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【Live Abundantly】Be A Wise Man

2017-03-21 4,531 Y133 Course - Living Abundantly

In the past years of ministry, one thing that has struck me is encountering many people I find difficult to understand. (I don't want to use God's standards.) By my own standards, they are not at all smart, and their outcomes have proven that their actions were indeed unwise.

Transforming people from a state of ignorance to one of intelligence seems to be the work of the church, and it is something I enjoy doing. In other words, making people smarter is quite important.

In China, some years ago, a product called Brain Platinum made a fortune, though whether it actually improved intelligence is unknown. Becoming smarter is a desire for many. I don't feel particularly qualified to talk about making people smarter. However, I still want to say that while I may not be able to make people geniuses, making them a little smarter than before is likely possible.

So today, let's begin to address the issue of becoming a smart person. If I don't speak well, you can build upon my foundation and take it a step further. You can dismantle what I say and create your own set of ideas, and I will listen to you. I also enjoy hearing your perspectives on how to be a smart person.

I read a story when I was young, which you should have also heard: The Farmer and the Snake. A farmer saw a frozen snake on the road, so he put it in his bosom to revive it. The snake warmed up and woke up. After waking up, it thought, What's this? Where am I? and bit the farmer to death. The farmer in the story didn't know the danger of the poisonous snake, and his ending was tragic.

The story of The Farmer and the Snake teaches us that it is unwise when a person thinks he is doing a good deed but ends up harming himself.

So what are smart people like? Smart people do things that benefit themselves. Today, let's carefully observe that many people, whether in their conduct or their actions, not only do not benefit themselves but also do not benefit others. Even if you benefit yourself, we are happy. But doing something that doesn't benefit yourself, I find such people extremely foolish.

In my ministry, I have encountered many such people. Logically, no matter how I calculate it, I can't figure out why they would do such a thing. This shocks me. For example, when I say something for his own good, he responds, The pastor doesn't love me anymore! I wonder, how could I not love you? If I didn't love you, and you were wandering on the street, I wouldn't grab you and say, You are like this.... I wouldn't say it! Right?

Because this person is my spiritual child. If I don't speak to you, who will? Right? Some people just can't get past this hurdle. Sometimes, even if you explain it to them, they understand, but they just can't get past it. For example, within the church, I minister to many people. After receiving benefits from me, a few words from someone who wants to harm him lead him astray. He thinks the pastor is not trustworthy, but the words of a scammer are trustworthy. He trusts those who ruin him, but those who love, care for, and protect him are seen as harming him.

This kind of thing makes me determined to do one thing: either transform such people into smart people, so I can be at ease and they won't bite me out of idleness; or pastor them to leave the church. Of course, I might sound a bit harsh, but I earnestly hope that our brothers and sisters become smart people. This is a deep desire within me—through education, continuous training, and teaching, to transform them into smart people.

You must know that it is easy to minister to smart people, but it is especially difficult to minister to foolish people. Because foolish people often think you want to harm them. In fact, there are people in the Bible who have paranoia. Some people develop paranoia, and their first thought about everything is that someone wants to harm them.

Once, I was listening to a recording of my own sermon, which happened to mention Cain. Cain killed his brother, and there were only three people in the world: Adam, Eve, and Cain. Then he said, God, someone wants to kill me! Isn't that insane? At that time, he was basically mentally ill, so how did God heal his mental illness? I will put a mark on you, and they will not kill you. I think our God is also humorous! Put a mark on you, and you can rest assured. How foolish is that! After listening, I thought, how can there be such people? They just don't understand the situation.

How to be a smart person? First, the most basic level is that smart people know how to do things and how to deal with people. You know how to do things, you can solve problems; on another level, you must know how to deal with people. But it is not enough to know how to do things without knowing how to deal with people; it is also not enough to know how to deal with people without knowing how to do things. Being able to do things and deal with people is very smart.

So the first thing I want to talk about today is how to do things. Some people are not smart, they don't like to do things, they are lazy, and they watch TV every day. Later, I discovered that watching TV can make people foolish. Some people say, Pastor, I watch TV all the time. I say, Why? Watching TV increases knowledge! I found that not much knowledge was gained, but a lot of foolishness was. I said, Where did this come from? From TV dramas. I thought, is that okay?

