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Introduction

Good morning. Today, we will examine the fourth lecture in the Being a Person series under the topic of Principles for Seizing Opportunities. The reason for discussing this is my observation that many among us often think they can seize an opportunity with a moment's thought, only to find themselves entangled in debt instead. Recently, a sister I ministered to was doing well on her own, but after marrying, she suddenly discovered that her husband was 500,000 in debt. The couple now has to work tirelessly to repay it. Marrying into debt, similar situations abound, husbands who are unable to provide, needing to be supported. This is a failure in personal conduct, leading to entrapment. Assets are shared in marriage, so debts are shared as well. Our brothers and sisters must carefully consider this.

I must convey the fundamental principles of seizing opportunities to you. Otherwise, many will mistake pitfalls for opportunities. One brother was so busy that he had no time for gatherings, only to lose over ten million in a year. Therefore, I want to tell everyone that not everything is an opportunity, and opportunities are not so plentiful. Even if there is an opportunity, it might not be yours. Today, there are many people in debt and being deceived, all because they only thought about making money at the time and did not consider the possibility of losing it.

I. Opportunity is More Important Than Ability

Opportunity is more important than ability. That is why we always desperately try to seize opportunities. As a result, we are either overly confident in our abilities or overly reliant on speculation, which is not an opportunity. Speculation has a 90% chance of losing and a 10% chance of winning. In other words, it is like trying to steal a chicken and losing the bait, so speculation is similar to theft.

I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all. (Ecclesiastes 9:11)

Everything depends on timing and chance, so we must understand what opportunity is all about. Otherwise, we will be in trouble. Opportunity has harmed many people. The race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong. This is vividly illustrated in the story of Liu Bang, the ancestor of my old Liu family. Whether in terms of martial skill or talent, he was no match for Xiang Yu. Xiang Yu came from a noble family, while Han Gaozu Liu Bang was a commoner from the marketplace, uneducated, just a petty hooligan.

Liu Bang surpassed Xiang Yu because he obtained opportunity. Being able to receive assistance from Zhang Liang and Han Xin was also an opportunity, which was absolutely beyond human power. People's blind faith in ability sometimes leads them to fall into ability-based thinking. But when you carefully consider the events you encounter, can you reverse them with your own ability? For example, you find a job, but the job doesn't like you. Even if you like it, it is useless. Don't think that you can get the job by begging the boss, even if you kneel upside down. Therefore, opportunity is very important.

Having strong ability is useless. You must come out of ability-based thinking. Those who are ability-based will find that the difficulties they encounter are often greater than their own. This is true not only for individuals but also for countries. When a country has bad luck, nothing goes right. When a country has good fortune, even if it does something wrong, it doesn't matter because it is okay. So whether we look at the present or history, we see something called opportunity. Without opportunity, a person is completely finished.

People need opportunity. Now, I will talk about what opportunity is all about. People say that heaven rewards diligence, which is true. Heaven refers to God, who controls opportunity. Rewarding diligence means rewarding those who are diligent and down-to-earth. In other words, some people only remember to work hard, but without opportunity, it is useless.

II. God Controls Opportunity

Some people ask if I am lecturing or preaching. Actually, today, to talk about opportunity, we really have to talk about God's word because God truly controls opportunity. This is all my experience. Some people say that my experiences are rare events, but since they happened, they are real. I have known that God controls opportunity for many years. That's why I always try to please God. God not only controls opportunity but also controls everything. People should carefully summarize and not be foolish. If you carefully summarize, you will find that trusting in God is truly blessed. After being blessed, you will encounter good opportunities and achieve twice the result with half the effort. Whether it is investing or finding a job, everything is fine. There is no way to explain this.

Our God is a God who controls opportunity, so I often say that you have nothing to worry or be anxious about. If you need a job, God can tailor one for you, do you believe it? Some people say they believe it, but they can't trust it. If you can't trust it, then don't believe it. I have shared one testimony after another of my own experiences, but people at that time just don't believe in God. They don't want to please God. Isn't that foolish? Instead of pleasing God, they do things that provoke God's anger. God gives you an opportunity, and you think you are lucky. But if you are unlucky next time, where will you find it?

The conclusion from incomplete induction is that God controls opportunity. I tell many people about this and that testimony, but they say it is all coincidental. Then may coincidence happen to me. I said that one of our sisters pleased God and encountered a good opportunity, and God blessed her. And these people also think it is a coincidence. Then may coincidence and chance happen to our brothers and sisters, amen! From this, it seems that today is not a lecture but a sermon. We have all experienced God; may God create good opportunities for us. And because of this, our brothers and sisters must know that God has chosen the foolish and dishonorable in the eyes of the world to shame the wise in the world because their wisdom is useless.

