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【Sermon】Holy Dissatisfaction

2016-01-11 8,722 Sermon

Review:

Last week, we conducted a review of the pastoral work in 2015 and a projection for the work in 2016. Why do we need to do reviews and projections? Because we have an anticipation for the New Year and a hope for a new season from God. We yearn for a greater breakthrough for God's sake. We are not content to just stay on the original basis. We are eager to comprehensively improve our system, to possess the land in the spiritual realm, and to bring down the Kingdom of God. It is because we are not satisfied with what we have now that we yearn to accomplish greater things for God. This has become our sacred dissatisfaction in our hearts! Today, let us look at a typical figure in the Bible with a sense of sacred dissatisfaction - Jacob.

Scripture:

Genesis 28:16-17: And Jacob awaked out of his sleep, and he said, Surely the Lord is in this place; and I knew it not. And he was afraid, and said, How dreadful is this place! this is none other but the house of God, and this is the gate of heaven.

Prayer:

Lord Jesus, we ask for your Spirit to lead us to a new breakthrough. We joyfully welcome the arrival of your new season. We are not satisfied with just staying at the present stage. We yearn for a greater breakthrough. We thank you for what we have already received, but we are not proud. We are not discouraged by our shortcomings, but we must continue to move forward and break through. May you work in the hearts of every brother and sister, and open up our hearts to the yearning for fresh things. We are never satisfied and never stay put. We never stop climbing the mountain of the Lord and entering the temple of the God of Jacob. We pray in the name of Jesus Christ!

Scripture Background - The Story of Jacob

Jacob is a legendary biblical figure, and today's story begins with Jacob leaving his father and returning to his own clan to marry, as his father had requested. Imagine such a scene, Jacob and Isaac at this time. Isaac is Jacob's father. These two fathers and sons are like people who came to the city to work from the countryside. They were penniless, but they have become the richest people in that place. After Jacob received the blessing from his father, he was arranged to return to his own clan to marry a wife. Interestingly, his wealthy father did not give him a penny. Today's passage is about Jacob having a dream while camping in the wild on his way back to his hometown. He saw the angels of God going up and down the ladder. After waking up from the dream, he said the words in today's scripture, This is the house of God and the gate of heaven.

After such a beautiful dream, Jacob's nightmarish life began. Jacob came to the house of his uncle Laban and fell in love with Laban's youngest daughter, Rachel. I was in love in high school. Everyone should know that when a young and vigorous young man falls in love with a girl, he can basically do anything, and I mean he is willing to pay any price. Jacob agreed to serve Laban for seven years, herding sheep for him. After seven years, Rachel would marry Jacob as the reward. But what I did not expect was that Laban actually married his eldest daughter, Leah, to Jacob after seven years. Jacob unknowingly slept with Leah without knowing it. It was too late when he found out. It is true that heroes have a weakness with beautiful women. Laban even coerced Jacob to serve him for another seven years with enticements. Well, Jacob is true love! He served Laban for another seven years, and finally got his wish and married Rachel. The real challenge began after this. Jacob's two wives should have been spoiled by Laban. They were always jealous and compared each other at home. Comparing each other to see who could give birth to more children for Jacob, but basically did not do farm work or housework. Jacob herded sheep and farmed from morning till night, and had to listen to his two wives arguing when he returned home. From this entire relationship, it can be summed up that Jacob was in a situation of being a live-in son-in-law. And Laban's two daughters were basically in a state of princess syndrome. From a family point of view, Jacob was quite a failure.

From a career point of view, Jacob worked for Laban for 14 years, and then another 6 years. During the 6 years, Laban changed Jacob's wages 10 times. Jacob wanted to return to his father Isaac, which was the place God promised to go to. When he made this request to Laban, Laban did not allow it. Because Jacob herded sheep well, Laban did not want to lose this money-making machine, so he stopped Jacob from doing so. Wow, Jacob is so pitiful! He is completely an image of a migrant worker whose wages are deducted by the boss. You may think that Jacob is a very unsuccessful person when the story is told here. For a man, the situation in his family and career can be said to be terrible! Then I will directly tell you about Jacob's later situation. Jacob is the later Israel. He later became the wealthiest man of that generation. His descendants are the 12 tribes of Israel. The God we believe in is called the God of Jacob. The name of God and the name of Jacob are put together. You can imagine how precious Jacob is in the eyes of God. Then today we will take a good look at the quality of Jacob, which is called sacred dissatisfaction!

What is sacred dissatisfaction!

