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Introduction

I have found myself to be a diligent pastor with high output and quality. But one thing is clear, we should try to understand this matter thoroughly, and then it will become clear. When you understand, you will not be afraid. Why are we afraid today? It is because of fear of the unknown. We are not afraid of things that are clear, such as brushing your teeth and washing your face after getting up, because you are very clear about them. But if you are not clear, you will be very afraid. Fear is closely related to intellectual understanding.

But in the church I would rather speak five intelligible words to instruct others than ten thousand words in a tongue. (1 Corinthians 14:19)

If I were to lead you in praying in tongues all the time, no one would understand. Therefore, we must have breakthroughs in our understanding. The church is a place of learning, and it must solve many difficult learning problems. The church must teach everyone how to learn. Therefore, education is very important; ignorance is not an option for solving problems.

For example, a sister said, I had a feeling and spent several million to buy barren land, and I don't know what to do with it. She said it was the Holy Spirit's prompting, but I think it was an evil spirit's prompting.

People cannot operate in ignorance. Some things are the prompting of the Holy Spirit, but we must never be ignorant. Some people will say, Would my business be successful? I felt very peaceful at the time, so I did it, but I lost money. Who do you blame then? But knowing God intellectually should not be wrong. Fortunately, we can understand the 《Bible》 that we read.

Myth 1: Learning Is Just Attending Class

Today, I am talking about removing the myths in learning. Many children do not learn well not because they are not smart, but because they are caught in the myths of learning. What are these myths? I think learning is just attending class. I will tell you about an experiment I did. If I attended class and then took the exam, the probability of failing was very high; if I didn't attend class and took the exam, the probability of passing was very high. If I attended class and also studied on my own, the probability of getting high marks was very high.

I am puzzled by some parents who send their children to school for the whole day, but they don't understand anything. As a result, a day passes, two days pass, and time is wasted in class. I find this very strange. Many parents are ignorant and don't know that learning on their own is the key; what you hear is not your own. Try it and see. I will forget my sermon just now after taking a bath or waking up from a nap at night.

Listening is not enough, you have to learn it; learning is learning, and learning is not just attending class. Attending class is a lower level of learning. If your child's teacher complains that your child is not paying attention in class, you can discuss it with the teacher and say, My child studies too late and dozes off in class. Please be lenient. I used to doze off in class, but I studied on my own at night, and my grades were good.

Learning must cultivate the ability to learn on your own. It is not just about attending class. Learning is not just attending class; it is about learning on your own. Find a book and read it hard. If you don't understand it after reading it once, read it twice. Read a book a hundred times, and its meaning will become clear. This is the first myth: thinking that learning is just attending class. Attending class is a lower level of learning.

Myth 2: Feeling Like You Don't Understand Anything If You Don't Understand One Thing

The second myth is feeling like you don't understand anything if you don't understand one thing. I tutored a child, and I said, Take out your homework. His homework was about the four forces acting on a kite, and the teacher had graded it. As a result, he still gave the same answer on the exam and did not get any points, which made the teacher very angry. When the child was reading it, he thought he didn't understand the whole passage because there were words he didn't recognize, thinking that if he didn't understand one thing, he didn't understand the whole passage. Later, I read it with him, and it turned out that not understanding one or two words did not affect the overall understanding.

Many people say that the teachers at school are very good, but after looking at them, I don't think they understand it either. The kite has four forces. Couldn't the teacher just draw a diagram and explain it? Instead, they confused the child. In the end, in the process of learning, don't rely on the teacher to explain. Don't be superstitious about teachers. What is the level of these teachers? It is really questionable. What kind of people become elementary school teachers? Very capable people wouldn't do it. Kindergarten is even worse; it's just a bunch of nannies taking care of the children. I know some people may not like what I'm saying. How much money can you make in kindergarten? Those with money go to Alibaba or Google.

The industry that attracts talent is the industry that prospers. Education only attracts average talent. Now, most of the teachers are those who didn't do well on exams. There are some good ones, but I can't generalize. Don't rely on that; rely on yourself to understand things. In the process of learning, it doesn't matter if you don't understand one thing. For example, the shape of the power, a very deep term, is an aerodynamic term. How can elementary school students understand it? But it doesn't matter; it's just through this that lift is generated. It doesn't matter if we don't understand one thing when we read.