In fact, the knowledge gained from watching TV is not as good as reading books or doing things yourself. What is the difference between doing things and not doing things? Watching TV is a passive process. By the time you need to use that knowledge, you may have already forgotten it, so passive learning is not effective.

Why do we need to do things? When you do things, you encounter problems. When you encounter problems, you think. After thinking, you will find ways to solve the problems. In the process of solving the problems, you will become smarter. That's how it is.

Why do companies require work experience when hiring? People with work experience have solved many problems; people without work experience have not solved any problems. So people don't say, I'm hiring someone with knowledge. Have you heard that? I'm hiring someone with experience. What is experience? It is that he has solved problems, he knows how to solve problems, he knows how to do things. Isn't that what companies do?

Some people say, I know how. That's not really the case. We all say It's easy to watch someone embroider flowers, but it's hard to do it yourself, right? For example, I really enjoy decorating. When I first started doing it, I was using sealant. I saw the workers apply the sealant and it looked beautiful. But when I applied it myself, I smeared it left and right, and the place looked terrible. But later I practiced and realized that it requires a very skillful pressure from the finger!

In other words, doing things yourself is completely different from watching others do things. People who do things become smarter. For example, if you are doing sales, you have to sell the product. If others sell the product and you can't, don't say that the product is hard to sell, not selling it is your problem. Once you start selling, you know it's really hard. If you think selling is easy after watching others sell, and then you take in a lot of stocking inventory, but you can't sell it, that's terrible.

So today, we must all learn to be smart people, and smart people do things. The reason why I push everyone to do practical things is to make everyone a smart person.

A pastor brought his entire team to me and said, Pastor Liu, I have seen that the website you built is very good, I let these people come to you to learn how to build a website. I said, Come on! Ask! The questions they asked sounded like they weren't experienced. He thought they should learn first and then do it when they go back. In fact, they should do it first, and when they encounter problems, they should ask. When you ask and are given the answer, you will definitely gain something. Even if the other person doesn't want to tell you, you can watch him do it and then think it over when you come back, and you will have learned something. This is how you become smart.

Solving Problems Makes People Smart

So people who do things become smarter, and when you do things you will definitely encounter problems. When you encounter problems, you will definitely think of ways to solve them, but if you give up... that's Too Bad. Don't give up, keep investigating! Once you solve the problem, you become an experienced person! Right? Once you solve the problem, you become an experienced person because you have solved the problem.

So in management, I know: Hey, do you have any problems? I don't have any problems. I know that's the biggest problem. Do you have any problems? - No problems. Do you have any problems? - No problems. That's the biggest problem. Now I have developed a habit. What habit have I developed? I arrange things for you to do and I estimate, I roughly know what problems you will encounter. I say:

Do you have any problems? No problems. I say: Have you encountered this problem? I have! So how can he have no problems? Trying to fool me, thinking he can fool me. Because I am a person who does things, it is a bit difficult to fool me. So when you encounter problems, don't cover them up! Take the problems out and say:

Pastor, I have encountered this problem, I have encountered that problem. How should I solve this problem, how should I solve that problem? You will definitely encounter problems. I had a project before, and I handed it over to one of my subordinates. At that time, I had just started as a manager, and I didn't have enough experience, I didn't understand. I said, You do it. Every time I passed by him, I said, Hey, young man, have you encountered any problems? No problems! Then after a few months, I said, Have you finished it? I've finished it! Okay, then let's do this tomorrow.

Tomorrow is a public holiday, and we have to do maintenance of the computer server during the public holiday. I came happily, and I asked him: What is your plan, how to solve it? I don't know... It turns out that during those months, no problem was the biggest problem!

Later, I really didn't need him. Based on my experience, I did the job and did the whole thing during the public holiday. In other words, a person who often does not encounter problems in his life will basically not become a smart person, right? If you encounter problems, you will become a smart person! You will become smarter by encountering and solving problems.

One day, there was a problem with the washing machine here. After I fixed the problem, I discovered that water would get stuck, once it got stuck, it would flow all over the corridor. I had to wash my clothes, so I wandered down the street, and there was a building, and the company had two old car tires.