Human wisdom is useless. God not only does not give opportunity but also gives a snare and disaster. If you look carefully at those who are very shrewd, they later go from having billions of dollars to family decline, and their assets quickly become negative. It is very easy for God to punish someone. If you look carefully at those who are unlucky among us, which one does not rely on himself? None of them try to please God. God will dig a pit for them and let them slowly jump into it. Those who jump in, angels are clapping beside them, and demons are also clapping because you rely on yourself.

We often encounter accidental and coincidental things because God is pleased with us. If God is pleased with us, who can resist us? If God helps us, no problem is unsolvable. Now, make up your mind to please God, that is the real opportunity. But as people go along, they only see opportunity and forget God, which is fatal. Many people among us have experienced blessings, but as they go along, they think they are very capable and have good fortune. In fact, that is very dangerous. In the future, they will not be able to withstand even a small disaster from God.

III. Opportunity is in the Present Moment

God controls opportunity and also controls our lives. Opportunity is in the present moment. Joseph understood this very well. He was sold by his brothers into slavery in Egypt. As soon as he arrived in Egypt, he happened to meet Potiphar, the captain of the guard, who went to buy slaves. He immediately felt that Joseph was a good child, so he took him home. Did Joseph think that the opportunity had come, or was his life over? Joseph's perspective was completely different from others. I really like Joseph's story. Although everyone is familiar with this story, it doesn't matter, I still want to tell it again. Joseph had a dream before, dreaming that his whole family bowed down to him because he was eager to obtain a name greater than that of the firstborn. God made him the savior of the family. In the end, Joseph's position in the family was higher than Jacob's because God caused his parents, brothers, and sisters to bow down before him.

Joseph was very powerful. He thought that being a slave was an opportunity, that he was attending a slave university. Even as a slave, he did his best, gaining Potiphar's appreciation, who regarded him as a talent and managed Potiphar's household affairs, including hundreds of slaves. Joseph worked diligently because he knew that this was an opportunity. However, the opportunity did not come, but instead, he was sent to prison. Not only did the master like Joseph, but the mistress also liked him. She fantasized every day in her boudoir about how to seduce Joseph, but Joseph did not comply with Potiphar's wife.

Joseph did not regard that as an opportunity but knew very well that it was a disaster. Some people think that the mistress likes them, so they simply seize the opportunity. If they get praise from the mistress in front of the master, it will be easy to handle. I guess some brothers may regret that Joseph played a good hand so badly, that such a good opportunity came to him but he missed it. That was not an opportunity. Joseph feared God. God controls opportunity. His fear of God is wisdom. The mistress, unable to seduce him, became angry and sent Joseph to prison. Actually, such things are quite common. Women seduce men unsuccessfully and then turn around and blame them. So it is better to stay away from this kind of thing. Was Joseph's entry into prison an opportunity or a disaster? Generally, people would not think that it was an opportunity.

Joseph did a very serious job of being a prisoner in prison. No one could compare with him because he felt that it was an opportunity. There was hardship and struggle in his heart, but this was the opportunity for God to make him the savior of his family. Joseph did a good job as a slave and an even better job as a prisoner. As he did it, the warden simply outsourced the management of the prison to Joseph. He managed the prison in an orderly manner. In fact, to some extent, the warden was not much different from the prisoner. So the warden was also very smart and outsourced this work, letting the warden not have to worry about it and go play, as long as he was there. It would have been bad if someone had escaped while he was managing the prison or the slaves, and the opportunity would have been gone. In the end, Joseph left the prison and became the prime minister of Egypt. It turned out that this was an opportunity. This 13 years of accumulation made him a prime minister, which is really amazing.

So opportunity is in the present. Do the current slavery or being a prisoner well, and do the current job well. I am deeply influenced by Joseph. I try my best to do everything well. But everyone, don't think that because I try my best, I will save time on Sunday or serving. I know who controls opportunity and who controls my life. My life comes from God. What do I have to argue with God about? But your life is not, your life is your own. So you have to take good care of it and don't need to pay a price for God. But the price I pay for God is not small.

Thank God, I have to do everything I do well and never leave it unfinished. When I was a customer service representative, I learned other things while doing it. I did a great job in customer service. The average customer service representative couldn't do better than me. I tried my best to serve my customers with my poor English, and they all liked me. Later, when I became a manager, a customer who was a teacher didn't know and asked me by name to help him solve a problem. After it was resolved, he realized that I was already a manager and felt very embarrassed.

So doing the current thing well is an opportunity. If you feel that it is not arranged by God, you will complain. In fact, the current things are all arranged for you by God. I don't have the bad habit of looking at the mountain over there while being on this mountain. I just like to be honest and down-to-earth. Doing this is like taking an elevator, gradually rising. Rising every two or three years, after ten years, I became the head of that department. From customer service to network to servers to software development, I understand everything. It is a bit difficult for the people below to fool me.