What is sacred dissatisfaction? I give it the most popular explanation, which is to get the best! That is to say, once you find something better in life, you put what you thought was the best in second place. Adjust the order when you find it, and adjust the order when you find it, until you find the best one, the one that cannot be better. Jacob is so great in that, when he was in his mother's womb, Jacob found the best, which is God. In fact, many people misunderstood Jacob. Many people will say that Jacob defrauded the blessing from his father, not for money. Many people like to link blessings with money alone and criticize Jacob for being snobbish. In fact, he did not. Jacob received the blessing from his father, but everyone knows that when he came out of his father's house to go back to his hometown to marry a wife, his father did not give Jacob a penny. If Jacob really valued money, he should have complained but he did not. Jacob was born to live for God, and such a person is a person with a mission. Jacob's logical system is different from that of ordinary people. Jacob listened to his father and grandfather, living and dying, so can people not die! From childhood, there was a concept of eternal life in Jacob, and Jacob kept pursuing this concept of eternal life. This is sacred dissatisfaction! If people want to live well, they must have a clear understanding of life and a clear understanding of living. Next, let's study Jacob carefully to see what special qualities this person has that enable him to pursue the true meaning of life with this sacred dissatisfaction.

Sacred Ambition

The first thing we want to look at is this Kingdom ambition. Jacob is a person who has ambition for the Kingdom of Heaven, and his actions and personality reveal his ambition everywhere. In his mother's womb, he grabbed the ankle of his brother Esau and was born. Jacob is a child who is not willing to be second to others even before he is born. Even something that is almost impossible to change, that is, the status of the eldest son, Jacob said in his heart that he must change such a thing. This is Jacob's ambition.

I don’t know if you have watched a newly released movie called Mr. Six. The protagonist in the story is Lao Liu, who is an old man in his 50s and 60s. Lao Liu was actually a gangster in society when he was young. Until he was old, the term Lao Pao Er was used to describe the local ruffians in Beijing. Lao Liu has defended brotherhood and Jianghu morality throughout his life. He was shocked that his brothers who were born and died with him no longer live for their ideals, and began to be restricted by work and life. When he mentioned the so-called brotherhood and Jianghu morality, everyone sneered at him and thought he was an old stubborn who lived in the old days.
When I was in junior high school, there was a boy in my class who was very good at singing and playing guitar. I found that he could attract the attention of many girls. I was very jealous. Haha, I also had an ambition to surpass him and attract everyone's attention. Then I took a broom as a guitar, played and sang, and found that it did attract a lot of attention, but it did not seem to be admiration, haha!

I’m not telling everyone to talk about Jianghu loyalty or brooms in the church. I’m saying that this is what people need in this era. Why make such a movie? It's because people are looking for something. When the movie ends, many people will applaud Lao Liu's image and be moved by it. People are constantly seeking those things that they can live and die for. People are constantly trying to find a home in the depths of their hearts, that is, why they live. Lao Liu lived for his ideals, and finally died for his ideals. He never gave up his Jianghu rules until his death. This is Lao Liu's ambition. Jacob's ambition is to get God. From the womb to the day he left this world, he lived for it and died for it. Then I want to ask, what are we trying to do with our hearts, what do we live for, and what do we die for? I think if we find it, we can find the meaning of living. Then back to the Bible, the most wonderful life and the most meaningful life is like Jacob, living for God and dying for God. God puts eternal life in everyone's heart. Whether we value it or not, whether we have an ambition for eternal life, and whether we are willing to pay the price for eternal life, that is our choice.

Sacred Security

Another characteristic of Jacob's character is his extraordinary sense of security! Everyone should know that the whole thing is actually quite interesting. After Jacob received the blessing from his father, his father Isaac asked Jacob to return to his hometown to marry a wife. Everyone should know that the road back to his hometown was long and the journey was long. Isaac did not give Jacob a penny. How do you know? If Jacob had money, would he sleep in the wild? Not only did he have no money, but I believe he did not bring many clothes. If he had clothes, Jacob could probably sleep with his clothes as a pillow, but we know that Jacob slept with his head on a stone. Because Jacob was full of trust in God, he could enjoy a very stable sense of security in any environment. It is reflected in the first point that he just received the blessing and came out as a poor and destitute image. Jacob did not doubt his father's blessing. If an ordinary person, I just received the blessing and then slept on the street, what blessing, let's withdraw! Second, sleeping alone in the wild, what if you encounter a lion or a tiger! Jacob was not worried at all. He slept soundly and had beautiful dreams! What an amazing person!

