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【Sermon】Stewardship Series 03: Make the Most of Your Time, Understand God's Will

2022-03-19 8,437 Management Series Building a Glorious Church Redeeming the Time Time Management Clarifying Matters To What Extent to Achieve What to Do

Introduction

Good day to everyone! I'm going to share a topic that has been oft-repeated, entitled The Key to Management (3): Cherishing Time and Understanding God's Will. This topic has been covered quite a while ago and more than once because cherishing time is of utmost importance. I have listened carefully to the previous content and found it to be well-articulated. However, today's perspective will differ, focusing on the aspect of management.

I want to tell everyone, what exactly is management? It involves managing people, tasks, and money, but there's another crucial element: managing time, which is a matter of life and death. You might wonder how it can be a matter of life and death. Well, what is time? Time is life! When a person's time runs out, life comes to an end. Wouldn't you say that's a matter of life and death? Therefore, how a person spends their time throughout life determines how they expend their life.

A long time ago, I ministered to someone whose mother spent her entire life playingMahjong, eventually passing away at theMahjongtable. Her mother playedMahjongto death, and later, he himself suffered from various illnesses. I pondered, where a person spends their time largely determines their life's condition. I often hear, Teacher, I can't control it. Being unable to control the wasteful expenditure of time on trivial matters is merely a sensation.

What does can't control mean? It means being unable to manage. Whatever is not managed will descend into chaos; whatever lacks management will be done arbitrarily; whatever is done arbitrarily will lead to corruption. Therefore, everyone must not follow that feeling.

Some time ago, a sister came among us. In photographs, her eyeballs appeared mostly white, with very little black remaining. She had difficulty seeing, but after prayer, she was healed. Following her healing, she tried to catch up on all the television dramas she had previously been unable to watch, binge-watching episode after episode. Consequently, her eye problems returned. She was unaware that her eyes were linked to watching television! In reality, television dramas do not directly cause blindness, but how time is spent can lead to more than just blindness – it can lead to mental decay! I felt disheartened upon hearing that her eye problems had returned.

You should know that we have been diligently encouraging everyone to be wise, not foolish, and to dedicate time to matters of utmost importance. Another sister, interestingly, suffered from depression, or, in plain terms, mental illness. She improved significantly after coming among us. Depression, as an illness, arises when the discernment of good and evil and the indulgence of the flesh reach a critical point. Crossing that threshold leads to depression.

As a result of some improvements recently, she began frequently browsing Douyin (TikTok). Can browsing Douyin cultivate intelligence and wisdom? I think not. Later, I inquired about what she had been watching. She had been watching trivial matters about old women, disputes between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law – utter nonsense. She even frequently liked these posts. I lamented! On one hand, our colleagues were giving her an antidote to help her escape from the discernment of good and evil; on the other hand, she was watching Douyin, continuing to partake of the fruit of the discernment of good and evil. What else could it be? Failing to manage our time and lacking understanding of God's will truly shapes a person's life!

Some time ago, while encouraging brothers and sisters to study, one person, remarkably, ached everywhere except for her hair strands! To exaggerate slightly, she was so uncomfortable that she had goosebumps. Why? Because she was not a person of study, she preferred browsing Douyin. When under pressure, she would browse Douyin for two hours, gaining nothing. Upon returning to the assignments and materials meant for her growth, she remained uninformed.

Cherishing Time and Spiritual Wisdom

Wouldn't you say this creates significant pressure? She goes back to Douyin for another two hours.I think in the eternal here after, she will be like the criminals in Water Margin were tattooed on their faces. If she reads English, she will be tattooed with Tik Tok, If she reads Chinese, she will be tattooed with Douyin. People are like this, a life time is not much! How you spend your time is written on your face. You should take a look at the past one week, the past one month, and the past one year. What did you spend you time on? Where did you spend it? After the statistics, you will be shocked, people just spend their time like that, how you know God's will?

I cannot stand some Christians, he said he was saved and found favour in 2012. Look at the way he spends his time , to where have you saved to. It seems like Douyin is his relative. That how this person lives, future will has problems, will being sick, will say, anyway will have Mingding Destiny this church. If sick, will will pray, can't be 100% healed. Doing like this, God's furious can't be blocked. So today our brothers and sisters must be careful, how a person spend their time determines what thing a person will meet in the future.

Yesterday I went to a person's home to visit. Why go to visit in home? Because this brother is having cancer. Why cancer? it is due to the time not being well spent. Everyday cooking, eating ......... Then just like that been spent. According to the English language is living life in nitty-gritty, which is living in daily trivial matters. I am very touched about this. Let us turn Ephesians chapter5:15-17, to look at today's scripture.

Scripture

Be very careful, then, how you live—not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil. Therefore do not be foolish, but understand what the Lord's will is. (Ephesians 5:15-17)

Prayer

Let us pray together. God! Today open our minds. God! Today let our hearts wake up again. Lord! Today let our spirits be alive again. Let us know, we should be careful in conducting . Don't be like foolish people, be like wise people. Cherish our time, because this present is evil, not be ignorant, understand the God's will. God! Today open the gate to our hearts. Let us be a smart people. Let us know how to manage our time. When we came before you, we can get good words in front of you. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen!

The theme of Ephesians and the background of this passage

I have to teach everyone, don't look at problems unilaterally and in isolation. If you deviate from the theme of Ephesians, you won't be able to understand this. Therefore, I need to discuss the theme of Ephesians and the background of this passage together. What kind of book is Ephesians? It is a theological system that synthesizes Paul's ministry over the past years, a very clear summary. Therefore, Ephesians is a book about building a glorious church.

Do you think a glorious church of God is so useful? It is extremely useful! Today, brothers and sisters can receive grace because this is a church full of glory. Through the church, what does God say in Ephesians? He says that through the church, God's wisdom and power are manifested. If you lack wisdom, you desperately need God. So what is the church? The church is the body of Jesus Christ, placing all things under the church.

The Importance of Building a Glorious Church

However, everyone must not assume that all churches are the church. Some churches are above all things, while others are below all things; some churches trample all things underfoot, while others are trampled underfoot. What is the reason? The reason is very simple. The key is whether it is a church full of God's glory or a church without God's glory. In churches without God's glory, they have extinguished the glory. What causes this? God's glory departs because people do not diligently observe and practice.

How important is God's glory? God's glory has a profound impact on our entire life. I don't quite understand. Our brothers and sisters need to know, for example, this brother has been attending this church for many years and still got cancer! What kind of church is this? This church is trampled underfoot by all things. In fact, the definition of the church is:

I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it. The church of God will be built on the rock of this truth, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it. God will give us the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever we bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever we release on earth will be released in heaven. (Matthew 16:18-19)

Therefore, the church is our glorious destiny. Why is the church our glorious destiny?

By putting everything under their feet. (Hebrews 2:8)

So, I ask you: how easy is that? How wonderful is that! But what is the problem? Building a glorious church clashes severely with the customs of this world and the desires of the flesh. If people conform to the customs of this world and the desires of the flesh, they will be trampled underfoot by all things. Therefore, people cannot see God's glory, nor can they receive all of God's riches or see all of God's mysteries.