I don't know if you have never seen that thing. I cut the waste car tires into two pipes. What time was it? It was New Year's time, and all the stores were closed. But you can't not wash your own clothes even if all the stores are closed! I fixed two car belts. How can those two car belts connected to each other? I bought two yogurt bottles.

I drank the yogurt, picked up the bottles and connected them, Hey, it's pretty good. It's connected, and I can wash my clothes. If you can't solve this problem, then you have to endure it! In other words, if a person solves many problems, he sees things very well. So if you often like to do things and solve one problem after another, you will have experience.

So doing things can make people smart! In fact, the Bible says the same thing, except that the Bible says God wants people to do things. Later, we thought that this was no longer the case in the New Testament. In fact, Paul had said that if you don't do honest work, you shouldn't eat. If you check the Bible, you should not eat if you do not work. You must learn to do things.

A Capable Person is a Smart Person

A person who acts, he becomes smart. So you will slowly understand this logical system, why you diligently keep and follow God's word, and God blesses the work of your hands. It is because after you act, you are like God, you will have God's image. When God created this universe and all things, and everything on earth, and then created man, and placed man on earth.

I ask you, is God's creation perfect? God's creation is perfect. Then if God's creation is perfect, what do we need you for? The problem becomes serious, we still need man, to continue God's creation on earth and continue to walk. In fact, God's creation deliberately left a portion for man to do, for man to act. Man must manage everything on this earth.

Of course, this is a story in the Bible. So it's about doing things! If you don't do things, but observe others doing things, is that okay? That's also good, you often observe when others are doing things, and have the opportunity to go back and do it yourself. When you do it yourself, you will find that you don't quite understand.

If you don't quite understand, have you later discovered that you seem to understand but don't quite understand? When you teach others, you understand again. You want to teach others to understand, and you also understand. So, if you teach others, you will become very capable quickly, very capable quickly. So, later I discovered that I created a learning model among us.

This learning model, throw the net, do this, do this, do this... after you are finished come find me. Is that fast? Very fast! So when GY came here, I had him build the website. Building the website, and then he learned something very practical. So today if you think sitting in a classroom listening to lectures is learning, you are wrong.

Doing things is the best learning. Doing things is the best learning. Even a very simple thing, you need to solve the problem, and then you can understand more, more thoroughly. When you understand one thing thoroughly, two things thoroughly, three things thoroughly, what will you discover? You will have a feeling inside you! The feeling of doing things.

As soon as you see this thing, it should be done this way, that thing should be done that way. You become smarter and smarter, more and more clever.

Doing Things Makes People Sensitive

Later who did I discover? I discovered that Li Ka-shing is over 80 years old, he is not saying he is clinging to power, he is not, he likes to do things. He wants to be responsible and wants to do things, if people get old and don’t do things they will have Alzheimer's! If a person is old and still working at 80 years old, it is difficult to get Alzheimer's. Very difficult, Alzheimer's is because he stays idle.

What are you doing? I'm staying idle, and just stays idle. So today we begin to understand, no matter how old you are, don't have the concept that: I can't do things anymore, I want to rest.

Someone said that when you are in a coffin, you have enough time to rest, in a coffin you can rest forever, no need to rest now, but this is a bit mean, you can rest forever in a coffin. That is to say, today we are still alive, since we are alive, we should do things well, right?

A Person Must Learn to Behave

The second clever thing is called being a person. You have to learn to be a person, I find that many people do not know how to be a person. What's going on? This thing about being a person, being a person is very interesting. You have to learn to be a person, doing things is a hard skill, being a person is a soft skill.

Everyone must know that a person must have hard skills and soft skills, hard skills and soft skills. Then hard skills are doing things, and soft skills are being a person. Let's just say, I find that many people may be able to do things but they don't know how to be a person, I'll give you an example:

Then I have an elder cousin, I don't know if that elder cousin is still alive, he is about the same age as my mother. Then he later went to my mother and my father, many years ago. Then my father arranged a job for him, arranged a job to work on a construction site. As a result, he and those workers united to scheme against people, who? Scheme against the person who arranged the job for him, and fight against them together.