I remember when I was in love in high school, I really didn’t like my girlfriend being with many other boys. Because I didn’t know God, I always wanted to control some things. I often hid behind the bushes and watched! Hmm! You didn’t go home with me today. I want to see who you go home with. Everyone should know that sometimes it’s very cold in winter, so I suffer from the cold and must investigate thoroughly, haha! How insecure! But it won’t happen now.
Therefore, brothers and sisters, we must learn to have a sense of security in the church! Jacob knew that his life was controlled by God, and God would not let him die in such a daze before he completed his mission. We must also know in the church that Jesus Christ is king and reigns! We don’t need to do something to reign for Jesus Christ! Don’t cross the line and manage things that are not your responsibility. Do your job well. This is God’s church. God will not allow it to collapse. We don’t need to worry so much! Jacob’s sense of security comes from God. My father blessed me and I am very safe. Jacob’s blessing to his father is unshakable, not half-hearted, but wholeheartedly, this is the sense of security from God!

The Sacred Dream

Jacob was a dreamer! Understand that this was a man sleeping on the streets! He dreamt that Jehovah God said to him, I am the Lord, the God of your father Abraham, and the God of Isaac; the land on which you lie, I will give it to you and to your descendants. This was what Jehovah said to Isaac in a dream, and Isaac believed it. Even if Jehovah were to give me a promise through a dream, I would believe it. Why? Because Jacob himself had long dreamt of such things coming to pass in his life.

The main point is, we must learn from Jacob's character of dreaming and wanting to dream. A person without dreams is numb, living like a walking corpse, which is pitiful! We must begin to be people with dreams, for only with dreams do we have the drive to strive, the determination and motivation to run towards the goal!

The Sacred Rich Mindset (No Complaining)

Another important quality in Jacob is that he had the mindset of a rich man. Understand that Jacob volunteered for Laban, working without wages for over 14 years. Plus, he left home with nothing, meaning Jacob was poor for at least 14-20 years. But strangely, you never read about Jacob complaining in the Bible. You never see Jacob crying about being poor; don't you find that odd? Not only did Jacob not cry about being poor, but also, understand that Jacob was working unjustly as a volunteer. After agreeing to work for 7 years, Laban promised to give him his younger daughter Rachel in marriage, but Laban broke his promise, and Jacob worked for another 7 years. He was already poor, and then he was treated unfairly. Would you complain if you were in his shoes? I think if it were me, I would be at my wit's end, but not Jacob. He not only did not complain, but also worked diligently, tending the sheep exceptionally well. This is Jacob's rich mindset. A person with a rich mindset is one who doesn't complain about anything, a person who is generous and gives (Jacob knew that God was directing his life, that God was in control of his life!).

There is a TED speaker named Kelly McGonigal, who gave a speech called How to Make Stress Your Friend. She is a seasoned psychologist, and the focus of her work is to help more people be healthy and happy. She spent 10 years telling people about the dangers of stress, telling them that stress would harm their health and bring crises to their lives, studies, and work. She regarded stress as a major enemy that hindered people's mental health, trying to eliminate people's stress through understanding the harmfulness of stress. Later, she discovered that she had made a huge mistake. When she did this, she found that it brought even greater stress to people, and the disadvantages far outweighed the advantages. The United States conducted a survey, which monitored 30,000,000 Americans for 8 years. This survey mentioned two questions: 1. How much stress did you feel you faced in your life last year? 2. Do you think this stress will harm your health? Then, after 8 years, they looked at how many people had died. The bad news is that the results showed that the mortality rate increased by 43% for those who thought they were under high pressure, but this is only really effective for those who believe that stress will harm their health. An interesting survey result is that after 8 years, 182,000 people died. These 180,000 people were not under high pressure, but these 180,000 people had a common understanding that stress would harm their health. If such research is true, this number is astonishing, even higher than the harm cancer does to people. This is why Kelly was shocked, because she spent 10 years telling people that stress harms their health. Later, the United States conducted another study, studying a population base of 1,000,000 people, with ages ranging from 34-93. The first question was the same: What kind of stress did you feel you were under last year? The second question was: How much time do you spend helping your friends, community, and organization? Then they investigated how many people died after 5 years. Regarding the stress part, the survey results were similar to the first time, with the mortality rate increasing by 30%. However, those who spent time helping others and caring for others, the survey showed that the connection between stress and death was absolutely 0%. I'm not talking about stress; I'm talking about giving.

