,带兵打仗。如果大卫跟同事说:我杀了歌利亚了,你呢?你不行吧。你说这不是找事儿吗,哪天同事再给他下毒,这不就得把他毒死了吗。别张狂,所以要学会与同事相处,别学着张牙舞爪的说话,要谦卑,低调,专心做事。他跟同事约拿单彼此那种好的程度,那真的是,他不争竞,不嫉妒,他里面没有嫉妒呀,约拿单不嫉妒他,大卫也不张扬,也不嫉妒别人。然后说:你看,你是王的儿子,我是王的女婿,我是你的小舅子。那一个是女婿一个是儿子,人家扫罗对儿子好,你用得着嫉妒吗?但你终归还不是儿子对吧,所以没有必要。

学会与同事相处,那都是很重要的。在过去那些年,这方面我绝对可以给大家做一个榜样,我做人也好,做事也好,还真是从大卫学的。大家别以为都是我自己天生的,天生的那东西没有用。我之前跟大家讲过我唱歌不行,后来学唱歌。所以咱们大家今天要知道,与同事相处,你得真的愿意付出,一个自私的人在哪都处不好。所以你的人际关系,跟你同事之间的关系你得想:啊,没整对。做事你得想:啊,这么整没整对,那整对的是啥样?与人相处,别整天说:啊,你怎么能这么待我?你要说:哦,是我没整对,人家都看不起我,为啥?我这臭脾气人家一看都讨厌,人家一看啊,他来了,都绕道走。你说这不就悲剧了吗。

同事是同一个级别的,像与约拿单这样。那大卫与下属相处人家也处理得特别好,今天这一章没有讲大卫与下属相处,在后来大卫在逃亡的时候,他带了六百人,全是虾兵蟹将,都是那种混混,按今天的说法就是,左青龙,右白虎,腰上纹了一条带鱼,头上还雕刻着文字,看着就吓人。这种人大卫就能管,大卫这个人的管理哲学你得慢慢学习。与下属怎么相处?那下属想整死大卫,那你看大卫是怎么管的。最后大卫管的那些混混,后来都成了很有名的将领,都是很厉害的人,这就叫做管理。 大卫管的那些人真的厉害,大卫说想喝水,结果他的几个士兵、将领就到他们敌营的井里去取水,差点死掉,厉害,人际关系搞得好。你想想看,大卫整套的管理哲学我们今天还真的是抄不来,慢慢学吧。大卫手下带的那些人,有一半的人累了,不想去打仗了,大卫就带着两百人冲上去了,回来以后战利品大家平分。他所做的事是超出我们想象的,那你肯定是觉着不公平,所以他处理的这些问题我们今天还不一定理解得了,但是大卫与下属相处,那真是一把好手,他绝对会把问题处理得相当妥当。

前面是做事,后面是做人,做事是根基,会做事才会做人,会做事了,会做人了,才会做管事的,才会管人。后来神给大卫启示,用手指画出图来,让他知道如何建造耶和华神的圣殿。那你得会装修啊,会搞建筑啊,你看不懂图你咋干呢?与上司相处我今天可以给你个建议,如果你的上司不行,你就有很大的发挥空间;如果你的上司很厉害,你可以从你的上司身上学会很多东西,不管你的上司行还是不行,其实你仍然可以把人际关系给处理得好,这很重要。 所以千万不要像一些人,到哪都是反对党,有一些人身上有一种东西叫做反骨,他到哪都是反对党,到哪他都不满意,到哪他都要造反。大家不要以为人家不知道,全世界那些高明的人都知道,这个人是个反骨,在这是个刺头,你到我这里来就不是个刺头了吗?肯定还是个刺头。所以你要学会做人,别到哪都是反对党,你说你干啥呀?谁带你都跟你老板闹别扭。今天我告诉你,被人家大教会开除的牧师我永远不请,他来我这里做会友我都不要。 比如说会计事务所,有一些被大事务所开除的人,虽然做到了很高的级别,千万不能要,那一定是有原因的。与上司相处很重要。所以这些年我信主以后就读《圣经》,我就学大卫,所以我跟我的上司处得都不错,有的时候经过两三年的那种磨合,最后关系都非常好。