Building a glorious church is closely related to our finances, physical health, and all aspects of human life. That is why I tell you that the theme of Ephesians is so important. Think about it, it is closely related! We are tormented by cancer, undergoing this treatment and that. If we could save that time, save the time spent in hospital beds, and use it to build God's glorious church, wouldn't we suffer much less?

Moreover, you will find that you can control yourself! Why can you control yourself? Because the power within us is strengthened again. Therefore, once building a glorious church, as described in Ephesians, becomes our destiny, the thing we live and die for, God will cause the power within us to be strengthened again.

And to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. (Ephesians 3:18)

I am discussing the theme of Ephesians, and in the fifth chapter, it says: imitate God. What should we imitate God in? Use our time wisely to build God's glorious church, and then our conduct will be like that of God's children. Don't be Christians who look like ghosts, whose speech is crude and unrefined, likely learned from television dramas. Our conduct is reflected in how we use our time. Spending time playing card games results in the conduct of a card player; spending time watching television results in the conduct of a television viewer.

Some people watch the television series Empresses in the Palace more than 20 times, regretting that they lack the ability to engage in such scheming. As a result, they learn this from Empresses in the Palace. Can this lead to wisdom? The problem is they haven't even learned it. Failing to cherish one's time, failing to imitate God, and lacking a destiny determine a person's outcome. Carefully observe a person's final state, and that will be their life's conclusion. That is terrifying! Even if you have experienced God's grace, if you do not repent and continue on that path, then so be it.

Time management and spiritual destiny

The theme of Ephesians is building God's glorious church. Is spending time building God's glorious church the same as spending it building your own home? Some people focus on living their lives, so let them live slowly. Our church has high standards because you cannot help but spend this time. If you don't spend this time, you cannot stay here.

I sincerely hope that spending time on God is a wise thing. Using time for study, squeezing out time for watching television, and saving the time spent watching Empresses in the Palace more than 20 times will allow you to learn many things. Allowing you to study to become a person of service, to be able to serve in the future, is very important, it is our destiny. Having time and not having time are both results of management. Some people say they have no time. Where did your time go? Your time went to watching television! That is a matter of management; foolish people have foolish management, and wise people have wise management.

In my ministry over the years, I have felt a lot. I have a friend. When I was in church before, he often came to see me, and I would take him out for tea and food. He often saw us casting out demons and performing miracles. He was very impressed after seeing it, but he was in a very traditional church, where he was also very successful, wealthy, and lived a good life. How could he listen to me? He thought he was living well, and he wondered how he could live if he were like me!

One day, he called me, and his voice was filled with tears. His wife had brain cancer, and the doctors could not cure it. He carried a heart full of hope, hoping that the doctors could cure the cancer. If the doctors could cure the cancer, then it wouldn't be called cancer. The hospital was going to send his wife to hospice care. Do you know what hospice care is? It means waiting to die. I felt touched upon hearing this. The time people wasted in the past, when the time is up, this is what happens. Who can you blame? I am talking about the theme of Ephesians, but I will bring in some stories to tell you that not managing time will lead to this.

His wife was bedridden, unable to get out of bed. Then I took his wife to pray, and in a couple of days, his wife was able to get out of bed and walk. Then the doctor asked his wife how she had recovered. His wife said that a pastor had prayed for her. The doctor asked if he could watch next time the pastor prayed for her. That was certainly no problem; I wasn't doing anything sneaky, I wasn't performing magic, and I didn't have that peach wood sword with its incantations.

Because of the name of Jesus Christ, building God's glorious church will receive power from heaven. As a result, the doctor found nothing special after watching. But that is very different; both are churches, both are in the name of Jesus, but some are effective in the name of Jesus, while others are not. The reason is that we are building God's glorious church according to Ephesians. The church is God's mystery, God's wisdom, God's power. We absolutely do not conform to the customs of this world, we spend all our time on this, so how can God not know? God knows.

After praying for a few days, his wife recovered. She was originally going to hospice care, but instead, she packed her bags and was able to go home from the hospital. After returning home, I told this brother and his wife that this was not a disease but a demon, and whether or not this demon returns depends on your destiny. You must follow us and believe in the Lord. They said that wouldn't work, their local church was very loving. I asked what kind of love? He said, When my wife was sick, they often came to see us and brought us soup. I said, then go ahead.

Wise Management and Spiritual Mission

Is the gospel preached by that church the gospel? He had cancer after being in that church for many years. I prayed for him and he got well, but they went back to that church. The consequences were predictable. He thought Jesus was the same there as here, but could that be the same? They preach about salvation. Three months later, he called me and told me that his wife had suddenly died. What had they been doing for those three months? Often taking pictures among the wildflowers by the roadside, traveling to beautiful scenic spots, and sharing beautiful photos in their moments! The flowers were indeed beautiful, but were the people beautiful? Let's wait and see.

What I observed tells me that management is very important! So, in this place, the Apostle Paul writes: Don't be like foolish people, but be like wise people, and cherish your time. What do you cherish your time for? To build God's glorious church! They think the things they are doing are very interesting! Making various poses, and her husband is taking pictures of her, like she wanted to go to heaven, really going on heaven. Going to East or West is not so sure. What am I saying?The Bible never lets us waste time, the Bible tells us to cherish our time, manage our time well, and spend our time wisely. This generation needs a lot of service! These thing are really so deadly!

Today the brothers and sisters should know, have we really been doing what the Bible said? Not yet! Watching their children live in curses still think I am serving, God will memorize my kids. That what god memorized, just like God remembers Abraham, God will save Lot from Sodom. But God did not burn Sodom because of Abraham! Wasn't it still burned down? Didn't Lot still lose all his wealth? Fun? No good! So, if our brothers and sisters and have not read Bible clearly, read and learn carefully! This is the theme of Ephesians and the background of this passage.

Management is about What to Do, How to Do It, When to Do It, and To What Extent

My management philosophy is very simple. After I finish saying this, my 80 year-old mother, who has not been to school, can understand. What is management? Management is about what to do, how to do it, when to do it, and to what extent. This is also relating to time. I have a project management concept. Everyone should know, in the past I managed many projects, I can boast, God gave me wisdom to manage these projects well.

I have my own set of project management system. Project management is about what to do, how to do it, when to do it, and to what extent. Modern project management also has specialized 《Project Management Professional Skills Certificate》. But I manage my own. If you ask which is more practical? I think mine is more practical. What did I solve? I made the most challenging things in this project clear.

What is the most challenging time in the project? It is these things if the can't be well completed, this project will fail. What did I solve? See what you want to do? You can do anything, browse Doiyun, see tv shows, but that it has not used. To Do whatever should solve this project how to do it. It is very important! If it solve what thing to do, what thing should not do, your time will save a lot.

What to do and what not to do, this is of utmost importance! Do not think you can do everything; do you fancy yourself Superman? Do you think dyeing your briefs red and wearing them on the outside makes you Superman? Wearing tight pants with a red robe over them does not make you Superman. No. You must decide what to do and what not to do. If you do everything, where will you find the time? If you say you will do this and that, that is being a muddle-head. Solving what to do and what not to do, that is what to do.

