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【Living Abundantly】Emerging from Confusion

2016-12-05 4,095 Y133 Course - Living Abundantly

Confusion is a state of not knowing what to do,
how to do it, or when to do it.
The key to getting out of confusion is to clarify these three questions.

Implementing God's Word in Our Lives

Today, I want to speak on the topic of living a life of abundance. Before that, I want to discuss the meaning of living a life of abundance. We have already published seven or eight books on living abundantly. If we could publish one every week, it would be of great significance. We often say that, in fact, we will implement the blueprint of our entire education system in the future. Brother HF and his team are turning the ministry of written works into booklets. These booklets will become a very important spiritual asset of our church. Their basic function is to help us implement God's Word in our lives. Our church is a very practical church, demonstrating spiritual ministry to the fullest. We also implement spiritual life and spiritual principles in our lives to the fullest extent.

The Concept of Confusion

Today's topic on living abundantly is: Breaking Free from Confusion. In my ministry, I have found that many people are confused. When I ask them questions, their response is, I don't know. When I see their expression and eyes, I know they genuinely don't know, revealing a confused expression. They basically remain in a state of confusion. Therefore, when I train people, I often encourage brothers and sisters to break free from confusion. So, how do we break free from confusion? I will give you a concept of what it is. Confusion is actually a state of mind, a state where people do not know what to do, how to do it, or when to do it. This state of confusion can lead people into depression and decadence.

The parents of Chinese children studying in Singapore send their children here, but they do not know what their children will encounter in Singapore, and they find it difficult to do anything about it. Fortunately, some brothers and sisters have come among us, and these problems become relatively simple. I have encountered two types of children studying in Singapore: one type is those who study desperately, take exams desperately, and are bookworms; the other type is those who do not like to study and spend their days watching TV and reading novels, falling into decadence. Both types of people are basically in a state of confusion. They do not know why they are studying, nor do they know why they are reading these books; they only know to study. Those who do not study do not know why they are not studying, nor do they know why they are watching TV and playing on their phones. In fact, these are all manifestations of confusion.

So, what is confusion? Confusion is a state of not knowing what to do, not knowing how to do it, and not knowing when to do it. We have defined confusion in this way. The next step is easy. We just need to figure out what we need to do, how we need to do it, and when we need to do it to solve the problem. If some of us are still in a state of confusion, you need to start listening carefully to these three things: What exactly should I do? How exactly should I do it? When exactly should I do it? These three things are very specific. So, how do we break free from confusion? The most important thing is to remove this myth. This myth is: I don't know, and then staying in the state of I don't know. This is a critical matter. In fact, everything in the entire scientific development is from not knowing to knowing. You may not know today, but you can know tomorrow; if you don't know tomorrow, you can know the day after tomorrow; someday you will know.

The Key to Breaking Free from Confusion is Understanding Yourself

The key to breaking free from confusion is to start understanding yourself, what you don't know, what you know, what you should know, and what you should learn. Some time ago, we mentioned things like setting goals. Setting goals itself is an exploration. Of course, I think there are still some problems in the whole process, such as lack of self-control, which is another issue. Today, we will focus on the issue of breaking free from confusion.

Everything starts from not knowing to knowing. Today you know a little, tomorrow you know a little more, the day after tomorrow you know even more. Little by little, you will find that you know and you are not confused. In fact, none of us know everything all at once. People who study well or have strong abilities, what are they doing all day long? They are turning what they don't know into something they know, breaking free from confusion. Why did I title the topic Breaking Free from Confusion? Because if you don't move, you will never get out. Being able to ask questions is a progress in itself, it does not necessarily solve the problem. Your progress must move forward, and you will walk out of it. If we know today that everything is from not knowing to knowing, we will not be confused. Knowing this, the problem becomes simple. If you don't know and continue to stay in the state of not knowing, you will be very confused and lost.

Let me give you an example. How do I find a job? I don't know. How do I write a resume? I don't know. He is confused. He does one casually, thinking he is done, but he is not done because he still needs to keep understand. Today I want to tell everyone that it is normal to not know things. If you know everything, would you be an expert? It is normal that you do not know things. Someone once said that as humanity's understanding of the world's knowledge increases, they find that there is more and more that they do not know. Do you find it strange? Shouldn't the things in this world decrease as I know more and more? Later, facts proved that the more we know, the more we find that we don't know. But this situation does not bring confusion because they will continue to explore.

I will first take you to the Book of Genesis. When God created the universe and all things, God created the things on earth, He let Adam and Eve manage the things on earth. But if God created the things on earth and they are already perfect, what do Adam and Eve still manage? Have you ever thought about this question? What do they manage? Since God created it perfectly, why do we still need to manage it? Because although what God created is perfect, He still left some things for us to develop. It is for us to explore, understand, and know His creation, and in this process to continuously explore, understand, and know God. That is to say, knowing God is endless, and knowing what God creates is also endless. This is why the more you know, the more you don't know. If you know everything in this world and there is nothing more to know, there is no point in living. It is precisely because God left a part for us to explore and understand that the exploration and understanding itself is the meaning of our lives.