In the book The Blessed Church, Robert Morris, the senior pastor of Gateway Church, raised a very pointed question, which is, who exactly is the preacher of the church? The book records that 99% of church members will point to the church's pastor and full-time preachers. The biblical model is that God longs for every church member to become a servant, to serve the world. The book records that in the 20th century, God had a novel work, that is, he wanted to put all kinds of gifts in his people, the purpose is - to bless others and show that the gospel is the power of God. That is to say, brothers and sisters, we are a group of people who have the gifts of God, maybe you are an apostle, maybe you are a prophet, maybe you have the gift of evangelism, maybe you are the later pastors and teachers. We must strive to discover the gifts that God has added to our personal lives. That is to say, God's intention is that everyone is called to be a preacher, but whether we are willing to obey and respond to God's call. God has given gifts to every congregation, and we must experience the greatest satisfaction and joy in it, that is, to use the gifts God has given us in God's constantly advancing and expanding will for us and the world. Only by serving the needs of others can we experience true satisfaction and a sense of mission!

Brothers and sisters, I encourage everyone to start having the mindset of a rich man. That is, don't always think that you can't do it, start taking action to serve, don't see your shortcomings, but see the abundance of God. 2 Corinthians 4:7, But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellence of the power may be of God and not of us. We are hard-pressed on every side, yet not crushed; we are perplexed, but not in despair. I have a new understanding of this sentence, that being hard-pressed on every side and being perplexed not only refers to external pressure and difficult situations, but also includes our own lack, our weakness and inadequacy. But God's ability makes our weakness strong and our lack satisfied, because this ability comes from God. With God backing us up, what are we afraid of? In fact, we can boldly rise up to serve, starting from serving the weak in the church, and step by step we can serve this generation. This is the mindset of a rich man!

The Sacred Loyalty (Enjoy What You Do With Your Hands)

Jacob was a person who enjoyed the work of his hands. In fact, this was quite difficult for Jacob at the time! Jacob was also a person. Everyone, try to put yourself in Jacob's situation and imagine it. His two wives did nothing, enjoying themselves at home. He was out there raising sheep and farming from morning till night. When he came home, he faced two wives who were arguing and jealous. He was already very tired, and when he came home, he had to listen to his two wives quarrel. He worked for Laban for 14 years for nothing. Now he wanted to go home to visit his relatives, but Laban tried his best to stop him. His family life failed, and his career failed. Can everyone imagine Jacob's mood when he was herding sheep? Maybe he was herding sheep on the grassland while singing Boundless Oceans, Vast Skies, I once doubted myself, walking in the grassland, never bearing fruit, no matter what dreams I planted, every drop of sweat I shed, my life became thicker, walking out of frustration before seeing a new universe. Boundless oceans, vast skies, after being brave, I want to herd sheep and break the chains of fate. Hahaha, Jacob cheered himself up while herding sheep, otherwise he would have been really frustrated! It was in such an environment that Jacob developed the ability to enjoy the work he did with his hands. Only when he was herding sheep was Jacob the happiest and most enjoyable. Herding sheep became Jacob's best time to adjust his mood!

In our lives, we will all face challenges and frustrations. Working with an unwilling and frustrated mood is also a day, enjoying it and working with enthusiasm is also a day, so why don't we enjoy what we do with our hands! I think Jacob understood this, so later when Jacob was herding sheep, he became very focused. He would not allow those things that interfered with his focus to enter his mind, and began to learn to enjoy the work in his hands to the fullest.
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上个礼拜我们做了一个对于2015年牧养工作的回顾和对2016年工作的展望,为什么我们要做回顾和展望,因为我们对于新的一年有一个期待,对神的新的季节有一个盼望,我们渴慕能够一个更加大的突破,为了神的缘故。我们不甘愿只是停留在原来的基础上,我们渴慕更加全面的完善我们的体系,在属灵的地界得地为业,把神的国度带下来。就是因为我们不满足现在我们所拥有的,我们渴慕为神成就更加大的事情,这就成为了我们心中神圣的不满足!那今天我们就来看一下圣经当中一位典型的带着神圣不满足感的人物 – 雅各

主耶稣求你的灵来带领我们有一个全新的突破,我们要欢喜迎接你全新季节的到来。我们不满足只是停留在现有的阶段,我们渴慕有更加大的突破。我们对我们已经得着的感谢你,但我们不骄傲;我们对我们做的不足的地方也不丧胆,我们要继续勇往直前突破。求你在每一个弟兄姐妹的心中动工,开启我们心中对新鲜事物的渴慕,我们永不满足,也永不驻足。永不停息的登耶和华的山,进雅各神的殿,奉耶稣基督的名祷告!

