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I. Introduction:

Good day to everyone! Today, I will address a topic that may seem a bit unusual. Previously, when we discussed The Temple Built with Jewels, many of you seemed to think: Ah, I am a jewel. Ah, I am a treasure in God's eyes. Not necessarily! Pastor, you say, you should build up my faith. Indeed, your faith should be built on the word of God. So today, I want to talk to you about: If anyone does not love the Lord, let that person be accursed! Why? Because I want to draw a red line. Do not cross this line. If you cross it, you are definitely not a treasure! Definitely not a jewel!

I am struck by the fact that some people who do not love God are hanging around here, constantly asking me: Please don't kick me out. I wonder, what kind of people are these? Because within the church, if anyone does not love the Lord, let that person be accursed. Why insist on receiving a curse in this place? You must understand that this place is not only a place to impart blessings, but also a place to dispense some curses. You say: Teacher, isn't the church a place to impart blessings? Yes, it is, to those who love God. But it also dispenses curses, to those who do not love the Lord. Do you understand?

So some people come among us and find things are not good. Why? Their situation becomes worse. Why? The curse is deeper. When it comes to loving the Lord, there are not many stories. When it comes to not loving the Lord, there are many stories, and many stories about curses as well. You know, those who are blessed are few, and those who are cursed are many. Those who are treasures in God's eyes are few, and the rubbish in God's eyes are many. I ask you: Is there more rubbish or more treasures? Definitely more rubbish. You haul it away truckload after truckload. When do you ever see truckload after truckload of jewels being transported? Very rarely.

So many Christians live in a state of curse. If you observe carefully, you may no longer be confused starting today. Why aren't you confused? Because you know: If anyone does not love the Lord, let that person be accursed! And it will come upon you soon. So the title of Christian is not far from a curse, as far as I am concerned. This is why I particularly dislike hiring Christians as employees. The matter of Christians as employees is a bit peculiar. So after becoming a pastor, I do not want the Christians among us to be like those Christians I have seen living under a curse.

Christians living under a curse are incompetent in everything. They are unable to do anything well. It would be better if these people were not Christians. If you are not a Christian, you do not need to love the Lord, because you are not a Christian. But if you are a Christian and do not love the Lord, what are you doing here? I'm here to get a bit of curse. What kind of thinking is that? If you listen to my sermon today and think, This place is not for me, then leave quickly. If you leave, you will be dumping me, which will give you face. Don't wait for me to dump you, or you will lose face.

So I want to emphasize, do not think that there are no curses in the New Testament. The entire New Testament and Old Testament are permeated with the matter of blessings and curses. Blessings and curses are closely related to loving God and not loving God. Okay? If you listen to my sharing today, you had better figure it out clearly. By no means come among us to pick up a curse. I will be embarrassed, and you will be embarrassed. So today, brothers and sisters, you must understand that if you live under a curse, you will not get better! If you don't believe me, we can take it slow and see what happens.

Think about it. People just don't know what it means to love God. They think they can just hang around among us. The account, I can leave it for you. You can log in from time to time to sponge off us, or you can not log in. You can come in or you can idle while doing whatever else you want to do. But I tell you, if anyone does not love the Lord, let that person be accursed! Do you think this is serious? Isn't it? It's very serious! We once had a sister whose mother suffered from severe depression. She came from afar to be among us, not by train, not by plane, but over the internet.

After she came, God began to show her grace. Actually, she didn't love God that much. But God loves her, why? Because God loved her first and watched her reaction. As a result, she was about to get a promotion at school. She was an unestablished staff member. Hey, she didn't do so well on the exam, but she passed. She took another exam and didn't do well either, but she passed. Isn't it good to pass? Then she started to get cocky. She thought God was gracious to her because she was doing well. No! God was gracious to her because God loved her and hoped she would turn around, so He showed her grace.

As a result, just as she was about to get the promotion, having passed the exams, what happened? Not long ago, didn't we have a building fund offering? Our building fund is no small matter. We are going to build a glorious church on the internet. As a result, she gave God a small tip, like giving money to a beggar. Here's ten dollars for you, take it! That was roughly her attitude. As a result, that was disastrous! How was it disastrous? Immediately, she began to have bad luck.

So sometimes I worry that people don't understand the meaning of giving offerings, and they mess things up. As a result, they receive a curse! How did they receive a curse? Soon, the leader called her in for a talk. What did the leader talk to her about? Her recent performance was not good. Not only was her performance not good, but later the leader called her in again and discovered what? That she was tutoring her own school's students outside and charging them money. Could she still get the promotion? No way. She deserved it. Actually, if her leader needed to talk to her, her pastor should also talk to her.

I tell you, such a person is bound to have bad luck! She came to us in the past with bad luck and received grace, and she thought she was doing well. No! It wasn't because you were doing well, but because God was good to you. But God is a God who curses people. If God has shown you grace, and you still don't learn how to love God, you deserve it! There are many days of bad luck ahead, so take it slow.

So today, brothers and sisters, can you please stop dawdling in the church? If you dawdle in the church and produce a curse, you will pay the consequences. You must know that I don't care about family ties. I only care about God. I am building God's glorious church. I only hope to bring those who love God to God, and leave the rubbish and the scum to Old Ma, Old Donkey, Little Crab, Ox-Head and Horse-Face. Whoever wants to take you, let them take you. Okay? Anyway, I won't take you! I have seen many people like this in the past few years.

There was another sister who came among us. Later, I discovered that she was an extremely selfish person at heart. She went to work for a company, and then that company went under. She found another job and went to work, and that company went under too. I said, How is it that every company you go to work for goes under? I said, You didn't even become the president, did you? Right? You haven't even become the president, and you make people go under. If you became the president, how many would you make go under? She's carrying a demon! Carrying a curse, so whatever she does fails. Those who touch her get a bit of a curse and are defiled. Do you think that is a matter of life and death?

Not only this sister, but another brother was also like this. You think it's just the sisters? I'm a brother, but the brothers are not immune. Whether you are male or female is not important. What is important is whether you love God or not. The difference between loving God and not loving God is too great! Later, another brother was the same. He worked for a company, and the company went under. He worked for another company, and that company went under too. He grew up in the church, and I hoped that he could grow, so I arranged for him to try doing pastoral work.

So I let him do pastoral work. First, you have to learn to make a few phone calls, right? Making a few phone calls is fine. Later, I found that he didn't make phone calls. He never contacted anyone. Later, I talked to him: Why don't you make phone calls? He gave me the line: Teacher, I can't remember. Hah? I said, What kind of answer is that? Okay, if I remind you later, can you remember? Later, I reminded him, and after I reminded him, he still couldn't remember. Oh, I felt very strange. I looked for him again. I said: I already reminded you, how could you still forget? He said: Oh, hum, ah, um, ah, here come the two hum-ha generals, he didn't take it seriously. Actually, it's nothing else, it's just that he didn't want to make the call. Forgetting became an excuse to get rid of me.

Now you can't get rid of me, because I'm reminding you. See what kind of person I am? Too insensitive. People try to get rid of you, and you still take it seriously. Well, I'm just that kind of serious person! His girlfriend is among us. Later, I asked him, Can you remember to call her? He said, No problem. I call her every day. Later, I concluded that he loves his girlfriend. He has time to call his girlfriend anytime.

The moment his girlfriend calls him and says, Wait for me downstairs tonight, of course he has time. He doesn't work overtime, he doesn't need anything else, he puts it down and leaves. Is that how it is? Oh no wonder that the first company failed, and the second company failed. Later, I tried very hard to put him on the path to blessing, but I couldn't make it happen! Okay, today I will say: God! May he be accursed. That matter is very interesting. Some people will say, Look at you, how can you curse people? I didn't say anything, I didn't curse him about anything. I just said: If anyone does not love the Lord, let that person be accursed!

So don't believe that nonsense that says: Ah, from a person's mouth should come blessings and not curses, that is not right. What is not right? Our God is both a God of blessing and a God of curse. That's how our God speaks. Are you more powerful than God? This is God's word; can't we proclaim it? Yes! So today, brothers and sisters, never be a Christian living under a curse. What good is it to be a Christian living under a curse? Among us, although it is a victorious church, the curse is still so real, because it is God who curses people.

Stop living a life of bad luck. If you are not among us, for example, if you become a Buddhist or a Muslim, maybe you will be fine. Look at some people who leave the church, they are doing quite well after they leave. People are more blessed after they leave, because the curse is gone, not as much of a curse. Isn't that right? So never be a Christian living under a curse.

A young brother among us recently had a financial turnaround. He used to have bad luck in everything he did. Why? He loved money and didn't love God. With great difficulty, he has been straightened out a little. I don't know if he will bounce back like a spring. You know, I tried so hard to straighten him out, I was exhausted. He was blessed, but the moment I let go, he went back to loving the world, back to his money-loving ways. So although he came out of poverty and bankruptcy, he still needs to change.

So today, brothers and sisters, never think that I am releasing fear. I am just telling you the truth of God. You say, Teacher, you are releasing fear. You should build up my faith. As I thought about building up your faith, I said to myself, You should be afraid. To what extent have you been unafraid, to the point that you dare to not love God? You actually want to live under a curse. Remember that loving the Lord is the greatest commandment! Do you know what a commandment is? A commandment is the bottom line. Don't think that a commandment is something lofty. What is a commandment? You shall not steal, you shall not rob, you shall not murder. The bottom line.

Even though you have not murdered, you are definitely not a great person. Do you understand? So what is this bottom line? It is to love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your strength. This is the greatest commandment! Go beyond this and you will be cursed. So some people suffer for the sake of loving God, for the sake of paying a price for God. But more people suffer because they do not love God and are cursed, a pain with no glory. Do you understand? So I have a great confusion. In the past few years, when I was a Christian in the local church, I had a great confusion, because after I saw it, I found that many Christians were living under a curse. Then they still insisted on being such Christians. I was really confused, insisting on being a cursed Christian.

