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【Living Abundantly】Stress Management

2016-11-13 4,090 Y133 Course - Living Abundantly

Pressure stems from the spiritual realm; tackling spiritual problems with spiritual solutions makes it far easier.

Pressure Management is Managing Feelings

Pressure management is a crucial topic. In Singapore, most complaints revolve around pressure. However, upon reflection, pressure seems both real and unreal. Humans are complex, particularly in their feelings. Pressure management is about managing feelings. The feeling of immense pressure may be real, but it could also be deceptive. Humans have feelings that are often complex – frustration, entanglement, negativity, discomfort. But never treat pressure as a technical issue; that makes addressing the underlying mindset very difficult.

People often feel pressured, fearing things will fall apart. Even if adjusting the mindset doesn't prevent a collapse, encountering similar situations later might still lead to avoidance of mindset readjustment, deeming it futile. In fact, feelings are unreliable. Human feelings often diverge from reality. Managing feelings is a lifelong task; the sensation of pressure needs to be managed.

In the church, pressure management directly enters a spiritual dimension, addressing issues from a spiritual perspective. We have found that dealing with these problems from the spiritual realm has a clear effect. The true root of pressure is not the mentality, but spiritual reasons. In the church, we address this through prayer and spiritual warfare, adjusting the mindset and discovering that things do not collapse. Then, the method is deemed useful. When encountering pressure again, the same method of prayer is applied, and surprisingly, things still do not collapse. It becomes clear that God is powerful. Understanding that God is in control of everything reduces and eventually eliminates the pressures of daily life. But without knowing God, adjusting the mindset is useless.

The Bible says, Blessed are the meek, for they will inherit the earth. Some may be meek, allowing themselves to be bullied and beaten. But if they discover that they have not inherited the earth, they might think that meekness is not blessed, but leads to being bullied. Those without God in the world would think this way.

However, for Christians, if someone strikes you on one cheek, offer the other as well. Don't worry about being taken advantage of. Our God will deal with the one who strikes you. The striker will sense that this person cannot be bullied, and your problem will be resolved. Those with God can be meek, and meekness leads to blessings. Having God mediates pressure, solving the mentality solves the pressure, and then nothing collapses. Without God, nothing works.

Pressure stems from the spiritual realm; tackling spiritual problems with spiritual solutions makes it far easier. You and I are children of the eternal God. Who can bully you? God's promise to Abraham was, Those who curse you will be cursed, and those who bless you will be blessed. If you are such a person, you will be remarkable. Abraham defeated four kings, rescued Lot, and won with only 318 soldiers. Afterward, he was afraid, so he prayed, and God said, Do not fear; I am your shield. Then those around him dared not attack him. Therefore, those with and without God have different methods of resolving pressure. So solving pressure management involves adjusting to a foundation of faith. Without faith, it is useless.

I say these things because our God is real, alive, and able to manage things. If you trust in Him, adjusting your mindset will be effective. I have tried it many times; if someone strikes my left cheek, I offer the right. If someone takes my coat, I give him my cloak as well. Those who bully God's children will suffer. The issue is not about anything else but being a child of the eternal God. On this foundation, one must learn to manage feelings. If one is a child of God but has an unbelieving heart, it is over. Jesus came into the world and constantly criticized His disciples for being unbelieving and having little faith. Faith plus identity can manage pressure.

Faith can produce a feeling of peace and security. If you believe that something will not collapse, you will not feel pressured. Although you are always walking on a tightrope, you always make it through. Then your faith becomes stronger. This is what the Bible calls from faith to faith. In trusting in the Lord and managing pressure, I often walk on a tightrope but have never fallen. Once, I fell and had a mid-life crisis. Halfway down, God caught me again and began to build the church. Building the church is more enjoyable than doing anything else. With hope and faith, the future will be better; nothing will collapse; God can take control; pressure immediately disappears. Having pressure means having no faith and no hope. Shepherding is building faith. Faith can produce good feelings. Those without faith have painful feelings inside. Even if you give them advice, they still have no faith. Your advice seems to work, but also seems not to work. Because everything is solved on a technical level, but the pressure is still great. With faith, the problem is solved.

Many people have become my followers because I have truly solved their problems. The highest level of pressure management is faith, either building your own faith or receiving faith from others. Worldly knowledge solves pressure problems from a technical level. You must believe that our God is the God who controls the universe. Our little thing is nothing. Faith operates in the spiritual world. Pressure comes from the lies of the devil, and overcoming the devil with faith overcomes the feelings inside.

Faith can be passed on forever. Faith concerns things that will happen a long time from now. If you live a difficult life, I say, I will take you out of the room, find a dark place, look up at the sky, see the stars, and start thinking about tens of thousands of years later, seeing into eternity. Then your problem will become smaller. Our eyes only see the present. If failing the university entrance exam leads to suicide, the vision is short. Seeing into eternity is remarkable.

Faith Can Solve Pressure Problems

If a person encounters a three-year problem, what is the size of the three-year problem divided by one million years? A tiny bit, 0.001%. If you see ten thousand years, thousands of years are small, even decades are small. So you will flatten the problem. If you flatten it, your pressure will disappear. But if you pull the problem back to this life, and you look at this problem: How will I live this life? Then you will have great pressure. If you bring this problem into eternity, it will become smaller. In the end, nothing collapsed. Everything is fine. Until today, everyone is living well, so faith is the highest level of pressure management.

The size of things is related to the size of the space they occupy. If you are in an infinitely large space, anything is extremely small. If the denominator is infinitely large, no matter how large the numerator is, thousands or tens of thousands are trivial. So faith is the highest level of pressure management. So brothers and sisters must learn to impart faith. If you can't impart faith, it will be difficult for you. Why do those who come to our church's website and are fed have their problems become smaller? Because they gain faith.