The key is that you have to know how to be a person. If you don't know how to be a person, your life will be ruined. Being a person is about grasping the basic principles of being a person. Every industry has very deep waters. In this world, you need to have very deep skills. For example, as a customer service representative, you can handle any kind of customer. Sometimes you will definitely encounter tricky customers. I will use tricky methods to deal with them. So I treat all kinds of customers as opportunities. Sometimes, the questions that everyone asks in the Q&A are answered very well because I have come this way. The key is to know how to be a person, to fear God, and to do every job well that God has arranged for me.

With God guiding my path, all my opportunities come from Him. I rose from the lowest position to the head of this department because of God; He is truly amazing. After experiencing it, I often say that God will definitely create a job for you. The question is whether you have what it takes to please God. A person must seize opportunities. Many people feel that the present is not an opportunity and often complain. I often hear people say that they chose the wrong job back then and regret it, wishing they had stayed there. I am not like that, so I often advise these people to do their current job well and not resign. Some even say they want to resign without a backup plan, thankfully not in the nude.

Those who say such things think that there is a better job waiting for them, but if they cannot do this job well today, they will not be able to do another job well either. Some people often discern good and evil, compete, compare, be jealous, get upset, talk nonsense, and fight with others, but they don't know how to do their own job well. It is so much better to work hard. The current job is an opportunity, and that is faithfulness before God. Don't be arrogant; be down-to-earth. If you want to change jobs, do it with faith; if you don't want to change, do it with faith. If there is a good opportunity, promotion is OK, but hopefully, you won't enter the Peter Principle after being promoted, where you are promoted to the point of incompetence, which is upsetting. Others find it upsetting, and you find yourself upsetting, and you are exhausted. So be down-to-earth, create more value, and continuously accumulate and expand. When you do very well in your current job, you expand, preparing yourself to solve more problems.

Solving Problems When They Arise

What I hate the most is when problems accumulate without being solved. There are many such people. I once went to someone's house where the water pressure was low, and there was no water halfway through a shower. You had to wait a while for the water to come back, which was very upsetting in the middle of winter. They endured it day after day, year after year. It's OK to have problems, and they coexisted with the problems until they died without solving them. I cannot tolerate such people. If such people become pastors, the people they cultivate will be similar, just barely living. If the problems at home are like this, the problems at work will not be any better, and the problems of God will be thrown aside. Your problems are not even worth mentioning, definitely thrown aside. The attitude is wrong, so solving problems is an opportunity.

Solving problems requires learning. If you don't know how to learn, you must have the faith to learn. Solving any problem is a practice of faith, and faith is a down-to-earth faith. Solving problems is inseparable from learning. Solving problems requires research and pondering for a long time. Although it is tiring, it makes you a valuable person, which is what we talked about in the last lesson, being valuable. This is called proactive learning. The opportunity to solve problems came when my boss brought problems that no one else would do. Finally, the boss let me do it in desperation, and I agreed immediately.

I solve problems quickly now because I practiced it in those years. Even today, I still like to solve problems. Don't think that because I am a senior manager, I am detached from reality. If I fall, I will become a meat pie, right? Always keep my feet on the ground. Even today, I do the best in healing, deliverance, and shepherding among us; I solve the most problems. Great skills are usually practiced. God is with me when I solve problems, and God is pleased with me. My salary has increased tenfold in ten years, but don't just listen to the tenfold increase in salary without hearing about my problem-solving. If I solve ten thousand dollars worth of problems this month, the boss will give me five thousand. If I solve one hundred thousand dollars worth of problems in a month, I ask you, won't I be valuable?

If you are so valuable, surely companies will poach you, and your boss will have to raise your salary to keep you. That's why salaries increase so quickly. So if you want your salary to increase quickly, create more value, solve more problems, and accumulate more experience. Treat every problem the boss gives you as an opportunity. Although there is no raise yet, if you solve many problems, and I become the boss's headache medicine, I will definitely get a raise. And I am always the best subordinate. I have a very solid relationship with my superiors. The problems the boss gives are not hot potatoes; they are opportunities. Today, I have to explain it clearly to you to avoid confusion. Solving difficult problems is called an opportunity because it involves learning and innovation.

When we solve problems with innovative components, we will find that your value continues to rise, and your brain will become more and more useful. Then we will not be receiving hot potatoes. My colleagues like to do what they are most familiar with. There must be such people among us who don't want to do anything unfamiliar, only doing what they are most familiar with, repeating the same thing their whole lives, thinking they are great. I say they are just extras all day long, and they still feel wronged, feeling exhausted. Without learning and doing new things, the brain will easily rust. Doing repetitive things is called operation. People must come out of the toil of operation and become innovative and creative people because God is a creative God. When we become creative people, we have the image of God, and God is pleased with you and gives you good opportunities.