You must know who the curses in the Bible are for. I ask you, who is Deuteronomy for? For those who believe in the Lord. Deuteronomy says this: If you carefully observe and follow the statutes, ordinances, and commandments of the Lord your God, you will surely be blessed. If you do not carefully observe and follow them, you will surely be cursed. Is that right? Is Deuteronomy for Buddhists? No, Deuteronomy is for Christians. You say, No, that's the Old Testament. The Old Testament? The New Testament is the same. In these past years, my greatest confusion has been this.

I once encountered a very interesting Christian. It was five or six years ago when I received him. He had cancer and began to eat liquid food. His mouth could not swallow food; it had to go through a tube. To know that in the midst of a curse, one of the curses is that people cannot taste food when they eat, and eating food is not fragrant. The liquid food is injected into him through a tube in his abdomen. Do you think he was cursed? Ten years later, his wife also contracted cancer. As a result, what happened? I said, You are living under a curse. He said, No, I am Job. Oh, Job, cursed Job. I said, To what extent must you insist!

I tell you, this kind of teaching in the church is a very absurd teaching. Let him go and see Job and be with Job. So insisting is my greatest confusion, thinking that they are suffering for God. Someone said: Pastor, I love the Lord so much! I said: You love the Lord? How do you love the Lord? How do you love the Lord? After thinking for a long time, they couldn't figure it out and couldn't answer. Because they are just two-cent teapots, just good at talking. It is easy to say the words love the Lord, but it is not easy to do it! Come, let's talk about it. I said: How do you love God? How do you love the Lord? He said, I attend meetings, I give offerings. Is that called loving the Lord? My goodness, you think God really needs you to attend meetings.

How do you explain love the Lord? The concepts of if anyone does not love the Lord and loving the Lord must be made clear. Loving the Lord, I tell you, the Bible speaks very clearly: For a mature Christian, it is to shepherd God's sheep; if you love the Lord, you must pay the price for shepherding; if you love the Lord, you carefully observe and follow God's word, willingly and gladly carefully observing and following God's word. I said, Then what do you follow? He stared straight at me with both eyes, what do you follow? He said, Why is your question so difficult? I am the kind of person who likes to bring up whatever shouldn't be brought up. Is it difficult to answer my questions? My questions are hard to answer. If you want to argue with me, you certainly can't win against me.

I said, What do you follow? His big eyes stared at my small eyes. I said, That's easy. What God's words do you not follow? I can list a whole bunch for you. You haven't followed many of them. It's not just about talking. There are many people who love the Lord, saying they love the Lord, but they have ruined the Lord's church with their love. Do you understand? The year I got COVID, a pastor also got COVID. The pastor got COVID, I got better, and he died. Before he died, he left a message. He said that he wanted to build a church full of God's love. I said to myself: You better stop it. He died, and I didn't say that to him. I said: You should build a church that loves God!

Bringing together a group of people who made the church smoky and filled with infighting all day long. Ah, tragedy. In the end, they fought their pastor to his death from COVID. They ruined the church with their love. Fortunately, I found that color is an interesting thing. They did not green the church.

Do you know what it means to green the church? If you green God and the church, how deep will the curse be! You put a green hat on God, try it. It is fatal! The curse is so deep.

Therefore, Chinese Mingding Destiny theology hopes to explain these things clearly. So, I tell you, Chinese Mingding Destiny theology is actually the theology of the Apostle Paul. As a result, old John grew old and was in his nineties. When he was in his nineties, he was actually a little over twenty years old when the Lord Jesus was crucified. Now that he is in his nineties, it has actually been seventy years since the Lord Jesus was crucified. Most people can't outlive him. James, Peter, and Paul died, leaving only old John. Old John probably lived long enough to outlive everyone.

After everyone had died, he began to ponder. How did they ruin the church in those days? How did they green the church? Later, he summarized something called loving the Lord. So in the Gospel of John and the First Epistle of John, there is a lot of talk about loving the Lord. Do you understand? That is to say, later people will find that the Gospel of John, written by old John, was written many years later. It tells an unknown and interesting story that no one else recorded. Why didn't anyone else write it? Because Peter was still alive at that time, to save him some face. Now that he is dead, there is no need to save Peter's face, and old John wrote down the story.

When Jesus saw Peter, He told him to catch people like fish. After he saw Jesus Christ rise from the dead, he went fishing again. He fished all night, but he didn't catch any fish. The fishing expert didn't catch any fish. Later, Jesus was on the shore and told him to cast the net on the other side. He cast the net and caught 153 fish. As a result, Jesus was on the shore making grilled fish for him, adding some sauce, spreading it around, and sprinkling some cumin and chili powder, grilling it until it smelled fragrant. Peter was there eating fish and chatting with Jesus. People in Northeast China call chatting lao ke.

When they had finished breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon, son of John, do you love me more than these?” He said to him, “Yes, Lord; you know that I love you.” He said to him, “Feed my lambs.” (John 21:15)

As a result, Jesus asked, “Do you love me?” “I love you.” Jesus said, “Shepherd my sheep.” Later, he asked three times in a row, which confused Peter. As a result, this conversation was written down. I tell you, it actually highlights how much you love God. How did Peter actually do later? He didn't do so well and ruined the church. So John was with Peter and the others at that time. They were colleagues, working together. Thinking back on this matter, ah, they didn't do it right. Actually, it wasn't that old John didn't understand this until those years. The Apostle Paul wrote it clearly in 1 Corinthians.

If anyone has no love for the Lord, let him be accursed. Our Lord, come! (1 Corinthians 16:22)

If anyone does not love the Lord, let that person be accursed. The phrase if anyone is interesting. Who is it? Today we are human flesh searching this term. If anyone, who is that? So by saying these things, I want everyone to enter into blessing and no longer live under a curse. I hope that if anyone is not you or me, but if someone, some people. Ah, I was just saying, it's very emotional!

So I am saying so much to let everyone know that loving God is very, very important. If people do not love God, I don't know if their brains are messed up. Right? How dumb are they? Right? I don't know why? Why is their head not working well? Are there certain people among us today? Are there if anyone among us? Do we have a netizen named If Anyone? If you are named If Anyone, then you are doomed. Okay, today we will open this scripture, 1 Corinthians 16:22.

II. Scripture

If anyone does not love the Lord, let that person be accursed. Our Lord, come! (1 Corinthians 16:22)

III. Prayer

God! Today, let us have a heart that loves You; God! We ought to love You, we ought to love You with all our heart, with all our soul, with all our strength, with all our mind. You are our God, You are our everything; God! Let us have this determination to put You first in our lives; God! Today we will write it down on the calendar, we are going to be people who love You, this is the commandment You have given us; God! Today we know that if we do not love You, we will live under a curse. Today help us, give us strength, let us take off the sin that entangles us, break the curse on us. Let us be a people who love You, who walk according to Your words, to build Your glorious church, in this generation, let Your glory fill the whole earth. God! Have mercy on us, remember us, give us strength! In the Name of Jesus Christ, Amen!

IV. Scripture Background

A sentence was added after this scripture: “Our Lord, come!” What will the Lord do when He comes? To curse him. The Lord will come to curse him; it's quite interesting! These words are powerful! The background of this scripture is very interesting. If I have the chance, I will share 1 Corinthians with everyone again. I found that my human flesh searching skills are very powerful. I am very good at reading these things and then thinking: Oh, this guy is this kind of person. I understand it quite well. Why? Because I am Chinese, and Chinese people have a deep understanding of human nature. The background of 1 Corinthians is very interesting. What is the background of 1 Corinthians? The Corinthian church went through a period of great chaos. How did it come about? Its logic is like this. I will tell you a story.

Paul established a church in Corinth called the Corinthian church. Paul stayed in the Corinthian church for a year and a half. How did he do it? He pitched tents in Corinth, earning money and supporting himself while building the church. He built the church without taking a penny from the Corinthian church, and then the Corinthians

Why do I know this? Because in 1 Corinthians, he wrote about this in an interesting and skillful way. There were three groups of people. Why? Because the Corinthian church had already split into three factions. Some said, I follow Paul; others, I follow Apollos; and still others, I follow Cephas, that is, Peter. They divided into three groups and started infighting. This infighting was quite intense, and the church became chaotic. You must understand, this church was quite something.

In the early days of building our church, we dealt with this spirit of disunity. One day, while I was praying at home, a vision appeared before me. What kind of vision was it? It was a snake with three bodies all intertwined, each of the three heads facing a different direction, very formidable. When I saw this vision, I said, God, what is this? And God said to me, This is a spirit of disunity. Oh, so that's what a spirit of disunity looks like! Back then, the church was dealing with this very thing. And I tell you, congratulations! Today, our church has defeated this spirit of disunity.

There was also a church with three pastors, and they were staging a Romance of the Three Kingdoms scenario. It's not strange at all to act out Romance of the Three Kingdoms in a church. The church's version is much better than that kid who plays Cao Cao. So, the church at that time dealt with the spirit of disunity, the spirit of gossip, and many other spirits. The Corinthian church was infiltrated by such spirits, and the evil spirits behind them were very powerful. Some people in the church claimed, I don't follow Paul, nor Apollos, nor Cephas Peter, I follow Jesus Christ. What nonsense! They just don't love God and engage in empty talk.

As a result, these three factions came to the church, and the church became chaotic. When Paul found out about this, he wrote 1 Corinthians. From the lines of the letter, you can also infer that Apollos had come to Paul. He was doing well in Corinth, so why did he come to Paul? What was Apollos good at? Apollos was very familiar with the Bible and powerfully proved that Jesus Christ is Lord. In the Book of Acts, it is said that Apollos preached the baptism of John. What is the baptism of John? It is that people must repent.