Let's say another thing: If a person's hope produces positive good feelings, despair will produce negative feelings. If faith produces a positive feeling, disbelief will produce a negative feeling. What is disbelief? Believing that things will collapse, that is a negative faith, it will be miserable.

Those with Hope and Faith Can Achieve the Future

So today we begin to learn to have faith and hope. This faith and hope do not cost money. Why not have it? I believe that I will be better in the future. I believe that God will supply me with everything in the future. I believe that I will not have to lie in the hospital in the future. Believing is a choice. I have hope and faith, then impossible things will become possible. I believe that if I get sick, God will heal me. This is a future thing, and you will have no pressure about future things.

One of our brothers told me that his father had a hundred and ten thousand, but now a hundred and ten thousand is really not a lot of money. Then he said: If I get diabetes, it will cost two hundred thousand. If I get heart disease, it will cost two hundred thousand. If I get some other disease, it will cost tens of thousands. One million is not enough. It is really a huge pressure because his judgment of the future is such a judgment. So his pressure is huge.

I feel that many things and much pressure are fabricated by ourselves, which is a matter of mentality. Some time ago, a sister was very serious about her work, and then she would feel stressed because she believed that if I did not do so seriously, something would happen. In fact, I tell you that she doesn't have to do so seriously, and nothing will happen. I know that you are serious is a good habit, but you cannot turn seriousness into pressure! So seriousness is seriousness, but you can still be serious without pressure. So in the whole faith, impossible things will become possible.

Miracles are the Key to Solving Problems

I will give you a few examples: Moses led three million Israelites, with the Red Sea in front and Egyptian pursuers behind. I ask you if the pressure is high. If you look at it from a human perspective: there is no bridge in the Red Sea, and there are no ships in the Red Sea. Let's calculate three million. Using today's Airbus, one plane can seat eight hundred people. Ten planes are eight thousand people, one hundred planes are eighty thousand people. One thousand planes are eight hundred thousand people. A total of four thousand planes are needed. The plane must return and run four thousand times to transport them. That is a huge logistics project. This project is huge. Noah brought all these species to enter the Ark. That is an extremely large project. Try it with human ability? But if God separates the Red Sea, and the Israelites cross the Red Sea as if walking on dry ground, is the problem solved? Resolved. Miracles are a key to solving problems. If miracles often happen in our lives, impossible things become possible, and pressure will really disappear. That is why I like to talk about miracles in the church, and I also like to hear testimonies of miracles, because miracles released through your faith will solve problems.

Later, Moses died, and Joshua led three million Israelites across the Jordan River. That was also a huge project. Three million people crossed the Red Sea, and three million people also crossed the Jordan River. The water of the Jordan River stopped flowing, and then the water on both sides became strong rings. As a result, the water of the Jordan River cut off and became dry land, and Joshua led the Israelites across. Is there still pressure? But if the river does not open, it is not easy for three million people to move to the land of Canaan, and three million people to cross the Jordan River. One ship can hold eight hundred people, and it will be transported four thousand times.

Therefore, brothers and sisters must know that our God is a God who performs miracles. If our God is a God who performs miracles, there is no pressure. Joshua was very afraid when facing the matter of leading the Israelites into the land of Canaan. God said: Be strong and courageous, do not be afraid, because God will be with you, and no one will be able to stand before you all the days of your life. Solving pressure is to operate at the spiritual level through faith. This is the best solution. I really don’t know how to live without God. Without God, there are no miracles, it is all man-made. If you really want to lead three million Israelites across the Red Sea and across the Jordan River, it is really hard to imagine. I began to know that pressure management is a spiritual thing.

Pressure is a state leading to low efficiency

What symptoms will a person have when he feels pressure? You can see for yourself: When pressure comes, your efficiency is very low. When pressure comes, it is basically impossible to resist, and there is no work efficiency. What do I compare this to? Compare it to traffic jams. When I drive, I often see a phenomenon, which is the phenomenon of congestion. It is very hard to have traffic jams. Everyone tries to squeeze as hard as they can, and as a result, they are squeezed in water. When the intersection is reached, it is found that nothing happened in front of you, that is, everyone squeezed there. Then that place is squeezed so it is slow. That is to say, there is a mathematical model calculation for traffic congestion, and its efficiency drops to 10%. That is to say, only one-tenth of the traffic flow. So today I tell you that when the New York building was hit, no one could get through the phone. Everyone was calling, so no one could get through. The efficiency of electronic equipment was greatly reduced. I am engaged in networking and I know this. That is to say, when a network is congested, its efficiency is very low.

Managing pressure is the key to improving efficiency

Today when you are under pressure, you are actually in a state of low work efficiency. And the lower the work efficiency, the greater the pressure. The greater the pressure, the lower the efficiency. The lower the efficiency, the greater the pressure, so people go into collapse. So it is said that: Managing pressure is the key to improving efficiency. Last week we talked about improving work efficiency. This week I am talking about managing pressure. Why? Because high pressure leads to very low efficiency. So when you have faith, your efficiency will come up. The same problem can be solved quickly. The first thing to solve the problem of pressure is to remove the feeling of pressure. The second is to start doing things that improve efficiency, and get out of that dead cycle. People have to read the Bible well, and they can have wisdom for a lifetime. Salvation is in returning to rest, and strength is in calmness. If everyone in a society is fighting there, and everyone is fighting to seize resources, resulting in congestion, then the utilization rate of the resource will be reduced, greatly reduced, so the social cost will increase sharply.