Just don't forget, don't go home and solve problems desperately just to solve them, ending up solving God out of the picture and solving away opportunities. If I had to choose, I would never put God aside first, even if it killed me. Everyone should know that it is very foolish to put God aside when you are busy. That will bury all your future opportunities in your choices. Some people say they are really busy. Then why are they busy? If God helps you, you won't be busy, and you don't have to be afraid of the boss firing you. Don't be confused. Sometimes when I see everyone's choices, I can only remain silent because people don't like to listen. Opposing their choices is seen as cursing them. People are not afraid of living in a curse themselves, but they are afraid when I tell them, which is strange.

Solve problems when they arise, but never forget that God controls opportunities. If your life is controlled by God, you don't need to be afraid of not having a job. No job, so what? It doesn't matter because God is everything to me. This is what I believe. Otherwise, you can slowly try it out. In the past few years, no matter how busy I have been, I have not put down my God. This is how I conduct myself. I have to make these basic principles clear before I can tell you. As it says in Ecclesiastes, in the days of your fleeting life, these words are truly well said, and everyone must remember them.

Enjoy life with the wife whom you love, all the days of your vain life that He has given you under the sun, because that is your portion in life and in your toil at which you toil under the sun. Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might, for there is no work or thought or knowledge or wisdom in Sheol, to which you are going. (Ecclesiastes 9:9-10)

I have seen something else under the sun: The race is not to the swift or the battle to the strong, nor does food come to the wise or wealth to the brilliant or favor to the learned; but time and chance happen to them all. Moreover, no one knows when their hour will come: As fish are caught in a cruel net, or birds are taken in a snare, so people are trapped by evil times that fall unexpectedly upon them. (Ecclesiastes 9:11-12)

The Nets Look Like Opportunities

A bird flying sees food in a place and thinks it is an opportunity, but it is actually a net. A fish sees food, goes in to eat, and is caught in the net. The same is true for the world. When disaster suddenly strikes, people are trapped in it as well. Many of us have been caught in nets, which is very miserable. Always wanting to speculate, not only do we fail to steal a chicken but lose rice as well, even getting ourselves caught in the net. The chicken is just bait. If what is caught is not an opportunity, there will be huge losses. Many of us are in debt. If we work hard and do things down-to-earth, we will not be in debt. It's all because what we saw at the time looked like an opportunity, but we didn't know it was actually a net.

When a fish enters the net, it eats very well because the people haven't closed the net yet. When they close the net, they catch a whole net of fish and turn it into braised fish or grilled fish on a plate, with garlic flavor or spicy flavor. We must know that when disaster strikes suddenly, people are trapped in it as well. This is how the things of this world operate. The devil lets you climb the ladder. When you climb up, you feel great, gaining a lot of wealth. But when the ladder is gone, if you insist on coming down, you will become a meat pie. So what looks like an opportunity is actually a net. Too many people are trapped by Mammon.

When people choose between God and Mammon, the results are the same when they choose wrong. Some time ago, when promoting the hope of eternal life, I gave many examples. A sister didn't think eternal life was important, so she said goodbye to her pastor and left with tears in her eyes. Actually, she didn't expect to seek this eternal God, just wanting to be blessed in this world, but unfortunately, that is not possible. The anxieties of this life and the deceitfulness of wealth are like this. Today, who is deceived and in debt because they don't love money? They have all gone through a round in the net. If you observe this world carefully, such things are tragedies, no matter how big or small. Many people are caught by Mammon's net and eventually fall into Mammon's trap.

The opportunity is in the present. Work hard and do things down-to-earth, and God will surely guide you. Don't have those negative thoughts, and don't stand on this mountain looking at that mountain as higher. If a person never falls into a net in their life, just by working hard and doing things down-to-earth, nothing will happen. There will definitely be no debt. A lifetime of eating and using doesn't require much. It's just because they don't do their current job well and always want to seize opportunities, resulting in hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. This is all unnecessary, and hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt means several years of working for nothing. If it's five hundred thousand dollars, it's five years of working for nothing, and it's possible that you won't be able to save that much money in ten years.

Conclusion

Thank God for giving me the opportunity to talk to everyone about the basic principles of seizing opportunities. My conclusion is to trust God well, live happily, and do what you should do diligently in these fleeting days, but never forget that God controls opportunities. As it says in Ecclesiastes, the race is not to the swift or the battle to the strong, nor does food come to the wise or wealth to the brilliant or favor to the learned; but time and chance happen to them all. And the following sentence is even more important: Moreover, no one knows when their hour will come. As fish are caught in a cruel net, or birds are taken in a snare, so people are trapped by evil times that fall unexpectedly upon them.