So, even today, Apollos' teachings are still very rampant in the church. In fact, 1 Corinthians was not only written to the Corinthian church but also to the Christians in Corinth who followed Apollos. Because Apollos' logical system is to powerfully prove that Jesus Christ is Lord, but without power, focusing only on repentance, that's roughly it. The problem is the lack of power. Therefore, Paul said, My message and my preaching were not with wise and persuasive words. He was referring to Apollos.

My message and my preaching were not with wise and persuasive words, but with a demonstration of the Spirit’s power, so that your faith might not rest on human wisdom, but on God’s power.(1 Corinthians 2:4-5)

Apollos is a model of a church without power, very good at studying the Bible, proving this and that, but in the end, proving that he himself is not very capable. How did he end up coming to Paul? I have a very interesting guess for you. Later, Peter and the others also came. Although Peter's speaking skills were not as good as Apollos', Peter was a great disciple of Jesus Christ. Because of this, he immediately overwhelmed many people. Think about it, Apollos was in the Corinthian church, and then Peter also came. What do you think would happen to the Corinthian church? Peter clearly couldn't out-argue Apollos, that's for sure.

According to our Chinese logical system, from the Zhou Dynasty to the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, over two thousand eight hundred years of history, the Chinese have a deep understanding of human nature and have studied the tactics of power very deeply. After Apollos was defeated by Peter, he was very hurt and left the Corinthian church. Apollos was not a builder of the church; he was only good at talking. He came to the apostle Paul, and later Apollos inherited Paul's theological system. He was hurt, is that called building the church? That's not called building the church, that's called a dragon-tiger fight.

Therefore, 1 Corinthians mentions several times If anyone... This cannot be named; you can't say I'm talking about you. I'm saying, If anyone... Is it someone? Not you, I didn't say you. This is a very clever political language, referring to some unnamed people. Who are they referring to? Those who ruined the church and caused trouble everywhere. Do you understand? Although the church may not be completely ruined, it was thrown into chaos, impoverished, and filled with a bunch of Pharisees. That's what it was like. So, you can't say I'm targeting anyone; I'm not targeting anyone. But those who read 1 Corinthians know who is being targeted. As a result, Paul urged Apollos to return to the Corinthian church, but Apollos was unwilling to go.

As for our brother Apollos, I urged him strongly to visit you with the other brothers. Even now he is quite unwilling to go, but he will come when he has the opportunity.(1 Corinthians 16:12)

Do you all understand? He didn't want to go because he was hurt there. The following sentence is very interesting.

Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong.(1 Corinthians 16:13)

Oh, what it really means is: You and Apollos are all petty and caught up in trivial matters. In the end, did the Corinthian church get better? The spirit of disunity was defeated by Paul. In 1 Corinthians, it mentioned three groups of people: Paul, Apollos, and Cephas. What did these three groups do? A Romance of the Three Kingdoms. Who defeated them? Paul, who had a fatherly and motherly heart, that was love. Paul's message was full of love. Do you all understand now? The If anyone mentioned among these three groups definitely refers to Peter. Today, they are all dead anyway, so I don't need to worry about offending anyone. They won't come back to me anyway. Even if someone comes to me in my sleep and says, I am Peter, do you think I would be afraid of you? You little punk! You couldn't beat me when you were alive, how could you beat me when you're dead?

If anyone does not love the Lord, let that person be cursed! Come, Lord!(1 Corinthians 16:22)

Today, brothers and sisters, be vigilant! Be courageous, be strong, and love God. If you don't love God, you are cursed, because you are pursuing empty and shallow things, all for the sake of fame. What did Peter come to the Corinthian church to do? I really don't know, except to cause trouble. Isn't that right? Do we understand today? That's called running gigs. Do you know what running gigs means? That's called money-grabbing. Think about it slowly, these are life-threatening matters.

So, those three types of people are very interesting, proposing three types of people who build the church: The first type loves the Lord and builds the church, using precious stones to build the church; the second type also has a heart that loves the Lord, but builds the church with wood, hay, and straw; the third type does not love the Lord and builds the church, only to make money and cause trouble in the church. Now, looking at what Paul said, If anyone does not love the Lord, let that person be cursed! Now we roughly know Apollos, right? We know Peter even more. The problem lies in the fact that you can't say they don't believe in the Lord, but believing in the Lord without loving the Lord is useless.

V. Not Loving the Lord Despite Believing is Accursed

Today, many churches often stop at the road of believing in the Lord. Actually, Chinese Mingding Destiny theology speaks of the theological system of the Apostle Paul, in which loving the Lord is the most important. So, if anyone believes in the Lord but loves the world and not God, the result will be living under a curse. Everyone must remember that curses are very powerful. If a person believes in the Lord but does not love the Lord and also builds a church, the church will be filled with all kinds of strange phenomena. If anyone who believes in the Lord does not love the Lord is accursed, then what will happen if someone who believes in the Lord but does not love the Lord builds a church?

For example, a sister brought her mother to me. Why? Because in the church her mother attended, one check-up would reveal one cancer, and another check-up would reveal another cancer. This sister said that the next check-up would be her mother's turn. I said, then bring your mother over, hoping that her mother could receive a correct theological system. But the result was very poignant: it wasn't her who corrected her mother, but her mother who corrected her. In other words, how could believing in the Lord lead to one cancer after another in the church? Why? That's the curse!

So, curses are not non-existent; they are very rampant in the church. I can give many examples. Cancer is definitely a curse, no doubt about it. To this day, the proportion of pastors getting cancer is twice as high as that of ordinary people. Why? Because they don't love the Lord. So, everyone must understand that those who believe in the Lord but do not love the Lord are accursed. Therefore, there will be disputes and power struggles in the church. Therefore, there will be many narrow-minded, petty, and easily hurt people in the church. Isn't that right?

Then why don't we have such things among us? Because among us, it's not just about believing in the Lord; it's about loving the Lord. If you don't love the Lord, what are you doing here? You won't gain anything here, at most you'll get a bit of a curse. Believing in the Lord but not loving the Lord is accursed. Do you understand? In other words, if you're in this place, you won't get any blessings, and you'll even get a bit of a curse. What are you doing here? Just don't mess around here.

Today I give everyone a suggestion: don't think, oh, this is a victorious church. It's so good to be in this victorious church; I'll get some benefits somehow. This kind of thinking is very dangerous. The safest thing for you to do is to love God well. How do you love Him? By willingly and gladly doing according to God's word! If you willingly and gladly do according to God's word, not only is money not a problem, many things are not problems. There's only one problem: Do you love God well? Why are some brothers and sisters so narrow-minded among us? Why do they have to fight at home, fight at work, and fight everywhere over trivial matters? Because people don't love God, their hearts can't be big. Because those trivial matters are big things in your heart, you don't have any Mingding Destiny, so these are all big things. Is that a life-threatening matter?

So, on the surface, I'm saying that if anyone does not love the Lord, let that person be cursed, but actually, I'm encouraging everyone to learn to love God well. Don't believe to the point of being cursed. Everyone should think carefully about it. Apollos' teachings preached the baptism of John the Baptist. Although he powerfully proved that Jesus Christ is Lord, it was only theoretical belief. Apollos' teachings seem right, but they are useless. The reason is simple, those who love the Lord will build the body of Jesus Christ, carrying out things according to God's word, not just talking about it. So Apollos' gospel powerfully proves that Jesus Christ is Lord and then stops there, without power.

VI. Verbal Expressions of Love for the Lord Are Useless

Verbal expressions of love for the Lord will ultimately lead to being under a curse, it won't do, it is necessary to have a church perspective. The church is the body of Jesus Christ. Everyone says after hearing it a lot, oh, preacher you talking about this again. I can't not mention it! Because me just talking, you just listening is useless, ultimately just talking, just listening is close to naked, then it will all be over, that will be a problem. Cannot only talk and cannot only listen, cannot simply talk or simply listen, must do! Because you have heard seems to have heard many times, because you did not do. As soon as you start doing it, you'll discover you knew very little, and you know is far from sufficient!

So when you do, do what? Have to do the nurturing, you have to pay the price right? So when feeding a childe it costs a lot of effort right? Isn't it? I ask you, if you have to domestic rabbit, and your on day trip, you will worry about the rabbit right? Because the rabbit wont stop crying for foods isn't it? People are also like that. Some mothers will say, cry what cry? hungry what hungry? Some person pets dogs someone pets cats. Once You walk out you'll be in deep trouble..

There was a sister who came and told me, pastor, I must be home later. Oh, I know, it because there's Cat havent got fed in the house! You pet a cat this way, what about raising a child? When feeding say, what were you even thining? It is possible to forget? I tell you indeed, teachers are in the tens of thousands, but fathers are not many! I am talking about who? It is about that Apollos, and Cephas the Peter. All these people talked with great mouths, talk is good, then dismissals the business, off they walk leaving nothing. Isn't it?

I will all keep it in mind! We are well aware. I once decreed in our church, make a vow to properly nurture the members of god. Because in year before the condition of members and visitors are free range state, got to eat then eats well, non got eat is okay. No one cares for themselves. Praise is to god, god keeps my heart, never forsake me. Still will rely on him, prepare enough delicious morsel for myself and the peoples, until this day still raise me up! Thank the lord Because ate a lot bitternesses, Decide to be a pastor like the Apostle Paul, to have a father and mother mind to nurture. Not possible without love. Teachers are a dime a dozen, but there father of the flock is few.

