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Good day to you all! Today, we're engaging in Q&A and problem-solving. Grasp the main point – be a proactive learner, did you catch that? Be a proactive learner; don't be passive. Passive learning is never the right method. There are many forms of passive learning, such as watching television or just sitting and listening in class. These passive learning methods dull the mind! Today, we're focusing on proactive learning. The six lectures I've given are packed with the mysteries and essence of learning. If you can put them into practice, you're sure to excel! Today, we're here for Q&A and to clear up doubts.

Question 1: Why is it that I'm full of confidence before starting something, but I lose that confidence as I go along?

Answer: I suspect many of you experience this. Before a break, you declare, I'm going to learn so much this holiday! But when the holiday ends, nothing's been done. Why is that? We often think that simply making a declaration will boost our confidence, but that's not the case. Can shouting slogans build real confidence? No. So what exactly is confidence? Confidence is what we need when facing a tough situation, say, like being between the Red Sea and pursuing soldiers. At such times, confidence isn't about believing in oneself, but in God. I must bring God into this. Without God, your confidence will collapse immediately!

So why full of confidence before starting, but losing it along the way? Because that initial confidence wasn't true confidence. Real confidence isn't built on ourselves, but on God. Why? Because confidence based on our own abilities is unreliable; some have greater abilities, some less. Some have the benefit of years of learning and rich experience, giving them confidence to face problems. But what about those of us without such capital? So what is faith? You may have attended Bible studies and listened to my sermons, yet still not fully understand it. Faith is seeing the future even when circumstances are dire. Even in our studies, when we see a problem that seems like a mountain before us, you're bound to feel that way.

But things are different now. Before, you relied on yourself; now, you rely on God. I can certainly depend on my God to solve this problem. And how do you solve it? By digging in, bit by bit, sorting it out slowly. What's the rush? Impatience kills confidence. Losing confidence comes when you wonder, Will this ever end? Have you felt that way? It doesn't need to end at any particular time.

Let me explain what faith is. When someone comes to me with a leg swollen like a wooden log, I initially lack confidence. I may think, “These people are such a trouble. They've brought someone with legs swollen like this to me.” You see, I might know a little bit of TCM and Western medicine, and, from that, I know that a leg swollen like this very likely means the kidney is useless, right? You all are cruel! But you can’t say so, right. I can’t risk making myself look a fool. Grit your teeth, stamp your feet, and get to work!

I ask you, did I know the swelling would go down? No, I had absolutely no idea. It would have been easier if I did, wouldn’t it? I tell you, I prayed for 20 minutes, coaxing and pressing, and then more coaxing. Looking at the leg, still the same, I ask myself, Can I fix this on my own? Can it be done on my own? No. You ask, do you know if another 20 minutes will do it? Or 40 minutes? Or an hour? Or two hours? I have no idea. But would I stop? No. That’s what I call faith. And you know what happened? I prayed for about an hour and a half, and the leg reverted to normal flesh, a normal leg with muscle tone, and its colour returned from bluish-green to normal. I give thanks to God then! Because I persevered for an hour and a half. And I have persevered for 3 hours, 6, and even 8.

I tell you, faith is seeing the future even through the current terrible circumstances. Not knowing how long it will take, but trusting my God can make that leg normal again. So while praying, I told him stories—telling stories of the miracles I had performed in the past. So everyone, from today, you must believe in miracles, you hear? Believe in God's miracles. Believe that God will, at some unknown moment, suddenly move that mountain away. This is what is called faith, and it's distinct from making progress and having confidence, and regressing and losing confidence.

One of my characteristics is: for example in learning matters, if I am not making progress, is there a better way to learn? I have this spirit of never giving up, so that’s why I mention the need to practice faith. Your “faith” is either self-confidence or disbelief. These are useless faiths that I speak of. That's why I always say, what kind of days can one have without God? Without God, I only have my petty self to rely on. I bet that instead of making it to today, I would have bitten the dust yesterday - I can’t handle it.