Are you still confused now? You say I am very confused, I don't know many things. Then I tell you: it is normal that you do not know, and then your task is to turn those things you did not know into things that you know, and there will be no confusion.

Start Walking From the Simplest Place

So how do we keep moving forward? From a state of not knowing to a state of knowing, how do we move? Have any of us played jigsaw puzzles? Putting together a large number of pieces from a picture. How do you put it together? Where do you start? From the corners, you look for the four corners because the corners are straight edges. So start from there, from the simplest place. If you start with a piece in the middle, where all four sides are not straight edges, you will not be able to start because that is the most complex piece. So in the process of exploring, in the process of moving from not knowing to knowing, start from the simplest one.

Why are people confused when solving problems? Because they start by finding the most difficult place to solve, of course they will be confused. If I were them, I would also be confused. If you start from the simplest place, from the corners and edges, once you start, it will be easier. Everything has a simple place for you to start, can you find it? That is to say, the whole exploration process is also an evolution from incomplete information to complete information. Why do many people in the church have different opinions? Because they see different things. They probably took a few pieces of the puzzle and came to the pastor and said, Look, why is the church like this? Because you only have those few pieces in your hand. But if you put the whole puzzle together, you will be different. So what does it feel like to piece the whole puzzle together? Piecing the whole puzzle together is a systematic belief.

So today, brothers and sisters, you will find that some brothers and sisters say the pastor is a book. I think I should be several books. In fact, I have explored a lot of topics in the past few years. Why explore these topics? Because I feel confused, I am confused, I do not know. My initial confusion started from not knowing why I was alive. I found God in search of answers, and then started a wonderful journey in life. So God often does some wonderful and revelatory work in my life, and then I explore one topic, two topics, three topics. Over the past few years, I have put a lot of effort into doing these works, and doing these works actually adds a lot of fun to life. Then from not knowing to knowing, the most important ability in this process is pondering.

Breaking Free from Confusion Requires Pondering

Have you ever pondered? Pondering things is very interesting. For example, because of my work, I saw the cables in the computer room. There are hundreds of servers and switches in the computer room, and their cables are in the thousands. They look terrifying. Once they are messed up, you do not know what to do. It is like when you install things at home, that place will be a mess of wires for a while, and you will be annoyed just looking at it. After I saw it, I was very confused. How to organize these things? The problem is that I not only have to solve this problem, but I also have to maintain it. When a problem occurs, I can immediately find the problem. If it is a mess, you will be extremely painful. When I was solving this problem, I would go to the computer room when I had nothing to do, look at it, and then pondered. When I returned to the office, I would draw with a pen again, but it did not work. Then one day, I finally figured it out. How did I solve these problems? I designed something called cable management. Why are cables messy? Because they have excess length, I grasped the essence of things. Because the length of the cable is exactly the length it needs, you put it up and there will be no excess, no mess; if it is not exactly the length, there will be an extra piece, you will be annoyed because you cannot wrap it or not wrap it, and you cannot reattach it after you cut it off. Later, I grasped an essence, which is the management of excess cables.

After you ponder over everything, you will find the pattern. Finding the pattern of jigsaw puzzles, finding the pattern of cables, finding the pattern of finding a job, finding the pattern of writing a resume. After you find the pattern of things, you will not be confused. The problem is to grasp the essence of the problem. Pondering, exploring, and understanding are the most important characteristics of us human beings. If a person's first reaction when encountering a problem is I don't know, why is this so, he will definitely be confused. Today I tell you that learning has an essential pattern. There is a method to how a person learns, and this thing needs to be pondered. I have a habit. When I take the subway, airplane, or train, my mind is rarely idle. If you look at it, you will find that my notebook is full of words. Why is this so? Because I have been pondering.

The Future Development Model of the Church

For example, the activities we experienced in October and November. I did not grasp the essence of things, but I will explore it. Now I can tell you that I have grasped the essence of things, and I know what I am doing. For example, the church must be a network church because it greatly improves operational efficiency. Now what do we do next? I cannot only be a network church all the time. I have mastered a law of things development: regularly and in shifts, bring them to close proximity to receive training and establish our close relationship. I am always pondering. When I cannot figure it out, I will chat with my brothers and sisters closer to the church. I am also pondering during the chat. They often see the expression on my face when I am thinking. Things that I pondered, I tried it as I pondered, drew it as I pondered, and I pondered it out. So, don't stop in confusion, keep moving forward.

Why Attend University?

Recently, I pondered about something, which is why did I attend university? Do you think pondering it has value? It has value because I grasped the essence of it: to make a living. If it is in order to make a living, you must have a degree, but if you have a degree but no ability, what do you do? You cannot make a living. This matter has been circulating in my mind. Later, I pondered it out, which is to train this person's ability to make a living from a young age. Then I asked myself, are what I learned really useful? Geometry, mathematics, and algebra do not seem to be of much use. Because I am doing computer work, we were born in the fourth industrial revolution, do you still need to calculate with a pen? No need. As long as you give the computer an equation, it can immediately give you the result. There is no need for you to deduce it at all. Did we waste time learning to deduce by hand? It was a waste. Is it not good if we save this time to train our abilities to make a living? good. So when should we do career planning? I started to grab this essence.