Have you all studied sociology? Does anyone know what social cost is? I will tell you a concept of social cost. If one person sues another person, I ask you if you create any value? Then fight to the death. It also consumes the resources of judges and consumes the resources of lawyers. All these people do not create any value. If there are many lawsuits to be fought in this society, and many lawyers have to be hired, and after it is done, there will be more problems, and more people will have to file lawsuits, and finally even the judges will be sued. This social cost is very high. If a society has no crime and no disputes, the social cost will be reduced to a very low level all of a sudden. Then when allocating these social costs can allocate resources, this society will become very rich. That is to say, today we must know what God's design is. If you compare a church with constant internal strife, you pinch me and pinch each other, will this church still be able to serve people? Someone doesn't enter yet, those who enter are pinched, so today we must begin to understand this concept, this concept is amazing, that is to say, salvation lies in returning to rest, if you rest well, there will be fewer problems.

To be a human being and do things, you must be calm and not be rash. There was a person upstairs, several floors high. As a result, when there was an earthquake, he ran downstairs. He would not have any pressure, he was under pressure. What are you doing by running to the basement? I tell you that in any chaotic era, any war, disaster, or man-made disaster, calm people get strength, and calm people are hard to die. Don't panic, and then start looking left and right, how should I go, I am on the fourth floor, I ran down three floors, I will go to the first floor, the door is there, I will go out, don't panic, some people jump from the third floor during an earthquake, and as a result, they are also killed by the fall. In fact, it was later discovered that the building did not collapse, and the people also died.

When there are natural disasters and man-made disasters, you must know that salvation lies in returning to rest, and strength lies in calmness and stability. That creates no value? There is no value at all, but it exhausts my parents, that’s for sure! But if this incident did not happen, wouldn't life be fine?

Living a Peaceful and Stable Life

Some of my classmates appear to be in their fifties or sixties, with the vicissitudes of life etched on their faces. Confidence is a natural form of healthcare and beauty. A person of faith is peaceful and stable, free from daily worries. However, those who dance in the public square often return home with furrowed brows. Over time, this manifests as an unattractive countenance.

But everyone must realise that after gaining faith, you still need to address technical issues. This is my view. For example, if you are peaceful and stable but spend your days playing mahjong, you will certainly not excel in mathematics. Similarly, if Sister JY believes in the Lord and is peaceful and stable, but spends her time reading romance novels, she will certainly not get into university. So, what is the issue today? It lies in the fact that you still need to do your work conscientiously. Doing things diligently is our Christian concept in the Church.

Our church will need many full-time co-workers. Working full-time in the church, your salary will be good. I will not mistreat you, and God will not mistreat you. But the problem is this: if you cannot do your worldly work well, I will not want you either. If you cannot even do your worldly work well, what are you doing coming to the church? The pressure in the church is immense. If you do your worldly work well, and you can manage your stress in the world, you may not even be able to handle the pressure in the church. However, the pressure in the church can still enable us to be peaceful and stable.

Sorting into Categories is Key to Solving Problems

The technical issue is sorting into categories! Why does the Bible constantly talk about sorting into categories? In Genesis Chapter 1, before Adam and Eve were created, things were sorted into categories; in Noah's time, things were also sorted into categories. God loves to write about sorting into categories, because sorting into categories is our most important concept! In the future, I will tell everyone: How to make plans? How to learn? How to prioritise? Start learning to solve the most effective problems. You must prioritise. When you are under immense pressure, what do you do? Do what yields the greatest return.

For example, when I used to work at the polytechnic, the students there were studying engineering, but they went to study accounting. Later, they found that they did not go into accounting. So, they took another engineering course in university. He said that one day, he would use his accounting expertise. But it is not too late to learn it then. He himself would not know if he would use it. So, his problem was that he did not know the priority. So today I tell everyone that you must have a concept: you learn what you need to learn most now. If you learn this matter well, your stress will be resolved, and your work will enter a state of peace and stability. Then learn about the things you need to do in three months, then learn about the things you need to do in six months, and then learn about the things you need to learn in a year... If a person often does this, then he will not have stress in his life.

Although I have pressure in the process of leading the entire church forward, this pressure cannot overwhelm me, because I had anticipated that such a thing would happen in the future, and I made preparations early. Why do we write so much Bible study material? Because it is to prepare for the future. Now our shepherding is very simple. When a person comes in, he studies the entire chapter of Genesis, the 101 course, and the 201 course. So, it is easy for us to do things. When a person comes, instead of me teaching him Genesis and having him take notes and show them to me, the efficiency will increase tenfold, twentyfold, thirtyfold... What is this? This is the preparation I made early on. The preparation I made in the past is effective today. I am now preparing for three years later, and the pressure in the future will disappear. I am re-planning with Brother WC to make an automatic shepherding machine, recording a short video: In the name of Jesus Christ, command the spirit of the devil to retreat! Repeated playback will greatly enhance prayer. This is our research project, and our efficiency will be doubled.

Solving Weaknesses, Reducing Pressure

So today, our era is an era of unlimited possibilities. Today, you are facing pressure. Share what weaknesses are causing your pressure, and then block those weaknesses, and you will change. When you are very comfortable, what should you do? Many of us are in a very comfortable work situation. If you are in a very comfortable work situation, I will give you an idea: create pressure. What does this pressure do? For example, after you solve a problem with a weakness, start preparing for the next step so that you will not be too stressed. Create what kind of pressure for yourself? A learning pressure. Start learning the things you will use in three months. When you face a problem at that time, it will be something you have learned before. Will you still have pressure? You will not have pressure. If you learn about the things you will do in six months, you will not have pressure at that time. Then if you often do this, you will not have pressure.

I will tell you about my testimony. For a while, I often did this, so I kept putting pressure on myself, but I did not have any particularly great pressure. Why not? Because I often prepared for the things I would do in three or six months. Once when I was praying, God told me to do IT outsourcing. How to manage outsourcing? This had very little to do with what I had learned before. But in my prayer, I had the same feeling again. And because I am a very spiritual person, I took all the books on IT outsourcing from the library, and I started reading frantically. I wrote a research report, and I learned IT outsourcing very thoroughly.