Question 2: Teacher, I don't quite understand abstraction?

Answer: What does not quite understand abstraction mean? Let me explain abstraction again. Abstraction means extracting the essence from complex phenomena. Let me repeat and give an example: go to your kitchen and look at the kitchen cabinets, and then go look at your closet. What significant differences do they have? They're just square boxes of different heights, widths, shapes and sizes—that's abstraction. Right? Just square boxes that come in varying sizes. As for whether the board is made of aluminium alloy, wood, solid wood, or some other material—the difference is just the material, but it's still a square box. That's abstraction. Anything can be abstracted, right? Extract that, and you have found the principle. As long as you can make a square box, you can make all the other square boxes.

Question 3: Teacher, does clarifying the relationships between concepts make one's understanding more transparent? Is it related to transparent comprehension?

Answer: Let's not lump everything together; it just ends up confusing us even more. Why must linking the relationships between concepts be tied to transparent comprehension? It doesn't need to be. What actually happens is: you clarify concepts and their relationships, and you gain a clearer understanding of the matter. That's learning. Your mind will realise, Oh! I understand. You might understand 30 percent, 50 percent, or even 100 percent—it's all a step-by-step progression.

Let me give an example: conceptual, with relationships between concepts. When we study, we actually learn many concepts. Today, I'll read to you what I learned yesterday. I study every day; I always learn. This segment I am about to read came about when someone wrote a long passage. He said that In terms of learning, the most effective content for helping people form independent thinking skills and enhance cognition is divided into four levels. Do you find the concepts? Enhancing a person's learning has four levels:. First is classic books, second is profound articles, third is knowledge snacks, and fourth is short videos.

See that? He’s talking about these classic books, profound articles, and so on. Let me read to you. What are classic books? This is a concept. How is this concept related? This concept is related to independent thinking skills and enhanced cognition. Classic books are those that have been passed down for hundreds or even thousands of years, their value proven by history. Only the contents that have withstood the test of time and historical examination can be called classics. What are profound articles? Those calm, rational, and refined articles that give you an epiphany after reading and make you self-reflect. See? Profound article, is this a concept? This is a concept.

We now ask, what are knowledge snacks? These snacks are secondarily processed by many knowledgeable gurus that dissect books, paint vivid pictures, and create on-the-spot conflict to achieve a dissemination effect. Have you listened to gurus speak? If so, you’ve had knowledge snacks. When gurus lecture, they edit and process those classics, then add some content and ingredients to make it sound great! But those things are just knowledge snacks.

The fourth kind is short videos, which are really nothing much themselves. The author sorts the content of these four types of learning into four concepts, and their relationship with independent thought and cognition. Do you see that? Are these four types of learning content related? Is today's learning, which seeks to enhance independent thinking and cognitive ability, a concept? It is - This is one viewpoint, one concept. If it is divided into four hierarchies, which are that you often engage in? You are often just doing short videos, which makes you foolish! Can you learn anything from TV dramas? If you could, that'd be great, wouldn't it? Learn something in ten minutes, but with a TV drama, you can watch dozens of episodes and still not figure it out - how can you not become foolish?!

Yesterday I read another segment that I thought was quite good. Let me share it with you - the three awakenings of life, which I think are particularly well-summarised ! Oh, there are three awakenings in life: The first awakening is seeing oneself. What does seeing oneself mean. We may not understand that this is a concept. Seeing oneself means understanding yourself. Through understanding the path to the end, one can be broad-minded, knowing that you're running straight to the urn of ashes and being open-minded. The second awakening is seeing the world, which allows one to know reverence and therefore to be humble. So he described the three awakenings of life very clearly, three concepts: the first is seeing oneself, the second is seeing the world. What about the third? I haven't forgotten; I'm telling you now! The third is seeing all living beings, which allows one to understand compassion and therefore to be tolerant.