The people around churches watch their pastor and think, these are show their talk, our Apostle paul will take our case! So, someone are talkers likely are schemers. I am referring to Corinthians Chapter * give a theoretical on love. The whole Corinthians had many chapters well written, it full fills with love of God. I thank God that a sermon Corinthians is what to follow the apostle heart back in the days

VII. Religious behavior is also useless

Love the Lord, then build the body of Jesus Christ, nurture God's flock. Nurturing is very draining and exhausting. What's the use of kneeling in the temple for ten hours a day, kneeling until your knees are calloused? No use! Praying every day, praying for the whole world, do you think praying so much every day is loving God very much? Is it? That thing is called religious behavior! Religious behavior is useless. True nurturing really takes effort. Therefore, our church's nurturing has taken a big step forward.

In the past, we could cast out the demons in your body, we could put God's word in you, but today, not only that, but also build up your ability to make a living, and also change the bad habits in you. Those who can't learn must be made to learn, those who can't work must be made to work, those who can't earn money must be made to earn money, but the love of God is the foundation! I won't turn you into a religious cripple, unable to do anything, only able to say Hallelujah, isn't that a religious cripple? You don't have to say that the government hates this kind of person, I also hate it! What's the use of this kind of person? No use at all, and they even like to cause trouble!

We must know that the Christian faith is not based on works, but on a heart that loves God, based on faith. To what extent is faith? Putting all our emotions on God. Our God is the God of the living, our God is the living and true God. Our Lord Jesus Christ also often shed tears for us! Brothers and sisters, having a God who loves us so much, are we willing to go crazy for the God who loves us, to completely give ourselves, to put God in the first place in our lives? To say to God: God, I am willing to give myself to you. You love me so much, what can I give back to you? I will give you my life. What a wonderful choice this is! Everyone must know how good that feeling is. Because of the love of God, paying the price for God, knowing that God remembers me in eternity, preparing a crown of glory for me, with such hope, how wonderful that is!

VIII. Removing the Myths of Love

Does everyone know that the word love is an extremely confused concept. I see many young men and women, you love me, I love you, and then what? You see how much I love you, will you give me something? Understand? This is a very strange thing. I love you, so you have to give me. If you don't give me, I will be very hurt. Actually, it's not. Loving God is giving ourselves to God, living for the Lord! Come, next I will read 1 Corinthians Chapter 13 to you:

If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give away all my possessions, and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. But as for prophecies, they will come to an end; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come to an end.(1 Corinthians 13:1-8)

I hope that brothers and sisters can truly know what love is all about. What is love? If you are nurturing, what you are concerned about in your heart all day long, that is called love! If you are nurturing in order to make a show, even if you have prophetic powers, what's the use? I tell everyone that what I am inheriting is the Apostle Paul's nurturing. Therefore, don't think that I preach very well, it's useless, it's nothing. I preach very well, but what I do is even more impressive than what I preach.

If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.(1 Corinthians 13:2)

Do we care about what God cares about? Do we put effort into nurturing God's flock? Do we really put the love of God in the first place? Therefore, when Paul was writing 1 Corinthians and was about to end the last chapter, he had a passage that was very confusing. He started by saying:

All God’s people here send their greetings. Greet one another with a holy kiss. I, Paul, am writing this greeting with my own hand.(1 Corinthians 16:20-21)

Then he inserted a sentence:

If anyone does not love the Lord, let that person be cursed! Come, Lord! The grace of the Lord Jesus be with you. My love to all of you in Christ Jesus. Amen.(1 Corinthians 16:22-24)

Suddenly adding such a sentence, what does it mean? Actually, Paul felt that he hadn't made it clear enough, so he repeated the most important point. He drew a red line for our Christian life, telling us not to cross this red line, crossing it will be cursed. Therefore, brothers and sisters began to know one thing. When we have that love from God inside, nurturing is definitely not a problem. Nurturing is not to prove anything, you are not nurturing to show me, nurturing is you bringing a fatherly and motherly heart to nurture, you cannot not grow. You must know that many mothers have their first child, and after giving birth, they know how to be a mother. I'm right, right? They didn't have a child after knowing how to be a mother. They haven't given birth to a child, haven't raised a child, and don't know how to be a mother.

Someone once told me that he said: How heavy the child is, how much strength the mother has, the fact is really like this. I know a sister who is thin, small, and has no strength, but she can pick up her own child and walk, she is so strong, that's God! If you ask her to carry a bag of flour, she can't carry it. If you ask her to carry her own child, she can carry it no matter how heavy it is. I tell you, love is a kind of power. If the love of God is in us, we will gain infinite power to run forward, to build God's glorious church, to let God's glory fill the whole earth. If you ask me where the power comes from, it comes from loving God; if you ask me where the wisdom comes from, it comes from loving God; if you ask me, why can you do so many things? Because there is a heart that loves God, so every day is so fulfilling. Thank God! How about it, today let us tell God: I love you deeply!

We will sing this song and offer our gifts. Recently, many brothers and sisters have participated in the building dedication, thank God! Such a blessed thing, we can't leave everyone out, everyone must get a share of such a blessed thing. One dollar is not too little, ten thousand is not too much, but you must understand that you must not use offerings to show off, because your offering is a matter of course. Tell the God, I love you, sincerely love you Jesus! Every time I reflect on the suffering when Lord Jesus crucified and whip scars beared for sin! Praise be the members got miracle healed. Lord told me your endless love great and mighty! God, I love thee! May thy glory spread throughout the earth! God, I am so grateful God love superceed all that is and will be.

At this time, raise your hands and pray with me: God, I want to offer myself, I want to love you, I want to love you with all my heart, with all my soul, with all my strength! May you give me strength, I want to run forward on this road, I want to love you every day, I want to know you more. I want to break off all the curses on me, remove all the obstacles.

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大家好!今天跟大家讲一个稍微有点奇怪的题目,虽然之前我们讲的《用宝石建造的圣殿》,好像大家都:啊,我是个宝石。啊,我是神眼里的宝贝。不一定哦!哎呀,牧师啊,你应该建造我的信心。对,你的信心要建造在神的话语上。所以今天我想给大家讲一个:《若有人不爱主,这人可咒可诅!》为什么呢?因为我想画上一条红线,不要超越这条线,超越这条线你肯定不是宝贝!肯定不是宝石! 我就感慨,有一些人不爱神在这里混。然后还整天求我:别把我踢了。我说这是什么人呢?因为就是在教会的里面,若有人不爱主,这人可咒可诅。为什么非得要在这里面得着咒诅呢?大家要知道在这个地方不单单是分赐祝福的地方,在这地方也分一些咒诅出去。你说:老师,教会不是分赐祝福的地方吗?是啊,那是给爱神的人呐。还分赐咒诅呐,那是给不爱主的人。听明白了吗? 所以有的人来到咱们当中发现不好,为什么?来到咱们当中状况变得更糟了。为啥呢?咒诅就更深了。那说到爱主故事不太多,说到不爱主那故事特别多,那说到咒诅故事也是多。大家知道不?蒙祝福的人少,受咒诅的多。是神眼里的宝贝的人少,神眼里的垃圾多呀。我问你:是垃圾多?还是宝贝多?肯定是垃圾多。一车一车的往外拉,你啥时候看见一车一车往外运宝石?很少的。 所以基督徒活在咒诅中的多呀,大家仔细观察一下,你可能从今天开始没有困惑了,为啥你没困惑了?因为你知道:若有人不爱主,这人可咒可诅!而且很快就要临到你。所以基督徒这个名号对我来讲离咒诅不是很远呐,这就是为什么我特别不喜欢请基督徒做员工,基督徒做员工这个事有点邪门。所以后来做了牧师以后,就不希望咱们当中的基督徒,是我看见的那些基督徒活在咒诅当中的那个样子。

活在咒诅当中的基督徒干啥啥不行,啥也干不好。要说这些人不做基督徒还好,你不做基督徒你也不需要爱主啊,因为你不是基督徒呀。但是你做了基督徒又不爱主,你来这干啥来了?我来这分点咒诅。这是什么脑子呢?如果你今天听完我讲的:哎呀,这地方不能呆。那你赶紧走。你如果走吧,是把我给甩了,你还挺有面子的,不要等我把你给甩了,那你多没面子呀? 所以我想千万不要以为在新约没有咒诅,整个新约和旧约就是贯穿着祝福和咒诅这件事,祝福和咒诅就跟爱神和不爱神紧密相关。好吗?咱们今天如果你听我分享,你最好琢磨清楚,千万不要来到咱们当中整点咒诅,我也不好意思,你也不好意思。所以今天咱们弟兄姐妹你要知道活在咒诅当中,那是好不了的!要不信咱们慢慢走着瞧。 你想想看,人就是不知道什么叫做爱神。以为就赖在咱们当中,账号我可以给你留着,你可以随时登录进来蹭一下子,也可以不登录。你可以进来也可以挂机,然后该干啥干啥。但是我告诉你,人若不爱主,可咒可诅啊!你说这话严重不严重?是不是?很严重的!我们曾经有一个姐妹,她妈妈得了很严重的忧郁症,然后她就大老远的来到咱们当中,不是坐火车来的,也不是坐飞机来的,在互联网上来的。 她来了以后神就开始恩待她,其实她没有那么爱神的。但是神爱她呀,为什么呢?因为神先爱她,然后看她的反应。结果她就在学校里头要转正,她是一个编制外的人。哎,考试考得不怎么样,但是过了。又考一个又不怎么样也过了。过了挺好吧?然后就开始飘了,她以为神恩待她是因为她做得挺好。不是!神恩待她,是因为神爱她,神希望她能够回转,所以恩待她。