Of course, if they can be admitted to Tsinghua or Peking University like Sister KR, they should go. There is no issue there. But if they are admitted to a third-rate university, then just forget it. They will also be unemployed after graduating from a third-rate university. It is better to train their abilities to make a living now. It is already very good if they don't pick up bad habits and don't make a group of bad friends. We are digging out the basic laws of things in the process of pondering these things. If we give him a positioning after graduating from elementary school and let him take out 10%, 20%, or 30% of his time to practice his ability to make a living, he can still live even without a degree. Later, I studied the developed countries. They have a characteristic. If you go to Australia or New Zealand today, you will find that the income of blue-collar workers in these places is quite high. If you are a sewer repair worker in Guangdong, your monthly income is very high. So why is the income high but no one does it? Because people are misled to go to university, get a third-rate one, and then there is no time to do these things. After graduation, they do not know how to do these things either. Then they continue to hang on, preferring to earn a meager income rather than to do these things.

My younger brother is a typical person without education. He graduated from high school, but now he is doing very well as an electrician. In our area, they all call him Master Liu. They all say that it is reassuring to find Master Liu for renovation work, and he does a good job. Is there a problem with making a living? no, none at all. But when it comes to his son, my younger brother and sister-in-law, they did not find the essence of things. In the end, they sent their child to a non-first-rate university. After graduating, they do not know what to do. So when I went home in July, I discussed this issue with them, but did they ponder it carefully? no, they still live according to people's inherent thinking. What do you do when the times change? The result is being thrown down.

So you must have real skills. There is a kind of panic among us, not an economic or political panic, but a skills panic. You must have a feeling of skills panic. Do you have skills? If you don't, what can you do? What do you rely on to make a living? This is a critical matter. Of course, don't go into industries that will be eliminated in the Industry 4.0 era. You will be finished if you go into industries that will be eliminated. After looking at the Industry 4.0 era, the best choice is to go to church and be a full-time co-worker, but whether I want you or not is another matter. You need to know that it is difficult for machines to solve people's spiritual problems; it is not easy for computers to solve people's spiritual problems. This requires those of us who minister.

Pondering is the Key to Breaking Free

Pondering is the key to breaking free. Breaking free from confusion requires you to explore, understand, and ponder. When you cannot figure it out, you will find a key: I go to the pastor, I go to my pastoral district leader, I look for my pastors and then we explore and understand. So today we start to understand, we must develop the habit of exploring and pondering. Recently, I found that real estate is a very interesting thing. Wealthy people are all related to real estate. Can you take out 1% of the time to understand real estate, and then you will know how real estate works? You will discover opportunities and seize them, and you can obtain huge wealth. Therefore, developing the habit of exploring and pondering is very important because that is the image of God. God wants us to manage this world. How can you manage if you don't ponder? If you only slap your head, it is useless to slap out bean curd brain, so we must begin to learn, explore, and seek.

I know a person; he is very interesting. In our era, the clothes were very rustic. We felt that the dramas we wanted to watch were the ones where the clothes looked good, but no one in that era thought about it. But the boss of a tailor shop in Dashilan was very good. He would go to see movies as soon as there were some, especially foreign movies. When he saw beautiful clothes in the movie, he would come back to ponder, and then go to tailor them. Two weeks later, the same clothes were hanging in the store, and they sold very well. Other tailor shops did not make money, but his tailor shop made huge amounts of money. You say this person is so interesting. He came out of the cinema and he didn't know what the movie was about, he was there to see the clothes. He is a very powerful person. If you and I go to see this movie, after watching it, we only know the story, and we don't know anything else at all. This is what happens when you don't know how to ponder and explore.

There is also a person I know, who is also very interesting. He opened a restaurant. Every Saturday, he does not eat at his restaurant, but goes to other restaurants and points out its signature dishes. After returning home, he goes to the kitchen to cook until he can make the same dishes, and every time people want a table of dishes at his restaurant,He will give that dish for free, and if the customers think it tastes good, they will specifically order that dish next time they come, and it will sell very well. He goes out to eat every week, experiments every week, innovates every week, and launches new products every week. Do you think his restaurant will not be popular? So you have to ponder. The most critical thing is that our brothers and sisters have dull eyes, wooden expressions, and then say: I don't know. How can this work?

Pondering Requires an Open Mindset

Pondering requires a concept: an open mind. If you think it is impossible from the very beginning, then you are done, confusion will become your only possibility, and you will be confused for a lifetime if you do not break free. My sense of touch is very sensitive because I have trained it over the years. Someone said to me: Pastor, I have sent in many resumes, but no one has responded. At this time, you should ask yourself why. Once you ask, he says, Is it because of this and that? He knows the reason for this problem. What did he do before? He has an attitude of that's just the way it is. Never tell yourself that's just the way it is, but learn to explore better ways. So have an open mind and remove that impossible-mindset, this mindset will kill you. The green screen environment in our church now is the result of exploration; the software our church uses, I explored for half a year. I know the kind of software I want, so I have been trying to figure it out, the problem is that the management of this software system will not explore, I will do it on my own, equal to I will do the work as 3-5 people. So today our brothers and sisters must learn to understand the essence of confusion. Nothing can withstand pondering; you only need a notebook and a pen, you can draw what you learn.

