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【Bible Study】Colossians Chapter 4 - Let Us Comfort One Another

2025-04-23 11,252 Colossians

Good day, let's turn to Colossians Chapter 4. After reading this chapter, what will you find? The theme of this chapter is Let us comfort one another. Why is it called Let us comfort one another? The times were different then compared to today.

Back then, when you missed someone, there was no easy way to connect. You were simply unaware of what was happening to them, and your heart was filled with worry. Not too long ago, just 30 or 50 years back, if something happened to someone in your family, you wouldn’t know unless you went back to see them. But going back could be a real hassle, especially if it involved traveling thousands of kilometers and struggling to get a train ticket.

In Paul's time, they had to walk to see each other, which was very difficult. Today, it's much more convenient. If I'm concerned about you, I can just use WeChat to call you and ask, Are you doing well? How have you been? And if you're doing fine, I feel comforted. But in those days, it was much harder. Then he heard that the Colossian church was embracing some very evil teachings.

Starting with their pastors, they began to believe something very evil, which we discussed in the first three chapters. So, when Paul wrote the Book of Colossians, he said at the end, let us comfort one another – by ensuring we remain in the grace of Jesus Christ. If people can stay in the grace of Jesus Christ, that's truly good. But once people leave the grace of Jesus Christ, those troubles can be devastating.

Yesterday, I saw one of our sisters who said she was trying to rent an apartment but was unsuccessful; someone else rented it. She felt terrible about it. When I saw her distress, I also started to feel bad. So, in the morning, I quickly scheduled a time to call her. After talking to her, I felt very comforted.

Because I listened to her tell me about the grace she had received in Jesus Christ over the past few years, and I once again strengthened her faith, knowing that living is a simple matter. Her family had experienced financial problems; her husband had maxed out his credit cards and had to slowly pay them off, but couldn't, so the debt kept growing.

In the past two years, I often said, If you can't pay it off, then don't pay it. Not being able to pay is actually a good thing. She listened to my advice and filed for bankruptcy, unable to pay. As a result, her husband found a job, which used to be very unstable, but now it's stable. Then his income increased from $40,000 a year to $90,000 a year. Such things are quite common among us.

This is why I often say to those among us who are in debt, bankrupt, or blacklisted, don't worry. It's because we love money too much that we end up in this situation. After listening to her story, I felt very comforted. Indeed, my God is so faithful, as long as we are in His grace.

There are many such cases. Last year, one of our sisters lost her job. Over the past year, she has removed many of her poverty mindsets, but the root is still there. Even though the root is still there, after removing so many poverty mindsets, this year, not only did she find a job, but the salary was also good. Recently, she switched jobs again, and her salary doubled, plus commissions, earning a lot. I felt particularly comforted after hearing this.

So, I hope everyone is in the grace of Jesus Christ. What is impossible for you, is possible through God. You can certainly escape poverty, because this gospel is for the poor. Brothers and sisters, do you share comfort with those you shepherd? This is serving with the heart of a father and mother.

Our pastors, do not only care for yourselves. Because if you only care for yourselves, that is not being in the grace of Jesus Christ. How can we solve this problem? We must always pray earnestly and have wisdom.

Be persistent in prayer, and in it keep watch with thanksgiving

Verse 1 of Colossians Chapter 4 belongs to the previous chapter. The chapter divisions are not quite right, leaving a sentence from the previous chapter here. Let's now look at verses 2-4 of Chapter 4.

Continue earnestly in prayer, being vigilant in it with thanksgiving; meanwhile praying also for us, that God would open to us a door for the word, to speak the mystery of Christ, for which I am also in chains, that I may make it manifest, as I ought to speak. (Colossians 4:2-4)

Praying earnestly is very important. If someone gives up halfway through praying, that's the end. Why give up? Because they lose faith inside. People need to be constantly vigilant inside, to avoid any confusing elements creeping from the outside, anything that sows doubt. For example: if your prayer is not answered, it doesn’t mean that it will never be answered; it may require practice and strengthening your own faith.