May God have mercy on us and not let us fall into the net. This is called conducting oneself well. Isn't it good to conduct oneself peacefully in life? If you have to die, it's better to die for God. If you want to seize opportunities, walk down-to-earth, and God will surely grant you the opportunity. Never push God away, and never forget not to provoke God's anger, but to please God. Amen!

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机会比能力重要,这就是为什么我们总是拼命去抓机会。因此我们要么很迷信自己的能力,要么就很迷信投机,那可不是机会。投机90%的概率是赔的,10%的概率是赚的。换句话说就是偷鸡不成蚀把米,所以投机和偷鸡差不多。 我又转念,见日光之下:快跑的未必能赢,力战的未必得胜;智慧的未必得粮食,明哲的未必得资财,灵巧的未必得喜悦;所临到众人的,是在乎当时的机会。(《传道书》 9 : 11 ) 所有的东西都在乎当时的机会,那我们必须得整明白机会到底是怎么回事,否则就麻烦了。机会害了很多人,快跑的未必能赢,力战的未必得胜。这个事在我们老刘家的祖宗刘邦身上体现得淋漓尽致,无论是按着武艺还是才干,他都比不上项羽。项羽是贵族出身,而汉高祖刘邦是市井小民,没受过什么教育,就是个小地痞。 刘邦胜过项羽就是因为得着了机会,能得张良和韩信辅佐也是机会,这绝对不是人力所能为的。人对能力的迷信,有时候就导致自己掉到了以能力为本中。但你仔细琢磨所遇到的事,靠自己的能力能扭转吗?比如找了份工作,工作不喜欢你,那你喜欢也没用。别以为你喜欢就可以求老板给你,哪怕你倒着下跪都没用,所以机会非常重要。 能力很强但没有用,你一定要从以能力为本的里面走出来。凡是以能力为本的会发现所遇到的困难常常比你更大,不要说是人,就是一个国家也是如此。国家的运气不好时干什么都不行,国运好的时候干错了也没有事,因为没关系。所以不管是从现在还是历史来看,我们都看到了一个东西叫做机会。人没有机会就彻底完蛋了。 人需要机会,我现在就讲一讲机会到底是怎么回事。话说天道酬勤,其实一点也不假。天道就是神掌管机会,酬勤是要报答那些很勤劳,脚踏实地的人。也就是说有的人光记着努力,没有机会也没有用。

有人问我是在讲课,还是在讲道,其实今天要讲机会真的还得讲神的话,因为神真的掌管机会。这都是我的经历,也有人说我经历的都是小概率事件,但既然发生了也是真的。神掌管机会这事在很多年前我就知道,这也就是为什么我无论如何都要讨神喜悦的原因。神不但掌管机会,还掌管一切。人要仔细归纳一下,千万不要傻。如果你仔细归纳一下就会发现信靠神真的蒙福,蒙福以后就会遇见好机会,做事也会事半功倍。不管是投资,还是找工作都挺好,这根本没法说理去。 我们的神是掌管机会的神,所以我常常说你没什么可担心、挂虑的。如果需要一份工作,神可以为你量身定制一份,你信不信?有人就说他信,但是信不来。信不来那就别信了,我讲了一个又一个自己经历的见证,可是人到了那个时候就是不信神,上来就不想讨神的喜悦,这不是傻瓜蛋吗?不讨神的喜悦,非得做讨神愤怒的事。神给你一个机会,你觉自己运气真好,那下次运气不好了,你上哪找去? 用不完全归纳法总结出来就是神掌管机会,我跟很多人讲这样那样的见证,他们却说都是偶然,那就愿偶然都发生在我身上。我说我们当中一个姐妹讨了神的喜悦,遇到了一个好机会,神就祝福她。而这些人也觉得那是巧合,那就愿巧合和偶然都发生在咱们弟兄姐妹的身上,阿们!由此看来今天这不叫上课,叫讲道。我们都经历过神,愿神在我们身上制造好机会。也正因为如此,咱们弟兄姐姐妹可得知道神拣选在世人眼中看为愚拙的,不尊贵的,让世上那些有智慧的羞愧,因为他们的智慧不好使。

人的智慧不好使,神不但不给机会,还给一个网罗和灾祸。你仔细看看那人精似的人,后来从亿万家财变得门庭衰败,资财变成了负数也很快的。神想要整一个人是很简单的事,你仔细看看我们当中那些倒霉的,哪一个不是靠自己?没有一个讨神喜悦的人,神会给他挖一个坑让他慢慢跳进去。那些一旦跳进去了的,天使在旁边鼓掌,魔鬼也在那鼓掌,谁让你靠自己了? 我们经常遇见偶然和巧合的事,那是因为神喜悦我们。神若喜悦我们,谁能抵挡我们?神若帮助我们,没有什么问题是解决不了的。现在横下一条心讨神的喜悦,那就是真正的机会。可是整着整着人就光看到机会而忘了神,那才是要命的。我们当中经历祝福的人很多,可是整着整着就以为自己本事很大,命运很好。其实那很危险,将来神给他一点灾祸都没办法扛住。