The person who wrote the book Skills Panic did not attend university. He could have been admitted to Tsinghua and Peking University, but he did not attend. But he is much better than those who graduated from Tsinghua and Peking University. He dropped out of high school in the second year and then wrote this book. When he finished writing this book, he was not much older than Brother JX. Brother JX was 15 years old when he read this book. We must learn a more practical way of thinking. Some Christian pastors believe that Mao Zedong was an atheist, so we cannot say what he said. Why can't we say it? Mao Zedong's On Practice is very good, and his On Contradiction is also very good. Deng Xiaoping's saying that practice is the only standard for testing truth is also very good. You cannot negate them all. So I encourage brothers and sisters to learn to read.

Learn to Read

How to Become a Planning Master? First, become proficient at military books. you must read The Art of War; then read widely, third, have a general idea of what things means, fourth, practice and ponder, and then case exercises, he wrote a lot in details. You need to know that if a person does not ponder, does not learn, and does not explore, even if the opportunities float in front of you, you may not be able to grasp them. So today our brothers and sisters must begin to learn these things. What he says may not be right, but you can take it as a reference and ponder it a little. What these people say is very interesting. This planning ability is called four ounces of strength to move a thousand pounds, which is leverage. Today, I want to teach you one thing, which is that you must learn to use leverage, such as financial leverage, which is bank loans. Let me give everyone an example. If you have 500,000 in hand, you borrow another 500,000, and then you buy 1 million of property. This 1 million of property doubles and becomes 2 million. Then how much money did you make with this 500,000? Made 1.5 million, which is 3 times its amount, because the bank's 500,000 is in operation. This is leverage. But I do not encourage excessive borrowing. Everyone should learn to manage their finances.

Reading the Bible and Reading Textbooks Cannot Replace Each Other

When I was pondering these things, I believe that many pastors have not pondered them. Of course, some pastors have pondered them. Today, I will tell everyone where they have not pondered them. I thought: God, if I pray every day, I do not study math, English, Chinese, and physics, and then I go to university, can I get in? God ignored me, He was too lazy to ignore me. I asked again: God, I pray, read the Book of Songs, and sing, but I did not do well on the exam. Why? Later, I pondered it out. These things cannot replace each other. Prayer cannot replace reading the Bible, and reading the Bible cannot replace prayer; praying in the spirit cannot replace praying with understanding, and praying with understanding cannot replace praying in the spirit. That is to say, it must be complete. Reading the Bible cannot replace reading math, and reading math cannot replace reading the Bible. You must clarify these things one by one in our daily lives. Don't wait until you are 50 or 60 years old when you ask God why God did this? God will answer you: Because you are too lazy, you don't do anything or pondered.

Some Christians have a very strong religious flavor. I myself hate the religious flavor very much. You will not see the religious flavor in me. Although I am very good at doing healing and deliverance, I really do not have the religious flavor in me. I will not speak religious things on the stage, and I live a very secular life off the stage. I am who I am on and off the stage. I am that cloud pastor of the cloud church. Although I live in the clouds, my feet are still on the ground. For example, the topics we discussed, such as time management and emotion management, were all explored by me. While learning from others, while pondereding, it became today's content of living an abundant life in our church, including stress management, what stress is, you must understand these things. I have been studying fear for a long time, and I found that many people have fear. Slowly, I have a very deep understanding of fear. We will not talk about fear today, just about when you encounter one of these things, you should not let it remain in confusion.

Develop a Habit of Pondering and Learn to Grasp the Essence of Things

Vague things will create confusion, they are all bad, we must to develop a habit

Summary

Let me summarise. To break free from confusion, cultivate a habit of pondering and exploring. Do not remain in ignorance. Create a table for yourself, noting what you know, what you do not know, and what you need to know and understand. Then, go forth and explore, ponder, and delve into these matters. You will find what you seek, for that is the kind of person God desires.

For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. (Luke 11:10)

This applies not only to spiritual matters, but also to matters of worldly management. Amen!

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**困惑,就是不知道做什么, 不知道该怎么做,也不知道何时去做的一种状态。 走出困惑的关键,在于弄清楚这三个问题。** 今天我想讲一个活出丰盛的题目,在这之前,我想讲一下活出丰盛的意义。我们已经出了7、8本活出丰盛了,如果我们每周都可以出一本的话,意义非凡。我们常常这样讲,其实将来我们要落实我们整个教育体系的蓝本,HF弟兄他们把文字事工做成一个小册子。我们的这些小册子会成为我们教会一个很重要的属灵资产,它的基本功用就是帮助我们把神的话落实在我们生活中。我们的教会是个很实在的教会,在属灵的事工上表现的淋漓尽致,我们也把属灵的生命、属灵的原则落实在生活中,推到淋漓尽致的程度。