Then someone comes along and says, That's not how it is, because you don't observe the Sabbath. And what day is the Sabbath? The Sabbath is not Sunday; it's Saturday. So, they change the Lord's Day to Saturday. Then someone else comes and tells you, You haven't been circumcised. So, we go for an operation? But that doesn't work; more problems arise, and ultimately, you will lose the grace of God, so we must be vigilant with thanksgiving.

Everyone needs to slowly learn to pray earnestly, be vigilant, and be thankful. With faith, whatever you ask for, believing, the Lord Jesus will give it to you. Someone might say, Are you sure that’s correct? How can that be incorrect? It’s there in the Bible - everything is possible through God/Jesus Christ. But it's the matter of faith that often isn't in accordance with the truth, and that's what's deadly.

The most important effect of prayer is to gain comfort. When you pray, your heart becomes clear. When you pray, the original problem doesn't seem so serious anymore. When you pray, you start to feel strength where you had none before.

Actually, praying more is not the problem; the problem is lacking wisdom. If you pray but are not vigilant, it's useless. Only through vigilance can you avoid losing God's grace. Many people's prayers represent a flawed theological system. So, brothers and sisters, do you know that if you believe wrongly, prayers will not be effective.

These Colossians saw that Paul had been arrested and thought, Oh no, did Paul mess up? If he had done everything right, would he have been arrested? Many of our brothers and sisters also think this way. Then Paul gave them an idea: Pray for me too, that God may open a door for the word.

Many people treat this as intercessory prayer, but I don't think intercessory prayer is useful. Its only use is to let us pray for each other, so that we in Colossia and the Apostle Paul can share the same vision, the same Mingding Doctrine, and care about the same things.

Paul could clearly explain the mysteries of Christ and make them known according to what he should say. Pray earnestly, both for your own affairs and for your own comfort. More importantly, remember the Apostle Paul in your prayers, because you want to share the same vision and mission with Paul.

If you really want to worry about this and that, then start praying earnestly. Pray and you will begin to believe, believe that God will accomplish what you pray for. Won’t you be comforted? Won’t your pain go away? It's normal to have pain inside.

For example, if your child can't find a job, won't you be upset? Of course, you will be upset. So, what do you do? Pray, pray earnestly. God will remember your son for your sake, because you are a person in Mingding Doctrine. God will remember your son for your sake; God will provide everything for us. For example, I serve those who are worried and in pain. As soon as I say that God will provide, won't they feel less pain and be comforted?

You must be wise

The Colossians initially believed in a somewhat chaotic manner, involving observing feasts, new moons, circumcision, etc. Who was behind this? The Pharisees from the church in Jerusalem. They felt that circumcision was very important. This requires wisdom to be vigilant. Pray earnestly, be vigilant, and also be wise.

Walk in wisdom toward those who are outside, redeeming the time. Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one. (Colossians 4:5-6)

Life is vanity of vanities. Then what happens? You easily fall to the other extreme. Anyway, life is empty, so let’s just lie down and waste time. So Paul said, Make the most of your time, because in the future you will have to give an account before Jesus. If you spend all your time lying down and scrolling through TikTok, are you going to TikTok before Jesus? That would really be a shake-up, shaking like an electric shock. So, make the most of your time and do serious things.

Make the most of your time and interact with outsiders with wisdom. You say, Then I won't interact with non-believers. Do you want to be a monk? We don't have a temple here. This isn’t a monastery, we won’t shave the sides of your head and leave six little hairs at the top. You still have to work and do serious things, because people have to do serious things in this world.

Also, interact with outsiders with wisdom. If you just tell people you are an ordinary Xian believer who loves others, your family's worries about you aren't so severe, but if you shave your head and become a nun or monk, oh my goodness, that's a big deal. How will your family react? They will be up in arms.

Some people see through the illusions of the world and abandon their wives and children to become monks. Believing in God is not like that. We must interact with outsiders with wisdom, and when we talk to people, we must sound like humans. If what you say doesn't sound human, like has wings coming off of it, with hair growing on your face, and horn growing out of your head. Then, you've become a demon? We need to speak like people, we need to live out the lives of human or human beings, live out the way God created us.