Two years later, I was demoted. After being demoted, I went to a company for an interview and found a higher position. Truly, all things work together for good to those who love God. When I went to the interview, the question they asked me was: IT outsourcing. This was exactly what I had learned, my forte. I explained it to him from beginning to end very clearly. There were many applicants, but I got that job. I enjoyed a lot of time in that job, but at the same time, you embarked on a new job, a higher position that I had not done before, which was also a kind of pressure, but because of the previous preparation, that pressure was not enormous.

However, if you often prepare like this, you will be very good! I never thought of becoming a full-time pastor, but because over the past few years, I have read the Bible very carefully, so when I lead Bible studies, I believe everyone still likes it. When I lead a few Singaporeans in Bible study every Saturday, they told me some time ago: Since studying Genesis with you, I have gained a lot, and all the thinking patterns inside me have changed.

Preparing for the Future

So, because of the continuous accumulation of doing things in the past, you will not suddenly have a state of pressure crushing you, because you are always doing things with foresight. So, sorting into categories is planning and understanding, and then you do things reliably, and you will find that the pressure will become less and less, and you will grow healthily. Under the pressure you create for yourself, take 30% of your time every day to do what you will do in the future. Suddenly something happens, and when you cannot accommodate it, then you temporarily move out the 30% of things and solve the current difficulty. Will you have pressure? You will not have pressure. This is stress management. So, sorting into categories is analysing and understanding the law, and then starting to learn and inherit. Never be a headless fly, flying around everywhere, so people must start to have plans!

God gave you your brain to let you think. Why do you need faith in that thinking process? It is to let us learn, analyse, understand and inherit. So, planning can solve many problems. A person without a plan will be under great pressure. Last time we talked about what you should plan to do? Then how to do it, and to what extent? When you sort out such learning patterns, the pressure will disappear immediately in the same environment and the same problem. This is called sorting into categories! The word sorting into categories must enter into you.

Staying Away from the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil

There are several words in our church that must enter into you. The first word is: sorting into categories. The second word is: the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. The tree of the knowledge of good and evil will create many ideas for you, directly corrupting your faith, because the tree of the knowledge of good and evil is talking about the facts. The problems you face are facts, but your faith must be greater than the facts! Recognise the spiritual nature of pressure. Basically, a person in pressure is all lies. In fact, pressure is also good. If you think pressure is bad, you must come out of that lie. Pressure cannot grow. Pressure is a lie and deception, the work of evil spirits. After pressure is generated, the spirit of chaos will come in. When the spirit of chaos comes in, you will be even more chaotic, doing things like a headless fly.

Manifestation of the Spirit of the Dragon

The spirit of the dragon will make people very clumsy. Recently, I discovered one thing: When a person drives away the spirit of the dragon from his body, he will become smart, really obvious. Recently, I also discovered something: There was a child who said to me: Pastor, my money disappeared for no reason. It was in my wallet. The last time I opened my wallet, it was still there, but this time I opened my wallet and it was gone. It was very strange. That is the spirit of the dragon. I chose to believe this child. I do not think he is lying. What he said is true, but we do not know that the operation of the spiritual world can be beyond our imagination. This spirit of the dragon will make people become very stupid, inexplicably lose money, lose time, and become very confused. Even, he does things and does not know that he has done them. That is the spiritual nature of pressure.

Later, I discovered that both pressure and ability are spiritual problems. Hitting the spirit of the dragon and releasing people from the spiritual bondage can greatly improve people's learning ability, and their spirit will become enlightened. So, why do we start to carefully examine this problem from a spiritual perspective under this state of pressure? If it is a spiritual problem, solve the spiritual problem. If it is a technical problem, solve the technical problem. Do not rely on your own intelligence, learn to rely on God. The most important thing to solve people's problems is the Spirit of God. The Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters. God said, “Let there be light,” and there was light. (Genesis 1:1)

Releasing God's Power and Wisdom

So today, pray a lot, release God's power, God's wisdom, and God's ability! God's wisdom is what we people need most in our life. If you have God's ability and wisdom, miracles and wonders will often follow you, often giving you revelation and feeling, and you will live in a state of foresight. Many of us are doing finance. What finance needs most is foresight. If you can predict the rise and fall of stocks, you will be very powerful. So start to pray a lot, do not give up serving, because God is the key to solving our problems.

Maybe when I am saying these words, you may think that I am encouraging you to serve. When some people encounter problems, they say: Pastor, I cannot serve recently. I said: I respect you. In fact, I do not agree with your own choice in my heart, because serving is a manifestation of trusting God. What will you get if you give it up? Your prayer will decrease, the inspiration of God's Spirit will decrease, the ability of foresight will decrease, God's ability will also decrease, and God's wisdom will also decrease. So what are you doing? You will become a headless fly flying around, start to believe in God, you will definitely come out, do not give up, because that is the key to our living.

In the last stage of my worldly work, I was in a state of being overwhelmed. What I regretted most at that time was not praying a lot. I thought I could solve it with my own ability. In fact, I found that people cannot rely on their own intelligence, they must seek to trust God, because pressure has a spiritual aspect and a technical aspect. When you solve both, you will completely solve the problem of pressure!