什么是神圣的不满足感,我给它一个最最通俗的解释就是,要得着上好的!就是说,生命当中一旦发现更好的,就把本来以为最好的排在第二位,在发现就在调整顺序,在发现就在调整顺序,直到找到那最好的,找到那个不能在好的。雅各这个人厉害就厉害在,在他妈妈肚子里的时候,这个雅各就找到了最好的,就是神。其实很多人误会了雅各,很多人会说,这个雅各从他的老爸那里骗取了祝福,还不是为了钱。很多人喜欢把祝福单单和钱挂钩,就批评雅各势力。其实没有,这个雅各从他的父亲那里领受了祝福,但是大家知道他从他父亲那里出来,去老家娶媳妇,他父亲一分钱也没给雅各。这个雅各如果真的看中钱,他应该会抱怨但是他没有。这个雅各一出生就为神而活,而这样的人就是带着使命的人。雅各的逻辑体系和普通的人的逻辑体系不一样,这个雅各听爸爸讲,听爷爷讲,活着活着就死了,那人能不能不死呢!从小在这个雅各的里面就有一个永生的观念,并且这个雅各为了这个永生的观念他不断的追求,这就是神圣的不满足感!人要想活的好就一定要对生命有一个清楚的认识,对活着有一个清楚的认识。那接下来我们就来好好研究一下这个雅各,看这样的一个人,他的身上到底有什么特别的素质,使他能够带着这个神圣的不满足感极力的追求生命的真谛。

第一个我们要来看的就是这个天国的企图心。雅各是一个对天国有企图心的人,从他的行事为人和性格上处处都透露着企图心。在妈妈肚子里,他就抓着他哥哥以扫的脚踝出生。雅各是一个还没出生就不甘于人后的孩子。就连一个几乎不能改变的东西,就是这个长子的名分,雅各都心中说,我一定要改变这样的事情,这就是雅各的企图心。 不懂大家有没有看过最新上映的一部电影叫做《老炮儿》,故事中的主人公叫做老六,他是一个50-60 岁的老头儿。那老六从年轻的时候其实就是一个社会上的小混混儿,直至年老,那老炮儿这个词就是形容北京的地痞这样的词儿。老六的一生捍卫着兄弟义气和江湖道义,他很震惊当时跟他一起出生入死的兄弟,一个个不在为他们理想而活,开始被工作,生活限制住,当他在提所谓的兄弟情义和江湖道义的时候,大家都嗤之以鼻,认为他是一个活在旧时代的老顽固。 我在上初中的时候,班上有一个男生很会唱歌和弹吉他,就发现他可以吸引很多女生儿的眼光。心里就很嫉妒,哈哈,我也有一个企图心,就是超越他,把大家的眼光吸过来。然后我就拿着一把扫帚当吉他,边弹边唱,发现确实吸引了不少眼光,不过貌似不是崇拜的眼光,哈哈!

我这么说不是让大家讲江湖义气,或者在教会里谈扫帚,我是说这个时代人心里的需要。为什么要拍这样的一部电影,是因为人们的内心都在追寻一些东西,当电影结束的时候,很多人会为老六这个形象拍手叫好,会为之动容,人们的内心都在不断的去寻求那些可以为之而生,为之而死的东西。人们的内心都不断的企图去找寻心灵深处的居所,就是到底为什么活着。老六为了他的理想而活,最后也为他的理想而死,致死也不放弃他的江湖规矩,这是老六的企图心。雅各的企图心就是得着神,从母腹到他离开这个世界,他为之而生,为之而死,那我就想问一句,我们的心到底为什么企图,我们活着为了什么,又为什么而死呢?我想我们找到了,我们就能找到活着意义。那回到圣经,最精彩的人生,最有意义的人生就是像雅各一样,为神生,为神死。神把永生放在我们每一个人的心里。我们看不看中,对永生有没有一个企图心,愿不愿意为永生附上我们的代价,那就是我们的选择。