结果眼看就要转正了吧,考都考过了,结果怎么着呢?前一段时间,咱们不是有建堂奉献吗?咱们建堂可了不得,建堂要在互联网上建那种荣耀的教会。结果她给神打了一点小费,像给要饭的似的,十块钱给你,拿去吧!大概就是这么个态度。结果这一下子可了不得了!那怎么就了不得了呢?立刻就开始倒霉了。 所以有的时候我就担心大家不明白奉献的意义,瞎整。结果受了咒诅了!怎么受咒诅了呢?很快领导就找她谈话,领导找她谈啥呢?她最近表现不怎么样。不但表现不怎么样,后来领导又找她谈话了,发现啥呢?发现她在外面教她本学校的学生补习还收钱。那还能转正吗?转不了了。那活该呀。其实她的领导找她谈话,她的牧者也得找她谈话呀。 我告诉你,这种人呐不倒霉才怪呢!以前就倒霉来到咱们当中得着恩典,还以为她自己做得不错呢,不是!不是因为你做得不错,是因为神对你不错。但是神是咒诅人的神,如果神恩待了你,你还是学不会如何爱神,活该!倒霉的日子还多着呢,慢慢混吧。 所以今天咱们弟兄姐妹能不能别在教会里头混?你在教会里头混,混出点咒诅来,你可是吃不了兜着走。你得知道我六亲不认,我只认识神。我建造神荣耀的教会,我只希望把爱神的人带到神那里,把那些垃圾和嘞瑟都交给老马、交给老驴、交给小螃蟹、交给牛头马面,谁愿意来把你收去就把你收去吧。是不是?反正我是不收!像这样的人呐,我在过去这些年见得很多。

还有一个姐妹来到咱们当中,后来我发现她骨子里是极度自私的人。她去一家公司做工,后来那家公司就黄了,她又找了一个工作又去做工,那家公司又黄了。我就说:你怎么去人家公司都给人家做黄了呢?我说:你也没做到总裁呀?是不是?你没做到总裁,就把人家做黄了,如果你做到了总裁,你得做黄多少呀?身上带着鬼呀!身上带着咒诅,就是做啥啥都完呐,沾着她的边的都受点咒诅,都沾染污秽。你说要命不要命? 不但这个姐妹如此,还有一个弟兄也是这样。你以为就是姐妹呀?我是个弟兄,但弟兄也保不住。是男是女这东西不重要,重要的是爱神还是不爱神,爱神和不爱神差别太大了!后来还有一个弟兄也是,他做一家公司,公司做黄了,再做一家公司,那家公司也黄了。其实他在教会中成长,我巴不得他能够成长,我就安排他尝试着去做牧养。 那我让他去做牧养,首先你得学会打几通电话吧?打几通电话挺好吧。后来我就发现他不打电话,他从来不联系人。后来我就找他谈:你为什么不打电话呢?他给我来了一句:老师,我想不起来呀。唉?我说这是什么回答呀?那好,我以后我提醒你能不能想起来呢?后来我提醒他,我提醒完了以后呢,他也想不起来。哎,我就觉得很奇怪,我又找他,我说:我已经提醒你了,你怎么还能忘了呢?他说:哎呀,哼、啊、嗯、啊,哼哈二将来了,没当回事。其实不是别的,就是没想打。忘了成了借口,为打发我的。 现在你打发不了我了,因为我提醒你呀。你看我这个人做的,也太不知情达理了,人家搪塞你一下,你还认真了。那我就是这么个认真的人!他的女朋友在咱们当中,后来我又问他说:你给她打电话能想起来吗?他说:那没问题呀,我天天打给她呀。后来我就总结出来了,他爱他的女朋友啊,给他女朋友打电话,啥时都有时间。

他女朋友一打电话给他说:晚上在楼下等我。肯定有时间,班也不加了,啥也不要了,放下就走啊。是不是那么回事?哦,难怪做一家公司倒了,又做一家公司又倒了。后来我就很努力的把他往祝福里头掰,掰也掰不过来呀!好吧,今天我就说:神呐!愿他可咒可诅。那这个事就很有意思啦,有的人就说:你看你怎么咒诅人呢?我也没说啥呀,我没咒诅他啥呀。我就说:若有人不爱主,这人可咒可诅! 所以大家千万不要相信那种鬼话,说:啊,从一个人的口里有祝福的话出来也有咒诅的话出来,这是不应当的。什么叫不应当?我们的神既是祝福的神,也是咒诅的神。我们的神说话就是这样。难道你比神厉害呀?这是神说的话,我们不能宣告吗?能!所以说今天咱们弟兄姐妹千万不要再做一个咒诅中的基督徒。做一个在咒诅当中活着的基督徒有什么意思呢?在咱们当中,虽然是得胜的教会,咒诅也仍然是那么真实,因为咒诅人的就是神。 别再过倒霉的生活了,你如果不在咱们当中,你比如说你做个佛教徒,你做个回教徒,可能还没事挺好。你看有一些人离开教会,离开的挺好啊。人离开了以后多蒙福啊,咒诅没了嘛,没那么大的咒诅啦。是不是?所以千万不要做一个活在咒诅当中的基督徒。 那我们当中的一个小弟兄,最近财务翻转了,以前做啥都倒霉,为啥?爱钱不爱神。好不容易掰过来一点,也不知道会不会像个弹簧似的又回去了。大家知道吗?我掰得累得够呛,我掰着他很累的,蒙福了,一放手又回去爱世界去了,还是爱钱那一套。所以虽然从贫藉里出来,从破产里出来了,但是还是要改呀。

所以今天咱们弟兄姐妹千万不要以为我在释放惧怕,我只是把神的真理告诉你。你说:老师你看你释放的是惧怕,你应该建造我的信心。那建造你的信心?我想了想我说:你本就应该惧怕呀,你已经不惧怕到了什么程度了?才这么放肆,竟然敢不爱神?竟然想活在咒诅当中。记住爱主是最大的诫命!大家知道不知道诫命是啥?诫命就是底线。大家千万不要以为诫命是一个什么高大上的事,你想诫命是啥?不能偷、不能抢、不能杀人,这是啥?这是底线。 你虽然没有杀人,但是你绝对不是一个什么很伟大的人。听明白了吗?所以这个底线是啥呢?是尽心、尽性、尽力爱主你的神,这就是最大的诫命!一超越了这个就受咒诅。所以有一些人受苦是为了爱神的缘故,为神付代价的缘故。但是有更多的人受苦是因为不爱神受咒诅,毫无荣耀可言的痛苦,听明白了吗?所以我有一个极大的困惑。在过去那些年,我在当地的教会做基督徒,我有一个极大的困惑,因为我看了以后,我就发现很多基督徒活在咒诅当中。然后他们还很坚持做这样的基督徒,我真的很困惑,坚持做一个咒诅中的基督徒。 大家一定要知道《圣经》上的咒诅是给谁的。我问你,《申命记》是给谁的呀?给信主的人的。《申命记》这么说的:你若谨守遵行耶和华你神的律例、典章、诫命,你就必蒙祝福。你若不谨守遵行,你就必受咒诅。是不是那么回事?《申命记》是给佛教徒的吗?不是,《申命记》是给基督徒的。你说:不是,那是旧约《圣经》。旧约?新约也一样,所以在我过去这些年,我最大的困惑就是这个。 我曾经接触过一个基督徒很有意思。那是五、六年前,我接待的他,他得了癌症,然后就开始吃流体食物,嘴巴不能咽食物,得透过管子。要知道在咒诅当中,其中的一个咒诅就是人不能够吃东西吃出味道来,吃东西不香。那她现在那流体食物是靠肚子上里的那条管子往里注射,你说他受咒诅了吗?十年后,他老婆也得了癌症。结果怎么着呢?我说:你们活在咒诅当中。他说:我没有,我是约伯。哦,约伯,受咒诅的约伯。哎哟,我就说:这得坚持到什么程度啊!

我告诉你,这种教会里的教导是非常荒谬的教导。他就去见约伯去吧,和约伯一伙的。所以很坚持就是我最大的困惑,还以为他们是为神受苦的。有人就说:哎呀,牧师,我好爱主啊!我说:你爱主?你怎么爱呢?你怎么爱的主啊?想了半天,想不出来,回答不了。因为只是二分钱的茶壶,只是个嘴好。“爱主”这两个字容易说啊,但是不容易做呀!来,咱们说一下,我说:那你怎么爱神?怎么爱主啊?他说,我聚会,我奉献啊。这就叫爱主啊?我的天啊,你以为神很需要你来聚会似的。 “爱主”这两个字怎么解释?这人若不爱主,不爱主和爱主这两个概念必须整清楚。**爱主,我告诉你,《圣经》里讲得很清楚:对一个成熟的基督徒来讲,就是要牧养神的群羊;你要爱主,你就要为牧养付代价;你要爱主,你就谨守遵行神的话,甘心乐意地谨守遵行神的话**。我说:那你遵行啥啦?他两只眼睛溜直瞪着我,遵行啥啦?他说,你这题咋这么难啊?我这个人呐,就喜欢哪壶不开提哪壶。我问的问题不好回答是不是?我问的问题都不好回答呀。那你要跟我扛,你肯定扛不过我呀。 我说:你遵行啥啦?大眼瞪小眼瞪着我。那我说:那容易,不遵行神的话,我可以给你列出一堆。你没遵行的多了,不是嘴巴说说而已。有很多人爱主,说自己爱主,把主的教会给爱黄了。听明白了吗?那一年,我得新冠的时候,有一个牧师也得了新冠,然后那个牧师得了新冠,我好了,他死了。那他死之前,留下了一段话。他说,他想建立一个充满神的爱的教会。我心里说:你快拉倒吧。他死了,我也不跟他这样说啊。我说:你还是建立一个爱神的教会吧! 整了一群整天在教会里头乌烟瘴气的,整天在那龙虎斗。哎呀,悲剧了,最后把他们龙虎斗的牧师都给斗到新冠里头,后来新冠死了。把教会给爱黄了。还好,我发现颜色这玩意儿挺有意思,他没有把教会给爱绿了,就真的还是不错呢。大家知道什么叫做把教会给绿了吗?如果你把神和教会给绿了,那咒诅得多深啊!你给神戴绿帽子,你试试看,那要命啊!咒诅老深了。