That's your benefactor! People arranged a job for you and as a result you and the people below him are against him, this has to… I can't figure it out! If you ask me to do something like this, I don't know how to do it! I really don't know how to do it, but there really are people like this, just like this. Later, I tell you, my dad was very sad, very sad.

Then you say he introduced a job to him through a friend, and as a result, he came to be against the person who arranged the job for him. Are there many things like this? A lot! Very much!!

Then in the church I help him, and he is against me. Then if I don't help him, he and others will join together to be against me. Brothers, good brothers, hugging shoulders and necks. I think this is amazing, too amazing! You have to know how to be a person! Then how do you be a person? Do you know how to be a person? Do you know how to be a person? You need to know exactly how to be a person.

If you do this thing, you are definitely doing it for someone else, right? Isn't it? Who are you responsible to for doing this thing? If I do this thing and hand it over to him, then I will be responsible to him.

Who should you hand this over to? Who are you responsible to? I must learn to be a person in the process of doing things, I must know whether that person is satisfied after this thing is done.

Many people don't know how to be a person, he doesn't know what people want, maybe he didn't think about it, doesn't consider other people's thoughts, I'll give you an example, when I preach I must know how everyone is receiving it; when I lead everyone in worship, I have to examine, what exactly is their reception? If the reception is not good, what should I do, how to drive it up, that is, when I lead everyone to do this thing, I have to consider how everyone feels about this thing.

I often think this way, when I have oversights, you have to understand what others think, when I encounter a scammer, I know very well how the scammer thinks, and it is difficult to be fooled, and I understand through doing things, so, you must be loyal to the things entrusted to you, the Bible tells us to be loyal, to be loyal to the things entrusted to you by others, and then people will have a good impression of you, in fact, there are many levels to being a person:

Understanding the Needs of Others in the Process of Doing Things

Caring about people's needs and not caring about people's needs are not the same thing, a person who knows how to be a person will understand the other person's needs, not in a state of being controlled to meet the other person's needs, but in a very healthy and free win-win state to meet the other person's needs, there is a book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, teaches you how to do things and how to be a person, it is a good habit for a person to consider the needs of others, a very successful marketing person must clearly understand the customer, if he doesn't understand he can't do it, you know that people who drink Coca-Cola may not understand their need for Coca-Cola, but the Coca-Cola company understands consumers far more than consumers themselves.

Colgate toothpaste company knows people's toothpaste habits very well, they know how many people dip the toothbrush with toothpaste on it in water before brushing, how many people brush horizontally and vertically are very clear, you will see that a small toothbrush will become an innovative project, toothbrushes have pointed ones, round ones, thin ones, fat ones, hard ones, soft ones, Colgate toothpaste prevents gum bleeding, if you want to do sales, you must be a person who understands the needs of others, and first of all understands people's problems.

If you don't understand and don't care about the needs of others, and only care about the money in other people's pockets, don't do this sale, you can't do it, it's impossible to do it well, if everything you do considers the needs of others, a very successful salesman, knowing how to be a person is very important, in the level of being a person, emotional management, knowing how to see the importance and urgency, this is the most important key to being a person.

There is a book, The One Thing, to be a smart person, you must have a sense of the importance and urgency of things, it is also important to judge the importance and urgency of others, for example, a person is rushing to catch a train, and is about to be late, a person who knows how to be a person will not drink and chat, he will see the importance and urgency,

To Be a Smart Person, Never Discern Good and Evil

You must know that your own judgment of things is biased, why does this world use a ruler to draw lines, I once drew lines with my eyes, I couldn't draw them straight, it's the same with discerning good and evil, you think things are like this, without a proper standard to measure, it is a subjective judgment, why can't you be a person if you are subjective, you think this way and others think that way, there will be conflict, in the process of conflict you become a person who doesn't know how to be a person, you will argue, you have to be this way or that way, in fact this way or that way are not important, knowing how to be a person is the most important.