神掌管机会,也掌管我们的生命。机会就在当下,约瑟非常明白这个道理。他被自己的哥哥卖到埃及当奴隶,刚到埃及就赶上护卫长波提乏,也就是警卫部队的司令去买奴隶,一看就觉得约瑟这小孩好,然后就领回家了。那约瑟是觉得机会来了,还是这一辈子完了?约瑟的眼光和其他人的可是完全不一样。我很喜欢约瑟的故事,虽然大家都很熟悉这个故事也没关系,我还是要再讲一遍。约瑟之前做了一个梦,梦到全家都向他下拜,因为他很渴望得着一个比长子更大的名分,神就让他成为家族的拯救。最后约瑟在家里的位分比雅各还高,因为神让他的父母、弟兄姐妹全都在他的面前下拜。 约瑟这人就很厉害,他认为做奴隶是机会,是上奴隶大学来了。哪怕做奴隶也做得淋漓尽致,颇得波提乏的赏识,视他为人才并管理波提乏家里上下事物,包括百十号奴隶。约瑟矜矜业业地去做,因为他知道这就是机会。然而机会没等来,反而被送到监狱去了,不但男主人看上约瑟,女主人也喜欢他。她在自己的闺房里面每天幻想着如何勾引约瑟这个美男子,可约瑟不顺从波提乏的老婆。 约瑟不把那当做机会,而是很清楚那是灾祸。有的人觉得女主人喜欢自己,就干脆顺势而为抓住这个机会。如果得到女主人在男主人面前的夸奖,这事就好办了。我猜有的弟兄也许会可惜约瑟把一手好牌打得稀烂,这么好的机会送上门却错失良机。那不是机会,约瑟敬畏神,神掌管机会,他敬畏神就是智慧。女主人勾引不成就恼羞成怒,把约瑟送进了监狱。其实这样的事还挺多的,女的勾引男的不成还倒打一耙,所以遇到这种事还是躲得远一点。约瑟进到监狱到底是机会,还是灾祸?一般的人不可能觉着这是机会。 约瑟在监狱里面做囚犯做得非常认真,没人能和他相提并论,因为觉着这是机会。心里有辛苦,也很挣扎,但这是神要使他成为家族拯救的机会。约瑟做奴隶做得挺好,做囚犯做得更好。做着做着管监狱的干脆把管理监狱的活外包给了约瑟,他把监狱管理得井井有条。其实从某种程度来讲,管监狱的跟坐监狱的差不太多。所以管监狱的也挺聪明,把这活外包了。约瑟让管监狱的不用管了,放心去玩,有他在就行。这要是在管监狱,或者管理奴隶的时候有人逃跑了就坏了,把机会给搞没了。最后约瑟出了监狱就做了埃及宰相,原来这是个机会。这13年的积累,成就了一个宰相的命,真厉害。

所以机会就在当下,要把当下的奴隶,或者囚犯做好,把当下的工作做好。我深受约瑟的影响,每做一件事都竭力做好。但是大家千万别以为我竭力,就把主日的时间,或者服侍的时间省了。我知道谁掌管机会,也知道谁掌管我的命,我的命都是从神来的,我还跟神计较什么?但你的命不是,你的命是你自己的。因此你得好好管着,也不需要为神付代价,而是我为神付的代价可是不小。 感谢神,我每做一件事就要做好,从来没有烂尾的。当年我做客服,一边做一边学别的。客服的工作我做得可好了,一般的客服人员做不过我。对顾客我是想尽办法,用我很烂的英语服侍我他们,而他们也都喜欢我。后来我做经理了而有个做老师的顾客不知道,点名道姓让我帮他解决问题。等解决完了他才知道我已经做经理了,还觉得挺不好意思。 所以把当前的事做好就是机会,如果你觉的不是神给你安排的就会抱怨。其实当前的事都是神给你安排的,我就没有这山看着那山高的坏习惯,就喜欢老老实实,脚踏实地地做。这一做不要紧,就像坐了电梯一样逐步往上升。每两三年往上升一截,十年之后我就做了那个部门的老大。从做客服,到网络,到服务器,乃至软件开发我全懂,下面的人想忽悠我还是有点困难的。

