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Good day! Today we will delve into our second lecture, focusing on “Methods of Active Learning.” Our course is structured to provide you with well-organized logical frameworks and concepts, but the real practice comes later. Aim to be an active learner. If you are in your early teens, or even just seven or eight and starting your education, remember my words: be an active learner. Today, we will specifically address Methods of Active Learning because method is crucial. Many struggle in their studies, repeatedly using absurd, inefficient, and frankly terrible learning methods, hoping for eventual success. Let me assure you, there is no need to try such folly; with flawed methods, your efforts will be in vain, even until your final days.

I will emphasize today that success in any endeavor hinges on having the right approach. Without the right method, achieving the desired outcome is impossible. My intention is not merely to chant, Be an active learner, be an active learner! like a nagging mother, but rather to provide you with actionable methods.

I. The Starting Point of Active Learning: Asking Questions

If you can articulate a problem with clarity, you are already well-advanced. The remaining task is to solve the problem. Just today, a brother called me through our counseling hotline, requesting my guidance. I asked, Guidance on what? He replied, Teacher, I don't know what to study. He presented a formidable challenge right from the start. Did he think he could stump me? While he may not know what to study, I know, do I not? But the matter itself poses a question: We must first clarify what I should study.

Does the phrase I don’t know what to study raise a question? Yes, it does. Has it begun? Yes, it has. Congratulations. As long as there is a question, you have initiated active learning, for we are problem-solvers. It is good to have problems. If you say, Teacher, I have too many problems, then we raise another question: Which one should I solve first? Some accumulate unresolved problems from their teens into their twenties, and then into their thirties. Today, they find themselves in their thirties, accomplishing nothing. The problem? Ineffective methods. I refuse to believe that you aspire to be inept; undoubtedly, you have put in considerable effort over the years.

So here is the crux: Where to begin? Begin with asking questions. We will encounter many problems in our lives. We are not short of problems; what we lack is learning and problem-solving skills. This includes deciding what to learn, what to learn first, what to learn later, how to learn, and how to start. Do these resonate with you? Surely. Do not think that merely listening to me concludes matters; your work has only just begun. Do not seek me out immediately; you must first ponder on these things. Sadly, many begin but quickly abandon the effort. They raise a question only to leave it unanswered. Can they possibly improve if they accumulate such unresolved issues?

For example, someone might be responsible for managing inventory, but as an accountant, they feel unsure how to proceed, saying, I don’t know how to manage it. I don’t know where to start, or what to do. Has he ended? Yes. Why? Because having posed a problem, the next step is to find a method to solve it. Today, I will explain that the method for active learning centers on this. I will give many examples to illustrate that merely raising a question is insufficient. One must then resolve the question.

There is too much complaining these days. Many face severe economic pressures and intense competition, and their response is lament. Lamenting accomplishes nothing. I heard someone say once, It’s all the fault of the system. I said, What systemic issue? This is your issue. Have I taken on human resources responsibilities? Many times. Many will say, It’s all my boss’s fault.” No! It is your problem.

So eliminate excuses. There may be countless excuses, but they are useless. There may be endless complaints, but they achieve nothing. People either presume they know, do not want to know, or believe it is impossible to know. Does this not degrade people? Nonsense, chaos, and disorder! One must have a clear objective. Take note of the words I often repeat: Clear objective, defined strategy, correct method. To accomplish something, one must have a clear objective, from which a defined strategy develops. Once the objective is set, a strategy must then be formulated. Defined strategy, correct method. Many establish a goal and stop there, ending the effort prematurely.

For example, during the early days of China's opening up, there was an old tailor in Beijing who ran a tailor shop. In those days, tailor shops were quite successful because ready-made clothes were not readily available. This old man was exceptional; he would attend every movie showing, focusing specifically on what the male and female leads wore. Upon leaving the cinema, if you asked him about the plot, he would not be able to tell you anything, but he knew exactly what they wore. Incredible, right? Absolutely brilliant. He was oblivious to the storyline, his mind obsessed with the clothes. What a talent! He would begin making the clothes the very next day. If he did not fully understand a particular outfit after one viewing, he would watch the movie two or three more times. Within a week, the clothes would be hanging on the rack. Customers would come in, see the outfit, and exclaim, Yes, that's exactly what I want. The celebrity effect was clear and his business flourished.

He had a clear objective; he was there to study the clothes, not to watch the movie. He could not have recounted the plot, but he knew exactly what they wore, often sketching notes. Remarkable! A person with a clear objective is difficult to confuse. Many of us simply get caught up in the spectacle, isn't that so? Avoid speaking nonsense, creating chaos, and living in disorder, or you will merely end up blind to everything. Remember, a person devoid of learning is helpless. Unable to resolve problems, they become frustrated. This frustration leads to illness, a straightforward and logical sequence. Seeking medical help further drains their finances, all stemming from a lack of learning. The most important attitude is to recognize: I am helpless; I do not understand; I have not figured this out. What should the correct approach be? Consider it carefully; these are the issues we face daily.

Recently, a sister in our community spoke about her brother, who tends to say inappropriate things. She firmly corrected him. Why? Because she did not know how to handle their relationship, leading to strain. This strained relationship caused distress for the older family members and hardship for the siblings. Why? Because they lacked the knowledge and the skills. I offered her some advice. My advice was effective: a few jokes. Oh, here comes the esteemed young master of the Li family! I am honored to greet you! Then, a courteous gesture from the Qing Dynasty, fluttering the sleeves. These gestures can lighten the mood, showing you honor him. He may lack achievement but still seeks respect from his family. He does not seek to learn or grow. When dealing with such individuals, we must learn and avoid confrontation.

In the Northeast, and in Tianjin too, people are fond of telling jokes. The people in the South are too serious, and become strained and this often brings hardship. Helplessness leads to frustration, and frustration leads to illness, and that comes from a lack of learning. Now we must learn a few tricks, whether from the Northeast or the Northwest, as long as they are useful. Some will say, Teacher, he does not understand. Then, as Northerners would say, What are you fussing about? Look at you showing off your new thermos! That is the flavor of Northerner's speech. As they talk, everyone laughs, which is quite entertaining. “What are you fussing about?” they ask. He will come over to take a look. If you put on a Zhao Benshan hat or a Xiao Shenyang’s skirt, it will all be eye-catching and very attractive! He will laugh and forget the other things.

So today, we are discussing methods of active learning, using a few simple questions as examples. Last time, I spoke of a problem-based approach, but I am unsure what the English translation is. So let's simply use the English acronym PBL.

II. I Do Not Know What to Study?

I do not know what to study? Surely this sentiment resonates with many of you? When I ask you to learn, you often say, I don't know what to study. This is a familiar refrain, right? Today, we will examine this. It is not that you are entirely ignorant, but perhaps overwhelmed by too many problems. It is overwhelming, like a mountain, and you do not know where to start. You say, I don't know what to study? Another possibility: You are not clueless and likely know the problems you face.