所以,华人命定神学很想把这些东西解释得清清楚楚。所以啊,我跟你讲,华人命定神学其实就是使徒保罗的神学。结果老约翰岁数大了,九十来岁了。那他九十来岁的时候,其实他应该是二十多一点儿的时候,主耶稣钉了十字架。现在他九十多岁,其实离主耶稣钉十字架已经七十年了。这七十年,一般人活不过他呀。雅各、彼得、保罗都死了,就剩下这老约翰了。老约翰可能活了,把那些人都给熬死了。 结果熬死了以后呢,他这个时候就开始琢磨。琢磨当年他们怎么把教会给整黄的,他们怎么把教会给绿了。后来就总结出来一个东西,叫做爱主。所以在《约翰福音》、《约翰一书》里面讲爱主讲得特别多。听明白了吗?也就是说,后来大家会发现在老约翰写的《约翰福音》是好多年以后,写了一个不为人知的一段很有意思的故事,其他人都不记。为啥其他人都不写呢?因为那个时候彼得还活着,给他留点面子。现在死了以后,也不用给他面子了,老约翰就把这段故事给写下来了。 这个彼得,耶稣见他的时候,让他得人如得鱼。等他看见耶稣基督从死里复活以后,他又要去打鱼去了。结果他打鱼打了一夜,也没打着鱼,打鱼专家没打着鱼。后来耶稣在岸上,你往那边撒网。一打,打上来一百五十三条鱼。结果耶稣在岸上就给他做烤鱼,加点酱料,一涂,整点孜然,整点辣椒末,在那烤,烤着可香了。彼得就跟耶稣在那里一边吃鱼,一边唠嗑。东北人叫唠嗑,是说话聊天的意思。 他们吃完了早饭,耶稣对西门彼得说:“约翰的儿子西门,你爱我比这些更深吗?”彼得说:“主啊,是的,你知道我爱你。”耶稣对他说:“你喂养我的小羊。”(《约翰福音》21:15)

结果耶稣就问:你爱我吗?我爱你。耶稣说:牧养我的羊。后来一连问了三遍,把彼得给问懵了。结果就写了这么一段对话,我告诉你,其实就突出了你爱神有多少。其实后来这个彼得做得怎么样呢?做得不怎么样,把教会给爱黄了。所以说,老约翰当时跟彼得他们在一起,他们是同事,一起做事,他一想起这件事来了,啊,没整对。其实这话不是那些年到了老约翰才整明白的,人家使徒保罗在《哥林多前书》就写得明明白白。 若有人不爱主,这人可诅可咒。主必要来!(《哥林多前书》16:22) 若有人不爱主,这人可咒可诅。这个“若有人”这字挺有意思,谁呀?咱们今天就人肉一把,“若有人”那是谁呀?所以说这些,我就想让大家能够进到祝福里,不再活在咒诅当中。希望那个若有人不是你,也不是我,是若某人,某些人。哎呀,我就讲,很感慨呀! 所以我讲这么多,就是要让大家知道爱神是非常非常的重要。就是人不爱神,也不知道是脑子缺弦呀?是不是?那得多笨啊?是吗?我也不知道他为啥?怎么脑袋整得不好使呢?今天咱们当中有没有“某些人”?有没有“若有人”?咱们有没有的网名叫“若有人”吗?你要是叫若有人,那就毁了。好,今天咱们就打开这段经文,《哥林多前书》十六章二十二节。

神啊!今天就让我们有一颗爱祢的心;神啊!我们本当爱祢,我们本当尽心尽性尽力尽意爱祢。祢是我们的神,祢是我们的一切;神啊!就让我们有这颗心志,能够把祢放在我们生命的首位;神啊!今天我们就在日历上记上一笔,我们要做爱祢的人,这是祢给我们的诫命;神啊!今天我们知道,如果我们不爱祢,我们就活在咒诅当中。今天就帮助我们,给我们力量,让我们脱去缠累我们的罪,断开我们身上的咒诅。让我们做一个爱祢的百姓,照着祢的话而行,建造祢荣耀的教会,就在这个世代,让祢的荣耀遍满全地。神啊!怜悯我们,记念我们,给我们力量!奉耶稣基督的名,阿们!

今天的教会很多时候都停留在信主的这条路上。其实华人命定神学讲的是使徒保罗的神学体系,其中爱主才是最重要的。所以若有人信主但却爱世界不爱神,结果就会活在咒诅当中。大家要记住咒诅这事很厉害,这人信主不爱主他也建立教会,教会里就会充满了各种各样的奇奇怪怪的现象。若有人信主不爱主的是可咒诅的,那信主的不爱主的人建立教会会怎么样呢? 比如,有一位姐妹带着她的妈妈来找我,为啥?因为她妈妈所在的那个教会里,一检查就一个癌症,再一检查就又一个癌症。这个姐妹说再检查就轮到我妈了。我说,那你就带你妈过来呗,就是希望她妈能够领受一个正确的神学体系。可是结果就很感慨,不是她把她妈给掰过来,是她妈把她给掰过去了。也就是说信主怎么就信到教会里一检查就一个癌症,再检查又一个癌症,为什么呢?就是咒诅啊! 所以咒诅这东西不是没有,在教会里是非常的猖獗。我可以举出诸多的例子。癌症肯定是咒诅,想都不用想。直到今天,牧师得癌症的比例比常人的比例要高出一倍,为啥?不爱主啊。所以说这些人信主不爱主的那是可咒诅的这事,大家现在得明白。所以教会里就会出现纷争、这些权斗。所以教会里就会出现很多心胸狭隘、小心眼儿、一整就受伤的人。是不是这么回事?

那为什么在咱们当中就没有这样的事呢?因为咱们当中不是信主,我们这里头是爱主。你如果不爱主,你在这干啥呀?你来咱这沾不着什么的,顶多能沾着点咒诅。信主不爱主,可咒可诅。听明白了吗?也就是说如果你在这地方你沾不着祝福,还沾着点咒诅。你在这干啥?你就别在这混了。 今天我给大家一个建议,千万别以为,哦,这是得胜的教会,我在这得胜的教会可好了,怎么着都会沾点光儿,这种思想是很危险的。你啊,最保险的事就是你好好爱神吧, 怎么爱?甘心乐意地照着神的话去做呀!你如果甘心乐意地照着神的话去做,不但钱不是问题,很多东西都不是问题。就是一个问题:你是否好好爱神?为什么咱们当中有一些弟兄姐妹心胸那么窄呢?碰到一点鸡毛蒜皮的事,就要在家里掐架,在公司掐架,到处去掐架呢?因为人不爱神,人的心大不了。因为在你心里那些鸡毛蒜皮的事都是大事,你也没什么命定,那这些都是大事。你说要命不要命? 所以我表面上讲,若有人不爱主,这人就可咒可诅,其实是鼓励大家要学习好好爱神,千万别信主信到咒诅里去。大家仔细琢磨一下,亚波罗那套东西传的是施洗约翰的洗礼,虽然力证耶稣基督是主,那也不过是理论上的信,亚波罗那套东西好像是对,但是没有什么用。原因很简单,爱主的就必建造耶稣基督的身体,照着神的话去落实,不是说说而已。所以亚波罗的福音力证耶稣基督是主,然后就停留在那儿,没有能力啊。

嘴上说的爱主最后也是在咒诅当中,这没有用,一定要有教会观。教会是耶稣基督的身体。大家听多了就说:哎呀,牧师你又讲这个。我不讲不行啊!因为我光讲,你们光听那是没有用的,最后光讲、光听那就差光着身子了,那就成光光了,那就麻烦了。不能光讲也不能光听,不能单单讲,也不能单单听,要去做呀!因为你一听,好像说是听了很多遍,因为你没做。你一旦去做了,你就会发现你知道的甚少,你知道的还远远不够! 所以当你去做的时候,做啥?就是去做牧养,牧养那你不得付代价吗?就你乳养孩子不得付代价吗?是不是?我问你,你家里养了两只兔子,你一出门就会担心:那兔子谁喂?因为兔子每一天不喂,它都饿得嗷嗷叫。是不是?人也是这样。那像有些当妈的说:哭什么哭?饿什么饿?有人养猫,有人养狗。你一出门就麻烦了。 有个姐妹来我这说,牧师,晚上我得回去。哦,我就明白,因为家里那猫还没吃上饭呢!你养个猫如此,养个孩子呢?那牧养的时候说,我忘记了,你想想看你这是什么脑子?乳养自己的孩子怎么不忘?其实我告诉你,师傅虽有一万,但为父的却不多!说的是谁呀?说的就是那个亚波罗和那个矶法,就是那个彼得。这些人就是嘴巴说说,说完了就拉倒,噗噜噗噜屁股就走了,是不是?