After reading it yesterday, I pondered it myself. It seems I have already reached all three awakenings, no? Do you understand awakening? It's like suddenly understanding life. Many people don't know what they're doing their whole lives, really. They pass through life without ever awakening, without ever understanding. Think about it, living like that...

Look up and see, for example, our brother who married a wife who does nothing but make trouble at home, never does any work. Annoying? She goes through life without ever needing to awaken, just living in a daze, right? Always making trouble, disliking everything. Have you awakened? After awakening, the first is seeing oneself—how well-summarised! If it weren't written down, no one would build that concept, and awakening would be something people would not understand. But when someone writes it down, it's like, Aha! I'm learning. Then seeing oneself, seeing the world, seeing all living beings—it's like a sudden enlightenment. This was written by the ancients, not by someone today.

Have I made the relationships between concepts clear? When we read any book, if we don't know what it's saying, we might as well forget it! For example, if I read a book called The Triune God and I don't know what it's saying, I read it again and still don't know. The concepts inside are all confused, not clear at all—it's not a classic. Later, I understood that the Bible never mentioned the term Trinity at all; the term was invented by later people. How terrible, right? Inventing a concept and then confusing everyone, what's the point? It's a bit difficult to confuse me, why? Because I know how to learn.

Question 4: Teacher, I really want to improve my note-taking skills, making them concise and to the point, but I often just listen to a long passage and it goes in one ear and out the other. Even when I do take notes, I'm essentially copying word for word. It's so difficult to turn them into my own understanding and language. I can't do it right now. How should I train myself?

Answer: Did you hear the error in this question? He always wants to explain things in his own words; but how can he when he has no things to explain? Do you understand? We always want to invent something. If you could explain it clearly in your own words, you would have already done so; you wouldn't need to listen to me! Just use the words I tell you to use. To this day, one of the most painful things for me is when I finish telling someone something, and when I ask him to tell me back what I asked of him, he rambles something which is plainly false. I say, Stop inventing things! Just repeat exactly what I said. Just repeat it once. But he thinks repeating me is wrong. Oh, it makes me so upset. Why does a child often fail to pass his compositions? It is because they always want to to write in their own words. Can you speak like that person in his exposition on seeing oneself, seeing the world, seeing all living beings? You cannot. You don't have that concept, that knowledge.

We learn about trigonometric functions, but you turn it into quadrangular functions. Why? You added an angle. Later, your parents will kick you, making it pentagonal. If it is trigonometric functions, you just say it as it is: trigonometric functions. No, trigonometric number functions. Oh my goodness! The triangle didn't have an angle added, but the function became a number function. It's really hard work if we don't kick you. You take notes, do you know? Think about it, what I say usually has a key point first, and then I talk about these smaller points. That's how I teach. There's no irrelevant talk, right? What was I talking about just now? I was answering the relationship between concepts. I talked about concept one, concept two, concept three, concept four. Concept one is this level, concept two is this, it's done in one go. If you have to use your own words, you definitely won't study well.

Later, after that child listened to me talk about writing essays, oh, write essays using other people's words? Nonsense, if you don't use other people's words, which sentence did you not learn from others? Even swear words have to be learned from others, understand? If you didn't learn from others, you invented one yourself, always wanting to invent a trending internet term, right? If you invent it and it doesn't become popular, you'll be dumb for life! What I'm saying, does everyone have this problem? If you have this problem, turn it around. Learn how people speak, and we speak the same way. How people say it, we say it the same way. Don't use your own words. I don't know from which grade you learned to use your own words. Don't use your own words, a triangle becomes a quadrangle, with one or two more angles.

【Question】5: Teacher, I am willing to become an active learner, which means recognizing that attending class and listening to lectures are passive learning. The key is to build confidence to actively seek methods and develop good habits. Is this understanding correct?