We must always speak with graciousness, seasoned with salt, so that we may know how to answer everyone. Answer what? Answer those tricky questions. Especially from our own family members, for example: Is the God you believe in omnipotent? Can He create a stone that He cannot lift? How do you answer? He can create it, but after creating it, He cannot lift it. There are many such bizarre questions that are stumbling blocks.

Therefore, brothers and sisters, we must not only do normal work in the workplace but also do it well. It's not about squeezing in time, but about squeezing in wisdom. If you are a wise person, how can your work not be done well? So I think in the days to come, I still need to teach everyone how to work, how to conduct oneself, how to do things, and how to handle interpersonal relationships.

We will also do some ideological work on human resource management for everyone, so that you will definitely do well in the workplace. This is interacting with outsiders. You must know how to speak; don't speak as if you've taken gunpowder, exploding outwards. People will think, have these believers gone crazy in their faith?

I have a little concern in my heart, that many brothers and sisters among us don't know how to speak. I want to figure out how to make them speak. I hope everyone can give me some comfort, learn to speak, be wise, and not speak like an enemy.

There was a sister whose husband had an affair with another woman. But when you say affair, you don't know if it's true love or fake love, but he still takes care of the family. As a result, this sister goes home looking like an enemy, her face more bitter than a bitter gourd. When I see a face more bitter than a bitter gourd, I have to teach her, as much as I can, and finally gradually handle the relationship well.

Everyone must know that if your husband does not believe in the Lord, I still have to encourage you to handle the relationship with your husband healthily. If your son doesn't believe in the Lord, you must also handle your relationship with your son healthily. Everyone I have ministered to knows that we must build a healthy relationship, not a relationship as bitter as a bitter gourd. Don't speak with thorns.

Even today, I haven't removed those thorns. I still speak with thorny words. Those words were not taught by me. I never taught those things; I learned them from the villagers. The people in the village know how to speak thorny words.

Therefore, brothers and sisters, start to develop good habits, be wise, and learn to speak. You must learn to speak, and then we will be comforted. The Colossians were going off-key, so Paul had to constantly remind them.

Sending Tychicus to Comfort You

Tychicus, a dear brother, faithful minister, and fellow servant in the Lord, will tell you all the news about me. I am sending him to you for this very purpose, that you may know our affairs, and that he may comfort your hearts. With him is Onesimus, our faithful and dear brother, who is one of you. They will tell you about everything that is happening here. (Colossians 4:7-9)

Paul was very effective in his actions because he wanted to solve problems. The Colossians had strayed, and why did they stray? It was definitely related to worrying about Paul. Worrying led to thinking crookedly, and after thinking crookedly, they felt that if they had believed in the right gospel, things wouldn't be this way. So brothers and sisters, you must begin to know that Paul acted rigorously. He sent Tychicus and Onesimus to comfort them, to let these Colossians know Paul's situation, to know what was happening here, what exactly was going on?

I think the most important thing was that Paul, although in chains, was still fulfilling the mission God had given him. There was no weakness, no retreat, only forward progress. And because he was in prison there, many people who visited him were also edified. Mark went, Aristarchus went, and when they visited the prison, they asked Paul this question and that question. It was all very good.

Actually, where a person is is not important; the key is that the heart is free. So Paul not only wrote Colossians but also Philippians. In them, you cannot see that he was in prison, because he was free there. If a person's heart is free, what does it matter if the body is bound? So Paul cared very much whether the Colossians were comforted.

Those Who Work With Me For The Kingdom Of God Are A Comfort To My Heart

Aristarchus my fellow prisoner greets you, with Mark the cousin of Barnabas (concerning whom you received instructions: if he comes to you, welcome him), and Jesus who is called Justus. These are my only fellow workers for the kingdom of God who are of the circumcision; they have proved to be a comfort to me. (Colossians 4:10-11)

Actually, I tell you, Paul said in other epistles that even if I am accursed, I hope that my compatriots, the Jews, can be saved and receive the grace of Jesus Christ. Even if I am separated from God, I am willing for my compatriots to receive God's grace.