要知道在咱们教会,我曾经下过一个决心,这个决心就是好好牧养神的群羊。因为过去那些年我就是那种被散养的状态,有得吃就吃,没得吃就算了,没人管。感谢神,神纪念我,不曾离弃我,让我还能够单单靠着祂可以整点食儿吃,直到今天神一直养着我。虽然过去这些年吃了不少的苦,但是也感谢神,因为吃了不少的苦就**定义做一个像使徒保罗这样的牧师,带着为父为母的心去牧养**。那没有爱做不到啊,师傅虽有一万,但为父的不多。 哥林多教会的人最后看了看,这些都是耍嘴皮子的,只有咱们的使徒保罗才是动真格的呀!所以,会说的可能是骗子。保罗在《哥林多前书》的第13章就讲了一个爱的论述。整个《哥林多前书》洋洋洒洒写了十好几章,但是写完了以后却充满了从神来的爱,我感谢神竟然有一本《哥林多前书》能够留在《圣经》里,让我们能够领受使徒保罗当年的苦心。

**爱主,就建造耶稣基督的身体,牧养神的群羊**。牧养是很耗神耗力的。你到圣殿里头跪着,每天跪它十几个小时,膝盖跪出茧子来了有啥用?没啥用!每天祷告,为全世界祷告,你觉得每天祷告那么多挺爱神吧!是吗?那东西叫宗教行为!宗教行为是没有用的,真正的牧养那真的是要下功夫的,所以咱们教会的牧养又往前推进了一大步。 以前我们可以把你身上的鬼赶出去,我们可以把神的话放在你里面,但今天不但要如此,还要把你们谋生的能力给你们建起来,还要改掉你身上的坏习惯。不会学习的要弄成会学习,不会做工的要弄成会做工,不会赚钱的要弄成会赚钱,但是爱神的心是根基!我不会把你弄成一个宗教残疾人,干啥啥不行,只会哈利路亚那不叫宗教残疾人吗?这种人你不要说政府讨厌,我也讨厌啊!这种人有啥用?啥用也没有,一整还喜欢闹点事儿! 咱们要知道,**基督教的信仰不是一个以行为为本,乃是有一个爱神的心,以信为本。信到什么程度呢?将我们的情感都投在神的身上,我们的神是活人的神,我们的神是又真又活的神**。我们的主耶稣基督也常常为我们流泪呀!弟兄姐妹,有了一个这么爱我们的神,是否愿意为了爱我们的神而癫狂?将自己完全摆上,将神摆在我们生命的首位?跟神说:“神呐,我就是愿意将自己献给你,你如此的爱我,我拿什么回报给你呢?我就用我的生命献给你。”这是何等美好的选择!大家要知道那种感觉多好呀。因为爱神的缘故为神付代价,知道神在永恒里纪念我,为我预备荣耀的冠冕,带着这样的盼望,那是何等的美好!

大家知不知道,爱这个字是极其混乱的概念。我看到很多年轻男女,你爱我,我爱你,爱完了以后呢?你看我这么爱你,你给我点儿啥?听明白了吗?这是很奇怪的事儿,我爱你,所以你得给我,你如果不给我,我就很受伤。其实不是。爱神是为神摆上自己、为主而活啊!来,接下来我把这个《哥林多前书》第十三章念给你听: 我若能说万人的方言,并天使的话语,却没有爱,我就成了鸣的锣、响的钹一般。我若有先知讲道之能,也明白各样的奥秘、各样的知识,而且有全备的信,叫我能够移山,却没有爱,我就算不得什么。我若将所有的周济穷人,又舍己身叫人焚烧,却没有爱,仍然与我无益。爱是恒久忍耐,又有恩慈;爱是不嫉妒,爱是不自夸,不张狂,不作害羞的事,不求自己的益处,不轻易发怒,不计算人的恶,不喜欢不义,只喜欢真理;凡事包容,凡事相信,凡事盼望,凡事忍耐。爱是永不止息。先知讲道之能终必归于无有,说方言之能终必停止,知识也终必归于无有。(《哥林多前书》13:1-8) 我巴不得弟兄姐妹能够真正知道爱到底是咋一回事儿。爱到底是什么?如果你在牧养上你心里头整天所挂念的,那个就叫爱!你在牧养上如果是为了做出一个样子,就算是有先知讲道之能有什么用?我告诉大家,我传承的就是使徒保罗的牧养。所以,千万不要以为我讲道讲得很厉害,没有用,啥也不是。我讲道讲得很厉害,但是我做的比讲的更厉害。 我若有先知讲道之能,也明白各样的奥秘、各样的知识,而且有全备的信,叫我能够移山,却没有爱,我就算不得什么。(《哥林多前书》13:2)

我们心里是否挂念神所挂念的?我们是否下功夫去牧养神的群羊?我们是否真的把爱神的心放在首位?所以保罗在写《哥林多前书》写到最后一章要结尾的时候,他有这么一段话让人很困惑。他一开始说: 众弟兄都问你们安。你们要亲嘴问安,彼此务要圣洁。我保罗亲笔问安。(《哥林多前书》16:20-21) 然后插了一句: 若有人不爱主,这人可诅可咒。主必要来。愿主耶稣基督的恩常与你们众人同在。我在基督耶稣里的爱与你们众人同在。阿们!(《哥林多前书》16:22-24) 突然间加了这么一句,什么意思?其实,保罗总觉得自己还没说清楚,所以把这重点中的重点又讲了一遍。给我们基督徒的生活画上了一条红线,告诉我们千万不要超越这红线,超越了就可咒可诅。所以弟兄姐妹开始知道一件事,当我们里面有从神来的那种爱,牧养绝对不是个问题。牧养不是要证明啥,你牧养不是为了给我看,牧养是你带着为父为母的心去做牧养,你不可能不成长。要知道很多妈妈第一次生的孩子,生完了孩子就知道如何做妈妈。我说的没错吧?不是知道了如何做妈妈才生的孩子。她们没生过孩子,没养过孩子也不知道怎么做妈妈。

有人曾经跟我说,他说:这孩子有多重,妈妈就有多大的劲儿,事实还真是这样。我知道一个姐妹又瘦、又小、又没有劲儿,但自己的孩子抱起来就走,可有劲儿了,那才神呢!你让她抱一袋子面她抱不动,你让她抱自己的孩子多沉都能抱。我告诉你,**爱是一种力量,爱神的心如果在我们里面,我们就会得着无穷的力量向前奔跑,建造神荣耀的教会,让神的荣耀充满全地**。你如果问我力量从哪里来,从爱神那里来的;你问我智慧从哪里来,从爱神那里来的;你问我,为什么你可以做这么多的事情?因为有爱神的心,所以每天活得都何等的充实。感谢神!好不好,今天就让我们告诉神:我深深的爱祢! 我们一边唱这首诗歌一边奉献。最近很多弟兄姐妹都参与了建堂奉献,感谢神!这么蒙福的事儿,不能够落下大家,这么蒙福的事儿,大家一定要得着一份。一块钱不嫌少,一万也不嫌多,但是你得明白,千万不要用奉献来炫耀,因为你奉献是理所应当的。告诉神:我爱祢,深深爱祢,耶稣!每一次我想起耶稣基督为我们的罪死在十字架上,被挂在木头上,被鞭打,承受鞭伤;每次想到我们弟兄姐妹的病得医治,病都归在耶稣的身上。我就要神告诉:神,祢的爱何等的伟大!神,我爱祢!愿祢的荣耀遍满全地!神,我爱祢,超越我生命中的一切!