Wise Management and Efficient Service

Why do I not do that? My energy is limited. Pondering what to do and what not to do requires great wisdom. What can I do? Let us accumulate these questions one by one, and with examples, I can assist you. Today, I am giving you a crucial concept, but I cannot delve too deeply into it. If you consider the question of what to do and what not to do, you will surely say, If I do this, I cannot do that.

Think about it, either you go to the market every day to buy groceries, cook, eat, clean up, cook again, eat again, and clean up again, and you will have no time for anything else. But if you are serving God, you must sacrifice some of your time; some time must be squeezed out. This will eventually lead to a lot of pressure. What kind of pressure? Some people will complain that you have not spent time with them. Today, I am telling everyone that in addition to solving what to do and how to do it, how to do it is absolutely vital! Solving the how to do it issue saves a great deal of time.

The how to do it aspect is a profound topic. The other day, one of our sisters spent an hour doing a task, and I told her, I could have done that in ten minutes. She asked, How could you do it in ten minutes? I said, I'll show you. It was about sanding the iron-edged table, and she was just dawdling. I really want to solve her dawdling issue, but I have not been very successful to this day. Perhaps my abilities are not great enough. Are you spending ten minutes doing an hour's worth of work, or an hour doing ten minutes’ worth of work?

If you ask me where the key lies, the key is in how to do it. If it's not resolved, the pressure is immense. You don't know how to do it and you are just fumbling around aimlessly. When the pressure is high, you spend two hours on Douyin, and the pressure continues to mount. The problem cannot disappear because you do not know how to do it. You spend another two hours, and the day is gone. The next day, you come to me in tears: Teacher, pray for me, I am collapsing! Well, how can you not collapse, doing things that way! You are spending all your time on Douyin, and you don't know how to solve the problem. Can the pressure not be great? Solving how to do it and solving when to do it are both crucial; this is my management system.

For example, I said to a sister last night: Do not try to do everything at once. Focus on this one task thoroughly this week, and then do another task next week. She did not understand. What do you mean? My meaning is to manage your time well. Have you all observed that at an intersection, if the traffic light changes every second, people will not have time to cross, and that intersection will be ineffective; no car will be able to move. What if it changes every ten seconds? Maybe two cars can barely get through. What if it changes every thirty seconds? Observe the traffic lights; if the changing speed is faster, the traffic flow is less; if the time is longer, the traffic flow is more. Therefore, the traffic light switching time has a critical impact on the flow of traffic, and there are optimization points. But it cannot change once a day; that will not work.

Today, we must know when to do what. If you switch before it is warmed up, then switch again before it is warmed up again, you will accomplish nothing. Time management is not about doing something from this time to that time, but about thinking whether, by using this time for this task, I can arrange the time well. Some things can be done simultaneously! Simultaneous doing is easy to understand. For example, sometimes when I am doing handicrafts, I need to sand something, and at the same time, I lead a sick person in prayer for two hours, one hour... The spirit of COVID, go away! The spirit of cancer, go away! Actually, my hand is sanding. What does that mean? That my hands do not need to be there for the quality of the prayer, my hand sanding does not affect the quality of the prayer.

Wise Choices and Time Management

Let me give you another example. Some time ago, a sister was looking everywhere for her mobile phone because she was sitting on the toilet in a public restroom, using her phone, and forgot to take it with her when she left. When she went back to look for it, the phone was gone. Many people sit on the toilet and use their phones; this is a classic example of multitasking. So our time is all managed. Management is what to do, how to do it, when to do it, and to what extent to do it. Some things can be done simultaneously.

Choosing What to Do Is Crucial

Today, I say that choosing what to do is crucial. A few days ago, a sister called me, crying. I said: Why are you crying? I cannot serve! I must repent. You should take care of your children well. Getting married and having children, you cannot ignore them once they are born. Looking after your children properly is not a sin; it is your Mingding Destiny, and you do not need to agonize over it. People have already chosen to do such things; what is the problem? Of course, some people choose not to do these things, and they do not have these issues. Then they can have time to do other things. People, however, want to do this and that, and they are under too much pressure. People's lives are not long, only twenty or thirty thousand days. Time is short; what have you been doing?

People's pursuits and ideas, what exactly to do, need to be considered carefully. After you do it, you cannot say, My children are being raised by their grandmother or their maternal grandmother, and it is upsetting. The maternal grandmother is also working very hard, looking after you and then your children. What people do requires making a good decision. You choose to browse Douyin, or you choose to build a glorious church to serve? Which is more important? That is your choice. Once chosen, there are consequences. I never encourage people to agonize over serving when they should be looking after their children. If you want to look after your children, look after them well; that is also God's will.

But how wonderful it is to be unencumbered; one person is full, and the whole family is not hungry; things are very simple. You can do whatever you want; it is true freedom! So people need to make a choice. You must know that after you have done it, you cannot say you have not done it; this thing cannot be returned. So choosing what to do is crucial. After doing it, you must be responsible; I do not encourage you to be irresponsible.

So today, brothers and sisters, we must study carefully what we should do. Some time ago, a sister treated her work as God, and no matter what anyone said, she would not listen. As she worked, she lost her job. If you had known this earlier, why did you do it in the first place? Let me tell you that work is a very spiritual thing. I can tell you that serving our God well and building God's glorious church is not a loss; it is definitely not a loss.

But some things, a person's life is not like computer software; you cannot go back and repeat it. You can start fresh tomorrow, but you cannot repeat yesterday; I cannot undo it. For example, if you gave birth to a child last month, you cannot go back and undo the birth; this thing cannot be undone. So choosing what to do is crucial.

So today I encourage everyone to clarify your thinking a bit. What exactly should we spend our time doing? Where should we spend our time? I said before that if we save all the time we spend in hospitals and use it to serve God, that would be so glorious! Using all of those years of Alzheimer's, those years of being bedridden, and those years of electrotherapy and chemotherapy to serve God would be so wonderful! Why suffer those sins?

If people do not understand and live as muddle-heads, that is fine too, but putting your hope in doctors is not wise. The doctor does not even know where to put his hope. Prioritize well; what to do is crucial. After we choose what to do, we start choosing how to do it.

Efficient Management and Wise Choices

Why do people not have time? They work in vain, working and working in vain, because they do not understand how to do it properly and just do it blindly. Their concepts are unclear, so they just do it blindly, and doing it blindly is useless. So how we do things, we must gradually understand and grasp it thoroughly. If you thoroughly understand one thing, and grasp each thing thoroughly, breaking down a complex problem into several simpler problems and solving them one by one, then you will find that once you understand how to do it, you can solve it immediately, and your efficiency is high, and then you will have time, right?

You make some time; how is time squeezed out? You save all the wasted time, so you do not need to waste it, right? So how do you understand things? If you think you cannot possibly understand it, then you really cannot understand it; if you think you do not have the ability, then you are a person without ability. People's potential is very large, and where does time come from? It is made by doing things in a smart way. How great is people's potential? It is that you can still put a lot of things in it.

A young man managed to find a job. Others could finish a drawing in fifteen minutes, but it took him a whole morning to finish one. Later, the boss saw that it would not do; he had him watch on the side. How could he do anything if he only finished one in half a day? He had to learn how to do it. How to do it is the key. Why? Because when he works, he just thinks wildly, wasting a lot of effort on the whole drawing. What to do? You have to manage your habit of acting blindly. You say he is completely blind, but he can manage to get one thing out in half a day; he is just unable to summarize how to do things.