那雅各的另一个性格特点就是他这个超乎寻常的安全感!大家要知道,整个事情其实是相当有意思的。当这个雅各从他的父亲那里得着祝福之后,他的父亲以撒就让雅各回老家娶媳妇,大家要知道回老家的路路途遥远,这个以撒竟然没有给雅各一分钱。怎么看出来的呢?如果雅各有钱他会睡在野外么?不但钱没有,相信衣服都没有带几件,如果有衣服的话,这个雅各大概可以枕着衣服睡觉,可是我们知道雅各睡觉枕的是石头。这个雅各因为对神充满了信任,所以无论在什么环境都能享受到一种非常稳妥的安全感,体现在第一,刚刚得着祝福,竟然出门是一个穷困潦倒的形象。雅各没有怀疑他父亲的祝福,如果一个普通人,我刚得着祝福,然后睡马路,什么祝福,撤呢吧!第二,只身睡在野外,如果遇到狮子老虎怎么办啊!这个雅各竟然一点也不担心,睡的香甜,还能做美梦!多么让人惊奇的一个人啊! 我记得自己高中谈恋爱,我当时就非常不喜欢自己的女朋友跟别的很多男生呆在一块儿。因为不认识神,总想自己掌控一些事情,我就经常躲在树丛后面,看!嗯!今天又不跟我同路回家,我要看看你跟谁一块儿回家。大家要知道有时候冬天很冷的,就挨着冻,必须调查个一清二处为止,哈哈!好没有安全感啊!不过现在不会了。 所以,弟兄姐妹们,我们要学习在教会里有安全感!雅各知道他的一生是神掌权,在没有完成使命之前,神不会让他就这么忽忽悠悠死掉。我们在教会里也要知道,是耶稣基督做王掌权!不需要我们去做一些东西替耶稣基督掌权!不要越界去管那些不归你管的事情,做好你自己的本职工作,这是神的教会,神不允许的话是不会垮掉的。不需要我们去操那么多的心!雅各的安全的感是来自于神,我爸爸为我祝福的,我很安全。雅各对于他爸爸的祝福,是不动摇的,不是三心两意的,是一心一意,这就是从神来的安全感!

雅各是一个会做梦的人!大家要知道一个睡大马路的人啊!做梦梦到的是耶和华神跟他说:“我是耶和华你祖亚伯拉罕的神,也是以撒的神,我要将你现在所躺卧之地赐给你和你的后裔。”这是以撒梦到耶和华跟他说的,那这个以撒就相信。就算是耶和华透过梦给我应许我也相信。为什么,因为这个雅各其实他自己心里早就梦想着这样的事情成就在他的生命中。 总意就是,我们要学习雅各的这个会做梦,想要做梦的性格。一个没有梦想的人就是麻木的,行尸走肉般的活着,很可怜的!我们要开始去做一个有梦想的人,只有有梦想才有奋斗的动力,才有向着标杆直跑的决心和动力啊!

雅各身上还有一个很重要的品格就是他有一个富人的心态。大家要知道这个雅各为这个拉班做义工,没有工价的做工长达14年多之久。加上他从家里出来的那段时间也是分文没有带,也就是这个雅各最起码穷了14-20年。但奇怪的是,在圣经中你从来没有读到这个雅各抱怨。你从来没有看到这个雅各哭穷,你不会觉得奇怪么?这个雅各不但不哭穷,而且大家要知道,雅各在做义工的时候,还带着冤枉做工。说好做满7年,拉班就把小女儿拉结许配给他,结果拉班违反约定,雅各就又多干了7年,本来很穷了,结果还被人冤枉,如果是你你会抱怨么?我想如果是我,我早就要死要活了,可是这个雅各没有。他不但不抱怨,而且勤勤恳恳工作,把羊放的非常的好。这就是雅各富有的心态,一个有富有心态的人就是一个凡事不抱怨的人,是一个奉献和给出去的人(雅各知道神在导演他的一生,神在他的生命中掌权!)