Let us use the most troubling issues that plague us, those that cause us the most suffering, or those that prevent us from earning a living. Can we list these problems? Once they are listed, you recognize, Ah, now I know. I don't know what I need to study, but I can list my problems.” For example, I run a small shop, but I don’t know how to manage it.” Or, I am graduating from high school, and I don’t know what to do after graduation. Now the problems are identified. Right? We then list our problems and consider what we know and what we don't know. Is this hard? Begin listing them now.

For example, a poor relationship between siblings distresses their mother. We list this problem and explore how to address it and what to learn. Once this is resolved, we move on to the next problem. Problems are solved one by one, right? Some may ask, Why do I repeatedly offend God? We begin to study. You said, I don't know what to learn? Today, I am telling you to learn how to solve your current problems. How's that for straightforward? You say you don't know how?

For example, a sixteen-year-old student is labeled as having a learning disability by his teacher. His father diligently tries to tutor him in mathematics. Tutoring someone with a learning disability in mathematics? Does that make sense? As the father lectures, his voice grows louder, and the son’s voice grows louder as well. Are they working against each other? Is this what the boy needs to study? Therefore, we must know what issue to address.

If you were the father, what would your problem be? What problem should I address now? What should I do? How should I proceed? Should I immediately try to teach him these things? What is the point? It is useless. I asked the father, Did you listen to what I said before? He said, Yes, I did. I asked, If you listened, why didn't you act accordingly? Because the child learns these things passively. Does continuing with a passive approach yield improvement?

Then he said, Teacher, what should I do now? I said, Get your child to learn to use their hands. If they don't, they will be unemployed after graduation. What do we do now? Develop a habit of doing things with your hands. Even if the toilet is clogged, we can unclog it. That’s life. Learn to install something, to fix something with your hands. Even learning a trade, like being a barber, is a good option. He said, I'm not good at math, but I can learn to unclog toilets, right? Isn't that the idea?

Let's learn what we can learn. You see, he says, I don't know what to learn. Now you know, right? List our problems. For example, if you want to open a shop in the future, you have to learn how to open a shop, right? You have to learn the relevant knowledge. How do we learn to open a shop? First, work in a shop. In fact, a few words can solve it. Is it hard? Not hard, right?

So many parents, including many children, are doing it wrong. How are children ruined? They are ruined by their parents because they don't know what to do. In fact, to open a shop, you work in someone else's shop, and after a while, you learn those things, right? Once you've learned, you can open your own shop. It's very simple. So now you know what to learn, right? For example, if I open a small shop and I hire an employee, and I don't know how to manage them, what should I do? You learn how to manage, right?

My mother knows how to manage. Where did my mother learn it from? She learned it from the university of life. But many people don't know how to learn. They give money to the school, but they don't learn anything. Do you understand? This is called passive learning. Since ancient times, China has had a habit called apprenticeship. You see how others manage, and you learn from those who manage well. You look at the service industry, how does Haidilao do it? How can service be improved? How are employees motivated? What is the right way to do it? Learn it slowly. I'll tell you more about this later. There's a lecture later on how to use resources. Do you have many problems today? Yes, many. So this is how to start learning.

III. Teacher, Where Do I Start Learning?

Some people say, Teacher, I don't know where to start learning. Write down the problem and start learning from there. That is, when you list these problems, focus on the ones that bother you the most, the ones that waste the most time. You don't have time because these things eat it up. And you can't fix them, so you list these things. Then you see, okay, you definitely know this thing. You can't say you don't know. You definitely know some things when you encounter problems; there are some things you don't know; there are some things you need to dig out to know. Right? Then we start solving the problem, and the second problem is solved easily. How simple, do I need to answer? Just solve the problem with the highest return.

Then you say, Teacher, I can't solve this problem. That's okay. Can we solve a problem that doesn't have such a high return, but I think I can solve it? Right? Don't look for a difficult one, first look for a simple one. The Art of War says: be sure to attack the enemy's weakest point first. Simple, isn't it? You say, Teacher, is this a method? What else could it be? My methods are super simple, even old women can understand them. Of course, there are many old women among us, so you must understand it; and the men will understand it even better. What's so difficult about this? The things we summarize are easy to learn. How simple. Have you learned these two problems yet? We have learned these two problems. It's not difficult, we just confused ourselves, isn't that the case?

We are specifically looking for problems that we cannot solve, looking for the most difficult one, and as a result, we grind ourselves down until we have no confidence. Where do we start? Start with solving the problems we can solve. We leave the problems we can't solve for later. What we want to learn is to start with the problems we face. Don't be impatient. Solve one problem at a time. What's the rush? There’s no need to rush to the afterlife, right? Is everyone rushing to get into the urn? There’s no need to rush. People ruin their lives by being anxious. Being anxious to solve problems doesn't solve problems. Being anxious to get money from other people's pockets into your own pockets just doesn't work. Don't be anxious. If we solve one out of ten problems, then there are only nine left. You say, Teacher, I still know how to do this math. Then that’s good. If you solve one out of nine problems, then there are only eight left. He said, Teacher, do you think I am ignorant, telling me this elementary school math? In fact, I tell you, you only need to know addition and subtraction to make a lot of money. Do you understand? It’s not difficult. Where is it so difficult?

IV. How Do I Plan My Career Development?

You see, is career development a big topic? It is. So how do I plan my career development? I tell you, many young people get confused as they work, right? They don't know where to go in the future? They learned a lot of finance, but then they became accountants, wasting many years, isn't that the case? Some people studied computers, and then they went to paint, these are all real examples among us, then what did you go to college for? Later, when they came among us, they went to college and were cheated out of tens of thousands of dollars by their classmates, and they also took out a loan. After graduating from college, they owed tens of thousands of dollars. I really think their brains don't work very well. So why do we need shepherding, do we need co-workers? We need to master this knowledge, right? If you master this knowledge, you can help them. Some people say, Hey, it's not like this, it’s like that.” When I see these things, I feel that our pastor's burden is very heavy.

Among us, there was a sister who couldn't even afford to eat a few years ago. She accidentally got a job as a domestic helper. As she worked there, she ended up in the home of a very rich person, and then she started learning how to be a domestic helper. You should know that the salary is not low, it's all around fifteen thousand, and some of the better ones are thirty thousand. They are butlers in wealthy people's homes. As a result, her boss immigrated. They couldn't take the butler with them to immigrate. They can’t move the butler! As a result, her boss said, Do you want to stay and take care of my parents?

I ask you, what kind of job is taking care of the elderly? What kind of job is being a butler in a home? Are they the same job? How should you plan at this time? You have to make a decision. If I just want to be a caregiver, then that’s a caregiver. If I want to do domestic management, then that's domestic helper. That's different, so what is your career development direction? Where exactly are you developing? Then how should you make a decision? Many people get confused as they work. In fact, many times among us, you have been working in society for decades and occupied a position in a place.