关键还是你得要会做人,不会做人这一辈子就毁了。做人就是抓住做人的基本原则,每行每业的水都非常深,现在这个世道就是需要你有很深的技能。比如做客服就不管遇到什么样的顾客你都能处理。有时肯定会遇到刁钻的顾客,我就用刁钻的手法对待他,所以遇到各种各样的顾客都当作是机会。有时候答疑解惑中大家提出的那些问题,我答得都挺好因为就是这么走过来的。关键是会做人,要敬畏神,每一行都是神为我安排的,就好好做。 有神引导我前面的路,我的机会都是从神来的。我从最小的职分做到这个部门的老大就是因为神,可神了。我经历完了常常说,神肯定能给你创造一个工作,问题是你有没有讨神的喜悦这两下子。做人就得要抓住机会,很多人就觉得当前不是机会,常常抱怨。我经常听人说当时工作选错了,后悔了,要是留在那里就好了。我不是这样,所以我经常服侍这些人的时候会劝他们把当前的工作干好,别辞职。还有人说自己要裸辞,还好不是裸体。

说那种话的人都是觉得还有更好的工作等着自己,可是今天这活都干不好,再给一个活也干不好。有人经常识别善恶,争竟、攀比、嫉妒、闹心、扯犊子、跟人家掐架,就是不知道把自己事干好。好好干活多好,当前的事就是机会,那是在神面前的忠心。不要飘,要脚踏实地。如果要想换工作凭着信心换,不想换就凭着信心做。如果真有个好机会,升职也OK,但希望不要升完了职就进到彼得原理中。就是升职升到不胜任,那就闹心了。人家看着闹心,自己看自己也闹心,还累得屁滚尿流的。所以要脚踏实地多创造价值,不断地积累,不断地扩张。在当前的事上干得非常好的时候就扩张了,预备自己不断地解决更多的问题。

我最讨厌的就是问题积累着而不解决,这样的人很多。我曾经去过一个人的家里,他家的水压不足,冲凉冲到一半没有水了。要等一会才有水,大冬天洗个澡就非常闹心。就这么日复一日,年复一年地熬着,有问题也OK,就这样与问题共存亡,直到他死问题也没有解决。我就容忍不了这样的人,如果这样的人做传道人,培养出来的也都差不多,就这么凑合地活着。家里的问题都这样,公司的问题也好不到哪里,神的问题更要甩一边去了。你的问题就更不用提,肯定甩一边去。态度就不对,所以说解决问题就是机会。 解决问题要透过学习,如果不会学习,就要有信心去学。解决任何一个问题都是信心的实践,而信心是一个脚踏实地的信心。解决问题和学习分不开。解决问题都要研究,琢磨半天。虽然很累,却因此成为一个有价值的人,就是上一课讲的有价值,这就叫主动学习。解决问题的机会来了,以前我的老板拿来问题谁都不做。最后老板很绝望地让我来做,我就一口应允下来。 我现在解决问题快,就是那些年练的,直到今天还是喜欢解决问题。不要以为我做高级管理人员就是脚不沾地的半天吊,那掉下来不成肉饼了?永远脚踏在地上,直到今天在我们当中做医治释放和牧养,我做得最好;解决问题也是我解决得最多,本事大都是平时练的。总解决问题神就与我同在,神也喜悦我。十年薪水涨了十倍,可别光听薪水涨十倍,却没听到我解决问题。这个月我解决了一万元的问题,老板拿出五千给我。等一个月解决十万元的问题的时候,我问你是不是就值钱了?

你这么值钱了肯定会有公司来挖你,你老板为了留住你就得给你涨薪水,这就是为什么薪水涨得这么快。所以要想薪水涨得快,就多创造价值,多解决问题,多积累经验。每次把老板给的问题都当做机会,虽然还没有加薪,但是问题解决多了,我成了老板的头疼药就肯定会加薪。并且我这个人永远都是最好的下属,我跟上司关系都很铁。老板给的问题不是烫手的山芋,那是机会。今天我得给你解释清楚,免得你糊涂,解决难题都叫做机会,因为有学习和创新的成分。 当我们在解决有创新成分问题的时候,会发现你的价值不断地上涨,而且脑袋也会越来越好使,那接的就不是烫手的山芋了。我的同事就喜欢干他最熟悉的事,咱们当中肯定也有这种人,不熟悉的不想干,只干最熟悉的,一辈子重复就干一件事,觉得自己可伟大了。我说他整天都在跑龙套,他还觉得很委屈,自己累得够呛。没有学习和做新事的成分,脑袋就容易生锈。做重复的事叫操作,人要从操作的劳苦当中走出来,成为一个创新和创造的人,因为神是一个创造的神。我们成为了一个创造的人,身上就有神的形像,神就喜悦你,赐给你好机会。 只是千万别忘了,不要说解决问题就回家玩命地解决。结果把神给解决没了,也把机会给解决没了。如果要让我选,打死我也不会把神先放下。大家要只奥,一忙就把神放下是非常愚蠢的做法,那样会把你前面的机会全部葬送在你的选择里。有人说自己真的很忙,那为什么会忙?如果有神帮你,你不会忙,也压根不用怕老板炒你鱿鱼。千万不要糊涂,有时候我看见大家的选择只能保持沉默,因为人家不爱听,跟人家的选择唱反调就被当做是在咒诅人家。人自己活在咒诅中不怕,我告诉他就怕了,这才邪性。