TED 有一个女讲员叫做凯利.麦格尼格尔,她做了一个演讲叫做让压力成为你的朋友。她是一个资深的心里学家,那她的工作的重心就是帮助更多的人健康和开心。她用了10年的时间来告诉人们压力的危害性,她告诉人们压力会危害你的健康,会给的生活,学习,工作带来层层面面的危机,她将压力视为拦阻人心里健康的大敌,试图让人们透过对于压力危害性的理解,去消除人们里面的压力。后来她发现自己犯了一个极大的错误,当她这样去做的时候,她发现反而给人带来更加大的压力,坏处远远高于好处。美国做过一项调查研究,这项研究内容是监测30,000,000美国人8年的时间,这项研究调查中提到了两个问题:1,去年你觉得你面临多大的压力在你的生命中。2,你认为这样的压力会危害到你的健康么?然后8年过后,他们去看其中有多少人死掉了。坏的消息是,调查结果显示死亡率提升了43%对于那些认为自己处在高压中的人,但是这是唯一真实的有效的对于那些认为压力会危害人的身心健康的人。一个有趣的调查结果是8年后有182,000的人死掉,这18万人都不是处于高压中,但是这18万人都有共同的认知就是,压力会危害人的健康。如果这样的研究真实,这个数字是惊人的,甚至高过癌症对人的伤害。这就是为什么凯利震惊的地方,因为她花了10年的时间告诉人们压力危害人的健康。那后来美国又做了一项研究,研究人群是1000,000人的基数,那年龄跨度是34-93,第一个问题一样就是:去年你觉得你处在什么样的压力中。第二个问题是:你用多少的时间帮助你的朋友,社区和组织。然后他们调查5年后有多少人死掉。关于压力部分,调查结果和第一次差不多,死亡率提高30%。但是那些花时间帮助别人关心别人的人,调查显示压力和死亡之间的连系是绝对的0%。我不是要谈压力,我要谈给予。

在《蒙福的教会》这本书中,gateway教会的主任牧师罗伯特.莫里斯提出了一个很尖锐的问题,就是到底谁是教会的传道人。书中记到,99%教会的会友会指向教会的牧师和全职传道人。而符合圣经的模式是,神渴慕每一个教会的会友成为侍奉者,来服侍这个世界。书中记载,20世纪神有一个新奇的作为,就是他要把各样的恩赐都放在他的百姓中,其目的就是-为要祝福他人,并显明这福音本是神的大能。也就是说弟兄姐妹们我们这群人,都是带着神的恩赐的人,也许你是使徒,也许你是先知,也许你有传福音的恩赐,也许你就是后来的牧师和教师。我们要极力的去发现神加添给我们个人生命中的恩赐。就是说神的心意是每一个人都被呼召成为传道人,只是我们愿不愿意顺服回应神的呼召。神已赐下恩赐在每一个会众身上,我们都要在这其中经历最大的满足和喜乐,就是将神给我们的恩赐运用在神对我们和这个世界不断前进扩张的旨意里。只有服侍他人的需要,才能经历真实的满足与使命感!

弟兄姐妹们,我鼓励大家都要开始有富人的心态。就是不要总是觉得自己不行,开始行动起来服侍,不要看到自己的不足,要看到神的充足。《哥林多后书》4:7,我们有这宝贝放在瓦器里,要显明这莫大的能力是出于神,不是出去我们。我们四面受敌,却不被困住;心里作难,却不至失望。我对这句话又有了新的理解,四面受敌和心里作难不但指着外界的压力,处境艰难。其实也包括我们本身的缺乏,我们的软弱和不足。但神的能力却使我们的软弱变得刚强,缺乏得到满足,就是因为这能力是出去神。有神撑腰我们还怕什么呢,其实都可以大胆的兴起来服侍,从服侍教会里弱小的开始,一步一步就可以服侍这个世代。这就是一个富人的心态啊!