Today, I will say it again, if you have never accomplished anything, and you are already old, then you have never understood one thing. I am telling you that serving you is difficult! Why? Because you always want to be fast, always want to do it quickly, but you cannot be fast. If you are fast, everything ends up muddled, your head is filled with muddle, like paste. Where has the time gone? It has been spent on nonsense.

Today, let us clarify some concepts before we do it, and then strengthen the concepts after we do it, and the concepts will become clearer, and then we will thoroughly understand the problem. Next time, you will use the method you have sublimated to solve other problems; this is called management. Do not spend time doing it wrong, then taking it apart, then throwing away the trash, and then doing it wrong again, then taking it apart; that is useless; no matter how much you do, it is useless.

When to Do It, and to What Extent

When to do it, and to what extent is crucial. Someone said to me that this is wisdom. This is absolutely wisdom. Let me share with you an experience of our brothers and sisters. They serve those who procrastinate and dawdle, and they set time limits, and after trying it, they felt that it worked quite well. They said: Teacher, setting a time limit, finishing it in one hour no matter what, works really well.

Let me tell you one of my own habits. Sometimes, you will find that I lead bible study on Wednesdays, lead bible study on Fridays, and do it so many times in a week, and then preach on Sundays. When the time comes, I have to preach, and it is impossible for the sermon manuscript not to come out. It has to come out when the time comes; this works so well. Why? Because you have no way out, because you have to. Because if you give me another week, eventually I will dawdle and put it off until the last minute, and it will still be the same. It's like a student's thesis; if you give them a month, they will not finish it; if you give them another month, they still will not finish it. If you say that it must be turned in today, then they turn it in.

Cherishing Time and Wise Management

What is the reason for that? To what extent to do it is confusing to many people. So today, when we do it, managing when to do it, is very important. I ask you, when one person plays chess with another person, and one person wins and the other person loses, what is the key? It is the sequence of playing chess - this time, we move the chariot, that time, we jump the knight, that time, we advance the pawn, some people call it advancing the pawn, it is all the same. My point is, that final sequence, when to do this, when to do that, is crucial.

If someone does not have project management experience, then they do not know when to do what. They cannot arrange the sequence well. They think that drawing a gain chart, drawing a pay chart, drawing a mind map, and drawing a project management process will solve the problem, but no, those things are just forms.

Some people draw mind maps, but they do not have the essence of mind maps, only the form of mind maps. Some people make a project management chart, but they do not have the essence of project management. Because when to make the project management chart, why to make it at that time, they have to figure it out, like playing chess. When to do it, that is a discipline.

Today I want to share a very important concept with you, which is when to do it? What to do? For example, doing something at this time and doing it at another time makes a big difference. For example, if you are raising several children, then you should raise them well. Do not make things worse at that time. Wait until you have raised your children well, raised them very efficiently, and managed them very well, with the children not crying or fussing in your hands, and everything is well-managed, then can you manage something else? But no, you just have to do everything at once, like a Northeast stew.

I encourage everyone to understand what to choose to do, to understand how to do it, to understand when to do it, and to understand to what extent to do it. I am working hard to tell everyone that this is a concept, and you must grasp this concept.

Cherish the Time

You must cherish the time and know what God's will is. God absolutely does not want us to be poor; God absolutely does not want us to be sick. I have never seen in the Bible that God blesses you with a disease. I have not seen it. What I have seen is that God wants us to prosper, God wants us to be creative; God wants us to constantly be renewed; God wants us to be abundant; God wants us to be healthy. These are all of God's good intentions.

How are God's good intentions achieved? Cut out those meaningless things, and understand those things one by one. Today, everyone must know how great a blessing is, how important ability is, and how important wisdom is. If you grasp Mingding Destiny, you will have blessings; you will have ability; you will have wisdom; you will have spiritual power; you can trample on the enemies of the devil; you can become a conquering person; and you will lack no good thing in the end.

Once there was a person who got cancer, and I ministered to him and he got well. Later, seeing his child serving with me, he said: Teacher! How can my child live by serving with you like this? I was puzzled. Was it not I who healed him of cancer? How could he ask such a foolish question? It does not matter; you can live however you want. Good luck to you. That is your Mingding Destiny. Your Mingding Destiny is to live a mundane life, then live it, and if you live into cancer, it has nothing to do with me.

The effect of the time a person spends in life will follow you until eternity. Building God's glorious church, I tell you, you will definitely not suffer a loss. I have personally seen people living under a curse, and that is definitely not the way to go; the more they live, the more they decline. The mother worries while watching, the father worries while watching, and the brothers and sisters around worry while watching; living under a curse.

Mingding Destiny and Wise Choices

There are some of our brothers and sisters, and sometimes when I talk to their children, I do not like to expose them, because if I expose them, people will feel that they have lost face, and I also lose face, and it feels boring. Actually, my children are still pretty good. They also believe in the Lord, and they are pretty good. They went to that church, and that is not bad; at least they believe in the Lord and are saved. There is no blessing! What are they doing?

Today I want to tell everyone that you must have Mingding Destiny, and it is not enough to just listen to sermons on Sundays; do not be confused. Understand the most important thing, which is why people live in this life. What people believe is what they will get, and the effect of the time a person spends in life will follow you. In the eternal realm in the future, some people will have the word Douyin branded on their faces, some people will have the name of the TV series Empresses in the Palace branded on their faces, and some people will shine with the glory of God forever. God is a powerful God; how could God not solve the problem of people living? It is just that we do not know it ourselves.

Sometimes we make a mistake and may go back to pre-liberation times. If you are already in pre-liberation times, today I am giving you a reminder: Repent again and return to God properly. As long as you are willing to choose, willing to determine to follow God, and willing to determine to obtain Mingding Destiny, the matter of wanting to live well is not difficult to solve. Whether people have time or do not have time all depends on people's choices. What is called having time? If this thing is important, then they will have time. What is called not having time? If this thing is not important, then they will not have time. But people often confuse this matter.

The theme of Ephesians is to build God's glorious church; grasping Mingding Destiny is an incomparably good thing. I know that there are many churches, and some brothers and sisters are really strange. They get cancer in that church and still continue to go to that church. After they get cancer, no one in that church serves them, and they still continue to go to that church. Why do they go to that church? Later I understood, they have a small group every week, and everyone in that small group chitchats, eats, plays, talks gossips, chats, and tells jokes. Is that not corruption? All the time is spent on this. So that is confusion!

People cannot continue to be foolish. People must be smart. Cut off all those meaningless things and start living in prosperity; that is God's will. May God bless everyone!