遇到问题解决问题,但是绝对不要忘记神掌管机会。如果你的生命是神掌管,就不需要害怕没工作。没有工作So what,没关系,因为神就是我的一切,这是我所认定的。要不然你慢慢试试看,过去这些年无论有多忙,都不会放下我的神,这是我会做人。我得把这基本原则搞得明明白白,才能讲给你。《传道书》里讲的,在你一生虚空的年日,这句话讲得真好,大家一定要记住。 在你一生虚空的年日,就是神赐你在日光之下虚空的年日,当同你所爱的妻快活度日,因为那是你生前在日光之下劳碌的事上所得的份。凡你手所当做的事要尽力去做,因为在你所必去的阴间没有工作,没有谋算,没有知识,也没有智慧。(《传道书》 9 : 9 - 10 ) 我又转念,见日光之下:快跑的未必能赢,力战的未必得胜;智慧的未必得粮食,明哲的未必得资财,灵巧的未必得喜悦;所临到众人的是在乎当时的机会。原来人也不知道自己的定期;鱼被恶网圈住,鸟被网罗捉住,祸患忽然临到的时候,世人陷在其中,也是如此。(《传道书》 9 : 11 - 12 )

鸟飞着飞着看到这地方有食物以为是个机会,结果是个网罗;鱼看到食物进去一吃就被网给圈住了。世人也是一样,祸患忽然临到的时候,世人陷在其中也是如此。我们当中有很多被网罗网住,那是很惨的。总想投机,结果不但偷鸡不成蚀把米,甚至把自己都给弄到网罗里去了,鸡不过是个诱饵。如果抓到的不是机会,就要受到巨大的亏损。我们当中有很多欠债的,如果脚踏实地地做事也不会欠债。都是因为当时看到的长得像机会,却不知道那其实是个网罗。 鱼进到网罗的时候吃得还很好,那是人家没收网。等人家收网的时候,一网给打上来就成了盘子里的红烧鱼,或者是烤鱼,有蒜香的,还有辣味的。我们要知道祸患突然临到的时候,世人陷在其中也是如此。世上的事都是这么运作的,就是鬼让你爬梯子,爬上去的时候觉得挺好,得着很多的钱财。结果梯子没了,硬要下来的话就会成一个肉饼。所以说长得像机会却是个网罗,人被玛门套住的太多了。

人在神和玛门当中选择,选错了结果都是如此。前段时间推动永生的盼望的时候讲了很多例子,有个姐妹不觉得永生很重要,就跟她的牧者告别,一把鼻涕一把泪地离开了。其实她没指望寻求这永生神,就想在这世上蒙点福,可惜这样是不能蒙福的。今生的思虑,钱财的迷惑都是如此,今天哪一个被骗的,欠债的不是因为爱钱?都是在网罗里面走了一轮。你仔细观察这个世界,这种事不管大小都是悲剧,很多人被玛门的网给抓去,最后掉到玛门的网罗里。 机会就在当下,要好好地干,脚踏实地地做,神必引导你。不要有那些负面的想法,也不要站在这山看着那山高。人如果一辈子不掉到网罗里,就凭着你脚踏实地地做工什么事没有,肯定没有债务。一辈子吃和用不需要多少,就是因为不好好做当下的工作,总想抓机会,结果抓了几十万的债务。这都是没事找事,整了几十万债务意味着好几年白干。如果五十万就是五年白干,也有可能十年你还攒不了那么多钱。

感谢神,让我有机会跟大家讲抓住机会的基本原则。我的总结就是好好地信靠神,快活地度日,在这虚空的年日当中尽力去做当做的事,但是千万别忘了神掌管机会。《传道书》里说的,快跑的未必能赢,力战的未必得胜。智慧的未必得粮食,明哲的未必得资财,灵巧的未必得喜悦。所临到众人的是在乎当时的机会。而后面这句话更重要,原来人也不知道自己的定期。鱼被恶网圈住,鸟被网罗捉住,祸患忽然临到的时候,世人陷在其中也是如此。 但愿神怜悯我们,不让我们掉到网罗当中。这叫会做人,一辈子平平安安做人不好吗?如果要死也是为神而死,那样多好。要想抓讲抓机会,脚踏实地地走,神一定把机会赐给你。千万不要把神给推没了,也千万别忘记不要讨神的愤怒,要讨神的喜悦。阿们!
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