大卫为人处事是怎么办的?他最重要的根基,最重要的一句话:神也与他同在。后来在《列王纪》,还有在《圣经》其他的地方,都说:某某王效法他主大卫,做合神心意的事。所以大家得知道与神相处,神坐在天上,我们在地上,我们得知道我们是个地球人,那与神怎么相处?你一定要读神的话,了解神的逻辑体系,知道神喜欢什么样的人,不喜欢什么样的人。大卫为什么他能够做得好?因为他有神与他同在。 你一定要明白神的心意,你一定要知道神的话是怎么说的。大卫怎么知道他放羊怎么放?因为他从《圣经》里学的。他怎么知道与神相处?从《圣经》里学的,他效法的是亚伯拉罕、以撒、雅各、约瑟,所以他才有后来的那种性格,天生的是没有用的,一定是后来学来的。与神相处,千万不要做一个对神的话无知的人,你对神的话有所了解,构建出整个的体系的时候,你就知道神喜欢什么样的人,不喜欢什么样的人,其实在你的身上也能够体现得淋漓尽致。 横下一条心,弟兄姐妹开始知道神不喜欢什么样的人,别把神给经营走了。扫罗就是在《撒母耳记上》的第八章,扫罗把神给经营走了,因为神的灵离开了扫罗,就有恶魔进到扫罗的里面,扫罗就成了精神病。千万不要争竞、嫉妒,有的人嫉妒平级的,有的人嫉妒下属,有的人嫉妒上司,反正就是没事找事,把神给整没了。所以与神相处,一定要好好的了解,我们把这几样总结出来了,很简单,就是识别善恶,体贴肉体,爱世界,就这几样。

学会了没有?我要做一个精明人,我要有神的同在!一定要这样走,这是聪明人。那你做事不行,咱就脚踏实地把事整对,已经三十多岁了,没关系,我从头开始也得把事整对;四十多了也没关系,也得把事整对。有的人一整事,就把神给整走了;有的人把神整来了,就不整事了,就做事不行。做事不行神怎么与你同在?有的时候我就发明了一些说法,大家别误解我,我说:你都没有资格爱世界,哪来资格爱神?所以人是有资格爱世界的时候,人不爱世界,还选择爱神,这个才重要。我巴不得在今年,我们弟兄姐妹都能够在精明这两个字上下功夫。不是在那一拍脑袋,一拍屁股,要下功夫,做一个聪明人,做一个精明人,做一个有神同在的人。愿神纪念我们! 我们唱一首诗歌,准备收今天的奉献,如果你明白奉献的意义,请你不要奉献。如果你今天处在一个很艰难的环境当中,那是因为你过去不精明导致的,从今天开始学习精明。比如说奉献,很多人不知道奉献是从神来的献给神,把从神来的献给神,那叫精明。所以我不太喜欢收人家的奉献,是你愿意奉献,甘心乐意奉献,因为你得知道把从神来的献给神。做一个牧师,爱钱是一个悲剧,曾经有一个牧师讲的道叫《不能多人做师傅》,后来我给他翻译了一遍,叫不能多人收奉献,连奉献都收到他口袋里去了。所以做一个精明的人,如果人不精明,傻了吧唧的,就是做了牧师,也是个悲剧。 我鼓励大家要知道奉献的意义,比如说我们当中有一个姐妹卖房子,刚好赶上新好政策,契税等很多东西就少了,大概节省了好几十万。那是你的吗?那是神给你的,别搞错了。不是因为别的,是神都把这些加在那个价钱里头,把你该奉献的那部分都给你了,要不然你怎么办?市场行情那么糟,怎么卖啊?所以下功夫做一个精明的人,一定是从奉献开始的,我不是要你的奉献,我是要你变精明。

举起手来,跟我一起来宣告:主耶稣,今天我就要做一个奉献的人。神呐,愿祢打开天上的窗口,倾倒祢的祝福在我的身上,神呐,愿祢的圣灵降在我的身上,除去我里面那种不讨你喜悦的恶习,给我力量,让我把过去没整对的事,都给整对。神呐,今天我要奉献给祢,我要献上我自己当作活祭,我所有的都是从祢而来,我把从祢而来的献给祢。神呐,愿祢怜悯我,让我在这地上得以享受祢的恩惠和慈爱。神呐,引导我,效法大卫,做个精明的人,也有祢的同在!奉耶稣基督的名祷告,阿们! 我们在天上的父,愿人都尊祢的名为圣。愿祢的国降临,愿祢的旨意行在地上,如同行在天上。我们日用的饮食,今日赐给我们,免我们的债,如同我们免了人的债,不叫我们遇见试探,救我们脱离凶恶,因为国度、权柄、荣耀全是祢的,直到永远。阿们!
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