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录音文字版 大家好!我要跟大家分享一个老调重弹的题目,叫做《管理的关键(3):要爱惜光阴,要知道神的旨意如何》。这个题目其实很久之前已经讲过,而且不止一次,因为爱惜光阴这事太重要。之前讲过的内容,我也仔细听了,觉得讲得挺好。但是今天不是从以前的那些角度讲,是从管理的角度讲。 我要告诉大家,**管理到底是什么呢?就是管人、管事、管钱,其实还有一个很重要的东西叫做管时间,那可是一个要命的事**。你可能觉得那怎么是要命的事呢?时间是什么?时间就是生命啊!人的时间花完了,生命就到头了,你说这是不是要命的事啊?所以人一生如何花时间,就是如何消耗你的生命。 很久以前我服侍过一个人,他的妈妈这辈子整天打麻将,最后死在麻将桌上。他妈妈打麻将把自己打死了,后来他自己也一身的病,我就服侍他。我想,**人把时间花在什么地方,他一生大概就是什么样的状况**。我最常听说的就是:“老师,我控制不住。”控制不住把时间全部消耗在那些无聊的事情上,那不过是一种感觉。

什么叫做控制不住?**控制不住就是管理不了**。什么东西不管理,什么东西就会混乱;什么东西没有管理,什么东西就叫就叫做任意而行;什么东西任意而行,什么东西带来的就是败坏。所以大家千万不要跟着那个感觉走。 前段时间有一个姐妹来到我们当中,照片上看她的眼球很多都是白色的,黑眼球都快没有了。她的眼睛看不到,后来祷告好了。祷告好了之后,她就把以前那些想看但是看不见的电视剧都得补回来,一集接一集地使劲看,结果眼睛的问题又回来了。她不知道之前眼睛跟看电视有关系啊!其实电视剧并不能导致眼瞎,如何花时间却导致的不只是眼瞎,那是脑残啊!后来她眼睛的问题又回来,我听了以后很难过。 要知道我们一直很努力地让大家要做聪明人,不要做糊涂人,把时间拿出来,干什么是要命的事儿。还有一个姐妹很有意思,她是忧郁患者,说不好听点就是精神病。来到咱们当中好了很多,忧郁症这种病就是识别善恶、体贴肉体到了临界点了,一跨过去就是忧郁症。 结果最近好了一些,就开始经常刷抖音。刷抖音能刷出聪明和智慧来吗?我看是不能。后来我问她都刷了什么呢?刷了些老娘们儿那些家长里短的事,什么婆婆媳妇这些扯淡的东西,她还经常点赞。我就感慨啊!这边我们的同工给她吃解药,让她从识别善恶里出来;人家那边看抖音点赞,继续吃识别善恶的果子,那东西不是识别善恶是什么啊?没有管理好我们的时间,然后不知道神的旨意,这真的是人一生的造化啊! 前一段时间推动弟兄姐妹学习,有一个人可倒好,除了头发丝不疼,哪都疼啊!夸张一点说,难受得鸡皮疙瘩都起来了。为什么啊?她就不是一个学习的人,就喜欢刷抖音。压力一大就刷刷抖音,一刷就过去两个小时,能得着什么呢?什么问题也没解决。回来再看给她的作业,让她学习成长的那些东西,还是什么也不知道。

你说这压力大不大?很大啊!这压力一大又去刷了两个小时。我看在将来的永恒里头,她就像水浒传里的那些罪犯一样在脸上刻上字,如果她是读英文的就刻上Tik Tok,如果她读华文就刻上抖音。 人就是这样,一辈子的时间不多啊!你怎么花时间都写在你的脸上。你可以统计一下过去这一个星期、过去这一个月、过去这一年,你的时间都干什么了?都花在哪里?统计完了,你会吓一跳,人就这么花时间,这样能知道神的旨意吗? 我看不上一些基督徒,他说自己在2012年蒙恩得救了。看他那花时间的方式,救到哪去啦?我看抖音是他舅舅。这人这么活着,将来有事、有病啦,会说,反正咱有命定神学这个教会。如果有病,咱就祷告啊,不是百分之百都得医治了吗?这么干,神的震怒这事咱可拦不住。所以今天咱们弟兄姐妹可得小心,**一个人花时间的方式决定了他将来要遇到的事**。 昨天我到一个人家里去探访。为什么到家里去探访呢?因为这个弟兄得了癌症。这癌症怎么得的呢?就是花时间没花好啊。天天煮饭,吃饭……然后基本上可以说是就这么过吧。按照英文的说法就是每天活在nitty-gritty里面,就是在日常琐碎的事里头。我就很感慨。我们打开《以弗所书》五章十五至十七节,来看今天的经文:

来我们一起祷告。神啊!今天就开启我们的心窍。神啊!今天就让我们的心重新醒过来。主啊!今天就让我们的灵重新活过来。让我们知道,我们应该谨慎行事。不要像愚昧人,当像智慧人。要爱惜光阴,因为现今的世代邪恶,不要作糊涂人,要明白主的旨意如何。神啊!今天就开启我们的心窍。让我们做一个聪明人。让我们知道如何管理我们的时间。当我们来到你面前的时候,可以在你面前得着称赞。奉耶稣基督的名,阿们!

但是,大家可千万不要以为所有的教会都是教会。教会也有在万有下边的,也有在万有上边的;有的教会是把万有踩在脚下,有的是把教会踩在他们脚下。那什么原因呢?原因就很简单了。关键是是一个充满神荣耀的教会还是一个没有神荣耀的教会。没有神荣耀的教会,他们把荣耀给干没了。什么原因导致的呢?神的荣耀离开了,因为人不谨守遵行。 那神的荣耀有多重要呢?神的荣耀对我们一生的生活产生深远的影响。我是不太理解。我们弟兄姐妹要知道,比如说我们这个弟兄参加这个教会好多年,得了癌症!那这个教会是个啥教会?这教会被万有踩在脚下。其实教会的定义是: 神要把祂的教会建造在这磐石上,阴间的权势不能胜过祂。神的教会要被建造在这真理的磐石上,阴间的权势不能胜过祂,神要把天国的钥匙给我们,然后我们在地上捆绑的在天上被捆绑,在地上释放的在天上也要被释放。(《马太福音》16:18-19) 所以这教会就是我们荣耀的命定。那教会是我们荣耀的命定,为什么? 将万有都踩在脚下。(《希伯来书》2:8)

那我问你:那多容易啊?那多好啊!但是问题是啥呢?建立荣耀的教会和今世的风俗、肉体的私欲起了严重的冲突。如果人顺从今世的风俗、肉体的私欲就会就被万有踩在脚下。所以人就没有办法看见神的荣耀,也得不着神一切的丰富,也看不到神一切的奥秘。 **建造荣耀的教会跟我们的财务、身体健康,包括和人活着的各个层面都紧密相关**。这就是为什么我告诉你《以弗所书》这个主题这么重要。你想想看,这是紧密相关啊!咱们被癌症这个折腾啊,这个疗那个疗,如果把那些时间都省下来,把那些在病床上的时间也都省下来,用来建造神荣耀的教会,都省了你少遭多少罪? 不仅这样,你还会发现,我能控制自己啦!为什么能控制自己了呢?因为我们里面的力量重新刚强起来了。**所以《以弗所书》所说的建造荣耀的教会,一旦成了我们的命定,成了我们为此而活、为此而死的那件事。神就会叫我们里面的力量再次刚强起来**。 然后你就会明白基督的爱是何等的长阔高深。(《以弗所书》3:18) 我在讲《以弗所书》的主题,到了第五章说:你们要效法神。效法神什么呢?**把自己的时间好好用在建造神荣耀的教会上,然后你们行事为人,好像是神的儿女**。千万别做基督徒长得像鬼似的,一开口说话土得直掉渣,那些话大概都是从电视剧里学来的。我们的行事为人就是看我们的时间用在哪,用在打麻将上就是打麻将的行事为人;用在看电视剧上就是看电视的行事为人。 有的人看一部叫做《甄嬛传》的电视剧看了20多遍,她遗憾自己没有那种勾心斗角的能力,结果在《甄嬛传》里头学这玩意,这能有智慧啊?问题是她也没学会啊。**没有爱惜自己的光阴,没有效法神,没有命定,这就决定了一个人的结局啊**。你好好观察一个人他为人的结局如何,人一生的结局就如何,那可不得了!就算你经历了神的恩典,你不悔改,继续走那条路,那你就走吧。