雅各是一个享受自己手所做的工的人。其实这对于当时的雅各来说是相当困难呢!雅各也是人啊,大家尝试把自己放在雅各所处的场景,想象一下。自己的两个老婆什么也不干,在家里享福。自己在外面起早贪黑的放羊,种地,回家以后面对的是两个吵来吵去,争风吃醋的老婆,本来已经很疲惫了,回家还要听两个老婆吵架。为这个拉班白白干了14年的活儿,现在想要回家探亲,这个拉班却想尽办法阻挠。家庭家庭失败,事业事业失败,大家能够想象这个雅各放羊时的心情么?可能一边在草场放羊,一边在那里唱《海阔天空》,“我曾怀疑我,走在草原中,从不结果,无论种什么梦,每把汗流了,生命变的厚重,走出沮丧才看见新宇宙。海阔天空,在勇敢以后,我要放羊,将命运的锁打破。”。哈哈哈,雅各就一边放羊,一边给自己打气,不然真的是好沮丧啊!就是在这样的环境里,这个雅各锻炼出来了去享受自己手所做的工作。只有在放羊的时候,才是雅各最开心,最享受的时候。放羊的事情成为了雅各调整自己心情,最美好的时光! 我们人一生都会有面临挑战和沮丧的时候,带着一个不甘愿,沮丧的心情工作也是一天,享受其中,带着干劲儿做工也是一天,那我们何不好好的享受我们手所做的呢!我想这个雅各就是想明白了这样的事情,所以后来雅各放羊的时候就变得非常的专注,他不会允许那些干扰他专注的东西进到他的脑子里,开始学习尽情的享受她手中的工作。
石磊
Hello Brother Haifan, I am a Christian from Singapore. This is the first time I have listened to your sermon (the article "Divine Dissatisfaction"), and I feel very inspired! But there is a question in the middle. You said that "Jacob's logical system is different from the logical system of ordinary people. Jacob listened to his father and grandfather, and lived and died. Can people not die! From childhood, there was a concept of eternal life in Jacob's heart." I did not find the corresponding scripture in Genesis. Can you tell me the source? Thank you ^_^
撒母耳
Hello Brother Shilei! Thank you for your question. Jacob's name later became part of the name of the eternal God, the God of Jacob. What does it mean? It means that Jacob thought eternal life was very important! It didn't start later, but long before the red bean soup was exchanged for the birthright! In fact, the entire Bible is talking about eternal life. Not only Jacob, but also Abraham and Isaac. We have no reason to suspect that Abraham and Isaac did not talk to Jacob about these things. Therefore, we have ample reason to believe that Jacob inherited the belief system of Abraham and Isaac. Maybe the answer is not good, I hope you will forgive me.
@石磊: 海璠弟兄你好,我是新加坡的基督徒第一次听你讲道(《神圣的不满足感》这篇),觉得很受激励!但是中间有一个问题,是你说的“雅各的逻辑体系和普通的人的逻辑体系不一样,这个雅各听爸爸讲,听爷爷讲,活着活着就死了,那人能不能不死呢!从小在这个雅各的里面就有一个永生的观念” 这一点我在创世纪里没有找到相应的经文,可以说一下你的出处吗?谢谢^_^
石磊
Thank you very much for Pastor Liu's reply! ^_^
@撒母耳: 石磊弟兄你好!谢谢你提出的问题。雅各的名字后来成了永生神的名字的一部分,雅各的神。什么意思呢,就是雅各认为永生非常重要!不是后来才有的,是从红豆汤换长子的名分之前很久就开始了!其实,正本圣经都在说永生。不但雅各如此,这样的事从亚伯拉罕就开始了,之后的以撒也是如此。我们没有理由怀疑亚伯拉罕和以撒不跟雅各谈这些事。所以,我们有充足的理由相信雅各传承的就是亚伯拉罕以撒的信仰体系。可能回答不好,希望原谅。
撒母耳
Hello Brother Shilei! Thank you very much for your message!
@石磊: 非常感谢刘牧师的回复!^ _ ^
lulu
Is Pastor Liu online? I have something to say to him. Does your church have baptism? Also, why did you transition from a physical church to an online church? Thank you.
lulu
I want to ask a question: Why did you change from physical gatherings to online gatherings?
命定小助手
You can be baptized online. Why switch from physical to online? Because the physical can't be done, and the church is ruined!
@lulu: Is Pastor Liu online? I have something to say to you. Does your church have baptism? Also, why did you transition from a physical church to an online church? Thank you.
命定小助手
Good question! To be honest, there is nothing in the work of the church that needs to be done physically. For example, listening to sermons, listening in church is no different from listening online. For example, teaching, teaching online is no different from teaching in church. The church is most suitable to be done online!
@lulu: I want to ask a question. Why did you change from physical gatherings to online gatherings?
kiki
By the way, I would like to ask what ministries your church has besides healing and deliverance ministries and serving. I am a newbie in faith and very curious about the ministries of the church. Because your Chinese Mingding Doctrine often emphasizes giving, I want to know how your church's ministries are?
命定小助手
Healing and deliverance are the most basic work of the church. After deliverance, there are many training courses. Training is the core work of the church. It brings people out of ignorance. God's people perish for lack of knowledge. We have a lot of training. Many of them are related to the word of God, and many are related to implementing the word of God. Regarding the word of God, we have 101 courses, Genesis, Ecclesiastes, Matthew, Revelation, etc. Regarding the implementation of the word of God, there are even more, such as housekeeping, children's education, learning methods, hands-on skills, programming, career planning, management such as human resources, finance, marketing, etc. These are all courses developed by our brothers and sisters.
@kiki: By the way, I would like to ask what ministries your church has besides healing and deliverance ministries and serving. I am a newbie in faith and very curious about the ministries of the church. Because your Chinese Mingding Doctrine often emphasizes giving, I want to know how your church's ministries are?