That’s the case with this sister. Many years ago, she actually did a job. That job was actually a profession that was in demand. She quit. I said, Why did you quit? She said, I don't have any development. Alas, my goodness, how could there be no development at the beginning? So, how do you plan your career? For example, to take care of the elderly, that's not no development, it's just that we don't know where to develop, we don't know how to plan. Then this problem is very obvious: what will I do in the future? If you don't know, then learn. Let’s say you are a caregiver, can you start a caregiver company and become the boss of the company? Recruit a lot of caregivers, build a platform, and offer caregivers, I provide caregivers here. Can I do caregiver training? Am I the best caregiver among the caregivers? Can I sort out these caregivers' problems for them? That domestic helper and this problem are completely different. What we want to learn today is to start from solving these problems. You will find: Teacher, this problem doesn't look easy, but it's not difficult. Is it difficult? Does everyone think it's difficult? Is it as difficult as calculus? Is it as difficult as trigonometry? Where is it difficult? Right?

You ask me what carpentry is? Carpentry is just a few boards, long, flat, square, all square boxes, no matter how big the square box is, some are flatter, some are taller, some are thinner, some are longer, isn't that the case? Wardrobes are standing square boxes. Right? If you ask me, a table is just a longer square box. It’s just this thing. A TV stand is a longer and flatter square box. Do you understand?

How should I plan my career development? Today someone asked me, Teacher, what should I learn? What are you doing now? Customer service. Okay, can you do the work of your supervisor in customer service? I can't. Then learn. What are you doing now? I am managing influencers. Then can you do the work of the small leader of your department in managing influencers? I can't. Then learn. If you learn, learn, then you'll become a top student. You must go up. Every industry has its depths. Don't change tracks often, changing will confuse you, right? You will be confused as you work. This mountain looks higher than that mountain, but when you get to that mountain, it is not so high, isn't that the case? So planning your career is planning it this way.

Can you do your current job well? If you can't do it well, can you learn to do it well? Learn to do it well. Don't be down-to-earth. You just want to put other people's money into your own pockets, and they don't allow it, and you make yourself very uncomfortable. Give me the money, I won't give it! Give me the money, I won't give it! Hey? How can I give it? Unless you hold a knife in your hand and say give me the money! Then people wouldn't dare not give it. But today in society, how big is the risk, and the cost is also very high. In the end, the knife is gone, and in the end, you will go to prison to spend your days. Career development is not done this way. It's not about putting your money into my pockets, it's about solving your own problems and solving other people's problems.

Someone said, I studied computer networks in college. Let me go out and do computer networks, and then constantly improve and become a computer network expert. Is that good? That's good. My previous job started with customer service, and I became my leader's painkiller. My leader's pain became my pain. In the end, what happened? As I worked, I became better than my leader! But I tell you, thank God! My leader resigned! You say, Why are you saying that so quietly? I didn't make him resign, he wanted to resign himself. Why? He had to resign. God wanted him to resign. He couldn’t not resign, and I took his place. As I worked, I was able to do the work of my boss's manager! He resigned again. Ah? Don't speak loudly, I'll tell you secretly, I didn't do it, he wanted to do it himself, God wanted him to move, could he not move? I sat in his place. This is my career plan. I won't be thinking that this mountain is higher than that mountain, messing around and switching back and forth, right?

This career planning thing is that you need to do this well. You need to become a problem solver. You have already occupied a small piece of territory. Can you make that small piece of territory bigger? Just do this, do it down-to-earth. I tell you, to this day, I am definitely good at doing customer service. You say, Teacher, are you still doing customer service now? Yes. I do customer service at the highest level, why wouldn't I do it? So you learn this thing and start expanding. The fear is that you say, Ah, I have no growth, I'm fine here! I ask, Can you do your boss's job? No. What development? Look at your lousy appearance, hurry up and develop! Don't resign easily, don't change tracks easily! Changing tracks is troublesome. You are always in line. You see that this line is very long, so you change to another line and go to the end of that line, right? After queuing, you change to another line again. Isn't that just changing teams all your life? It's like going to McDonald's to buy a burger, changing a team for a while, and then changing a team again, never getting to eat that burger. Do you know what to learn? I know. Do you know what problems to solve? I know. How difficult is it? It's not difficult. The difficult thing is being down-to-earth.

5. How Do I Quickly Organise, Declutter and Clean?

Why am I bringing this up? Because you all need to do this. Take a look around your home. Is it in a state of squalor? If it is, then you are not a disciple. I have to tell everyone this, I often like to compliment myself. We have a sister among us who is quite remarkable. How so? After I tidied up, I found an Apple computer and five chargers. I asked, What do you need five chargers for? She replied, Teacher, you don't understand. I kept tidying up and couldn't find my charger, so I bought another one. Then I found the two chargers, and then I lost them again, so I bought a third one. Later, I couldn't find those either, so I bought a fourth one; and since I couldn't find those four, I ended up with five.

I said, Your arithmetic is quite impressive! One becomes two, two become three, three become four, and four become five. What's the point? The core issue is this problem of organisation, of categorisation. Always losing things, buying another one every time. Don't you think this is a problem? It is a problem. And believe me, I've been correcting her, teaching her how to organise for years! Many people type and tell me, Teacher, I have so many earphones, so many network cables, and I can never find them when I need them. Surely, many of you have this problem. Right? So, what to do? Why is it so messy? Because you don't know how to organise. I absolutely refuse to believe that you enjoy disorder, because once things are messy, you don't know how to fix it. Isn't that the case? I'm not wronging you, am I? Actually, I understand everyone very well, because once it's messy, it stays messy, because you don't know how to fix it. Today, we must learn how to organise.

Now, we must learn how to declutter, organise, and clean properly. So the issue is, ah, I didn't do it right. Doesn't that mean we need to learn? So let's start learning. Why is it that many people don't know how to organise? Let's answer this. Because after organising, it’s hard to find things, and taking things out makes it messy again. It's hard to take things out properly. But today, I'm telling you that I organise for the sake of easy access, and when I take something out, it doesn't become messy again. My method of organising is all about making it easy for me to use, access, and find items. How difficult do you think it was for me to summarise this? Many people tidy up but then can't find anything. They tidy up, but it's not functional. Taking something out makes it messy, tidying up makes it messy, and once it’s messy, you don't want to tidy up again. So, everyone learns today. For example, organising items in suitcases or cleaning rooms, everyone should cultivate a habit of learning.

How do I do this? Well, today I've raised this issue. Specifically, we have a course on organisation that everyone can take. Sometimes, when I look at our organisation courses, I think they take too much time. The organisation courses I teach are all about speed! If I tidy up once in two minutes, I don't mind; but if I have to tidy up for two hours each time, I really don't want to do it. Isn't that the case? You'll find that I tidy up extremely quickly! Why so fast? Because I first figure out how it should be tidied. When I'm organising, I'm thinking: how should I access it when I need it, how do I categorise everything.

For example, if this place is completely disorganised, I won't pick up one item and put it away neatly. No. I'll quickly sort things into several piles. I'm talking about details now, which I shouldn't be going into so much detail about, since we have this organisation course. But what's the method? You have to think: how many categories should I divide things into? Quickly divide them—this is called rough processing. After the rough processing, put items of one category here, and items of another category there. I start making a plan. Everything needs a plan. Then categorise everything, then put that pile there. After putting it away, this is called medium processing. The rest, during my leisure time, I will categorise and tidy up a little more. If I find it's not functional, I'll adjust it again. Understand?