《以弗所书》的主题是建造神荣耀的教会。你把时间花在建造神荣耀的教会上和花在建造你自己的家上,那能一样吗?有些人就专心过日子,那你就慢慢过吧。咱们教会是要求有点高,因为你没有办法不花掉这些时间。你不花掉这些时间,你没办法在这待下去。 我很希望大家**把时间花在神的身上是一件很聪明的事**。把时间用在学习上,把看电视的时间挤掉,把看20多遍《甄嬛传》的时间省下来,那你可以学很多东西。让你能够学习成为一个服侍的人,将来可以服侍,那很重要,那是我们的命定。**有时间和没时间都是管理的结果**。有人说他没时间。那你的时间都哪去了?你时间看电视剧去了啊!那是一个管理的问题,糊涂人有糊涂人的管法,聪明人有聪明的管法。 我过去这些年的服侍,感慨老多了。我有个朋友,以前我在教会的时候,他经常来看我,我还带他去喝个茶,吃个东西啥的。他经常看到我们赶鬼,行神迹。看完以后他印象很深刻,但是他在一间很传统的教会,那人家在那里也很厉害,有钱,日子过得不错。他哪能听我讲啊,他认为自己日子过得挺好,他还觉得如果像我这样,日子咋过啊! 结果有一天打电话给我,他那个声音都哭出来了,他老婆得了脑癌,医生治不了。他带着满心的指望,指望医生能治得了癌症,如果医生能治得了癌症,那就不叫癌症啦。医院要把他老婆送到临终关怀中心。大家知道什么是临终关怀中心吗?说不好听的就是等死。我听了以后感慨啊,人过去那些年浪费的时间,时间花完了,不就变成这样了吗?你怪谁啊!我是在讲《以弗所书》的主题,但是我会牵扯一些故事,我要告诉你,这时间不管理就会这样。

他老婆躺在床上无法下地,结果我就带他老婆祷告,没两天他老婆就下地走路了。然后医生就问他老婆咋就好起来了呢?他老婆就说有个牧师带她祷告。医生就问他,下次牧师带她祷告的时候,能不能在旁边看一看。那肯定没问题啊,我又没有偷鸡摸狗的,我也不是在变戏法,也没有那个桃木剑在那天灵灵,地灵灵……我没整那个。 因为耶稣基督的名,建造神荣耀的教会,就会得着从天上来的能力。结果医生看完以后发现也没啥玩意。那玩意可差老远了,都是教会,都奉耶稣的名,有的人奉耶稣的名好使,有的奉耶稣的名不好使。原因就是我们是按照《以弗所书》建造神荣耀的教会,教会是神的奥秘,神的智慧,神的能力。我们绝对不顺从今生的风俗,我们把时间都花在这上了,那神能不知道吗?神知道。 祷告没几天他老婆好了,本来要去临终关怀中心的,结果收拾东西可以出院回家了。回家以后,我就跟这弟兄,还有他老婆说,这事不是个病,而是个鬼啊,这鬼赶出去了,还回不回得看你们的造化啦。你们得好好跟我们信主啊。他们说那不行啊,我们当地那教会可有爱心了。我就问什么爱心啊?他说:“我老婆生病的时候,他们常常来看我们,还给我们煲汤。”我说那你们就去吧。

那个教会传的福音是福音吗?他在那教会多年得了癌症,我给祷告好了,结果他们还回到那个教会去,结果可想而知啊。他以为耶稣在那和在我们这一样,那能一样吗?他们讲的是得救。然后三个月以后,他打电话给我,他老婆突然间死了。他们那三个月都干了啥呢?经常在路边的野花里照相,在美好的风景区旅游,在朋友圈里分享的照片,老漂亮啊!那花是挺漂亮啊,但是人漂亮不漂亮?慢慢看吧。 我观察的结果,管理很重要!所以在这个地方使徒保罗这么写:不要像愚昧人,要像智慧人,要爱惜光阴。**爱惜光阴干啥?建造神荣耀的教会**!他们整的那玩意觉得可有意思啦!做着各种动作,她老公给她拍照,好像要上天的样子,真的“上天”去了。上东天还是西天就不知道了。我说的意思是啥?**《圣经》从来没有让我们浪费时间,《圣经》让我们好好地爱惜光阴,管理好我们的时间,把时间用在刀刃上**。这个世代需要服侍的多呀!这类的东西真的很要命! 今天弟兄姐妹可得知道,我们真的照着《圣经》的话去做了吗?没有啊!眼睁睁的看着自己的孩子活在咒诅当中,还觉得我服侍,神会纪念我的孩子。是纪念了,就像神纪念亚伯拉罕的缘故,把罗得从所多玛救出来。但是神没有因为亚伯拉罕的缘故不把所多玛烧掉啊!不还是烧掉了吗?罗得不是还是倾家荡产了吗?好玩吗?不好玩!所以,如果我们弟兄姐妹《圣经》没读明白的,要好好读、好好地学!这是《以弗所书》的主题和这段经文的背景。

我的管理哲学是非常简单的。我把这东西说完了之后,我妈妈八十多岁没读过书都听得懂。管理是什么?管理就是做什么、怎么做、什么时候做、做到什么程度。这都跟时间有关系。我有一个项目管理的概念。大家要知道,过去我管理了很多个的项目,有一句可以夸口,神给我智慧让我把这项目管理的都不错。 我有一套我自己的项目管理体系。**项目管理就是管做什么、怎么做、什么时候做、做到什么程度**。现代的项目管理,还有专门颁发《项目管理专业技能证书》。但我这个是我自己整的。你要问哪个比较实用?我觉得我这个比较实用。我解决什么呢?我把这项目里头最挑战的事整清楚了。 什么叫做项目里头最挑战的事呢?就是这些事如果没整好,这项目就会失败。我解决了什么呢?看你要做什么?你可以什么都做,刷抖音啊、看电视剧呀,但那东西没什么用。做什么一定要解决这项目“怎么做“,这很重要!**如果解决了什么东西做,什么东西不做,你的时间省下来一大把**。 什么东西做,什么东西不做,这是非常重要的!不要以为什么都能做,你以为你是超人哪?以为你把裤衩染成红色穿在外面就是超人啦?穿个紧身裤,然后外面再披个红色的袍子你就是超人啦?不是。你还得决定什么做、什么不做。你什么都做,你哪来的时间?你说这也要做,那也要做,这叫糊涂虫。**解决了什么东西做,什么东西不做,这叫“做什么”**。