今天活出丰盛的题目是:从困惑中走出来。在我服侍的过程中,我发现很多人困惑。我问他问题的时候,他的反应是:我不知道啊。我一看他的表情和眼神,我就知道他是真的不知道,露出困惑的表情,他基本上停留在困惑中。所以我在训练人的时候我常常鼓励弟兄姐妹从困惑中走出来。那如何从困惑中走出来呢?我给大家一个概念,困惑实际上是一种心态,是人不知道该做什么,也不知道该怎么做,也不知道什么时候去做的一种状态。这种困惑的状态可以让人进入到消沉和颓废中。 在新加坡读书的中国孩子的父母,把自己的孩子送到新加坡,他们不知道自己的孩子在新加坡会遇到什么,他们也很难去做一些事情。但是有幸一些弟兄姐妹来到了我们当中,这些问题就变得比较简单。我遇到的在新加坡读书的孩子分成两种,一种是拼命读书、拼命考试、死读书的人;一种是不喜欢读书,整天看电视、看小说,陷入颓废。这两种人他们基本上都陷入了困惑的状态。他不知道为什么读书,也不知道为什么读这些书,只知道读;不读书的人也不知道自己为什么不读书,也不知道自己为什么在那里看电视、玩手机。其实这都是一种困惑的表现。

所以困惑是什么呢?困惑就是不知道做什么,也不知道该怎么做,也不知道该什么时候做的一种状态。我们对困惑进行了这样一个定义。接下来就好办了。我们就是把我们要做什么,我们要怎么做,我们要什么时候做弄清楚就解决问题了。如果我们当中还有一些人在困惑当中,你要开始仔细听这三件事:我到底该做什么?我到底该怎么做?我到底该什么时候做?这三件事都是很具体的。那怎么从困惑中走出来呢?最重要的就是除去这种迷思。这种迷思就是:我不知道,然后停留在我不知道的状态中。这是个很要命的事。其实整个科学发展所有的东西都是从不知道到知道。你今天不知道但是你可以明天知道,明天不知道可以后天知道,总有一天你会知道。

从困惑中走出来的关键就是开始了解自己什么东西不知道,什么东西知道,我该知道什么东西,我该学习什么东西。前一段时间我们提到一些,比如说树立目标。树立目标本身是一个探索,当然我想整个过程中还存在一些问题,如没有自控力,那是另一个问题了,我们今天就专注在从困惑中走出来问题上。 什么都是从不知道到知道,今天知道一点,明天知道一点,后天知道一点,一点点的增加,你就发现你知道了,你不困惑了。其实我们人都不是一下子知道的。学习好的人或者能力强的人,他们整天都在做一件什么事呢?就是把他不知道的东西一件件弄知道,就是从困惑中走出来。我为什么把题目定为从困惑中走出来,因为如果你不走,你就永远出不来。能够问出问题本身就是一个进步,不一定要解决问题。你这个进展一定要往前走,走走就走出来了。如果我们今天知道什么东西都是从不知道到知道,我们就不困惑了。知道这一点,问题就变简单了。你不知道,然后一直停留在不知道中,就会很困惑很迷茫。 我讲个例子。怎么找工作呀?我不知道。怎么写简历?我不知道。他就困惑了。随便做一个以为自己做完了,其实没做完,因为他还是需要不断地去了解。今天我要告诉大家,不知道东西是正常的,如果你都知道的话,你就成专家了吗?你不知道东西是正常的。有个人这么说过,随着人类对世界知识的了解,发现自己不知道的东西越来越多。你觉得奇怪吗?这世界的东西不应该是随着我知道的越多,我不知道的就越来越少吗?后来事实证明我们越是知道的多,发现自己不知道的也越来越多。但这种情况却不会给人带来困惑,因为他会继续不断的探索下去。

我先把大家带到《创世记》里,当神创造了宇宙万物,神创造了地上的东西,祂让亚当、夏娃管理这地上的东西。但如果上帝创造这地上的东西都是已经完美了,那亚当、夏娃还管理什么?你有没有想过这个问题?他管理什么呢?神既然创造的是完美的,为什么还需要我们去管理呢?因为上帝创造的虽然是完美的,但祂还是留了一些东西可以让我们发挥。就是让我们去探索、了解、认识祂的创造,在这个过程中不断的探索、了解、认识神。也就是说认识神是无止境的,那认识神所创造的东西其实也是无止境的。这就是为什么你知道的越多,你不知道的也越多。如果这个世界所有的东西你都知道了,没有什么需要知道了,你活着就没有意思了。正因为神留了一部分让我们去探索、了解,探索、了解本身就是我们活着的味道所在。 你现在还困惑吗?你说我很困惑,我很多东西都不知道。那我告诉你:你不知道是正常的,然后你的任务就是把那些不知道的弄知道了,就没有困惑了。