Answer: This, listening to lectures is the master leading you in, let's all say it again, what do you listen to in lectures? Listen to the master leading you in, and then learning? Cultivating immortality depends on the individual. You will find that I have a very clear vision. What is this clear vision? It's that when I teach, I try to make things as simple as possible so that you can quickly enter this door, or even straddle the threshold. So, the master leads you in, and cultivating immortality depends on the individual. So I want to teach lessons that are easy for beginners to understand. Once you understand, quickly go explore, quickly go learn. Then because the master leads you in! Establish a framework, make things a simple demonstration, and then what? You start actively learning materials, researching materials, and then doing this thing.

So if the teacher is delivering content during class and not a framework, you'll be confused as you listen. Today, I'm telling you that many teachers are just reading textbooks. Does the textbook need you to read it? Are there many teachers among us who read textbooks? Hey, today I'll ask you, those parents who are full of confidence in the school, let's talk about it, what do you all think? Those parents who are full of confidence in the school, do you know what kind of people the teachers in the school are today? When you go to school and take a look, oh my god, they're all people who couldn't even get into 985 universities. Can they help your child get in? Do you understand this time?

We have a mother who is particularly interesting. She heard me say that she wanted to learn programming to train her child's engineering thinking ability. Bang, she spent 20,000 yuan to buy a course and sent her child there. After she sent her there, the child was confused and couldn't learn anymore. Why? Because she was confused. Then you say she's confused, what are you going to do? Later, I heard about this, so let me talk about her. It seems that our relationship isn't that close yet. If the relationship was close, she would have asked me how to study long ago. She secretly went to do it. You should have given me 20,000 yuan. No need, just take 10,000. I won't even take this 10,000. Can I teach your child?

Why? She doesn't know what kind of teachers are in this school. She thought that professional matters should be left to professional people. Is it professional? I ask you, is it professional? Hey, what kind of people can that kind of school recruit to teach? Anyway, if they asked me to be a teacher, I wouldn't do it. Why would I do that stuff? They're all people who can't survive in the industry who go to read textbooks. Who can't read textbooks? Can't your child read the textbook at home by themselves? Some people say they're all half-baked. What half-baked? There's no bottom to the bucket. Half-baked is already praising them. So you have to know whether you are listening to a lesson or attending a class, don't mess it up.

You constantly train yourself. Just take listening to me among us as an example. Although you may not grasp it so well, as you listen, you will feel that other people are talking nonsense, right? Do you have this feeling? So slowly think about this, how to train yourself, how to understand this? Understand it this way: the master leads you in, cultivating immortality depends on the individual. At first, you can't even touch the door, where are you going to learn? I'll tell you to go there, that's the door, just go in, and after you go in, it's a vast world.

【Question】6: Actively thinking, asking questions, and solving problems, but my own mind is chaotic, and I feel like there are all problems, but I don't know what the specific problems are. What should I do specifically?

Answer: That's wrong, you don't need to do anything. Understand? Why is it that people feel their minds are chaotic and feel like there are all problems? What does it mean that there are all problems? Even living is a problem, right? But it's not argued that way. You see, people always know some things, at least they can write this sentence, right? They don't say they don't know anything at all, they know something. So what problems do I have now, describe them. In fact, mental confusion is not that someone tells you you're confused, it's that you yourself feel confused. In fact, this feeling of confusion doesn't need to be managed.

So now I don't know many problems, but first know one problem, right? For example: the relationship between the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law is always difficult to handle. Do I have this problem? Do I have a child who is struggling in school? Yes. Then what to do? Start following the vine, manage the child like this, and handle the relationship like this. I won't talk about the answer today. I'm just saying what does it mean for a person to be mentally confused? It's that the person themselves feels confused, but they're not actually confused. You see, there are often these kinds of things, like telling you a joke: Oh, teacher, I'm confused. Then transfer the money from your account to my account. That won't work. I said: You're not confused. Are you confused? You're not confused. You say you're confused, I say take advantage of the confusion and quickly fool him, but you can't fool him, because once money is involved, that guy is very clear-headed.