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**压力是从属灵的世界来的, 用属灵的办法解决属灵的问题就很容易了。** 压力管理是一个很重要的课题,在新加坡大部分的人的抱怨都跟压力有关,但仔细去想压力好像是真实的又不是真实的。人是复杂的,就在于人的感觉,压力管理就是在管理感觉。你觉得压力很大,那可能是个真实的感觉,但有可能是虚假的。人是有感觉的,感觉往往很复杂,沮丧、纠结、负面、难受。但千万别把压力当个技术问题,这样很难解决心态问题。 人常常有压力,觉得事情会垮掉。心态调整好了,要是事情还是垮了,下次遇到也许就不会调整他的心态,因为好像调整了也没有用。事实上,感觉是不可靠的。人的感觉与事实往往不一致。**管理感觉是一生最重要的功课,压力的感受是需要管理的。**

在教会里,压力的管理会直接进到一个属灵的层面,教会会从属灵的层面去处理。我们发现从属灵的层面解决这些问题,会有一个明显的果效,压力的真正的根源不是心态,而是属灵的原因。我们在教会,通过祷告征战在属灵的运作下去处理这个问题,调整好心态,发现事情没有垮掉,就会觉得有用。下次遇到压力又用同样的方式去祷告,发现事情又没垮掉,会惊奇我的神好厉害。明白一切都是神在掌权,我们日常生活的压力会减少直到消失。**但如果不认识神,调整心态也没有用。** 圣经上说温柔的人有福了,温柔的人必得到地土。有人很温柔,被欺负就被欺负,被打就被打,都很温柔。然后他发现也没得到地土,啥也没得着,你再告诉他这个,他会觉得温柔的人没有福,都会挨欺负。世上没有神的人就会这样。 但是对于基督徒,别人打你一拳你把右脸伸过去,不要担心你会白白的受欺负,我们的神是真的会对付那个打你的人,打你的人会感到这个人不能欺负,然后你的问题就会得到解决,**有神的人可以温柔,温柔完了就是有福,有神就会调解压力,解决心态就解决压力,然后什么也垮掉,没有神什么都不管用。**

**压力是从属灵的世界来的,用属灵的办法解决属灵的问题就很容易了**。你和我是永生上帝的儿女,谁能欺负你。神给亚伯拉罕的应许是咒诅你的他要受咒诅,祝福你的他要蒙祝福。如果你是这样的人就会了不起了:亚伯拉罕把四个王给灭了,把罗得给抢过来了,他只有三百一十八个壮士,但还是赢了,回来后很害怕,他就祷告,神就说你不要惧怕,我是你的盾牌,结果周围的人就不敢来打他。所以有神和没神的人解决压力的方法是不一样的,所以解决压力管理就要调节到信主的根基上,不信主,这些没用。 我说的这些是因为我们的神是又真又活的可以管事的,你信靠祂,心态调整好了就管用。我试过很多次,别人打我左脸我就给右脸,拿了我的外衣就把里衣给他,欺负神的儿女的人很惨的,**问题不在乎其他,而是在乎你是永生神的儿女,**在这个根基上就要学会管理感觉,如果是神的儿女但是有不信的心,就完了,耶稣来到世上一直批评门徒说是不信的人、小信的人。**信心加上身份,压力就可以管理了。** **信心能够产生平静安稳的感觉**,如果相信那个事不会垮掉,就不会有压力了,虽然每次都在走钢丝,但每次都过的去,你的信心就越来越强,**这就是圣经里说的本于信以至于信**。在信主上和管理压力的事上我常常走钢丝,从没掉下来过,有一次掉下来就中年危机了,掉到半截神又给我抓上来了,就开始建立教会,建立教会比做所有的事都爽,**有盼望有信心将来会更好,什么事都不会垮掉,神能够掌管,压力立刻消失**,有压力是没有信心没盼望。牧养就是建立信心,信心可以产生美好的感觉,没信心的人里面是痛苦的感觉,就算你给他建议,还是没有信心,你给的建议好像行又好像不行。因为都是在技术层面上来解决,但压力还是极大,有信心就解决问题了。

很多人成为我的粉丝,是因为我真的解决了他们的问题。**压力管理的最高境界就是信心**,或者是自己建造信心,或者是从别人那里领受得到信心,世上的学问都是从技术层面解决压力的问题。要相信我们的神是掌管宇宙万物的神,我这点事都不是事,**信心运作在属灵的世界,压力是从魔鬼的谎言来的,用信心胜过魔鬼就胜过里面的感觉**。 信心可以传到永远,信心是关乎很久以后的事情。如果你活的很辛苦,我说我带你走出房门,找个很黑暗的地方抬头往上看,看到漫天都是星斗,开始想几万年以后,看到永恒里去,你的问题会变小,我们的眼睛就看到眼前这点事,考大学没考好就跳楼了,目光很短,若看到永恒里去,是非常了不起的。

如果一个人他遇到的问题是三年的问题,三年除以一百万年,那三年的问题有多大?一丁点,一百分之零点零零一,如果你看到十万年,几千年的时间都是很小的,甚至几十年都是很小的,所以你就会把问题看扁了,如果你一旦看扁了你的压力就会消失了,但是如果你把你的问题拉回到今生,然后你看这个问题:我这辈子怎么活?那你就压力就大了。如果把这个它带到永恒里去这个问题就会变小,最后一个都没有垮掉。全都好好的,直到今天大家活着好好的,所以信心是解决压力管理的最高境界。 事物的大小跟它所处的空间的大小有关系,如果你处在一个无限大的空间里面,任何的一个东西都是极小的,如果分母无限大,再大的分子几千几万都是极小的事。所以**信心是压力管理的最高境界**。所以弟兄姐妹一定要学会分赐信心。如果你不会分赐信心你就很难。为什么那些人来到我们教会的网站得到喂养以后他的问题会变小,因为他得着的是信心。 我们再说一个:如果一个人的盼望产生正面的好的感觉,绝望就会产生负面的感觉,如果信心产生的是一个正面的感觉,不信就会产生负面的感觉,什么叫做不信?认为事情会垮掉,那是一个负面的信心,会很惨。