Some people read a novel overnight. Do they understand every word? And what about memory? Who can remember everything? If you read every word, you will find it's not good. If you skim through it, you will remember it more deeply. There is a myth that many people think that reading slowly means absorbing more. For example, if a person reads a book word by word, they won't be able to read anything. If I ask you what you read, you won't be able to answer. Reading quickly means skimming through it, grasping the subheadings, and knowing what the subheadings are about. When reading, look at the key points and remember those few sentences.

Sometimes, I like to show off what I've read. I haven't understood 《The Art of War》 thoroughly, but I remember the first few sentences. Actually, it's just those few sentences; I don't know much about the rest. I suddenly read a verse with the word 势 (momentum), and I remembered a few sentences before and after it. It's kind of a bluff, but not really. Just remember a little bit. Don't think that you understand everything if you understand it all; just understand a little bit. When you read it again, you can understand a little more.

Don't think that understanding a little bit doesn't count as understanding. Some people understand 95% but say there is still 5% they don't understand. You can occasionally show it off. For example,《The Book of Lord Shang》, I can't remember all of it; I just remember two sentences. Some people only dare to show off after they have fully understood it. See what 《The Book of Lord Shang》 says: Poor places have many strange things, and strange doctrines like to argue. Learn a little and use a little. I don't fully understand the 《Bible》 either, but I am bold and understand a little bit at a time. I don't think I explained today's sermon about fear well. I have been working on renovations for the past week. Understanding doesn't necessarily mean understanding everything; just understand a little bit. There is also this concept of pursuing perfection, which is a big myth.

Myth 3: Fear in Learning

Another myth is fear. I said at the beginning, I can't do it. When I read, everything hurts except my hair. People feel uncomfortable when they learn because they say they can't possibly understand. Fear is closely related to the myths I mentioned earlier. Don't think that fear can bring any benefits. I don't believe I can't read it. Even if I can only understand the first paragraph, that's good enough. For example, the first paragraph of the《Bible》: In the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth. Instead of saying, Can we understand the 《Bible》? We can't understand it, that's fear.

Myth 4: Unwilling to Ask Questions

There are also some people who are unwilling to ask questions. They don't like to ask themselves, and they don't like to ask others. This is a fatal habit. They think it's embarrassing to ask questions. It's embarrassing not to understand. It's also embarrassing to ask even if you understand. But it doesn't matter at all. Being unwilling to ask questions is a matter of saving face. I asked an employee to take meeting minutes. I arranged it the day before and said, Can you do it? Tell me how to do it. He said he needed to write the theme. Meeting minutes are not sermons; they are not argumentative essays. Meetings are about making decisions: what to do, how to do it, who will do it, and when to do it? Record these things.

A person must learn to lead a meeting. Why didn't you ask me? He thought he knew, but he didn't. You can say, This is my first time doing this. Boss, I'm not sure if I can take the meeting minutes correctly. Can you tell me how to do it? This is a healthier approach. Being unwilling to ask questions is a bad habit. When I get a book, what is this book about? I will ask myself questions first. As expected, I am very good at predicting things. Learn to ask yourself: What am I reading? What is this paragraph about? Sometimes ask others: What is this? Being unwilling to ask questions is a myth.

Feeling like you didn't do well on the exam means you didn't understand it. Exams are about skills. I can get high marks because I have mastered exam skills. You must know that exams have skills. The Chinese have studied exam skills very thoroughly. Even foreigners come to China to learn how to take the IELTS exam. You can only get good grades if you master exam skills and exam content. If you understand the content but don't have exam skills, you won't get good grades.

For example, if a question is worth 6 points, guess three points, each point worth 2 points. Some people don't have good exam skills and only answer one point, answering it repeatedly. People who do well on exams also do well in the workplace. Getting into college is not that important. Don't take it too seriously. What happens after you get in? If we put all the entrepreneurs together, there are many who didn't do well on exams. Including Jack Ma, his exam skills were not good, but he is amazing. Don't confuse exams with learning. You can also learn exam skills, and then you will be amazing. Don't be superstitious about exams.

Sometimes I have done a survey. I took out the college exam questions and tested those who had good grades in college, and they had all forgotten it. Do you think they learned it or not? This is debatable. I think they didn't learn it. Once I discovered that I hadn't ridden a bicycle in more than ten years, but I could still do it. But another person got on and couldn't ride. I said, Don't fool people. You couldn't do it ten years ago either. If you can't do it ten years ago, you still can't do it ten years later. Swimming is the same. If you haven't learned it, you will forget it.