Some people argue with me, he says: People are born with different IQs. I said: Is there such a thing as IQs being different? He said: Yes. Then he tells me a lot. I said: Let me tell you something, there is a young man whose 2 plus 3 equals 8. Don't think he's confused that 2 plus 3 equals 8, if you want to take advantage of him, he's very clear about it. Understand? Taking advantage of him, letting him do some work for you, he's very clear about it, not stupid, right? Do you say there's a problem with his IQ? No problem, children are like this. There's no problem with IQ, so what's the problem? It's that people have problems with their perception of things.

【Question】7: What should I do to solve the specific problem of my in-laws being stubborn and doing whatever they want, causing trouble for the children in the family and blaming each other?

Answer: Then if you want to solve this specific problem, in fact, I'm telling you that many times you have to abstract the essence of the matter. I'll say this sentence again, you have to abstract the essence of the matter. I assume that what you observed is correct, so why are your in-laws being stubborn? The essence of this is that they are willful. Then why are they willful? Everyone, talk about it, if they are sent to the Myanmar telecom fraud park, will they be honest? Are they still willful? They're not willful. The essence is that they don't know how to be afraid of anyone. Understand? They don't know how to be afraid of anyone, and everyone lets them have their way. Letting them have their way has led to this situation today.

So what to do? Do you have such a position in your family to manage this matter? If there's a tough person, they'll definitely be honest. We Chinese have a saying: gods and ghosts fear evil people. If we people want to handle these things, I'm telling you that the problems are all caused by ourselves. But if you don't have such a position in your family, then don't touch it. So how to solve it? If you can solve it, then solve it. If you can't solve it, then avoid it. But if you still want to freeload off the old people, want to eat and drink their stuff, and then they do whatever they want and you're upset, what's upsetting you? Don't be upset. I'm telling you that many times, we're just talking about the surface of the matter, but we never manage the key inside. In fact, it's just that a person doesn't know how to be afraid, doesn't know reverence, and then just does whatever they want, that's how it is. Then if he's mentally ill, there are treatments for mental illness, mental hospitals specialize in this.

【Question】8: How do I clarify the relationship between concepts? I don't quite understand this.

Answer: Then I'll tell you why? Because you read this sentence, you only read this sentence, and then you don't know. Then let me explain again, what does it mean to clarify the relationship between concepts? I just gave several examples of the relationship between concepts. There are several awakenings in human life: seeing oneself, seeing the world, seeing all living beings. These are all concepts. Writers have explained it, and then we divide this awakening into three stages. Is there a relationship? The first stage is seeing oneself, the second stage is seeing the world, and the third stage is seeing all living beings. Is this difficult? It's not difficult.

【Question】9: Teacher, when learning a certain subject, is it like renovating a house? First establish an overall framework, then narrow the scope to learn specific concepts and the relationships between concepts, or learn one concept at a time in the order of the learning materials?

Answer: The learning methods are slightly different for someone who is just starting to learn or someone who has been learning for a long time. What does someone who is just starting to learn learn? Learn to recognize characters, that's how it is. What does it mean to recognize characters? Recognizing characters is learning concepts, does everyone understand? We are finally hearing that we learn to recognize characters. What is thought? Thought is a concept. What we think in our minds is not necessarily called thought. What is thought? A set of theories that have been organized is called thought! We call it Mao Zedong Thought, so if we want to have thought, we have to have a concept.

We learn to recognize characters from a young age. What do you do when you finish recognizing characters? You recognize a lot of characters, right? So what to do? At this time, you read a book, learn a subject, and come up and quickly flip through this book from beginning to end, and don't read it word by word, read it section by section. How many concepts does this book talk about? What should you do at this time? You build a framework. Except for starting to learn to recognize characters, which is learning one character at a time, one concept at a time, all other reading starts from the framework, and then goes deep into the concepts described in the book, and then the relationships between those concepts. I ask you, when learning trigonometric functions, sine, cosine, and tangent are all concepts. What is the relationship between these concepts, for example, what is the relationship between sine and cosine? It's 90 degrees, adding 90 degrees is sine. So in these studies, we must develop a framework, from the framework and then deep into it, because this kind of learning efficiency is the highest.