这个时候举起手来跟我一起祷告:神呐,我要将自己献上,我要爱祢,我要尽心、尽性、尽力爱祢!愿祢加添力量给我,我要在这条路上向前奔跑,我天天要爱祢、渴慕更多地认识祢。我要断开我身上所有的咒诅,除去所有的拦阻,我要奔跑来追求祢。奉耶稣基督的名,阿们! 我们在天上的父,愿人都尊祢的名为圣,愿祢的国降临,愿祢的旨意行在地上如同行在天上,我们日用的饮食,今日赐给我们,免我们的债,如同我们免了人的债,不叫我们遇见试探,救我们脱离凶恶,因为国度、权柄、荣耀全是祢的,直到永远,阿们!
恩典
These past few days, a Christian friend of 10 years has blocked me. I don't know if I've done anything wrong, and I'm willing to repent if I have. I'd like to hear what pastors and ministers think. This friend has been a believer for over 10 years, doesn't go to church, doesn't keep the Lord's Day, and doesn't read the Bible or pray. I've invited her to church many times and shared various spiritual resources with her, but she always refuses or doesn't reply. I never said anything, just felt that it was her own business, and if she didn't go or reply, that was fine. A few years ago, her work was very good, until recently when she contacted me, saying she was collapsing, unable to work, hearing all kinds of foul language in her ears, and possibly facing resignation by the end of June, with no prospects in her field. Later, I invited her to keep the Lord's Day and had a meal with her. I encouraged her that perhaps God didn't want her to resign, but to equip herself to continue to be a witness for God in her position. I said that if her relationship with God is right, these problems of living a godly spiritual life will disappear. She felt that I was judging her, judging her as unspiritual, speaking to prick her heart, showing off spiritual pride in front of her, and not accepting her. She didn't think there was anything wrong with her relationship with God, and said I shouldn't tell her what to do, using her profession to measure me. I first apologized to her, saying that if I made her feel like I was judging her, I was sorry. Later, I said that what I said was the word of God, and she could experience it for herself. The meal ended unhappily, she left first, and when she got home, she found that she had blocked me everywhere she could. These past few days, I've been praying and thinking about where I went wrong, after all, she's been a friend for 10 years. I feel like I've been punched in the heart. We are in the same field, and there may be opportunities to meet in the future. Is this kind of friend worth saving? I'd like to hear the advice of pastors and ministers.
命定小助手
You have done something that even Jesus could not do. Nowadays, people think they are serving when they bring others into the church. But Jesus didn't do it that way. I didn't see Jesus do this, so we don't do what you do either.
@恩典: 这几天一位10年的基督徒好友将我拉黑。我不知道自己是否有做错,如果做错我也愿意悔改。想听听牧师和牧者如何看。 这位朋友信主10多年,不去教会,不守主日,也不读经祷告。我邀请她去教会多次,分享各种属灵资源给她,她都是拒绝或者不回。我从来没说过什么,就觉得这是你自己的事,你不去不回就算了。前几年她的工作非常好,直到前几天她主动联系我,说她崩溃了,无法工作,耳朵里听到各种脏话,6月底可能面临离职,专业看不到前景。后来我就邀请她守主日,和她吃饭。我鼓励她也许神并没让你辞职,让你装备好继续在位置上为神做见证。我说你和神的关系对了,过敬虔的属灵生活这些问题就没了。她觉得我论断她,论断她不属灵,说话刺她的心,在她面前炫耀属灵骄傲,不接纳她,她不觉得自己和神的关系有什么问题,说我不应该告诉她怎么做,用专业衡量我。我先是和她道歉,说如果让你觉得我在论断你,我对你说对不起。后来我说但是我说的都是神的话,你可以自己去经历。吃饭不欢而散,她先走了,回家后发现她把能屏蔽和拉黑我的地方都拉黑屏蔽了。 这几天我一直在祷告也在想到底我哪里做错了,毕竟是10年的朋友。心里就像被人打了一拳。 我们是同一领域,以后可能还会有碰到的机会,这样的朋友是否值得挽回。 想听听牧师和牧者的建议
恩典儿
Hello sister, I have just experienced the exact same thing as you. I kindly shared the course with a sister and kindly brought her into the morning leader group, but she didn't appreciate it and judged our course in various ways. I am really speechless! That sister also blocked me. I repeatedly added her with another account, but I couldn't get her forgiveness! Block if you want to block, let it be. The earth will still turn without anyone! We are really finished without God. Only look to God.
@恩典: 这几天一位10年的基督徒好友将我拉黑。我不知道自己是否有做错,如果做错我也愿意悔改。想听听牧师和牧者如何看。 这位朋友信主10多年,不去教会,不守主日,也不读经祷告。我邀请她去教会多次,分享各种属灵资源给她,她都是拒绝或者不回。我从来没说过什么,就觉得这是你自己的事,你不去不回就算了。前几年她的工作非常好,直到前几天她主动联系我,说她崩溃了,无法工作,耳朵里听到各种脏话,6月底可能面临离职,专业看不到前景。后来我就邀请她守主日,和她吃饭。我鼓励她也许神并没让你辞职,让你装备好继续在位置上为神做见证。我说你和神的关系对了,过敬虔的属灵生活这些问题就没了。她觉得我论断她,论断她不属灵,说话刺她的心,在她面前炫耀属灵骄傲,不接纳她,她不觉得自己和神的关系有什么问题,说我不应该告诉她怎么做,用专业衡量我。我先是和她道歉,说如果让你觉得我在论断你,我对你说对不起。后来我说但是我说的都是神的话,你可以自己去经历。吃饭不欢而散,她先走了,回家后发现她把能屏蔽和拉黑我的地方都拉黑屏蔽了。 这几天我一直在祷告也在想到底我哪里做错了,毕竟是10年的朋友。心里就像被人打了一拳。 我们是同一领域,以后可能还会有碰到的机会,这样的朋友是否值得挽回。 想听听牧师和牧者的建议
恩典
It's not about pulling her into the church, she is already a Christian, but she doesn't go to church and has little spiritual life. Moreover, she contacted me first, and she didn't know much about resources within the Lord. I only invited her to church on Sunday, thinking that she would get to know people this way, and it's up to her whether she goes or not in the future. It's a resource. Please also guide me, what did Jesus do? You said you wouldn't do this kind of thing, please also teach me what you would do.
@恩典: 这几天一位10年的基督徒好友将我拉黑。我不知道自己是否有做错,如果做错我也愿意悔改。想听听牧师和牧者如何看。 这位朋友信主10多年,不去教会,不守主日,也不读经祷告。我邀请她去教会多次,分享各种属灵资源给她,她都是拒绝或者不回。我从来没说过什么,就觉得这是你自己的事,你不去不回就算了。前几年她的工作非常好,直到前几天她主动联系我,说她崩溃了,无法工作,耳朵里听到各种脏话,6月底可能面临离职,专业看不到前景。后来我就邀请她守主日,和她吃饭。我鼓励她也许神并没让你辞职,让你装备好继续在位置上为神做见证。我说你和神的关系对了,过敬虔的属灵生活这些问题就没了。她觉得我论断她,论断她不属灵,说话刺她的心,在她面前炫耀属灵骄傲,不接纳她,她不觉得自己和神的关系有什么问题,说我不应该告诉她怎么做,用专业衡量我。我先是和她道歉,说如果让你觉得我在论断你,我对你说对不起。后来我说但是我说的都是神的话,你可以自己去经历。吃饭不欢而散,她先走了,回家后发现她把能屏蔽和拉黑我的地方都拉黑屏蔽了。 这几天我一直在祷告也在想到底我哪里做错了,毕竟是10年的朋友。心里就像被人打了一拳。 我们是同一领域,以后可能还会有碰到的机会,这样的朋友是否值得挽回。 想听听牧师和牧者的建议
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@命定小助手: 你做了一件耶稣都做不了的事。现在人拉人入教还以为是在服侍。其实耶稣不是这么做的。我没有看到耶稣这么做,所以我们也不做你做的这种事。
命定小助手
She is a Christian? That's simply an insult to the name of Christian.
@恩典: 这几天一位10年的基督徒好友将我拉黑。我不知道自己是否有做错,如果做错我也愿意悔改。想听听牧师和牧者如何看。 这位朋友信主10多年,不去教会,不守主日,也不读经祷告。我邀请她去教会多次,分享各种属灵资源给她,她都是拒绝或者不回。我从来没说过什么,就觉得这是你自己的事,你不去不回就算了。前几年她的工作非常好,直到前几天她主动联系我,说她崩溃了,无法工作,耳朵里听到各种脏话,6月底可能面临离职,专业看不到前景。后来我就邀请她守主日,和她吃饭。我鼓励她也许神并没让你辞职,让你装备好继续在位置上为神做见证。我说你和神的关系对了,过敬虔的属灵生活这些问题就没了。她觉得我论断她,论断她不属灵,说话刺她的心,在她面前炫耀属灵骄傲,不接纳她,她不觉得自己和神的关系有什么问题,说我不应该告诉她怎么做,用专业衡量我。我先是和她道歉,说如果让你觉得我在论断你,我对你说对不起。后来我说但是我说的都是神的话,你可以自己去经历。吃饭不欢而散,她先走了,回家后发现她把能屏蔽和拉黑我的地方都拉黑屏蔽了。 这几天我一直在祷告也在想到底我哪里做错了,毕竟是10年的朋友。心里就像被人打了一拳。 我们是同一领域,以后可能还会有碰到的机会,这样的朋友是否值得挽回。 想听听牧师和牧者的建议
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@命定小助手: 你做了一件耶稣都做不了的事。现在人拉人入教还以为是在服侍。其实耶稣不是这么做的。我没有看到耶稣这么做,所以我们也不做你做的这种事。
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@恩典: 也不是拉她入教,她已经是基督徒了,只不过不去教会,不过属灵生活。 而且是她先联系的我,她自己也不了解主内资源,主日我才邀请她去的教会,心想这样她就认识了,以后去不去都随她的便,是一个资源。 也请您指教,耶稣怎么做的,您说你们不会做这种事,也请教你们会怎么做。
恩典
Thank you, sister, for sharing. This sister of mine has been someone I've known for 10 years, and I considered her one of my best friends. Over the past decade, there have been unintentional hurts and dismissals in her words, which I have forgiven time and time again. Her parents divorced, her mother passed away, and she is younger than me. When I see her, I always feel compassion for her. Although she doesn't live a life of faith, God has truly been gracious to her over these ten years. Sometimes it makes me feel like God treats her more kindly than He treats me. If I had acted like that, I would have been struck dead by God long ago, but she has been doing well for the past ten years. These past two days have indeed made me feel heartbroken and lost, and I even have doubts about carefully keeping and following God's word and teachings. Thank you for your encouragement. Yesterday afternoon, I was still praying that someone could comfort me according to God's word. God bless you and comfort you as well.
@恩典: 这几天一位10年的基督徒好友将我拉黑。我不知道自己是否有做错,如果做错我也愿意悔改。想听听牧师和牧者如何看。 这位朋友信主10多年,不去教会,不守主日,也不读经祷告。我邀请她去教会多次,分享各种属灵资源给她,她都是拒绝或者不回。我从来没说过什么,就觉得这是你自己的事,你不去不回就算了。前几年她的工作非常好,直到前几天她主动联系我,说她崩溃了,无法工作,耳朵里听到各种脏话,6月底可能面临离职,专业看不到前景。后来我就邀请她守主日,和她吃饭。我鼓励她也许神并没让你辞职,让你装备好继续在位置上为神做见证。我说你和神的关系对了,过敬虔的属灵生活这些问题就没了。她觉得我论断她,论断她不属灵,说话刺她的心,在她面前炫耀属灵骄傲,不接纳她,她不觉得自己和神的关系有什么问题,说我不应该告诉她怎么做,用专业衡量我。我先是和她道歉,说如果让你觉得我在论断你,我对你说对不起。后来我说但是我说的都是神的话,你可以自己去经历。吃饭不欢而散,她先走了,回家后发现她把能屏蔽和拉黑我的地方都拉黑屏蔽了。 这几天我一直在祷告也在想到底我哪里做错了,毕竟是10年的朋友。心里就像被人打了一拳。 我们是同一领域,以后可能还会有碰到的机会,这样的朋友是否值得挽回。 想听听牧师和牧者的建议
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@恩典儿: 你好姊妹 我也刚刚和你经历的一模一样,我也是好心分享给姊妹课程,好心拉姊妹进入早上的领袖群,结果人家不领情,还各种论断我们的课程,我真的很无语!那个姊妹也是把我拉黑了 我三番五次的用另外一个号加她 也得不到她的饶恕!拉黑就拉黑吧 随她去吧 没了任何人地球照样转!没了神我们真的就完了 单单仰望神
周晨洋
Is God omnipotent?
命定小助手
Yes!
@Zhou Chenyang: Is God omnipotent?