Conclusion

We must pursue the essence of things, which is to learn things, grasp the essence of things, and be able to remember them even after ten years. Don't be superstitious about exams. After you get rid of these myths, you will be motivated to learn. Why? Because academic masters are like this. That's how they do it. Later, you will be amazing in the workplace. You are a person who grasps the essence. Grasp the myths of learning, remove them from a young age, and you will be amazing when you grow up. What I am saying is very practical. Implement it in your life. May God bless you!

Greetings.

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今天讲除去学习中的迷思,很多小孩学习不好,不是因为不聪明,其实很聪明,问题出现在学习的迷思里,什么迷思呢?“我觉得学习就是在课堂听课。”我讲一个我做过的实验,我听课去考试,考不过的概率很高;如果不听课,我去考试,过的概率很高。我听课也自学,考高分的可能性很高。 我很纳闷一些有一些父母,把孩子送学校去一整天,都没有听明白;结果一天过去了,两天过去了,时间一天天过去,时间都浪费在课堂上了。我觉得这种东西很奇怪,**很多父母很无知,不知道自己学习才是关键,听来的不是自己的。**不信试试,我刚刚的讲道到了晚上洗完澡或者睡个觉起来,都忘记了。 **听了不行,学到手才行;学习是学习,学习不是听课。**听课是学习当中比较次等级的层次,如果孩子的老师抱怨孩子不听课,可以跟老师商量通融下,说:“孩子学习太晚了,在课堂上打个盹,通融一下。”我自己在上课打盹,晚上我自己学习,但是我成绩好。 学习一定要培养自学的能力,不是听课,学习不是听课,是自己学习。找本书,使劲读,读一遍不懂,就读两遍。书读百遍其义自见,这是第一个迷思,以为学习就是听课,听课是学习比较次等级的层次。

第二个迷思,有一点没明白就觉得都没明白。有一个小孩我辅导他,我说把作业拿出来,他作业就是做风筝的四种力,老师就批改了。结果,在考试的时候,还是答原来的答案,也没有拿到分数,老师就很生气。孩子在读这个的时候,有不认识的字,以为整篇就不懂,以为一点不明白就整篇都不明白。后来我陪着读完,其实一两个词不懂,不影响整篇理解。 很多人讲学校的老师挺厉害的,我看了那个老师也没有整明白。这个风筝有四个力,老师只要画个图,讲一下不就明白了吗?结果把孩子弄晕了。最后,在学习的过程当中,不要指望老师讲,大家别迷信老师,这些老师水平如何?真的可圈可点。什么人去做小学老师呢?很厉害的人不会去做。幼儿园就更加糟糕了,都是一群哄孩子的阿姨。我说这个话,可能有的人听起来不爽,你到幼儿园可以赚多少钱?有钱的都去阿里巴巴,谷歌了。 哪个行业吸引人才,那个行业就兴旺。教育也就吸引了中等人才而已。现在中等老师,大概是我们当中考试不怎么样的,也有好的,我不能以偏概全。**不要指望那个,指望自己把东西学习明白,在学习中有的一点没有明白,没关系。**比如动力的形状,一个很深的词汇,是空气动力词,小学生怎么明白呢?但是没有关系,也就是通过这个产生升力。我们读有的一点不明白,没有关系。

有的人一夜读完一本小说,里头的字都明白吗?还有记忆,谁能记住全部呢?每个字都去读,你会发现很不好,你粗略看一遍,反而会记得比较深刻。这里有一个迷思,很多人觉得看得慢,吸收多。你比如说一个人看一本书,一个字一个字看,什么都读不出来。我问了你看了什么,结果答不出来。读书快看,就是看个大概,抓小标题,知道小标题讲啥。读的时候,看关键的,记住那几句就可以。 我有的时候,就会卖弄一下读过的东西,我没有把《孙子兵法》弄明白,但是我把他一开头的几句话记住了,其实就这么几句,后面好多都不知道,突然读到一个“势”,前后几句话,就记了一下。算是忽悠,也不算忽悠,记住一点就行,不要以为明白了全部就明白,明白一点就行;再读的时候,又明白一点就可以了。 不要以为明白了一点,不叫明白。有的人读明白了95%,却说还有5%看不明白。偶尔就可以拿出来卖弄一下,比如《商君书》,我哪里记得住这些,我就记住两句。有的人要全读懂了,才敢卖弄一下。你看《商君书》怎么说呢?穷相多怪,穷乡僻壤的人比较奇怪;曲学多辨,奇怪的学说喜欢辩论。学习一点,用一点。《圣经》我也没有全明白,但是我胆大,明白一点就一点。今天的讲的惧怕,我觉得没有讲好。我上个礼拜都在弄装修,明白不一定全明白,明白一点就一点。那还有这个概念,就是追求完美,这是很大的迷思。