所以今天我们开始学会有信心,有盼望。这个信心和盼望又不用花钱,为什么不要呢?我相信将来我会更好,我相信将来神会供应我一切;我相信将来我可以不用去医院里躺着,相信就是一个选择,我有盼望我有信心,那不可能的事就会成为可能。我相信如果生了病神也会医治我。这是未来的事,你未来的事就没有压力了。 我们当中有一个弟兄,他跟我讲:他爸爸手里面有百十来万,不过现在有个百十来万真的也不是很多的钱。然后他就说:如果我得了糖尿病二十万,如果得了心脏病二十万,如果还得了什么症几十万,一百万都不够,真是压力巨大,因为他对未来的判断是这样的判断。所以他的压力巨大。 我觉得有很多东西很多压力都是自已杜撰的,也就是心态的问题。前一段时间有一个姐妹她工作非常认真,然后她就会产生压力,因为她认为我如果我不这么认真的去做,我会出事,其实我告诉你她不用这么认真做也不会出事。我知道你认真做是一个好习惯,但是你认真不能够变成压力呀!所以认真是认真,但是可以没有压力还是可以继续认真,所以在整个信心里面,不可能的事会成为可能。

我举几个例子:摩西带着三百万以色列人,前面是红海,后面是埃及的追兵。我问你压力大不大,如果用人的角度看:红海没有桥,红海也没有船,三百万咱们这么算,用今天的空中客车,八百人一架,一架飞机坐八百人,十架飞机就是八千人,一百架飞机是八万人。一千架飞机是八十万人,一共要四千架飞机,飞机回来跑四千次才能运过去,那是极大的物流工程,这个工程是个巨大无比的。挪亚把这些所有的物种都整来要进方舟,那是一个极大的工程,你用人的能力去试试看?但是如果神把那个红海分开,以色列人过红海如走干地,问题解决了没有?解决了。**神迹奇事是解决问题一个关键,如果神迹常常发生在我们生命当中,不可能的事变成可能,压力真的会消失**。这就是为什么我很喜欢在教会在讲神迹奇事,我也喜欢听神迹奇事的见证,因为神迹奇事透过你的信心释放出来它会解决问题。 后来摩西死了,约书亚带着三百万的以色列人过约旦河,那也是一个巨大的工程,三百万人过了红海,三百万人也过了约旦河,约旦河的水断流,然后两边的水成了强环,结果约旦河的水断了成为干地,约书亚就带着以色列人过去了。还有压力吗?但是如果河水不开,三百万人迁到迦南地,三百万人过约旦河不是件容易的事。一艘船抵八百人,四千次运过去。

所以弟兄姐妹一定要知道我们的神是一个行神迹的神,如果我们的神是一个行神迹的神,什么压力也没有,约书亚在面对带领以色列人进迦南地这样的事情的时候非常的惧怕。神说:刚强壮胆不用惧怕,因为神要与你同在,你平生的日子断没有人可以站立在你的面前。**解决压力就是透过信心在属灵的层面上运作,这是最好的解决办法**。没有神的日子我真的不知道要怎么过。没有神就没有神迹,全都是人为的。如果真的要带三百万的以色列人过红海、过约旦河那真是很难想象的,开始知道压力的管理是个属灵的事。

一个人产生了压力的感觉他会有出现什么症状?你自已去看:压力来的时候,你的效率非常低,那压力来的时候它基本上无招架之力,也没有工作效率。我把这个东西比作什么呢?比作交通拥堵,我开车的时候我常常看到一种现象,就是拥堵的现象,交通堵塞的出现时候很辛苦的,每个人都使劲挤,结果挤得水泄不通,后来过了那个路口发现前面什么事也没有发生,就是大家挤在那块了。然后那个地方就是挤了所以它就慢了。也就是说交通拥堵的有一个数学模型计算,它的效率降到百分之十,因为大家都抢那个路就很挤,很挤效率就低,本来是可以每个小时在那地方有多少辆车经过,如果大家都去抢不过交通规则,产生拥堵效率降低到百分之十,也就是说只有十分之一的流量,所以今天我告诉你纽约大楼被撞的时候,没有人能打得通电话,大家都在打电话就大家都打不通电话,那电子设备的效率大大地降低,我是搞网络的我知道。也就是说网络产生拥堵的时候它的效率是非常地低。

今天你在压力之下实际上是一个工作效率低下的一个状态,然后工作效率越低,压力就越大,压力越大效率就越低,效率越低就压力越大所以人就进到崩溃,所以说:**管理压力是提升效率的关键**。上个礼拜我们讲到就是提升工作效率,这个礼拜我在讲管理压力,为什么?因为压力大效率就会非常地低,所以当你有信心然后你的效率就会上来,同样的问题可以很快地解决。解决压力的问题第一个就是除去压力的感觉,第二就是着手做提高效率的事情,从那个死循环里头出来,人要把圣经读熟了,一辈子可有智慧了。得救在乎归回安息,得力在乎平静安稳。如果一个社会都在那里拼,大家去抢那个资源产生拥堵,然后那个资源利用率就降低,大幅度地降低,所以社会成本就大幅度上升。 大家学过社会学吗?有谁知道社会成本是怎么回事?我跟大家讲一个社会成本的观念,一个人跟另外一个人打官司,我问你创造任何价值吗?然后拼个你死我活的。也消耗法官的资源,消耗律师的资源,这些人全部都不创造任何价值,如果这个社会很多的官司要打,很多的律司要请,弄完了以后就更多的问题,更多的人要打官司,最后连法官也被告上去了。这个社会成本非常地高。如果一个社会没有罪案,没有这些纷争,社会成本一下子降到很低了,然后把这些社会的成本可以分配资源,在分配的时候这个社会就会变得非常地富裕,也就是说今天我们一定要知道神的设计是怎样的。你比喻说一个教会里面内争不段,你掐我掐大家先后掐,这个教会还能服侍人吗?有人不进去还好,进去以后被掐,所以今天我们一定要开始了解这种观念,这种观念不得了,也就是说得救在于乎归回安息,你好好的安息问题就会少。