我为什么不做那个?我精力有限。什么做,什么不做,慢慢琢磨,这学问可大了。我只能做什么呢?大家把这些问题一个个的积累起来,然后一个例子,一个例子的,我可以帮你做。今天我给为你一个很重要的概念,我没办法把这东西讲太深。什么东西做,什么东西不做,你一定会说,我做了这个就没办法做那个呀。 你想想看,要么每天到市场买菜回来煮,然后吃,吃完了又收拾,收拾完了又煮,然后吃完了又收拾,你肯定没时间做别的。但如果是服侍神,你肯定要牺牲掉你的一些时间,有一些时间要被挤掉。最后就会导致很多压力。啥压力呢?有人就会抱怨你没有陪他啥的。今天我告诉大家,除了解决做什么、怎么做,“怎么做”是至关重要的!**解决了“怎么做”这个事,时间就省了大把**。 这个“怎么做”学问可大了。前两天,我们当中有个姐妹干了一个小时的活了,我就对他说,你这一个小时的活,我十分钟就干完了。她说,你怎么就十分钟干完了呢?我说,我干给你看。就是桌子用铁木条封边以后,用砂纸噌一下,他就在那磨叽磨叽磨叽。我很想解决他磨叽的问题,但是到今天都还不是很成功。也是我本事不够大。你是十分钟干了一个小时的活,还是一个小时干了十分钟的活? 如果你要问我关键在哪,**关键就在怎么做**。如果不解决,压力很大,你不知道怎么做,在那磨叽磨叽就瞎整。压力一大,刷抖音两小时,回来压力继续大,问题不可能消失,因为不会做呀。又刷两小时,一天过去了。第二天哭哭啼啼来找我:“老师啊,为我祷告,我崩溃了!”那你不能不崩溃啊,谁这么干不崩溃啊!你把时间都放在抖音上了,问题也不知道怎么解决,压力能不大吗?**解决怎么做,解决什么时候做,都是至关重要的**,这是我的管理体系。

比如说,我昨天晚上跟一个姐妹讲:“你别一下子什么都做。这个礼拜把这件事干透了,下礼拜再干另外一件事。”听也没听懂,“你的意思是?”我的意思就是,把时间管理好。大家有没有观察过,在十字路口,如果红绿灯每一秒变一次,人还没过去就变了,那个十字路口就无效了,谁的车也别想走。如果每十秒变一次呢?勉强能过去两辆车。每三十秒变一次呢?你观察一下红绿灯,如果变的速度越快,流量越少;如果时间越长,流量越多。所以红绿灯切换的时间,对车的流量影响至关重要,那是有优化点的。但是不能一天变一次,那不行。 今天咱们得知道,**做东西应该什么时候做什么**。如果没预热呢,就换了,还没预热呢,又换了,那你就一事无成。时间管理不是几点到几点做什么,而是思考把这个时间用在这件事的话,我做这事能不能把时间安排好。有一些东西可以同时做呀!同时做,很容易理解。比如说,有时候我做手工,要拿砂纸蹭一个东西,同时我带一个得病的人祷告得两小时、一个小时……新冠的灵退下去!癌症的灵退下去!”,其实我的手在那擦砂纸呢。啥意思呢,我为你祷告也用不着我的手,我的手在那擦砂纸不影响祷告质量。

我再举个例子,前段时间有个姐妹到处找手机,因为在公共厕所里的马桶上坐着刷手机,走的时候忘带了。再回去找,手机不见了。很多人坐在马桶上都刷手机,英文叫multitasking。这是个典型的multitasking——多任务处理。所以我们的时间都是管理出来的。管理就是**做什么、怎么做、什么时候做、做到什么程度,有些东西可以同时做**。

我今天讲,选择做什么至关重要。前几天,有一个姐妹打给我,带着哭声。我说:“哭啥呢?”“服侍不了!我得悔改。”你还是把你孩子照顾好吧。结婚生孩子,生了你不能不管。你好好管孩子,这不是犯罪,是你的命,也用不着纠结。人已经选择了要干这样的事,有啥问题吗?当然也有人选择不做这事,人就没这事了。那不就可以有时间做别的事了吗?人哪,就是又想做这个,又想做那个,压力太大。人一辈子不长,就那么两万来天,三万天不到。时间不长,都干啥了呢? **人的追求、想法,到底要做什么,需要推敲**。你做完了,不能说,我孩子给孩子奶奶养,给孩子姥姥养,闹心。孩子姥姥也做得很辛苦,看完了你,又看你孩子。人做什么,需要好好做一个决定。你选择刷抖音,还是选择建造荣耀的教会来选择服侍?哪个重要,那是你的选择。选择完了,是有后果的。我从来不鼓励大家,该看孩子的时候纠结服侍,你要想看孩子,把孩子看好,那也是神的旨意。 但是人没有缠累是何等的好,一个人吃饱全家不饿,事儿老简单了。想做什么就做什么,真自由啊!所以人要做一个选择。要知道你做完了,不能说你没做,这东西不能退货的。所以选择做什么至关重要。做完了就要负责任,我不鼓励你不负责任。 所以今天弟兄姐妹,我们要做什么,好好研究。前一段时间有个姐妹,把工作都当上帝了,怎么说也不听,做着做着把工作做没了。你早知如此,何必当初呢?工作这事儿我告诉你很属灵的,我可告诉大家,**好好的侍奉我们的神,建造神荣耀的教会不吃亏,绝对不吃亏**。

但是有一些东西,人这一辈子不像电脑软件,你走过去了不能再来一遍,明天你可以重来,但是昨天不能再来一遍,我不能撤销啊。比如你上个月生了孩子,你想再回去重来一遍不生孩子,这东西是不能回去的啊。所以选择做什么至关重要。 所以我今天鼓励大家,头脑弄清楚一点,到底我们的时间要花来干啥?花时间花在什么地方?我之前讲了,如果咱把一辈子病床上的时间都省下来用来服侍神,那是何等的荣耀!把好几年老年痴呆、把好多年瘫痪在床、把好多年电疗化疗的时间都用来服侍神,是何等的美好!何必遭这些罪呢? 人如果不明白,做一个糊涂人,那也行,把你的盼望建立在医生的身上,医生还不知道把盼望建在谁的身上呢?把优先级排好,做什么至关重要。当我们选择做完了以后,开始选择怎么做。

人为什么没有时间?干完了白干,又干又白干,因为没弄明白怎么做就瞎干,概念不清就在那瞎做,做完了白做没有用。就是我们怎么做这事儿,一定要把这事逐渐吃透、整明白。**你吃透一件事儿,把一件事一件事都整明白,把一个复杂的问题分解成几个简单的问题,逐一解决**。然后你会发现弄明白怎么做,一做就解决了,效率也高,时间不就有了吗? You make some time,时间怎么挤出来的?就是把浪费的时间都省下来了,不用浪费了不就好了吗?那怎么把事情弄明白呢?你如果认为我不可能弄明白,那你就真的不可能弄明白;如果你认为自己没有能力,你就是一个没有能力的人。**人的潜能是很大的,时间都是从哪儿出来的?用很聪明的方法做事整出来的**。人的潜能有多大?就是还可以往里塞很多东西的。 有一个小伙子好不容易找到一份工作,人家做一个图花十五分钟,他做一个图花了一上午,后来老板一看不行啊!就让他在旁边看着,半天干一个那哪行?他就得学怎么做,怎么做就是关键,为啥?一做就瞎想,整个图费了牛劲了。怎么办呢?**就要管理好自己里面那种瞎干的习惯**。你说他完全瞎干吧,他半天也能鼓秋出一个东西来,但是他就不能够总结一下这事儿怎么干。