Many of us do things ineffectively, and then we exhaust ourselves. Take the bathroom, for example. I'll tell you how I clean it. I clean the bathroom every time I shower, do you believe it? From the toilet to the walls. Why? Because I clean quickly, in two minutes. Actually, I'm telling you, I don't even need two minutes. As long as I use one or two minutes the first time I shower; one or two minutes the second time I shower; and thirty or forty seconds the third time; so every time I clean, it will never get dirty, messy, or have scales. Then, after a month, I'll specifically look at the areas with scales and scrub one corner this time, and another corner next time.

Do you know why I clean when I shower? Because it's easier to clean when showering. I'm not wearing clothes while cleaning; what do you think would happen if I wore a down jacket to clean the bathroom? It would get wet, and I'd have to clean the clothes. I just go ahead and do it directly. If some water splashes on me, I just rinse it off. Now you understand, right? So, what does this summarise? What is the key to speed? Why do people find learning strenuous? Because the method of learning is slow, and the method of doing things is slow. So, the ultimate skill is speed. If you cultivate a habit of being quick, whether it's working, doing things, or learning, won't you have plenty of time? The worst thing is dawdling. That's why I have rough processing, then medium processing, and then fine processing, because it's faster to do it this way! Doing fine processing directly is slow!

For example, if I have a suitcase and I'm about to travel, I'll write down on a piece of paper what I need to take, listing about twenty items. Then I'll quickly toss that item into the suitcase, and that item over there. I don't even pack it neatly. I just throw everything into the suitcase. When I'm about to leave, everything is inside. I quickly fold them neatly. It definitely won't be missing anything, and I'll check it off on the paper. So, if you're not quick, you'll dawdle. Once you dawdle, you won't want to do it. Once you don't want to do it, problems accumulate. Ultimately, it's a matter of method. Why is my living environment clean? I don't need anyone to take care of me. It's already good enough that I don't take care of others. I'm a very tidy person. Don't think that I'm clean because I have OCD. No. I'm clean, I don't have OCD, and I can also handle mess. I can live in any dirty environment for a short period of time, but it will definitely be clean after I've lived there for a while.

6. How Should I Write Documents and Take Notes?

You see, these things are all practical. The things you summarise, you think are high-level, but the things I summarise are always very practical. Very simple, straightforward. Actually, how do you write a document? How do you take notes? How do you take meeting minutes? You need to know that over the years, I've written so much. In English, it's probably tens of thousands of words, and even more in Chinese. When I'm writing, I didn't know how to write. Teacher, how do I write meeting minutes? If you search online, there are a lot of documents and courses teaching you how to write meeting minutes. Why do you have to ask me? Why not search for it first?

Writing everything is about the subject matter. Writing a novel is about the subject matter of novels, writing a resume is about the subject matter of resumes. So you see, whenever I encounter a problem—I don't know how to take meeting minutes—I learn. I don't know how to write a resume—I learn. I can take meeting minutes—where do I learn it? I go and search for other people's meeting minutes to see how they're written. I don't know how to take notes—I learn. There are courses like that. Everyone has a very bad habit, thinking that just because you've written something down, you can say, I did write it down. I ask, What did you write down? And they show me their notes. I say, You didn't write it down in your brain? Then what did you write it down for? It's just doing something aimlessly.

If I don't know how to take notes, I learn. I'm telling you, there's a lot of stuff online teaching you how to take notes. My biggest characteristic in doing things is the same as cleaning and organising—fast! One word solves it. What should you pay attention to when taking notes? Write clearly, write it down in your brain. Why write it down? It's to write it down in your brain, not in the computer. Now you understand. Learning things is very simple. As long as you're willing, just learn. There's plenty of material.

7. Any Complex Problem Is A Combination of Simple Problems

Any complex problem is a combination of simple problems. Note this down. Because you have a lie in your mind, which is, What the teacher says is definitely wrong. Why? Because it's too simple. This thing can't be that simple. I'm telling you, that's a bad habit. Because I know very well that I can do simple things, so I'll do slightly more complex things. If I encounter something slightly more complex, then I'll do something slightly more complex than that, and that becomes my ability to solve complex problems. Actually, complex problems are a combination of simple problems. Everyone, note this down.

Being able to break down a complex problem into several simple problems is not actually simple. That's why I'm teaching you this method. All complex problems are a combination of simple problems, there's no escaping that logic. If I'm doing customer service, what are the problems in customer service? First, customer service has to solve the customer's problems, that's business acumen. Business acumen is broad, so for example, in bank customer service, what kind of problems are there? Forgetting passwords, things like that. If you categorise them, there are just a few things. If you understand each one of those, then you'll definitely do well in customer service. The second is communication skills. You learn to speak, learn to communicate, learn to understand the customer’s problems. The third thing is slightly more difficult—how to pacify the customer's emotions. That's slightly more complex.

How can you pacify these problems? It's still a matter of language, art, and service attitude. Then you break it down further, and it becomes even simpler. How many kinds of emotions are there, what to do in this situation, what to do in that situation. What about doing sales? How do I do sales? Break sales down into several types. These are all complex problems. These complex problems are all a combination of several simple problems, there's no escaping that. Accounting is the same, HR as well, or doing projects. What is project management? The most important thing in project management is breaking down a complex project into several problems and assigning people to complete them. None of these problems are complex. What's complex is that we get overwhelmed as soon as we see these problems. Actually, it's not complex at all. That's why I'm teaching you this today. Really, I'm telling you, learning is like this. If you can do simple things, you can do complex things.

8. Do Not Leave Things Unfinished

Raise problems, solve problems. Not leaving things unfinished is my most important characteristic. Many people leave things unfinished, even if they have an appendectomy, they still leave things unfinished. Raising a problem is not explaining a problem, not passing the buck. Raising a problem is not about explaining the problem, but about solving the problem. That is key. This is what we talked about in the second lesson. Have you grasped the method? I will not say too much, everything starts from raising a problem, figuring out the problem, and after mastering it, you will find that the problem is so simple. If the problem is so simple, how can you not be a top student? If you master the method, you will definitely be a top student. Are there any children among us? If children have problems with studying, it's because they always want to do the difficult problems, and don't want to do the simple problems. They can't do the difficult ones, and they don't want to do the simple ones. Alright, let's move on to the next lesson.