做人做事要平静安稳,不要毛毛躁躁。有一个人在楼上,好几层楼高,结果地震就往楼下跑,一跑跑地下室去了,结果楼一倒就在地下室闷着,他就不用有压力了,他就在压力底下了。你跑到地下室去做什么呢?我告诉大家,在任何的这种慌乱的世代,任何一个战争、天灾、人祸这种世代,冷静的人得着力量,冷静的人他很难死掉。你千万别慌,然后开始左看右看我该怎么走,我在几楼,我在四楼,我跑下去三层楼,我就到一楼,门在那里,我走出去,你别慌慌张张的,有的人一地震从三楼跳下去,结果也摔死了。其实后来发现那楼没有倒,人也死了。 天灾人祸的时候你一定要知道得救在乎归回安息,得力在乎平静安稳。我为什么鼓励大家好好信主,带着家人信主,在我们家来讲就是一个典型的例子,我一九八一年去读大学,后来没多久我妹妹得了狂躁型的精神病,家里的刀、剪刀、斧子都得藏起来,把我爸我妈累坏了,那创造什么价值?什么价值都没有,可把我爸我妈折腾了,要命呀!但是如果这个事不发生,日子不是过得挺好吗?

我的同学有长得像五十岁、六十岁的,他们经过的沧桑岁月全都写在脸上,所以有信心的人是自然的保健和美丽。有信仰的人,他平静安稳,每天都不愁;可在外面跳广场舞的人,回到家以后满脸愁容,久了以后他就长成一副难看的脸。 但是大家一定要知道,你有了信心以后,你还是要解决技术层面的问题,这是我的观念。比如,你很平静安稳,每天你打麻将,那你的数学肯定考不好。就像JY姐妹一样,她也信主,她也平静安稳,然后她每天读言情小说,那肯定考不上大学,所以今天问题在哪呢?**就在于你还得认认真真的做事,认认真真的做事是我们基督徒在教会里的观念。** 接下来我们教会需要很多的全职同工,在教会里做全职同工,你的薪水是不错的,我不会亏待你,神也不会亏待你,但问题来了,问题是如果你世上的工作做不好,我也不会要你的,因为你连世上的工都做不好,你到教会来干什么呢?教会的压力很大,你把世上的工做好,在世上你能够管理好你的压力,你来教会做还不一定能够胜任呢,所以教会里的压力很大,但是教会里的压力仍然可以使我们平静安稳。

那技术层面的问题,就是**各从其类**!为什么圣经里不断地讲各从其类?《创世记》第一章亚当和夏娃被造之前各从其类,到了挪亚的时候也各从其类,神很喜欢写各从其类,因为各从其类是我们最重要的观念!将来我会告诉大家:如何做计划?如何学习?如何做优先顺序的排列?开始学习解决最有效的问题,一定要排优先次序,当你压力巨大的时候,你做什么?**做最有回报的。** 比如,我以前在理工学院工作的时候,那里的学生他们是学工程的,但是他们去学做会计,后来发现他们也没有去做会计,所以他们在大学里又读了一个工课程,他说将来有一天,我会用到我会计的专业,可到那个时候再学也不晚呀,但是他自己也不会知道会不会用到。所以他的问题是不知道优先顺序。所以今天我告诉大家一定要有个观念,你学现在最需要学的东西,如果你这个事情学好了,你的压力就会解决,你的工作就会进入平静安稳的状态,然后再去学三个月以后要做的事情,再学六个月以后要做的事情,然后在学一年以后要学的东西......如果一个人经常这样做的话,那他的一生是不会有压力的。

虽然我在带领整个教会向前奔跑的过程中有压力,但这个压力对于我来说没法压垮我,因为我早就预计将来会有这样的事情出现,我就早早的做预备,为什么我们写这么多查经的资料?因为是为将来做预备,现在我们牧养非常简单,一个人进来查整章《创世记》、101课程、201课程,所以我们做事很容易的。当来一个人,不是我给他讲《创世记》,让他记笔记,然后给我看,效率就会提高十倍,二十倍,三十倍...那这是什么呢?这是我早些做的预备,以前做的预备今天就有效率了,我现在做三年后的预备,那将来的压力就会消失,我在跟WC弟兄重新规划,做自动牧养机,录个小视频:奉耶稣基督的名,命令魔鬼的灵退下去!重复播放,祷告大幅度的提升,这是我们研究的项目,我们的效率会加倍的提升。

所以今天咱们的时代是有无限可能的时代,今天你正在面对压力,你分享一下压力到底是那个短板造成了你的压力,然后把那个短板堵上,你就会发生改变,当你很舒服的时候怎么办呢?我们当中有很多人正在一个很舒服的工作状况里面,如果你在一个很舒服的工作状态里面,我给你出个主意,你创造一个压力,这个压力做啥呢?比如:当你解决一个短板的问题后,开始预备下一个台阶迈出去的时候不至于太有压力,给自己创造一个什么压力呢?一个学习的压力,开始学三个月以后我要用的东西,到那个时候你所面临的问题刚好是你之前学习过的,你还会有压力吗?你就没有压力了,如果学六个月以后做的东西,到那个时候你也不会有压力,然后你常常这么做,你就会没有压力。 我跟大家讲讲我的见证,我有一段时间经常这么做,所以也一直给自己压力,也没有那种特别大的压力,没有为什么呢?因为我常常预备我三个月或六个月之后我要做的事情,有一次我在祷告的时候,神告诉我去做It的外包,那外包怎么管理?这跟我之前所学的没有什么太大的关系,但是在我祷告中又有同样的感动,而我是一位很属灵的人,我就把图书馆所有关于IT外包的书籍拿回来,我就开始拼命的读,我写了个研究报告,我就把IT外包学的非常透彻。