那怎么往前走呢?从不知道的状态,到知道的状态,怎么走?我们当中有没有玩过拼图?把一大堆的一块块的由一张图出来的碎片拼到一起。你怎么拼呢?从哪里入手开始拼?从角,你找到四个角,因为角是个直边的。所以从那里开始、从最简单的地方开始。如果你从四面都不是平直的边线,就是中间那一片开始,你开始不了,因为那是最复杂的一片。所以在探索、在从不知道到知道的过程中,要从最简单的开始。 人解决问题为什么会困惑?因为他一开始就找到最难的地方来解决,他当然会困惑了。如果我是他,我也会困惑。如果从最简单的开始,从角、边开始,一旦开始了,接下来就容易了。所有的东西它都有个简单的地方让你去开始,你能不能找到呢?也就是说在整个探索的过程也是一个从不完整信息到完整信息的演变过程。为什么在教会里有很多人有不同的意见?因为他看到的东西是不一样的。他大概拿到了几片拼图来找牧师说:你看教会怎么是这样?因为你手里只有那几片。但如果你把这个拼图都拼起来了,你就不一样。所以整片拼起来是个什么样的感觉?整片拼起来就是个有体系的信仰。 所以今天弟兄姐妹你会发现,有些弟兄姐妹说牧师是一本书。我想我应该是好几本书。我过去这些年其实探索了很多的课题,为什么探索这些课题?因为我觉得我迷惑、我困惑、我不知道。我最开始的困惑是从我不知道我为什么活着开始的。我找答案找到了神,然后就开始了人生奇妙的旅程。所以神常常在我的生命当中做一些奇妙的有启示性的工作,然后我就去探索一个课题、两个课题、三个课题。过去的这些年我下了大量的功夫在做这些工作,做这些工作其实使人生添了很多的乐趣。然后就从不知道到知道,在这个过程中最重要的一个能力是琢磨。

你们有琢磨过吗?琢磨东西很有意思的。比如说因为我的工作,我就看到电脑房里的线,电脑房里有几百架服务器、交换机,它们的线成千上万的,看起来很恐怖,一旦乱了以后你就不知道该怎么办。就像你在家里安装的时候,一会儿那地方就是乱糟糟的线,你看着都烦。我看了以后就很困惑,这东西怎么整理?问题是我不但要把这个问题解决了,我还要去维护它,当出问题后可以马上找到问题,如果那是一团乱麻,你就会极其的痛苦。我在解决这个问题的时候,我就闲着没事的时候就去机房,看着它,然后琢磨。回到办公室我再拿笔画,怎么弄怎么不合适,后来有一天我终于琢磨出来了。我怎么解决这些问题:我设计了一个叫线的管理东西。线为什么会乱?因为它有多余的长度,我抓住了事物的本质,因为线的长度刚好是它所需要的长度,你放上去就不会有多余,不会乱;如果它不是刚好的,多出一块来,你就会很烦,因为你绕线也不是,不绕线也不是,掐断它又结不回去。后来我抓住了一个本质,就是多余线的管理。 什么事情琢磨了以后找到规律,拼图找到拼图的规律,做线找到线的规律,找工作找到找工作的规律,写简历找到写简历的规律,把事物的规律都找到了,你就不困惑了 。问题就是抓住问题的本质。琢磨、探索、了解是我们人最重要的一个特征。如果一个人他遇到问题的第一反应就是我不知道啊,为什么会是这样,他必定会困惑。今天我告诉大家,学习是有本质的规律的,一个人怎么学习是有方法的,这个东西需要琢磨。我有一个习惯,我坐地铁、飞机、火车时,很少脑袋是闲着的。如果你去看的话会发现,我的本子上都是一堆一堆的字。为什么会这样呢?因为我一直在琢磨。

比如说,十月和十一月我们经历的这些活动,我没有抓住事物的本质,但是我会探索。现在我就可以告诉你我已经抓住事物的本质了,我知道我在干什么。比如教会必须是个网络教会,因为它大幅度的提升了运转效率。那接下来怎么办?我不能一直只有网络教会,我掌握了一个事物发展的规律:定期、轮班地把他们带到近距来受训,建立我们亲密的关系。我总是在琢磨,琢磨不出来的时候就和教会近距的弟兄姐妹聊一聊,聊天的过程中我也在琢磨,他们经常看到我思考时的表情。琢磨的东西,一边试,一边划,一边弄,就琢磨出来了。所以,别停在困惑中,要往前走。

我最近琢磨了一件事,就是我为什么要读大学。你说琢磨它有没有价值?有价值,因为我抓住了这个事物的本质:为了谋生。如果为了谋生,你必须有学位,但如果你有学位没有能力,你怎么办呢?你不能谋生。这件事就在我头脑里运转,后来我琢磨出来了,从小就训练这个人的谋生能力。然后我就问我自己,学的那些东西真的有用吗?几何、数学、代数好像没什么太大用。因为我是做电脑的,我们出生在第四次工业革命中,你还需要拿笔算吗?不需要了。你只要给电脑一个方程式,它就能立刻给你结果,根本不需要你去推算。我们学习用手推算浪费时间了吗?浪费了。我们把这些时间节省下来去训练自己的谋生技能不好吗?好啊。所以职业规划要在我们什么时候做呢?我就开始抓这个本质。 当然如果像KR姐妹这样可以考上清华、北大的要去考,那没有问题。但如果考一个三本院校的就算了吧。三本出来也是失业,还不如现在就去训练谋生技能。三本出来不沾染恶习,不交一群损友就很不错了。我们就在琢磨这些事情的过程中挖掘事物的基本规律。如果小学毕业就给他一个定位,让他拿出10%、20%或30%的时间操练他的谋生能力,有没有学位照样活。后来我研究到发达国家,他们有一个特点,如果你今天去到澳洲的纽西兰,你会发现这些地方蓝领工人的收入还蛮高的,你如果是广东的修下水道的工人,一个月的收入很高。那为什么收入高而没人做呢?因为人们都被误导去考大学,读了个三本,然后没有时间整这些,毕业后整这些也不会。然后继续耗着,宁愿赚一个很微薄的收入,也不愿去做这些事情。