今天我再说一遍,如果你从来没干成过一件事儿,已经老大不小了,你这一辈子就是从来没弄明白一件事的,我告诉你,服侍你可难哪!为啥?老想快呀,老想快快的整,可是快不了哇,你快完了最后全是糊涂,一脑子糊涂就跟浆糊似的。时间都花到哪儿去了?花到胡扯上去了。 今天,咱们**概念清晰了一些再做,做完了再强化概念,概念就更加清晰,然后把问题吃透,下次你就会把你所升华出来的方法用在解决别的问题上,这就叫管理**。把时间别花在干错了拆,拆完了再丢垃圾,然后再干错了再拆,那没有用,干多少都没有用。

什么时候做,做到什么程度这是至关重要的。有人跟我说这东西是个智慧呀,这绝对是智慧。我给大家分享一个我们当中弟兄姐妹的经验。**他们服侍这些拖延、磨叽的人,他们就限定时间**,试完了之后感觉挺好使。他们说:老师啊,这限定时间,无论如何一个小时干完,挺好使。 我告诉大家一个我自己的习惯,有的时候,你会发现我礼拜三带查经,礼拜五带查经,一个礼拜干了那么多次,然后主日再讲道,到了时间就得讲,讲稿不出来也不行,到时候就得出,这事可好使了。为啥呢?你不行也得行,到时候就得拿出来。因为你再给我一个礼拜时间,最后磨叽磨叽时间弄进去了,还是那玩意儿。就像学生论文似的,你给他一个月他干不完,再给一个月他也干不完,你说今天必须交了,他也交了。

那是什么原因呢?这个做到什么程度,很多人是个混乱啊。所以今天咱们什么时候做,管理什么时候做,那很重要啊。我问你,一个人和另外一个人下棋,一个人赢了另外一个人输了,什么是关键?就是下棋的顺序啊,这个时候咱出车,那个时候跳马,那个时候咱拱卒,有的人叫拱小翠,都行。我的意思就是,**最后那个顺序,什么时候做这个,什么时候做那个那是至关重要的**。 有的人没有项目管理的经验,那他就不知道什么时候该做什么,他排不好序,他以为写一个gain chart, 写一个pay chart 写一个思维导图,写一个项目管理的流程,他以为那个东西就解决问题,不是啊,那个东西不过是个形式。 有的人写了思维导图,但没有思维导图的本质,只有思维导图的形式;有的人做了个项目管理的图表,但没有项目管理的本质。因为项目管理图表什么时候做,为什么这个时候做,他得想明白啊,就像下棋似的。什么时候做,那可是一个学问哪。 我今天想跟大家分享一个很重要的观念,就是什么时候做?做什么?比如说一个事,这个时候做和换一个时候做差别是很大的。再比如说,你整几个孩子,那你就好好整,这时候就别在添乱了。等你把孩子整好了,整得很有效率了,管得很地道了,孩子在你的手里不哭也不闹,管得好好的,再管点别的不行吗?偏不这样,就非得整一锅,好像东北乱炖。 **我鼓励大家把选择做什么整明白,怎么做整明白,什么时候做什么,做到什么程度都整明白**。我很努力的想告诉大家:这是个概念,要把这个概念抓住。

要爱惜光阴,要知道神的旨意如何。神绝对不希望我们贫穷;神绝对不希望我们生病。我从来没有看过《圣经》上说:神祝福你一个疾病。我没有看过,我看到的是神希望我们兴盛;神希望我们有创造力;神希望我们不断地更新;神希望我们富足;神希望我们健康,这都是神美好的旨意。 神美好的旨意是怎么达成的呢?**把那毫无意义的事砍掉,把那些事一件事一件事整明白**。今天大家一定要知道:祝福是何等的重要;能力是何等的重要;智慧是何等的重要。如果你抓住了命定,你有了祝福;有了能力;有了智慧;有了属灵的能力;就可以践踏魔鬼仇敌,可以成为一个得胜的人,最后你什么好处都不缺。 曾经有一个人得了癌症,我服侍他好了,后来看见他孩子跟我一起服侍就说:“老师!我孩子跟着你这么服侍,日子怎么过呢?”我就奇怪了,他癌症好了不是我整的吗?怎么能问出这么愚蠢的话呢?没关系,你愿意怎么活就怎么活,祝你好运,那是你的命,你的命就是过日子,那就过,过成癌症也跟我没关系。 人一生花时间的果效会随着你直到永远。**建造神荣耀的教会,我告诉你绝对不吃亏**。我亲眼看见人活在咒诅当中那绝对不是路,活着活着就越活越衰败。妈妈看着跟着操心;爸爸看着跟着操心;周围的弟兄姐妹看着也跟着操心;活在咒诅当中。

有一些我们当中的弟兄姐妹他自己的孩子,有的时候我跟他们对话,就不喜欢戳破,戳破了人家觉得没面子,我也没面子,觉得无聊。“其实,我孩子还是挺好的。他们也信主,也挺好,他们去那间教会也不错了,至少信主了,得救了。”没有祝福啊!那在干啥呢? 我今天要告诉大家:要有命定,不是礼拜天听听道就完事,不要糊涂,把那最重要的事就是人一生为什么而活的东西整明白。**人信什么就得着什么,人一生花时间的果效会随着你**。将来在永恒的里面,有的人脸上烫上两个字“抖音”;有的人脸上烫上电视剧的名字什么“甄嬛传”;有的人脸上放光;有神的荣耀直到永远。神是一个有能力的神,神怎么可能解决不了人活着的问题呢?只是我们自己不知道。 我们自己有的时候犯了一个错误,就可能回到解放前。如果已经在解放前了,今天我给你提个醒:重新悔改,好好回到神的里面。只要你愿意选择;愿意定义跟随神;愿意定意得着命定;想活得好这件事不难解决。**人有时间没时间全看人的选择**,什么叫有时间?这事很重要他就有时间。什么叫没时间?这事不重要他就没时间。但是人常常把这事搞混乱了。 《以弗所书》的主题是建造神荣耀的教会,抓住命定那是好的无比的事。我知道有很多教会,有一些弟兄姐妹真的很奇怪,在那个教会得了癌症还继续去那个教会。得了癌症以后那个教会也没有人服侍他,还继续去那个教会。为什么要去那个教会呢?后来我明白了,他们每个礼拜有一个小组,那个小组大家在一起叽叽喳喳,吃啊玩啊,在那讲讲闲话、扯扯淡,然后说说笑话。那不败坏是啥啊?时间都花在这上了。所以那是糊涂啊! 人不能继续做愚蠢的人,要做聪明的人。**把那些毫无意义的东西全部砍掉,开始活在兴盛的里面,那是神的旨意**。愿神祝福大家!
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