Knowing how to be a person and knowing how to do things, these two things determine whether a person is smart, how to measure whether a person is smart in the church, look at his pastoral work, his pastoral work is very powerful, he is a person who knows how to be a person, his ministry is very powerful, he will definitely be able to do things, basically he trains people to be very smart people. A person who knows how to be a person has to treat all kinds of people, and people can't ask questions, sometimes we judge things, a smart person does not discern good and evil, does not judge according to his own point of view, but according to objective standards.

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我从小读过一个故事,大家应该也听过《农夫和蛇》。农夫在路上看到一条冻僵了的蛇,他就把蛇放在怀里想把它救活。那蛇一暖和就醒了过来。醒过来以后,“什么东西?我在哪儿呢?”哼哧一口就把农夫咬死了。故事中的农夫不知道毒蛇的厉害,他的结局是挺惨的。 《农夫和蛇》的故事给我们启示了一件事,就是**一个人觉得他自己做了一件好事结果却把自己害了,这就是不聪明**。 那聪明的人是怎样的呢?**聪明人是做了一件事让自己得益处**。今天咱们仔细去看,很多人做人也好、做事也好,不仅自己得不着益处,别人也得不着益处。哪怕你自己得着益处,我们也开心。可是自己得不着益处却还是做了这件事,我就觉得这样的人超级愚笨。 我在服事的过程当中遇到非常多这样的人。按着逻辑我怎么算也算不出来他应该这么做。对此我就非常的震撼。你比如说,本来是为他好,我说他一句。他回应,“牧师不爱我了!”我就在想我怎么就不爱你了?我不爱你,如果你在大街上溜达,我不会在大街上抓你过来:“你这样……”我才不说呢!是不是? 因为这个人是我属灵的孩子。我不说你谁说你呀!是不是?有的人就是常常绕不开这个弯。有时候你说一说他都明白,可就是绕不过去。再比如说,像教会的里面我服事的人特别多。从我这儿得着好处,要害他的人几句话就把他拐走了。他觉得牧师不可信,那骗子的话倒是很可信的。败坏他的人,他信任;爱他的、看顾保护他的倒成害他的了。

这种事情就让我定意要做一件事:要么把这种人转化成聪明人,那样我也放心,他也不会闲着没事回来咬我一口;要么就把他牧养离开教会。当然我说这话可能有点残酷,其实我巴不得我们弟兄姐妹都变成一个聪明人。这是我里面一个深深的渴望,就是透过一种教育、透过一个不断的培训教导,然后训练把他变成一个聪明人。 你要知道服事的时候,服事聪明人容易,服事愚昧人特别的难。因为愚昧的人经常以为你要害他。其实在《圣经》里老有被害妄想症的人,有的人就得了被害妄想症,什么事他都第一时间想到有人要害他。 有一次我在听自己讲道的录音视频,刚好讲道里提到该隐。该隐把他弟弟杀了,这世界就只有三个人:亚当、夏娃、该隐。然后他说:“神啊,有人要杀我!”这不精神病吗?那个时候他基本上已经得了精神病,那神怎么医治他的精神病呢?“我在你身上做个记号,他们都不会杀你。”我觉得我们的神也很幽默啊!给你身上做个记号,你就放心了。这得多愚昧啊!我听了以后就觉得怎么还有这样的人?就是搞不清楚状况。

如何做一个聪明人呢?首先,聪明人会做事又会做人,这是最基本的层次。你会做事,能解决问题;另外一个层面,要会做人。那有的人会做事却不会做人,这是不行的;会做人不会做事也不行。**又会做事又会做人,这就是很聪明**。 所以我今天讲的第一件事就是如何做事。有一些人他不聪明,不爱做事,就很懒,每天看电视。后来我发现看电视可以使人变得愚昧。有一些人说:“牧师,我看电视可好了。”我说:“为什么呢?”“看电视长知识啊!”我发现知识没长多少,愚昧倒长了很多。我说:“这从哪儿来的?”“电视剧里看来的。”我想,这行吗? 其实从看电视里得来的那点知识不如看书、自己做点事。你做事和不做事的差别在哪儿?看电视是个被动领受的过程,你可能要用那个知识的时候就已经忘了,所以被动学习是不行的。 为什么要做事呢?做事你就会遇到问题,遇到问题你就会思考,思考了以后就会想办法解决问题,在解决问题的过程中,解决来、解决去你就会变得聪明。是这么回事。