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大家好!今天我们开始讲第二讲,这第二讲讲的是《主动学习的方法》,我们这个课程实际上就是把这逻辑和概念梳理好了告诉大家,真正的操练在后面呢。做一个主动学习的人,如果你现在十来岁,或者才七八岁刚刚开始学习,你就记住我的话:做一个主动学习的人。今天就讲《主动学习的方法》,因为方法很重要,很多人就是在学习上不得法,然后一而再、再而三的照着他那种很荒谬、很没有效率、很烂很烂的那个学习方法继续干,以为有一天会成功。我告诉你,你不用试了,用错误的方法,那你就学吧,就是等你进到棺材里头的时候,你也不行。 今天我要告诉你,什么东西都得方法对路,方法不对要想把东西做对了那是不可能的。今天我不是只说:做一个主动学习的人,做一个主动学习的人!像个老妈子在你后面念叨着,让你很烦,不是,我要告诉你的是方法。

一个人如果能够把问题描述得很清楚,那你就很厉害了,你剩下的问题就是解决这个问题了。今天有一位弟兄就打电话来给我说:你不是有辅导热线吗?你就辅导辅导我。我问:辅导你啥呀?他说,老师我不知道学啥。他一上来就给了一个难题。我说,你以为这能难得了我?你不知道学啥,我知道呀,是不是?但是这事本身就是提出了问题了。这事不是学啥的问题,是咱们要先整明白:我要学啥。 这个我不知道学啥?提出问题了没有?提出了。开始了没有?开始了。恭喜你。只要有问题你就开始了主动的学习。因为我们是解决问题的人。有问题好啊,你说:老师我问题太多。那咱再提出一个问题:我先解决哪一个?有的人十岁的问题没解决,积累到二十岁;二十岁的问题没解决,积累到三十岁;今天三十好几了,一看还是一事无成。啥问题?就是不得法。我绝对不相信你想做一个烂人,其实过去这些年你也下了不少功夫啊。 所以问题就来了,从哪开始?从提出问题开始。那我们一辈子会遇到很多问题,咱们就是不缺问题,缺的是啥?缺的是学习、缺的是解决问题。其中就包括,学什么?先学什么?后学什么?怎么学?怎么开始?这不都是问题吗?大家有这问题吗?肯定有。不要以为我说完了就完了,我说完了你的工作才刚刚开始。你别来问我,你得先琢磨。只是很多人刚刚开始,完了就结束了。提出了问题然后就没下文了。有的人还没开始就结束了,那你说他把问题积累到今天他能好得了吗?

比如说这个人他管的进销存,他是个会计不知道怎么管,就说:我不知道怎么管啊。我不知道从哪开始,我不知道怎么办。你说他结束了没有?结束了。为啥?提出了问题接下来就是找到解决这个问题的方法。今天我告诉你,主动学习的方法就是这个。今天我会透过很多的例子给大家说明,其实不是提出了问题就完事了,提出了问题要解决问题。 今天吐槽的人太多,现在我跟你讲,很多人面临一种严俊的经济形,很多人面临这充满竟争的世代,然后就吐槽。吐槽是没有用的,你看有一段时间我见到一个人说:唉!都是体制问题。我说,啥体制问题?就是你的问题。你说我是不是做了很多人资管理的工作?做了很多。很多人说:都是我老板的问题。不!都是你的问题。 所以别找借口,借口可以一大堆,但是没有任何用,吐槽可以说一大堆,但是没有什么用。要么是人自以为知道,要么就是不想知道,要么就认为不可能知道。你说这不是在败坏人吗?瞎说,瞎整,瞎弄。人一定要有一个目标,大家知不知道我常说的那句话,大家一定要记下来:目标清晰、策略明确、方法对路。你要想干成一件事一定是要目标清晰、然后发展到策略明确。我有了一个目标,然后我得有一个什么样的策略。策略明确、方法对路。其实很多人就是目标一定,完事了,然后就结束战斗了。

我给你举个例子,在老些年前,刚刚改革开放的时候,北京前门大石烂,有一个老头开了一个裁缝店,那个年代裁缝店还是非常不错的,为啥呢?买衣服不好买,现在那衣服都是工厂生产的。这老头厉害,一出电影他就去看,他就专门去看男主角、女主角他们穿的衣服。电影结束从电影院出来,你要是问他看了些啥?他啥也不知道,他就知道那衣服长啥样。厉害吧?老厉害了。这剧情是抓不住他的,他满脑子都是那衣服长啥样。这真是牛人呐!结果第二天他就做,他有的时候一场电影没看明白,他就看两次、三次,然后回来就开始弄,然后第二个礼拜衣服就挂在衣架上了。那人家进来一看到那衣服就说:对,这就是我要买的。这明星效应还是很明显的,结果他这生意非常的火爆。 人家目标明确啊,人家不是去看戏去了,人家是去看衣服去了。要说戏演了什么他绝对不知道,他就看明白了这衣服,还拿个笔在那边琢磨边画,哎哟,真厉害!我跟你讲,一个目标明确的人是很难被弄混乱了。就我们这些人一整就光看热闹去了,是不是这么回事?千万不要瞎说、瞎整、瞎弄、瞎活,最后就成了大瞎了。要知道这人不学习他就没招,然后一遇到问题他解决不了他就憋气,一憋气了他就生病,这是这么一个逻辑。生病然后就去看病,然后本来就没钱还要把钱给了医院,所以都是不学习的问题。最重要的态度就是:哦,我没招,我没整明白,我没整对。那整对的应该是啥样?你慢慢琢磨,咱们整天面对的问题全是这些。 前两天咱们当中有个姐妹的弟弟,其实岁数都挺大了,她弟弟就挺浑经常说一些不上道的话。结束她就跟她弟弟认真了,为啥?不知道关系如何处理,所以关系就很辛苦,这关系一辛苦老人也辛苦,姐弟俩也辛苦。为啥?不知道啊,没招啊。后来我教她招,那我教的招好啊,说几句笑话是不是:哎呀,李家大公子驾到,有失远迎!再来一个清朝的,满族人的礼节,啪啪!两个袖子呼噜呼噜,咔!这来一把大家就觉得也挺好玩,但是这也是一个尊荣,他就希望家里头的人都尊荣他。他又没料,又希望人家尊荣他,他就是那没招的人,他也不学,也不成长。但是咱们面对这种人的时候,咱们得学呀,别较劲。

所以我跟你讲,东北有一个特点,东北人爱说笑话,天津也人爱说笑话,这都是爱说笑话的城市。这南方人就太严肃了,一整就较上劲了,结果弄得很辛苦。所以没招就憋气,一憋气就生病,就是不学习。现在咱得整几把招,管他是东北的招还是西北的招,有招就行。有的人就说:老师他听不懂。那我们东北人就会说:你鼓啾啥呢?你看你买了一个热水杯,你在那嘚瑟没完了你啊?那东北人说话它就这种味道。说着说着,大家就哈哈大笑,挺有意思啊。你鼓啾啥呢?我看看,他就过来看看。如果你再整一顶赵本山那帽,大家知道赵本山那帽吧?再整一个小沈阳的裙子,那出去以后吸眼球,嘎嘎的,老吸睛啦!那好笑的这不就忘了其他的了。 所以今天咱们就说一说主动学习的方法,说主动学习的方法我就使用几个简单的问题做例子。我不是上次跟你讲,叫做解题式,我也不知道英文翻译过来叫啥,干脆就用这英文PBL,以后再说这种学习方法咱就用PBL。