There are three here: Aristarchus, Mark, the Mark who wrote the Gospel of Mark. Later we learned that Mark and Barnabas were cousins. Barnabas' cousin Mark was originally with Peter, then he followed Paul. And there was another called Justus, who was of the circumcision.

Only a few of the circumcision followed Paul in serving God and comforted him. In the past, they were all in the circumcision faction, including Barnabas. The issue of circumcision caused a lot of confusion. I think these three people comforted Paul.

There was also Epaphras, who was actually a founder of the Colossian church. There were also Luke, Demas, and Nympha, all of whom comforted Paul. Among them was also Archippus. He specifically mentioned, say to Archippus, See that you fulfill the ministry that you have received in the Lord.

Archippus is mentioned in Philemon, along with Philemon and a sister. When Paul wrote Philemon, he sent greetings to these three people. The order was Philemon, a sister, and then Archippus. Who exactly was Archippus? Some say he was Philemon's son, and others say he was the pastor of the church in Philemon's house, managing the church.

Here it says to say to Archippus, See that you fulfill the ministry that you have received in the Lord. This sentence is actually a bit heavy. Because Archippus may have received a wrong gospel in Colossae, deviating from the truth of the gospel. So he was told to be careful to fulfill the ministry he had received from the Lord, which should be managing the church.

Paul wrote the last chapter of Colossians so that we can comfort each other in Jesus Christ. How can we receive mutual comfort? It is to always strive in prayer for you, that you may stand firm in all the will of God, mature and fully assured, so that you do not fall into the set of things based on works.

Therefore, brothers and sisters, you must begin to know how easily a person loses the grace of God. If their faith is not strong enough, they deviate from the way of God. And after deviating from the way of God, they add a bit of self-righteousness, and then they begin to add fuel to the fire and explain it. There is one thing that everyone must know: when something displeasing to God appears, if a person says that they themselves are wrong, that's still easy to handle. But if they feel ashamed and then bring in a lot of explanations for the matter, then it's troublesome.

For example, I came to you to pray for you, but after praying, it not only didn't get better, it got worse. What to do? Some people may say that this is God's will. Is that God's will? Definitely not. A few days ago, I prayed for a sister whose foot had a lump, and after praying, it got bigger and more serious. I asked her if it hurt, and she said, It hurts a lot. You can't explain it haphazardly; you must have faith in Jesus Christ and know that our God is a God of healing.

Continuing to pray, my heart is unwavering, and I don't want to defend myself. I continue to pray, and the result is that it gets better. She may come again, and it doesn't matter if she comes again. I'll pray once each time. So brothers and sisters, never use our own experiences as the standard; we must use the word of God as the standard, use the theological system of the Apostle Paul as the standard, use the theological system of Jesus Christ as the standard, and do not take things out of context.

Grace Be With You

Grace be with you is not an empty phrase. When I first started in the church, from beginning to end I would say, May the grace of the Holy Spirit be with you, Amen! It was a long time before I understood what this sentence meant. The meaning of this sentence is very deep. Grace be with you means that the grace of Jesus Christ is always with you.

If the grace of Jesus Christ is really among us, all our problems are not difficult. The problem is losing the grace of God; that's when it's troublesome. So the meaning in this sentence is very deep, that we must not deviate from the truth. Once we go to keep circumcision, keep the law, festivals, doing a whole bunch of things, then we do it wrong, deviating from the truth. Do not be afraid, we are in the grace of Jesus Christ.

So do not lose grace, and do not lose the grace of God, hold onto the truth of God, that you may stand firm in all the will of God, mature and fully assured, that is the key. The fourth chapter of Colossians is finished. Next week we will do a summary, and then we will examine the books of 1 and 2 Thessalonians, which we spoke about a long time ago. May the grace of God be with you. Amen!

May God bless everyone!