为什么企业招人的时候要求有工作经验?有工作经验的就是因为他解决了很多问题;没工作经验的就是他没解决过问题。所以人家没这么说:“我招一个有知识的人。”有听过这话吗?“我是招一个有经验的人。”什么是经验呢?就是他解决过问题,他会解决问题,他会做事。企业不都这么做吗? 有一些人说:“我会。”那还真不行。咱们都说“看花容易绣花难”是吧?我举个例子就是装修,我也很喜欢做这个,我一开始做一件事就是打胶。我看人家工人打胶一下来一抹可漂亮了。可是我自己打下来左抹一下右抹一下,结果那地方看起来太恶心了。但是后来我练,原来得靠手指一个很巧的力道! 也就说,自己做事和看人家做事,那是完全两回事。做事的人会聪明,你比说像做销售,你得把东西卖出去。如果人家卖出去了而你卖不出去,不要说东西不好卖,卖不出去是你的事情。所以你一卖就知道这真的很难做。如果看到别人卖东西很简单,然后你进了一大堆货,可是卖不出去,那真的很要命。 所以今天咱们都要学会做一个聪明人,聪明人是通过做事。为什么我把大家推到做实事中去,就是因为要让大家做个聪明人。

有一个牧师带着他的整个团队来找我,他说:“刘牧师,我看你们建的网站非常好,我让这些人来跟你学怎么建网站。”我说:“来吧!问吧!”他们问的那些问题一听就是不在行。他是以为先学,回去再做。事实上是应该先做,等遇到问题你再来问。当你问的时候告诉你答案,这时候你一定得着了。就算对方不愿意告诉你,你在旁边看他怎么做,你回来再琢磨都学到了。这样就会变聪明。 所以,做事的人会变聪明,然后当你做事你就一定会遇到问题。遇到问题你就一定会想办法解决问题,但是你要放弃了……那英文叫做TooBad,非常糟糕。别放弃,继续考察考察!问题你一解决你就成了一个有经验的人啦!是不是?问题一解决你就成了有经验的人了,因为你解决问题呀。 所以我在管理上我知道:“哎,你有问题吗?”“我没问题。”我就知道那是最大的问。有问题吗-没问题。有问题吗-没问题,这是最大的问题。那我现在都养成习惯了,养成什么习惯呢?就是我安排你做的事,我估摸着、大约我知道你会遇到啥问题,我说: “你有问题吗?”“没问题。”我说:“你遇到这个问题了吗?”“遇到了!”那他怎么能没问题呢?忽悠我哈,以为能忽悠过去。因为我是个做事的人,要想忽悠过去那还是有点难度的。所以你遇到问题你别那问题盖着啊!你把那问题拿出来说: “牧师,我遇到这个问题了,我遇到那个问题了。我这个问题该怎么解决,我那个问题该怎么解决?”你肯定遇到问题。我以前有一个项目,我就交给我一个下属去做。那时我刚刚开始做经理,我也经验不足,不太懂。我说:“你做吧。”我每次路过他那时都说:“哎,小伙子,遇到问题了没有?”“没问题!”。然后过了几个月,我说:“做好了没有?”“做好了!”“那好,那咱明天把这个做了。 明天刚好公务假期,咱们搞电脑的那个服务器啊都得公共假期来做维修。”我高高兴兴的来了,我问他:“你的计划呢,怎么解决?”“不知道……”原来那几个月,没问题是最大的问题! 后来其实我真的不需要,我就照着我的经验,就把东西给做了,整个公共假期就把事情给做了。也就是说这个人呐,一生常常没有遇到问题,基本上不会成为一个聪明的人,是吧?如果你遇到问题你就会变成一个聪明人呐!你遇到问题解决问题就会变聪明。