我弟弟是一个典型的没有学历的人,高中毕业,但他现在做电工做的很好,在我们家那一带都叫他刘师傅,他们都说装修找刘师傅活干的好,找他放心。谋生有问题吗?没有,一点都没有。但是轮到他儿子了,我的弟弟和弟媳他们没有找到事物的本质,最后送孩子去上了个非一本院校的大学,出来以后不知道干什么。所以七月我回家的时候和他们在一起探讨了这个问题,但是他们仔细去琢磨了吗?没有,还是按照人以前固有的思维去生活,时代变革的时候你怎么办呢?结果就被甩下来了。 所以要有真本领。我们当中有一种恐慌,不是经济上和政治上的恐慌,而是本领恐慌。你要有一种本领恐慌的感觉。你有没有本领,如果没有你能干什么呢?你靠什么谋生?这是很要命的。当然你别进到工业4.0时代要淘汰的行业里去,你进到淘汰的行业你就完蛋了。我看了工业4.0时代中,你进到教会中做全职同工是最好的选择,但是我要不要你还是另一回事。你要知道解决人的精神问题,机器很难做到;解决人属灵辖制的问题,电脑很难解决的,这需要我们这些服侍的人。

琢磨就是走出来的关键,从困惑中走出来需要你去探索、了解、琢磨,你琢磨不出来的时候你会发现一个关键:我去找牧师,我去找我的牧区长,找我的牧者,然后我们去探索、去了解。所以今天我们就开始了解,一定要养成探索、琢磨的习惯。最近我发现房地产是个很有意思的东西,富有的人都和房地产有关系。你能不能拿出1%的时间去了解房地产,然后你就知道房地产是如何运作的,会从中发现机会,然后抓住它,你就可以获得巨大的财富。所以养成探索、琢磨的习惯是非常重要的,因为那是神的形象,神要我们管理这个世界,你不琢磨你怎么管理呢?如果你只会拍脑袋,拍出豆腐脑来也是没用的,所以我们要开始学习、探索、寻找。

我认识一个人,他很有意思。我们那个年代服装很土,我们追剧觉得好看是觉得那里面的衣服好看,可是那个年代就没有人琢磨。但是大栅栏里有个裁缝店里的老板很厉害,一有电影就去看,尤其是外国的电影。他看到电影中好看的衣服,就回来琢磨,然后去裁制,两个礼拜后,一样的服装就挂在店里了,卖的很火爆。别的裁缝店不赚钱,他的裁缝店海量赚钱。你说他这人多有意思,他从电影院里出来,电影演的什么他不知道,他是为了看衣服来的。他这个人很厉害。如果让你和我去看这个电影,看完后只知道那个故事,其他的什么也不知道。这就是不知道琢磨和探索。 还有一个我所了解的一个人,也很有意思。他开了一家餐馆,每个礼拜六他不在自己的餐馆吃饭,而是去别的餐馆点它的招牌菜。回到家后,他就在厨房做,直到做出同样的菜肴。然后在自己的餐馆里,凡是要一桌酒席的就免费送这道菜,客人觉得好吃,下次再来的时候就专门点这道菜,卖的很火。他每个礼拜出去吃,每个礼拜做实验,每个礼拜创新,每个礼拜推出新的产品,你说他的餐馆能不火红吗?所以你要琢磨呀。最要命的是我们的弟兄姐妹两眼无神,表情木讷,然后说:我不知道啊。这样怎么能行?

琢磨需要一个观念:开放的心态。你一开始就觉得那不可能的话就完了,困惑就成了你唯一的可能,不走出来就会困惑一辈子。我的触觉非常灵敏,是因为我过去这些年训练出来的。有个人跟我说:牧师,我投了很多简历,没有人回应。这时你就要问自己为什么,一问他说是不是有这样那样的原因。他知道这个问题的原因,那他之前干什么了?他抱着就这样喽的心态。永远不要告诉自己就是这样,而是学会去探索更好的。所以要抱着开放的心态,除去那种不可能的观念,这种观念害死人。我们教会现在有绿布这样的环境,都是探索的结果;我们教会用的软件,我探索了半年,我知道我想要的是什么样的,就一直去摸索,问题是管理这个系统的人不去探索,我一个人去弄,等于说我一个人做了3-5个人的工作。所以今天咱们弟兄姐妹要开始学会了解困惑的本质。什么东西都架不住琢磨,你只需要有个笔记本和一支笔,闲着无事时就可以画一画。 写《本领恐慌》的这个人没有读过大学,他可以考上清华、北大,他没有读,但他比清华、北大毕业的人厉害的多,高二时辍学,然后写了这本书。他写完这本书时比JX弟兄大不了几岁,JX弟兄15岁的时候读的这本书。我们必须要学会一种比较实际的思维模式,有一些基督教的牧师认为,毛泽东无神论者,就不能说他的话。为什么不能说?毛泽东写的实践论很好,他的矛盾论也很好,邓小平说的实践是检验真理的唯一标准也很好。你不能就他们全部否定了。所以我鼓励弟兄姐妹学会读书。