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大家好,我们来看《歌罗西书》第四章。这章读完了以后,你会读到什么?这章的主题叫做“让我们彼此安慰”。为什么叫做让我们彼此安慰呢?其实那个年代,跟我们今天这个年代不太一样。 那个年代你想念的时候,什么办法也没有。就是不知道对方发生了什么事儿,然后心里充满挂虑。其实用不了多久之前,就是倒退三十、五十年,家里有人发生什么事儿,除非你回去看,要不真的不知道发生了什么。可是如果你回去看,除了上千公里之外,真的很麻烦,还得挤买火车票。 保罗年间就是用步行去看他们,真的很困难。现在的环境就方便了很多,如果我挂念你,我就拿微信打给你,说:你还好吗?最近怎么样啊?你这都挺好的,我心里就安慰了。可是那个年代,太难了。然后他听说这歌罗西的教会,领受了一些很邪恶的东西。 从他们的牧师开始,都开始相信一个很邪的东西,就是我们前三章讲的。所以保罗写《歌罗西书》,到了最后他说让我们彼此安慰。安慰的是你们只要能够在耶稣基督的恩典当中。如果人能够在耶稣基督的恩典当中,那是真的好,人一旦离开了耶稣基督的恩典,那些麻烦事儿真要命。

昨天我就看到我们当中一个姐妹,她说她要租房子,然后没租到,被别人租去了。看好了,然后没租到,她心里就很难受,那她这一难受,我看了以后,我也开始难受。所以早晨,我就赶紧约了一个时间打给她,哎哟,打完了以后我心里都很受安慰。 因为我就听她跟我讲过去这几年,在耶稣基督里领受的恩典,然后我就再次坚固她的信心,要知道人活着是个很简单的事儿。她的家经历了财务问题,老公刷卡债刷爆了,然后要慢慢还,还不上,就利滚利。 前两年我就经常讲还不起就别还呗,还不起还是个好事。她就听了我的说法,然后申请破产,还不起了。结果他老公找了一份工作,以前都是很难稳定的,这反而还稳定了。接着他的收入,从前两年的一年四万块,长到一年九万了。这样的事儿在我们当中还是挺普遍的。 这就是为什么我常常说我们当中那些欠债的、破产的、黑名单的,不要担心,就是因为我们太爱钱了,所以这样。我听了她讲的之后,就很得安慰。原来我的神,是如此的信实,只要我们在祂的恩典当中。 这样的事可多了,去年我们当中一个姐妹失业了,结果这一年过去了,把里面贫穷的心态除去了不少,但是那个根儿还在。就算是那个根儿还在,除去了这么多贫穷的心态,这一年,不但找到了工作,而且工作的薪水还不错。最近又跳槽,薪水加了一倍,再加上佣金,赚的老多了,我听了以后就特别受安慰。 所以我巴不得大家都在耶稣基督的恩典当中,在你不能,但神凡事都能。你一定可以脱离贫穷,因为这福音就是给贫穷的人,咱们弟兄姐妹们,你是否跟你所牧养的人,同受安慰?这就是带着为父为母的心的服侍。

我们当中的牧者们,不要单顾自己。因为你单顾自己,那不叫做在耶稣基督的恩典当中。怎么才能解决这个问题呢?要常常恒切地祷告,要有智慧。 《歌罗西书》第四章的第1节是属于上一章的,他分章的时候没分好,把上一章的一句话留在这边。咱们再看第四章的第2-4节。 **你们要恒切祷告,在此警醒感恩。也要为我们祷告,求 神给我们开传道的门,能以讲基督的奥秘,叫我按着所该说的话将这奥秘发明出来。(《歌罗西书》4:2-4)** 恒切祷告很重要,如果一个人祷告到一半就放弃了,那就完了。为什么放弃了呢?因为里面不信了。人里面要常常警醒,不要出现一些混乱的东西。比如:你祷告不蒙应允,那不是说不蒙应允,其实是需要操练信心。 结果有一个人走过来,不是这么回事儿,因为你不守安息日。那安息日是哪天呢?安息日不是礼拜天,是礼拜六。结果就把主日改成礼拜六了。接着又有人来告诉你,你没有受割礼。那咱就追一个手术呗。可是那玩意不好使,更多的问题来了,最后就会失去神的恩典,所以我们要警醒感恩。