有一天我们这边的这个洗衣机啊,洗衣机这块出了问题。出了问题我发现这个水一弄就堵,一堵就流到满走廊都是。那我得洗衣服啊,结果我就在大街上溜达,结果那边有一个建筑,公司上正好有两个废车胎。 废车胎呢我就给它拿来,不知道你们见没见过那玩意。废车胎我给它剪成两根管子。那是什么时候呢?过新年的时候,所有的店都关门了。但是所有的店都关门不能不洗衣服啊!我就整了两个车带。那两个车带那东西怎么接到一起啊?我买了两个酸奶瓶。 我把酸奶喝了,把瓶子捡了给接上,哎接上挺好,一连,可以洗衣服了。那如果说是你不能解决这个问题那你就忍耐吧!也就是说这个人,解决问题多了,你看东西他特别好啊。所以常常喜欢做事解决一个又一个问题,你就有经验。 所以做事可以使人变聪明!其实圣经里头也是这么说的,只是说圣经里神希望人做事。后来我们以为新约圣经里已经没有这事了。其实保罗说过不做正经事不让他吃饭。你查圣经,不做事就不让他吃饭。你必须学会做事。

做事的人啊,他会变聪明。所以你慢慢会了解这个逻辑体系,为什么你谨守遵行神的话,神就祝福你手所做的。是因为你做事以后像神,你会有神的形象。当上帝创造好了这个宇宙万物还有地上的一切,然后造了人,把人放在地上。 我问你上帝的创造是不是完美的?上帝的创造是完美的。那么上帝创造是完美的那要你干啥?问题不就严重了吗,还得人,来在世上接续神的创造继续走下去。其实神的创造是故意留了一块给人做的,要人做。人也就是说必须管理这世上的一切。 当然这是圣经里的故事。所以就是做事!那如果是你不做事,你观察别人做事,行不行?也很好,你做事的时候常常观察,有机会自己回去做一下。当你自己做一下的时候,你就会发现,你不太明白。 不太明白,后来你有没有发现,自己好像明白好像不太明白。当你教别人的时候,你自己又明白了。你想把别人教明白自己也明白了。所以说,如果教别人,你很快就厉害了,很快就厉害了。所以咱们呐,后来我发现,我在我们当中创造了一个学习模式。 这个学习模式,把那个网一丢,做这个,做这个做这个……做完以后来找我。快不快?非常快!所以gy来这的时候呢,我就让他做那个建网站。建网站,然后学到了很实在。所以今天如果你觉着坐在课堂里听课是学习,你错了。 做事,是最好的学习。做事是最好的学习。就是一个很简单的事你都需要把他透过解决问题,然后你才能了解的更多、更透彻。当你了解一个事透彻,两个事透彻,三个事透彻了,你就会发现什么?你里面就是有一种感觉啦!做事的感觉。 你一看到这件事应该这么做,那件事应该那么做的。你就越来越聪明,越来越聪明。

后来我发现谁呢?我发现李嘉诚80多岁了,他不是说他恋权,他不是,他是喜欢做事。他很想负责很想做事,人岁数大了不做事会得老年痴呆的!如果一个人老做事老了80多岁还在做事很难得老年痴呆。很难,老年痴呆就是因为他呆下去。 你干啥去,我呆着,呆着就呆了。所以就今天咱们就开始了解,不管你多大岁数别有一种概念,这种概念说:我不能做事了,我要休息了。 有一个人说你到了棺材里头有足够的时间休息,到了棺材里头你可以休息到永远,不用现在不用休息,但这话有点损,到棺材里可以永远休息下去。那就是说今天咱们还活着,既然是个活人就好好做事啊,是吧?

第二个聪明的地方叫做人。你要学习做人,我发现很多人他不会做人。这咋回事?这个做人这事啊,做人这是很有意思,做人这事非常有意思。你要学会做人,做事是硬技能,做人呢是软技能。 大家一定要知道,一个人必须拥有硬技能和软技能,硬技能和软技能。那硬技能是做事,软技能是做人。咱们就这么说啊,我就发现很多人他可能会做事但他不会做人,我给大家举一个例子: 那我有一个大表哥,我那大表哥不知道还活着没,和我妈岁数差不多。那他后来投奔我妈妈和我爸爸,那好多年前。那我爸爸就给他安排了一个工作,安排了一个工作在工地上干活。结果他和那些工人联合合伙起来搞人,搞谁呢?搞给他安排工作的那个人,跟他们一起对付。 那是你的恩人呐!人家给你安排了工作结果你和下面的人和他作对,这得……我是想不明白啊!你让我做这样的事我不知道怎么做啊!我真的不知道怎么做,但真的就是有这样的人,就是这样的人。后来我跟你讲那我爸老伤心了,老伤心了。 那你说他透过朋友给他介绍工作,结果过来跟他安排工作的人作对。这样的事多呀!很多!非常多!! 那在教会里我帮助他,他跟我作对。那不帮助他,他跟他一起合伙起来和我作对。哥们好的搂个肩膀搂个脖。我就觉得这神了,太神了!就是要会做人!那做人是怎么做呢?你知道怎么做人吗?怎么会做人吗?你要确切的知道怎么做人。