另外一个迷思就惧怕,我一上来就说:“我不会,我一读书,除了头发不疼,浑身疼。”人一学习就难受,因为说我不可能学习懂。惧怕跟前面讲的几个迷思都很有关系,千万不要以为惧怕可以带来什么好处,我就不信我读不了了,我哪怕读懂第一段就好了。比如《圣经》第一段,起初,神创造天地。而不是说《圣经》我们可以读懂吗?我们读不懂的,这是惧怕。

还有一些人,不愿意提问题,不喜欢问自己,也不喜欢问别人,这个是要命的习惯。他以为提问题会丢人,没有读懂是丢人的事情;如果读懂了,去问也丢人。其实一点关系都没有。不愿意提问题是爱面子的状况。我让一个员工做会议记录,头一天我安排了,我说会做吗?你说下怎么做?他说要写主题,会议记录哪里是写讲道啊,会议记录不是一个议论文,会议是做决定,决定做什么?怎么做?谁做?什么时候做?把这些记录下来。 一个人要学会,学会带领会议,你怎么不问我?他以为自己知道,但是不知道。你可以这么说:“我第一次做,老板我这个会议记录自己做,我应该不太会,你看看能不能说下怎么做呢?”这是比较健康的做法,不愿意提问题是一个恶习。我拿到一本书,这个书在讲什么呢?我就会先提问,果然不出所料,我料事如神,学会问自己,我读的是什么?这段做什么?有时候问问比人,这是什么?不愿意提问题是迷思。

觉得考试没有考好,是没读懂。考试是考技巧,我能考高分,是因为考试技巧吃透。考试这个东西,你一定要知道考试有技巧,中国人在考试技巧上研究很透,连洋人考雅思都到中国来学习。你掌握考试技巧和考试内容,才可以拿到好成绩。你读懂内容,没有考试技巧,是拿不到好成绩的。 比如出了一个题目6分,猜到三点,每一点2分。有的人考试技巧不好,只会答一点,在一点上不停答。考试好的人,在职场上都比较好。考大学不是很重要,千万不要看很重,考完了,能怎么样?我们把这些企业家的人弄一起看,考试不好的多了去了。包括马云,考试技巧不行,但是人家厉害,考试这种东西,不要把学习弄一起了,也可以学习考试技巧,那就厉害了,不要迷信考试。 有时候我做过一个考察,上大学学习成绩不错的,我就把大学的题拿出来考,全部都忘记了,你说他学习会了还是没有呢?这个可以商量,我认为是没有学会。有一次我发现,我十几年没有骑车,还可以啊;结果另外一个人,骑上去,就不会骑。我说你不要忽悠人,你十年前也不会。十年前不会十年后也不会。游泳也是,没有学会也会忘记。

**我们要追求很本质的东西,就是把东西学会抓住事物的本质,举一反三,十年后再问都还可以记住。**大家不要迷信考试。这个迷思都改掉以后,你学习就可带劲了,最近我妈看我我书上的一本书《高效能人士的七个习惯》,这个书好啊,是厉害的人写的。她也没有读懂哪七个好习惯,我说的是我必须夸奖八十岁的妈妈,我预备了书和纸给她,写笔记可认真了。 人要有正确的学习态度,除去学习中的迷思很重要的,学习中迷思除去了,你慢慢就成学霸了,为啥呢?学霸都是这样的人,就这么整。后来,你到了职场你就很厉害的人,你是抓本质的人,抓学习迷思,从小除去,你长大就很厉害,我讲的都是很实在的,大家在生活中落实,愿神祝福大家!
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