大家得慢慢学会,恒切地祷告,警醒感恩。你带着信心,你凭着信心所求的,无论求什么,我们的主耶稣都赐给你。有人说:你说真的吗?那能不是真的吗?《圣经》的确是这么说的。但就这个信心的问题,常常不是合乎真理的信心,那才是要命的。 祷告最重要的功效是得安慰,你祷告祷告,心里敞亮了,祷告祷告,原来的那个问题好像没那么严重了。祷告祷告,里面从没有力量,开始有力量了。 其实祷告多点不算问题,问题是缺少智慧。你祷告了,然后你不警醒,是没有用的。因为只有警醒,才不会失去神的恩。很多人祷告的东西,代表了一个错误的神学体系。所以弟兄姐妹你知道吗?你如果是信错了,他不可能好使。 这些歌罗西人看见保罗被抓了,就想:哎呀,是不是保罗搞错了?他如果搞对了,至于被抓吗?就是我们当中也有很多弟兄姐妹也会这么思考。然后保罗给他们出了个主意,你们也为我祷告,求神给我们开传道的门。 其实很多人把这个当作代祷,我倒不觉一个代祷有什么用。它唯一的用处就是为我们祷告,让我们在歌罗西人跟使徒保罗,同有一个异象,同有一个命定,关心的是同一件事儿。

保罗能够讲明白基督的奥秘,能够按照该说的话将这奥秘讲明出来。恒切祷告,一个是为他们自己的这些事祷告,一个是为他们自己的安慰祷告。更重要的就是在祷告中,纪念使徒保罗,因为要和保罗同有一个异象和使命。 你如果想真的很惦记这个,惦记那个,就开始恒切祷告吧,祷告祷告,你就会开始相信,相信神会照着你所祷告的成就,你心里不就受安慰了吗?难受不就没了吗?人里面有难受,很正常。 比如:你孩子找不到工作,你不难受吗?你肯定难受。那怎么办?祷告,恒切地祷告。神会因为你的缘故,纪念你的儿子,因为你是个有命定的人。神会因着你,纪念你的儿子,神会供应我们的一切。比如说,我服侍这些心里头有挂虑、有难受的人。我一讲神会供应,心里不就不难受了么,就很受安慰。

歌罗西人其实开始信的有点乱,什么守节期、月朔、割礼等。谁搞的呢?耶路撒冷教会里面的法利赛人。他们就觉得割礼可重要了。这就需要有智慧去警醒,恒切祷告在此警醒,同时还要有智慧。 **你们要爱惜光阴,用智慧与外人交往。你们的言语要常常带着和气,好像用盐调和,就可知道该怎样回答各人。(《歌罗西书》4:5-6)** 人活着是虚空的虚空。然后怎么着?你就容易掉到另外一边去。反正活着是虚空,哎呀,就躺平吧,把时间都躺过去了。所以保罗就说你们要爱惜光阴,因为将来你要来到耶稣面前交账。你把时间都用在躺平,刷抖音上了,你到耶稣那去抖去么?那可是真会抖的啊,像过电一样抖。所以要爱惜光阴,做正经事儿。 爱惜光阴,用智慧与外人交往,你说那我就不跟不信主的人交往。你要做和尚啊?咱这也没庙,这不是和尚,这不是庙,咱这也不会把你那脑袋剃光了,点六个点。你还得去做工,做正经事,因为人要在这世上做正经事儿。