两年之后我被降职了,被降职以后,我去一家公司面试,就找到一个更高的位置。真是**万事相互效力叫爱神的人得益处**,那去面试的时候,问我的问题是:IT外包。这刚好是我学过的,我最拿手的,我就从头到尾的向他解释,非常的清晰,应聘的人很多,但那份工作就被我拿到了。在那个工作享受了很多长时间,但同时你走上了一个新的工作岗位中,一份我之前所没做的更高的一个职位,也是一种压力,但是那个压力因为之前的预备,那个压力也不会巨大无比。 然而你常常这样预备,你会非常的不错!我从来没想过做全职牧师,但是因为过去这些年,我读《圣经》,读的非常认真,所以我带领查《圣经》时,我相信大家还是很喜欢的,当我每周六带几位新加坡人查《圣经》,他们前一段时间跟我讲:自从跟你查《创世记》,得到了很多,我里面的思维模式全部改变。

**所以因为过去做事在不断积累的过程中,你就不会有突然间压力压到崩溃的状态中,因为你永远都在先知先觉中做事**。所以各从其类就是规划了解,然后你做事情很靠谱,你就会发现压力会越来越少,你就会健康的成。你在自己创造的压力的情况下,每天拿出百分之三十的时间做你未来要做的事情,突然有一件事发生了,当你容不下时,然后你就把百分之三十的事情暂时挪出去,把当前的困难解决了,你会有压力吗?你不会有压力的,这就是压力管理。所以**各从其类就是分析了解规律,然后开始学习和传承**,千万不要做无头苍蝇,到处飞,所以人一定要开始有规划! **神赐给你的大脑是要让你思考,那个思考的过程当中为什么需要有信心?让我们去学习、分析、了解和传承,所以规划可以解决很多的问题,一个没有规划的人,他会压力很大的**。上次我们讲到你要规划做什么?然后怎么做,然后做到什么程度?你把这样的学习规律整理出来,同样的环境同样的问题,你的压力立刻消失,这叫各从其类!各从其类这个词要进到你的里面。

我们教会有几个词一定要进到你的里面,第一个词叫:各从其类,第二个词叫:识别善恶。识别善恶会给你制造出很多的想法,直接败坏你的信心,因为识别善恶讲的是事实,你所面临的问题是事实,但是你的信心要大过于事实!认清压力的属灵本质,基本上一个人处在压力当中都是谎言,其实压力也是好的,如果你认为压力是不好的,你一定要从那个谎言里走出来,压力是不可能成长的,**压力是谎言欺骗,是邪灵的工作**,然后产生压力以后混乱的灵就会进来,混乱的灵进来、你就会更加的混乱,然后做就像无头苍蝇做的事情。

龙的灵会让人很笨拙,最近我发现一件事,当一个人把他身上龙的灵赶走,他会变的聪明,真的很明显。最近我还发现一个什么样的事情呢?就是有一个孩子他跟我说:牧师我的钱莫名其妙就没有了,就在钱包里,上一次打开钱包还有,这次打开钱包就没有了,非常奇怪,那就是龙的灵,我选择相信这个孩子,我不觉得他在说谎,他说的是真的,只是我们不知道灵界的运作可以超乎我们所想象的,这龙的灵会使人变的非常的笨,使人莫名其妙的失去金钱,失去时间,就会很混乱,甚至,他做了东西不知道自己做了,那就是压力的属灵本质。 后来我发现压力和能力都是属灵的问题,打击龙的灵,把人从属灵的辖制当中释放出来可以使人的学习能力大幅度的提升,他的灵就会开窍,所以,我们为什么要开始在这种压力的状态之下通过属灵的眼光好好审查这个问题?**如果它是一个属灵的问题就解决属灵的问题,如果是一个技术的问题就解决技术的问题,不要依靠自己的聪明,学习依靠神,解决人的问题最重要的就是神的灵。神的灵运行在水面上,神说要有光就有了光。(《创世记》1:1)**

所以今天大量的祷告,释放神的能力、神的智慧、神的能力!神的智慧是我们人一生最需要的东西,如果你拥有了神的能力和智慧,神迹奇事就会常常随着你,常常给你启示和感动,你会活在先知先觉的状态的里面。我们当中有很多人做金融的,做金融最需要的就是先知先觉,如果你能预计股票的涨落,你会非常厉害,所以开始做大量的祷告,不要放弃服侍,**因为神是解决我们问题的关键**。 也许我在讲这些话,你可能觉得我在鼓励你服侍,一些人遇到问题时,说:牧师,我最近不能服侍,我说:我尊重你。其实我心里不认同你自己的选择,**因为服侍是信靠神的一种表现**。你放下,以后你会得着什么?你祷告会减少,神的灵感动就会减少,先知先觉的能力就会减少,神的能力也会减少,神的智慧也会减少,那你在做什么呢?就会变成一个无头苍蝇乱飞,开始相信神,你一定会走出来,不要放下,因为那是我们活着的关键。 我属世工作最后的一个阶段,我处在焦头烂额的状态。我当时最后悔的就是没有大量的祷告,我以为我靠我自己的能力可以解决,其实我发现人不可以依靠自己的聪明,要寻求信靠神,因为压力有属灵的层面,有技术的层面,你两个都解决了,就彻底的解决了压力的问题!
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