我不知道学什么?这问题大家听了一定有同感是不是?我一让你学习,你就会说:我不知道学啥呀?大家肯定对这熟悉吧?今天咱们就试试。其实你不是完全不知道,只是啥呢?可能是问题太多。那问题像一座山似的,不知道从哪开始。就说:我不知道学啥?另外一个是,其实你也不是说不知道,你肯定知道你所面临的问题。 我给大家举个例子,我们就把现在最搅扰我们的,让我们最难受的问题,或者是让我们赚不到钱的,咱把这些问题例出来行不行?例出来了以后,你说,那我知道了,我不知道我要学啥,我就列出我的问题。我如果开一个小店,我不知道如何管理我的小店?第二就是我高中快毕业了,我不知道我毕业之后要干啥?这不是问题就出来了。是不是?那列出我们的问题,然后看看我们知道些啥?我们不知道些啥?这东西有多难?你现在就开始列一列。 比如说,这姐弟俩的关系不好,让他们家的老太太整天闹心,那咱们就列出这个问题,咱们就看看需要怎么整,然后咱们该学啥,要怎么处理?你把这些事处理好了,咱们再找一个问题,问题不就是一个一个解决的吗?有的人就说:我为什么反复的得罪神?咱们就开始学习。你说,我不知道学什么?今天我告诉你,就是让你学解决你现在的问题。这东西简单了吧?你说不知道怎么弄。

比如说:我不知道该学什么?但是我知道我现在的问题。那你现在该知道了吧?就该知道了。一旦要解决问题,一下子就清楚了。比如说这孩子十六岁了,上学老师给他贴了一个标签,贴了什么标签呢?学习障碍。然后他爸爸就很努力的给他补数学,学习障碍补数学?听着是不是脑袋有点毛病?然后讲着讲着他爸爸的声音就越来越大,儿子声音也越来越大。干上了,到底这是不是该学的?所以我们今天就不知道要解决啥问题。 那如果你是个爸爸你的问题是啥:我现在应该解决什么问题?我应该怎么做?我要如何做?我是不是要一上来就教孩子这些东西?这有啥用?啥用也没有。我就问这个爸爸:我以前讲的你听进去了没有?他说,听进去了。那我说听进去了为什么不照着做?因为孩子学的这些东西那些都是很被动的,那接着照着被动的方式整能好吗? 然后他说:那老师你说现在该怎么办?我说:你带着孩子学会动手,他以后一毕业他就失业,然后现在怎么办?养成一个动手的习惯,哪怕是说马桶堵了咱们能够把马桶捅开,这就可以生活了。学会安装一个什么东西,动手解决一个什么东西。哪怕是说你学一门手艺,做一个理发师,他不就是可以学呗。他说,我学数学不行,但我学通马桶我还可以吧?是不是这么回事?

咱们就学点咱们能学的。就是你看他说:我不知道学什么?现在知道了吧?就是列出我们的问题。比如你将来要开个店,那你不得学习怎么开店吗?你就得把开店有关的这些知识,怎么学?咱怎么学开店?先到一个店里打工, 其实几句话就解决了。难吗?不难吧。 所以说小孩,包括很多父母都整错了。小孩怎么就给败坏了?因为被爸爸妈妈给败坏了。因为他们不知道。其实开店,你到人家店里打工,整吧整吧,哦,这些东西就学会了是吧?学会了你自己开个店,这事很简单。所以现在知道要学什么了吧?比如我开个小店,我招了一个员工,我员工管理我不会管,那你要怎办?你就学怎么管,是不是? 那我妈就会管,我妈都是从啥地方学的呢?都是从社会大学学来的。但是很多人都不知道怎么学,都是到学校里面把钱给人家,结果什么也没学会。听明白了吗?这都叫做被动学习。我们至古以来中国就有一个习惯,就叫做学徒,你看人家怎么管的,去学管得好的。你看服务业,人家海底捞怎么干的?服务怎么能够搞上去?员工怎么被激励?怎么弄才算是对的?这事慢慢学呗。待会我再给你讲这些,后面有一讲讲的是:怎么使用资源?你今天面临的问题多不多?多啊。那这不就开始学呗。

有的人就说:老师我不知道从哪里开始学习?你把这问题记下来,就从这开始学习。也就是当你列出这些问题里头,那些搅扰你最多的问题,耽误你时间最多的问题。你没有时间就被这些事给吃掉了。然后你又不会整,你就例出这些东西来,那你一看,得了,这事你肯定知道,你不能说你不知道。你肯定在遇到问题的时候,有一些东西是你所知道的;有一些东西是你不知道的;有一些东西是你需要去挖掘才能知道的。是不是?然后咱们就开始解决问题,这第二个问题也迎刃而解了。多简单呐,需要我回答吗?就是解决那回报最高的问题。 那你说:老师这问题我解决不了。那没关系,咱们能不能够解决一个回报不那么高,但是我觉得我能够解决的问题。是不是?别找一个难的,先找一个简单的。《孙子兵法》就说:一定从敌人最薄弱的地方开始打击敌人。简单不?你说,老师你这个是个方法不?这不是方法,这是啥啊?我的方法都是超极简单,老娘们都能听得懂的。当然了,咱们当中挺多老娘们,你肯定听得懂的;那老爷们那就更听得懂了。这有啥难的?我们总结出来的东西一学就会,多简单呐。现在这两问题学会了没用?这两问题学会了。本来它就不难,是我们自己给自己整懵了,是不是这么回事?

我们专门找那些我们解决不了的问题去解决,找一个最难的,结果磨迹磨迹把自己磨迹到没有信心了。那从哪里开始?从咱能够解决的问题解决,咱们不能解决的先留着。我们要学的就是从我们面临的问题开始,别急燥。一个问题一个问题的解决,急啥呀?黄泉路不用那么急吧?是不是?大家往骨灰盒急着往里跑,不用急吧。人活一辈子一着急就坏了。急着想解决问题解决不了问题。急着想把人家口袋里的钱弄到自己口袋里,就是弄不来,别急燥,咱十个问题解决一个就变九个嘛。你说:老师这算数我还会。那你还不错嘛。那九个问题解决一个就变八个。他说,老师啊,你是不是觉得我无知,跟我讲这小学的算数?其实我告诉你,赚大钱的会加减法就行了。听明白吗?这不难。哪有这么难?

你看看这职业发展是不是一个大课题?是大课题。那我怎么规划我的职业发展呢?我跟你讲,有很多年青人,干着干着就把自己给干懵了,是吧?不知道将来往哪走了?学了一大堆的金融,后来做了会计,耽误了好多年的时间,是不是这么回事?那有些人学的是电脑,然后去刷漆,这都是咱们当中的实际例子啊,那你上那个大学干啥?后来来到咱们当中的,上了那个大学后来被同学骗了好几万,还贷了款,上完了大学欠了好几万,我就觉得这真是脑袋不太好使。所以为啥咱们需要牧养,咱们需要牧者同工?需要掌握这些知识,是不是?掌握了这些知识你就可以帮助他们。有的人就说:哎,不是这样是那样。我看到这些事,我就觉得咱们牧者的担子得多重啊。 我们当中有一位姐妹前些年本来都快吃不上饭了,歪打正着整了一个家政,整着整着整到一个很有钱的人家里了,然后她就开始学习如何做家政,要知道那薪水不底呀,都是那一万伍这样,好一些的都三万,就是大户人家里的管家。结果他这个老板去移民了,那也不能够把管家带走去移民呐。移不了呀,管家不能移。结果他老板说:你要不要留下来照顾我的父母? 我问你,照顾老人是一个什么样的职业?做一个家里的管家是一个什么样的职业?是不是同样的职业?这个时候你该如何规划?你就得做一个决定,我就想做护工,那就是个护工;我想做家政管理,那就是个家政;那不一样,那你职业发展方向是什么?你到底往哪里发展?然后应该怎么做决定?很多人整着整着就糊涂了,其实很多时候在咱们当中的你都在社会上混了好几十年了,在一个地方坐了一个位置。