你做了这件事,你肯定是做给另外一个对不对?是不是?你做这件事你要向谁负责?我做这件事我做交给他,那我就要向他负责。 你做的这件事要交给谁?要向谁负责?我要在做事当中学会做人,这事做完以后那人满意不满意我必须知道。 很多人不会做人,他不知道人家要什么,可能就没想,不考虑别人的想法,我举个例子,我讲道我一定知道大家的领受如何;我带领大家敬拜,就要考查,到底他们的领受是什么?领受不行时,我要做些啥,到底怎样带动起来,也就是我带领大家做这件事,要考虑大家对这件事看法感觉如何。 我常常这样想,我有疏忽的时候,你要了解别人怎么想,当我遇到骗子的时候,我很清楚骗子是怎么想的,就很难上当,做人透过做事了解,所以,交给你的事你要有忠心,圣经让我们有忠心,对别人交给你的事有忠心,然后人就会对你有好印象,其实做人的层面非常多:

关心人的需要和不关心人的需要不是一回事,会做人的人会了解对方的需要,不是在一种被辖制的状态中满足对方的需要,而是在很健康很自由的双赢的状态中满足对方的需要,有本书《高效能人士的七个好习惯》,教你做事做人,一个人考虑别人的需要是好习惯,一个很成功的市场营销人士对客户的了解必须清楚,不清楚做不了,你知道喝可口可乐的人不一定了解自己对可口可乐的需要,但是可口可乐公司对消费者了解程度远远超过消费者自己。 高露洁牙膏公司对人使用牙膏的习惯清楚不得了,知道多少人将挤上牙膏的牙刷先蘸到水里再刷牙,多少人横刷竖刷都很清楚,你会看到一支小小的牙刷都会成为一个创新的项目,牙刷有尖的、有圆的、有瘦的、有肥的,有硬的、有软的,高露洁牙膏防止牙龈出血,你想做销售,你必须是了解别人需要的人,最首先了解人的问题。 如果你不了解不关心别人的需要,只关心别人口袋里的钱,这个销售你别做,做也做不成,不可能做得好,如果你做的全都考虑别人的需要,很成功的推销员,会做人非常重要,在做人的层面里面,情绪管理,会看轻重缓急,这是做人最重要的关键。 有本书,《重要的事只有一件》,做一个聪明人,一定要事物有轻重缓急的判断,对别人轻重缓急的判断也很重要,举个例子,一个人在赶火车,眼看要晚点,会做人的不会喝酒聊天,会看轻重缓急,

你一定要知道你自己对事物的判断是有偏差的,这个世界为什么要用一把尺子画线,我曾经凭眼睛划线,划不直,识别善恶也这样,你以为事情是这样,没有恰当的标准去衡量,是一个主观判断,为什么主观了就不会做人呢,你认为这样别人认为那样就会起冲突,在冲突过程中你又变为一个不会做人的人,会抬杠,非得这样那样,其实这样那样都不重要,会做人才最重要。 要会做人,会做事,这两样决定一个人是不是聪明人,在教会怎么衡量一个人是否聪明,看他的牧养工作,他的牧养很厉害,就是一个会做人的人,事工很厉害一定会很做事儿,基本上就把人训练成很聪明的 人。会做人的要对待各种各样的人,提问题别人不会提问,有时候我们对事物的判断,做一个聪明人不识别善恶不按照自己的观点,按照客观的标准来判断。
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