《怎样成为谋划大师?》第一熟读兵书,《孙子兵法》一定要读;然后博览群书,第三读观大略,第四演练揣摩,然后案例演习,他洋洋洒洒写了很多。你要知道一个人不琢磨、不学习、不探索的话,即使机会飘到你眼前你也不一定抓得住。所以今天咱们弟兄姐妹要开始学习这些东西。他说的不一定对,但是你可以拿来作参考,去揣摩一下,这些人所说的东西都很有意思。这谋划能力叫四两拨千斤,就是杠杆。今天我要教大家一件事,就是一定要学会使用杠杆,像财务杠杆就是银行贷款。我给大家举个例子,手里有50万,你又贷款了50万,然后你买了100万的产业,这100万的产业翻了一番变成200万。那你这50万元赚了多少钱?赚了150万,是它的3倍,因为有银行的50万在里面运作,这就是杠杆。但是我不鼓励过度借贷,大家要学会管理自己的财务。

我在琢磨这些事的时候,我相信很多牧师没有琢磨过,当然也有牧师琢磨,今天我就告诉大家他们没琢磨的地方在哪。我就想:神啊,如果我就天天祷告,我不读数学、英语、汉语、物理,然后我去考大学的话,我可以考上吗?神没理我,祂懒得理我。我又问:神啊,我祷告、读诗经、唱歌,可是我考试没考好,因为什么?后来我琢磨出来了,这些东西你不能够相互取代,祷告不能取代读圣经,读圣经也不能取代祷告;灵里祷告不能取代悟性祷告,悟性祷告不能取代灵里祷告,也就是说它必须是个完整的,读圣经不能取代读数学,读数学也不能取代读圣经。我们日常生活中的这些事,你必须一样样地弄清楚。不要等到你50、60岁时你问神,神为什么要这样?神会回答你:因为你太懒,你什么也不干、不琢磨。 有一些基督徒的宗教味非常的浓厚,我本身非常讨厌宗教味,在我身上你就看不到宗教味,虽然我做医治释放非常厉害,但是我身上真的没有宗教味,我也不会在台上讲宗教味十足的东西,在台下活的很世俗,我台上台下我都是我,我就是那个云教会的云牧师。我虽然在云里雾里活着,但我的脚还站在地上。比如说我们讲的这些题目如时间管理、情绪管理,那都是我琢磨出来的。我一边从别人那里学习,一边琢磨,就成了今天我们教会活出丰盛的内容,包括压力管理,压力是什么,这都是你必须了解的。惧怕这事我研究惧怕很长一段时间,我发现很多人身上有惧怕,慢慢的我对惧怕就有了个很深刻的了解,咱们今天不讲惧怕,就讲你遇到一件事情,你不要让它留在困惑当中。

模糊的东西都会产生困惑,都不好,要开始养成爱琢磨的习惯,当我们有了这种习惯,我们的求知欲就会变得很强烈。所以我很感谢神,神创造我们,让我们管理这地上的万物,你不琢磨琢磨管理?压力、情绪、时间、创新都管理不了,什么都管理不了的话,你在干什么呢?在混吃等死。所以弟兄姐妹咱们看事物要看到本质。看到本质时,你会感动享受。也就是说当你研究一个东西时,突然茅塞顿开,脑洞大开,一下看到事物的本质,然后你就会很享受,它所带来的满足感超越了很多东西。我们当中有护士、幼儿教师、学生、读博士、弄物流的、做客服的,你有没有抓到你做事的本质。 今天我告诉大家,你脑袋不精明,就会一辈子当个穷打工的。我观察到做生意的人很少会再去打工,我观察发现原因一是他可能回不来了,二是他不要回来。我发现,做生意有个特点:卯对了一个机会,它所带来的效益是你打工三五年也带不来的。当商人得到这个好处后,他就一直会追求这个好处,不会再去打工,但你做生意也要考察做什么、怎么做。这是需要慢慢去揣摩了解的,我说的不一定对,我的考察也不一定都对,但是你开始去了解,开始读书的时候,你就不一样了。教会买了一堆书,《如何做网红》KR姐妹去读,《工业4.0》我来读,等等。甚至对于读书这件事都可以琢磨,我读书的方法对不对呢?我告诉你,读书千万不要用一种被动的方法,要去积极主动阅读,带着问题读书。我读书的时候,比如说《赢在扭转力》,我就想,这本书怎么把我要写的都写了。所以有些时候你会发现你读的东西和你的想法是雷同的,这样的书你读的很快,然后在它的基础上抓住它的本质。

我总结一下,从困惑中走出来就是养成揣摩、探索的习惯,不要停留在无知里。自己写一个表,我什么东西知道,什么东西不知道,什么东西需要我知道了解,然后你就去了解、探索、琢磨,你总会找到,因为神要的就是这样的人。 **因为凡祈求的就得着。寻找的就寻见。叩门的就给他开门。(《路加福音》11:10)** 不但指属灵的事,连着世上的管理的事都如此。阿门!
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