那就是这位姐妹,好多年前其实她做了一份工作,那份工作其实是风口上的职业,辞掉了。我说,你为什么辞掉了?她说,我没有什么发展了。唉呀,我的天哪,刚起步就没有什么发展了?所以说,你要怎么规划你的职业。比如说,要照顾老人,那不是没有发展,就是我们不知道要往哪发展,我们不知道要如何规划。那这个问题就非常明显:我将来我要干啥?你不知道,那不就学吧。咱们这么说,你做护工,你能不能成立一个护工公司,成为公司的老板?招一大堆护工,建一个平台,咔咔,招护工我这里提供护工,我能不能做一个护工培训?我自己是不是护工当中最优秀的护工?我能不能把这些护工的问题给他梳理出来?那家政和这个问题完全不是一回事。我们今天要学习就是从解决这些问题开始。你会发现:老师这个问题看起不好简单,它本来也不难呐。难吗?大家觉得难吗?有微积分那么难吗?有三角函数那么难吗?哪有难的?是吧。 你让我说木工是啥?木工就是几块板,长的、扁的、方的、都是方盒子,不管它是多大的方盒子,有的扁一点,有的高一点,有的瘦一点,有的长一点,是不是这么回事?衣柜,立的方盒子。是不是?你如果问我,桌子就是长一点的方盒子。就是这玩易。电视桌就是长一点扁一点的方盒子。听明白了吗?

我该如何规划我的职业发展?今天人家问我,老师我该学啥?你现在在做啥?客服。好,你能不能做客服,你那个顶头上司的工作?我做不了。那学吧!你现在在干啥?我在做网红管理。那你能不能做网红管理,你这个部门的这个小领导他做的工?我做不了。那学吧!学吧学吧就成了学霸了。一定是往上走,哪一行的水都很深,别经常换轨道,换着换着就把自己给换懵了,是不是?整着整着就整懵了。这山看着那山高,到了那山也不高,是不是这么回事?所以规划自己的职业就是这么规划的。 把当前的活能不能干好?不能干好,能不能学习干好?学习干好。就不肯脚踏实地。就想把人家的钱放到自己口供应里,人家还不允许,自己整得挺难受的。把钱给我吧,我不给!给我吧,我不给!唉?这怎么能给啊?除非你手里拿着把刀,把钱给我!那人家不敢不给。但是现在这个社会这个风险得有多大,代价也很大。最后刀也没了,最后你就到囚房里去度你的日子去吧。这职业发展不是这么整的,不是说把你的钱放到我的口袋里去,是把你自己的问题解决了,人家的问题解决了。

有人说,我大学学的是电脑网络,让我出来就整电脑网络,然后就不断的提升,成为电脑网络专家,好不好?好啊。那我以前的职业就是从客服开始干的,我就成了我领导的止疼药。我领导的痛就成了我的痛,最后怎么着?干着干着我就比我领导厉害啦!但是我告诉你,感谢神!我领导辞职啦!你说,你咋说这么小声呢?这事不是我给他整辞职的,是他自己要辞职,为啥?他不辞职不行,神要让他辞职,他不能不辞职,我就坐他的位置了。干着干着我就能干我老板那个经理的活啦!他又辞职啦。啊?别大声,偷偷地告诉你们,不是我整的,他自己要整的,神要让他挪地方,他能不挪吗?我就坐他那个位置了。这就是我的职业策划。我不会是这山看着那山高,瞎整一通来回换,是不是? 这职业策划这事是你需要把这事干好,你要成为一个解决问题的人,你已经占了一块小一点的地盘,你能不能把那小块的地盘变大一点的地盘?就这么件事,脚踏实地的做好。我告诉你,到今天我做客服那是绝对好。你说,老师你到现在还做客服?做。我客服做得一流,我咋不做呢?所以这事你就学习啊,开始扩张。就怕你说,啊,我已经没有成长啦,我在这里已经挺好啦!我问,那你能不能干你老板的活?不能。成长啥呀?就你那个烂样,赶紧成长吧你!别轻易辞职,别轻易换轨道!换轨道麻烦啦。整天老排队。一看这条挺长,就换了一队,到那个队的尾巴去了,是不是?又排了队,排着排着又换一队,那不就一直在换队,就一辈子排队。就像到麦当劳买个burger,一会换一队,一会又换一队,一直也吃不上那个burger。知道学啥了没有?知道了。知道解决啥问题了没有?知道了。多难呐?不难。难的就是脚踏实地。

这事我为啥拿出来说?因为这事都是你们需要干的。抬头看一看你家,是不是脏乱差?如果是脏乱差你不是个学习的人。这事我得跟大家说,我经常喜欢夸夸我自己。我们当中有位姐妹,那相当厉害呀,怎么厉害呢?我这一收拾,一个苹果电脑,五个充电器。我说,你整五个充电器干啥呀?她说,老师你不知道,我整着整着就找不着我的充电器了,那我就又买了一个,后来我又找到了就两个了;后来那两个又找不着了,就又买了一个,就叁个了,后来又都找不着了,就买第四个了;四个又找不着了,这不就有五个了。 我说你这数算得挺好呀!一个变两,两个变叁,叁个变四个,四个变五个;啥意思呢?问题就是这收纳的问题,就是归纳。老也找不着,一整就买一个。你不觉得这是个问题啊?是问题。你还别说,就这问题,我修理她、教她弄啊还挺多年啊!很多人就打字告诉我,老师我耳机一大堆,我网线一大堆,一整就找不着,大家肯定有这个问题。有问题吧?那怎么办?为啥会乱呢?因为不知道怎么整。我绝对不相信你喜欢乱,因为一看乱了以后就不知道怎么整。肯定是这么回事吧?我没有冤枉你是吧?其实我太理解大家了,为啥?乱了以后它就乱了,因为不知道怎么整,今天咱们就得学怎么整。

现在咱们就得学习收纳、整理、学会打扫卫生。那这件事就是,啊,我不没整对。那不就得学习了吗?那就开始学了。很多人为什么不会收纳?大家来回答一下为啥不会收纳?因为收纳完了以后不好找东西,一拿又乱了。拿就不好拿。但是今天我告诉你,我收就是为了好拿,我拿完了它还不乱。我的收法都是为了我好用、好拿、好找。你说,我总结出来这个有多难呢?很多人收拾完了就找不着了,收拾是收拾了,收拾完了不好用。一拿就乱,一整就乱,乱了以后就不想整,所以今天大家学嘛。比如收拾东西,收皮箱,收拾屋子,所有的东西大家养成一个学习的习惯。 我这事情怎么干?那我今天提出了这个问题,具体讲我们有这个收纳的课程,大家可以去学,甚至有的时候,我看咱们收纳的课程,我觉得花的时间太多。我讲的收纳课程,都是快!你看我收拾一次两分钟,我不会在乎;我收拾一次两小时,我真的是不想收拾。是这么回事吧?你会发现我收拾东西超级快!为啥快?因为我先想明白它应该怎么收拾。我收的时候就在想:我拿的时候应该怎么拿,我怎么各从其类。