还要用智慧与外人交往。你想你信主了,你家里对你的担心没那么严重,但是如果你削发为尼,剃发为生,出家了,哎呦,我的天哪,那可大事了。家里会怎么样?家里会反了天了。 有一些人看破红尘,老婆孩子也不管了,就出家了。信主可不是这样,我们要用智慧与外人交往,跟人说话的时候要像个人。你说话都说得不像个人话了,像长了翅膀一样,就差脸上长毛,头上长角了。那不成妖精了吗?我们说话要像个人,我们得活出人的样子,活出神造我们的那个样子。 我们说话的时候要常常带着和气,好像用盐调和,就可知道怎样回答各人。回答啥?回答那些很刁钻的问题。尤其是自己家里的人,比如:你信的上帝是全能的吗?祂能不能造一个自己搬不起来的石头?你怎么回答?祂能造,造完了搬不起来。有很多类似这种稀奇古怪的问题,就是绊倒人的。 所以弟兄姐妹,不但要在职场上,做一个正常的工,还要做得好。不是往里扎时间,是往里扎智慧。如果你是一个有智慧的人,你的工作怎么可能做不好。所以我想接下来的日子,还得教大家怎么做工,教大家怎么做人,教大家怎么做事儿,为人处事儿。 我们就把这人资管理的这些思想工作也给大家做一做,这样你在职场上一定会做得很好,这就是与外人交往。你要会说话,你别一说话就好像吃了枪药似的,咣咣往外喷,那人家一看就这信主的是不是信傻了。

我心里头还有一个小挂虑,我们当中还有很多弟兄姐妹,不会说话,我就想怎么让他们会说话。愿大家能够使我得点安慰,学会说话,有智慧,别说话像个冤家似的。 有一个姐妹她老公跟别的女人有一腿,但是你说有一腿,也不知道是真爱还是假爱,但还挺顾家的。结果这个姐妹回到家里,就像个冤家,那张脸比苦瓜还苦。我一看这怎么比苦瓜还苦,那我就得教她,能教多少教多少,最后慢慢把关系处理好了。 大家一定要知道,如果老公不信主,我还得鼓励你,跟老公把关系处理得要健康。你儿子不信主,你跟你儿子的关系也得处理健康。凡是我服侍过的大家都知道,要建立一个健康的关系,不是建立一个苦瓜一样的关系,别一说话就带刺儿。 直到今天那刺儿我也没拔掉,一开口就说那种带刺儿的话。那些话,可不是我教的呀。我没教过那些东西,那是在村子里头跟那些农民学的,村子里的人可会说带刺儿的话了。 所以弟兄姐妹,开始养成一个好的习惯,有智慧、学会说话。一定要学会说话,然后我们就得安慰了。歌罗西人说着说着就不着调,所以保罗就得不断地提醒他们。

**有我亲爱的兄弟推基古要将我一切的事都告诉你们。他是忠心的执事,和我一同作主的仆人。我特意打发他到你们那里去,好叫你们知道我们的光景,又叫他安慰你们的心。我又打发一位亲爱忠心的兄弟阿尼西母同去;他也是你们那里的人。他们要把这里一切的事都告诉你们。(《歌罗西书》4:7-9)** 保罗这个人做事很厉害,因为他想解决问题。歌罗西人虽然走偏了,为什么走偏了呢?肯定跟挂虑保罗这件事有关系。挂虑挂虑就开始想歪了,想歪了以后就觉得如果信对了福音怎么会是这样呢。所以弟兄姐妹要开始知道,保罗做事很严谨,他就打发推基古和阿尼西母去安慰他们,让这些歌罗西人知道保罗的光景,知道这里发生的这一切事儿,到底是咋回事儿? 我想最重要的那件事儿就是保罗,虽然在捆锁当中,但是他仍然在完成神给他的使命。没有软弱,没有退缩,只有向前推进,而且就因为他在那儿坐牢,很多去探望他的人也得着造就。马可也去了,亚里达古也去了,去探监的时候,就问保罗这个问题那个问题,都很不错啊。 其实人在哪儿不重要,关键心是自由的呀。所以保罗他不但写了《歌罗西书》,也写了《腓立比书》。他在那里头,你看不出来他是坐牢,因为在那里都可自由了,人的心自由,身体被捆锁又能怎么样呢。所以这个保罗很在意歌罗西人是否得到安慰。