【Question】10: Why is not wanting to trouble others and not wanting to be troubled by others a poverty mentality?

Answer: Why? Why isn't it? Right? Why isn't it? Not wanting to give out, in fact, it's not that you don't want others to give you, because in the end it's still selfishness, and selfishness is a poverty mentality.

【Question】11: If the definition of a concept is incorrect, the logic formed will also be distorted. What should I do?

Answer: Because the definition of a concept comes from the classics, it's definitely not something you made yourself. It's easy to define a concept incorrectly, just by defining it in your own words, it will be distorted, right? So try not to use your own words, say what others say. Marketing is four P's, don't make it four Q's. You say: No, my A is bigger. You think you're playing cards. It's not four A's, it's four P's, understand? What are the four P's? Marketing is this thing. So what does it mean that the definition of a concept is incorrect? It's that we're messing around ourselves. No concept was invented by you, they were all things that people have already said.

【Question】12: The definition of active learning and passive learning is not very clear. Young children need to go through passive learning to grow up. Making them learn actively will only be what they like, and they will not learn what they don't like. In today's society, many units and companies have high thresholds, and you cannot enter without a certain level of education. So, I don't understand how to balance active and passive learning?

Answer: No need to balance. What is there to balance? I think we go wrong when we want to balance, isn't it? What is a child? A child is actively learning from the moment they are born, but later we push them into passivity, you know? What you wrote is a state of confusion, a muddle. You can tell that you are not a learner. Because you have not truly practiced, your definition makes you see active and passive learning.

Active learning includes everything, and all paths require active learning. Can you be active in listening to lectures? Can you be active in watching television? But the moment one merely looks and listens, they become passive. Why? Because they do not have the habit of active learning. I ask you: a child sits there and listens for ten minutes, but doesn't absorb anything for the next forty or thirty minutes. Do you think they can cross the high threshold of the job market? Even if they do, they will be useless. The problem is: a person who learns actively will also have good grades.

We might think that with active learning, academic performance will not be good, is that the understanding? Will active learning lead to good grades? Let's all discuss this. Active learning not only leads to good exam results, but can also get you into top universities. People who know how to learn will definitely get into those prestigious schools. If you are wealthy in the West, and go to the most expensive schools, it is still not easy to get in! I think if parents have this kind of mentality, don't you need to change? Can you change? If you don't change, aren't you harming people? You are in utter confusion and still trying to guide your children, only thinking about getting into companies with high thresholds, without thinking about doing the right thing.

【Question】13: I get dazed when I see technical documents, I feel they are very difficult, and then I don't touch them. How can I solve this problem?

Answer: How to solve it? It's because you get dazed and feel it's particularly difficult. What is that? It's a feeling. Is it really that difficult? No, it's not. Because you don't know how to learn, it becomes difficult for you. You didn't listen well in the past, but you can grasp a television drama at twice the speed, but when you look at technical documents, you can't even manage half the speed, is that how it is? Why is that? Because you have never overcome the feeling of being dazed. Overcome the daze once, patiently read the simple technical document, is there any word you don't recognize? What's written on top, isn't this what I'm teaching you? Look, it explains one concept, two concepts, three concepts, four concepts. The definition of this concept is this, the definition of that concept is that, and what is the relationship between this concept and that concept? Once you sort it out, how much is really there?

Because people are often lazy, and often not stupid but lazy. Intelligence is the same at birth, but the difference between laziness and diligence is huge. Too much of what? There's not that much. It's just that we feel there is a lot. Later, I concluded that people who think they have a lot of work are called lazy. Look at diligent people, there isn't much work! It's finished in a moment. When you look at the ingredients laid out for a meal, you think, how can this work be done, how is there so much? But people who love to work will make a table full of dishes in a while. Those who don't know how to do it just leave a pile of dishes after eating and think, wow, so many. There's not that much. It's laziness. Don't solve the learning problem, solve the problem of laziness first.