比如说这个地方已经彻底的乱了,我不会拿了一件给它放好好的,不是。我啪啪啪,分成几堆。我现在讲的是细节,其实不应该讲得这么细,有这收纳课程。但这方法是啥呢?你得想:我得分成几类?挎这一分,这叫做粗加工。粗加工完了以后,这一类的东西往这放,那一类的东西往那放,我就开始做计划。所有的东西都需要有计划,然后一归纳,再把那一堆往那放,然后放完了以后这叫中加工。剩下的在我茶余饭后没事的时候,我再归纳归纳、收拾收拾,收拾完了我看着不好用,我再调一调。听明白了吗? 我们很多人做事不得法,然后就把自己搞得很累。就说卫生间吧,我告诉你我怎么收拾,我冲一次凉,我洗一次卫生间,你信不信?从马桶到墙壁,为啥?我洗得快呀,两分钟。其实我告诉你,我两分钟都用不了。只要我第一次冲凉用了一、两分钟;第二次冲凉用了一、两分钟;第三次用三十秒、四十秒;所以每一次我都整,所以它不可能脏,也不可能乱、它也不可能长垢。然后过了一个月以后,我就专门看着那些长垢的地方,这次抠这个角,下一次再抠另外一个角。 你知道为啥冲凉时候整吗?因为冲凉的时候好整,我没穿着衣服整;我要是穿着羽绒服去整卫生你觉得怎么样?一会整湿了还得整衣服。我就直接干了。身上漰了点水,直接一冲就完事了。这回明白了吧?所以说这事就总结出来啥?什么东西快?学习为什么人一学就费劲,是因为学的方法是慢的,干的方法是慢的,所以天下武功唯快不破呀。如果你养成快的习惯,干活也快、做事也快、学习也快,你不是有得是时间吗?就怕你磨迹。为啥我有粗加工、然后到中加工、还有细加工,因为这么干快!直接干细加工,慢!

比如我有一个皮箱,我要出门了,我在纸上写好我要拿什么什么东西,一写写二十行,然后我就咔咔咔,这个东西往里放,那个东西往这一放,我根本不收拾它。我就整个皮箱往里丢,等我要出门的时候,东西都在里头了,咔咔一叠,板板正正的。它肯定不会漏,然后在纸上一勾。所以说这东西你不快就墨迹,一墨迹就不想干,一不想干就累积问题,最后它就是个方法的问题。为什么我生活的环境都干净?我也不需要人照顾,我不照顾别人就不错了,我是个非常爱干净的人。你不要以为我爱干净我有洁癖,不是。我爱干净、我没有洁癖、我还非常的搞躁,什么脏的环境我都能生活,但是我生活一小段时间那地方肯定干净。

你看这些东西都是实实在在的,你总结的东西你以为是高大尚的,我总结出来的东西总是很实在的。非常简单、直白,其实怎么写文档?怎么做笔记?怎么做会议记录?你得知道我过去这些年,我写了多少东西,英文也有好几万字吧,那华文就更不用说了。那我写的时候我不会写,老师会议记录怎么写?你到网上一查,教写会议记录的文档、课程一大堆,你为啥非要问呢?为什么不去先搜一下呢? 写所有的东西都是一个题材,写小说是小说的题材,写简历是简历的题材。所以你看,我每遇到一个问题,我不会做会议记录,我学啊,我不会写简历我学啊,我会做会议记录,我到哪学啊?我就去搜人家写的会议记录,东西是怎么写的。我不会做笔记,我学呀,有这样的课程。大家有一个非常恶劣的习惯,以为写了,你不能说我没写。我问,你写了啥?啪!就把笔记打开了,我说没写到脑子里去啊?那你写啥来着?就是瞎干。 这学习,我不会写笔记我学习。我告诉你,网上教写笔记的东西一大堆。我做事最大的特点就跟打扫卫生,收纳一样,快!一个字解决了。那写笔记要注意啥呢?写清楚,写到脑子里去。为啥写?是写到脑子里,不是写到电脑里。这回明白了吧。学东西可简单了,只要你愿意,你就学呗,东西多得是。

任何复杂问题都是简单问题的组合,来把这话记下来。因为你脑子里面有一个谎言就是,老师说的肯定不对,为啥?因为太简单了,这东西可没那么简单。我告诉你,这就是坏习惯。因为我很清楚,简单的事我能干,我就做稍微复杂一点的事;遇到稍微复杂一点的,我再做稍微复杂一点的事,就变成了我能够解决复杂问题。其实复杂问题都是简单问题的组合,大家把这一点记下来。 把复杂问题能够拆开成几个简单问题其实并不简单,这就是为什么我要教你这个方法。所有复杂问题都是简单问题的组合,就这么一个逻辑。那我做客服,客服有几个问题?第一,客服得解决人家客户的问题,那是业务的能力;那业务的能力是 笼统的,那比如银行客服,银行客服有几类的问题?忘记密码这些,你一分类就那几样,那哪一样都整明白了,那客服你肯定做得好。第二点就是语言沟通的能力,你就学会说话、学会沟通、学会听明白人家的问题;第三点是稍微难一点的,就是怎么能平息客户的情绪,那就稍微复杂一点。 怎么能平息这些问题?那还是语言、艺术和服务态度的问题。然后你再往下分,一分就变得更加的简单,情绪有几种,这种怎么做,那种怎么做。那做销售呢?我如何做销售呢?那就把销售分几种,这都是复杂问题。这些复杂问题都是几种简单问题的组合,绝对跑不了。会计做帐也一样,人资是吧?做项目这些。项目管理是啥?项目管理最重要的就是把一个复杂的项目拆成几个问题分配人员进行完成。所有这些问题都不复杂,复杂的就是我们一看到这些问题就懵了,其实不复杂,这就是今天我为啥要教你。其实真的我告诉你,学习这东西都是这样,所以简单的东西能做,复杂的就能做。

提出问题、解决问题。不要烂尾是我最重要的性格。很多人是烂尾的,就是做了阑尾炎手术都没有用,还是个烂尾的。提出问题不是解释问题,不是甩锅。**提出问题不是去解释问题,提出了问题就去解决问题,这是关键**。这是我们讲的第二课,方法掌握了没有?我不想讲太多,都是从提出问题开始,把问题整清楚,掌握了以后,你会发现原来问题这么简单,你说这么简单的问题,你能不成学霸吗?你掌握了方法,肯定成学霸。咱们当中有没有小孩子,小孩子如果学习有问题,就是老想做难题,不想做简单题,难的又不会做,简单的又不想做。好,咱们接着讲下一课。
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