**与我一同坐监的亚里达古问你们安。巴拿巴的表弟马可也问你们安。耶数又称为犹士都,也问你们安。奉割礼的人中,只有这三个人是为 神的国与我一同做工的,也是叫我心里得安慰的。(《歌罗西书》4:10-11)** 其实我告诉你,保罗在其他的书信中说过,就算是我受咒诅,我也希望我的同胞、犹太人能够得救,能够得着耶稣基督的恩典。就算是我与神隔绝,我也愿意我的同胞能够得着神的恩典。 这里有三个,一个是亚里达古,一个是马可,马可就是写《马可福音》的马可。后来我们才知道马可和巴拿巴是表兄弟。巴拿巴的表弟马可,原来是跟着彼得的,后来跟着保罗了。然后还有一个叫犹士都,这是奉割礼的。 勉勉强强有几个奉割礼的,跟随保罗一起侍奉神,使他得安慰。过去他们都在守割礼的那一部,包括巴拿巴,就是因为割礼这事儿整得可乱了。我想这三个人使保罗得安慰。 还有一个叫以巴弗,以巴弗实际上就是歌罗西教会的一个创始人。还有路加、底马、宁法,这些都是让保罗得安慰的人。其中还有一个人叫亚基布,他特别提到说你要对亚基布说,务要谨慎,尽你从主所受的职分。 亚基布在《腓利门书》里提到,一个是腓利门,还有一个姐妹,还有亚基布。保罗在写《腓利门书》的时候,向他们三个人问安。顺序就是腓利门、一个姐妹,然后亚基布。亚基布到底是谁?有人说是腓利门的儿子,还有人说是腓利门他们家里的教会的牧师,管理这个教会。 这里说要对亚基布说,务要谨慎,尽你从主所受的职分。这句话其实还是有点重的。因为亚基布可能在歌罗西这个地方领受了错误的福音,偏离了福音的真理。所以要让他务要谨慎,尽你从主所受的职分,这职分应该是管理教会。

保罗写《歌罗西书》最后一章,就是让我们能够在耶稣基督里彼此安慰。怎么才能得到彼此安慰呢?就是愿你们常竭力地祈求,愿你们在神一切的旨意上得以完全,信心充足能站立得稳,不至于掉到行为为本的那套东西里头。 所以弟兄姐妹要开始知道,一个人失去神的恩是多么容易,稍微信心不够坚固,然后就偏离了神的道。偏离了神的道,再加点自以为是,然后就开始添油加醋地再解释。有一件事大家一定要知道,当一件不蒙神喜悦的事出现的时候,人如果说是我自己错了,这还好办。如果觉得自己丢人,然后就拉进来一大堆的说法解释这事儿,那就麻烦了。 比如:我到你这儿为你祷告,不过祷告后不但没好还严重了。怎么办?有人可能会说这就是神的旨意了。那是神的旨意吗?肯定不是。前几天我为一个姐妹祷告,她脚底下长了一个疙瘩,祷告后变大了,变严重了。我问她疼吗?她说:很疼。不能乱解释,还得在耶稣基督里有信心,要知道我们的神是医治的神。 再接着祷告下去,我的心是不动摇的,我也不想为我自己辩解,接着祷告,结果好了。可能她还会再来,再来也没关系,来一次祷告一次。所以弟兄姐妹,千万不要用我们自己的经历做标准,要以神的话为标准,以使徒保罗的神学体系做标准,以耶稣基督的神学体系做标准,不要断章取义。

“愿恩惠常与你们同在”,这可不是一句虚话。我刚开始在教会,从开始到结束的时候,会说愿圣灵的恩惠常与你们同在,阿们!到很久以后才明白这句话到底是什么意思。这句话的意义很深,愿恩惠常与你们同在,就是耶稣基督的恩典常与你们同在。 如果耶稣基督的恩典真的在我们当中,我们所有的问题就不难了。问题就是失去了神的恩典,那才麻烦啊。所以这句话里面的意思很深,就是我们不要偏离真理,一旦我们去守割礼,守律法、节期,整一大堆的事情,就整错了,偏离了真理。不要害怕,我们在耶稣基督的恩惠当中。 所以不要失去恩典,也不要失去神的恩惠,守住神的真理,在神的旨意上得以完全,信心充足,能站立得稳,这才是关键。《歌罗西书》的第四章就讲完了,下个礼拜我们做一个总结,然后就查很久以前讲过的《帖撒罗尼迦》前书后书。愿神的恩惠常与你们同在。阿们! 愿神祝福大家!
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