【Question】14: Teacher, can you share how to learn English?

Answer: Many people learn English the wrong way. Whether it's English, or Maldivian, or Greek, or any language, even those strange languages of the Pacific island nations, people have already summarized how to learn a language, but we haven't paid attention. Have you heard: listening, speaking, reading, and writing, you learn starting from listening. You say, I don't recognize the words, how can I listen? You are wrong.

I ask you: if you adopt a two-month-old black child from Africa, so black that they don't look like a Chinese at all. Then you adopt a two-month-old black child and by the time they are one year old and speaking, they will definitely speak Chinese. Where did they start? With listening. They didn't start with phonetics, nor did they start with recognizing characters. We adults simply can't learn better than children, because adults' learning methods are wrong. Language learning starts with listening, speaking, and reading, then writing. We start with reading and writing, and immediately make adults confused. You ask, Is that how you learned? That's how I learned.

I used to learn English the wrong way. Later, when I went to Singapore, if you didn't know English, wouldn't you be finished? Utterly defeated! Ugh, it was difficult. Later, I listened to how people spoke, and I spoke the same way. People said they didn't understand, so I slowly asked, one sentence at a time, and I quickly learned. Later, there were actually quite a few things that I didn't know how to translate into Chinese. I didn't learn English through Chinese, I learned English through English. I listened, spoke, read, and wrote in an English environment. You say, What if there is no environment? If there is no environment, you can create one, listen a lot!

【Question】15: Teacher, I don't have enthusiasm for learning, and I retreat when I encounter difficulties. How can I cultivate enthusiasm for learning?

Answer: This question is a bit difficult. A lack of enthusiasm for learning is actually a defect in one's character. Such a character will retreat when encountering difficulties, and in the end, one will accomplish nothing, and life will be difficult. Actually, enthusiasm doesn't come right away. Listen carefully to what I say, enthusiasm doesn't come right away, because no one has enthusiasm from the start. There is no enthusiasm for walking the right path, but there is enthusiasm for taking the wrong path. You can't follow your enthusiasm or lack of enthusiasm. You should say, I want to do this, it is my decision.

Then, how do you become enthusiastic after you do this? Because as you do it, you enjoy it. It's a matter of habit. You developed bad habits in the past, and today you want to develop good habits, the principle is the same. People tend to go higher, water flows lower. It's not easy to climb up, but it's very easy to slide down! But after sliding to the bottom, life becomes difficult, very difficult. No money, nothing, people look down on you, and you look down on yourself. I ask you, do you think it's easy to live like that? It's not easy. Then why live like that? Is that hard? That's harder than the difficulties you encounter!

【Question】16: Teacher, I get dizzy, have headaches, and feel sleepy when reading books or making short videos. Teacher taught us, it's been better these days, but it's still not working. My mind is always unclear, like mush, I forget what I learn, I can't remember. Teacher, I am very anxious?

Answer: Actually, what I'm telling you is: doing, doing, and then your mind becomes unclear, like mush, and you forget what you learn, is actually all related to being anxious. Calm down, sort things out clearly, and then write in a notebook: how to do the first step, how to do the second step, how to do the third step. Then, next time when you practice the first step, second step, third step, fourth step, how can your head be mushy? I've said that you don't pay attention to methods when you do things, you just do them blindly. After doing them blindly, you want to take a walk outside. Hey, what road did I just take? You definitely don't know. If you clearly know that I went this way, won't it be clear next time? Develop good habits, find the right learning methods!

【Question】17: Teacher, I don't like to study, and I detour when I encounter learning obstacles. Plus, I have endless things to do every day. Teacher, how do you solve this? For example, practicing typing. Although I can type, it's very slow and then I want to be fast, so I feel it's easier to write by hand?

Answer: Actually, what I'm telling you is, many people are doing these things, and later I found that many people in their forties also write by hand. I don't know what their problem is? Just those few English letters, learning pinyin, how difficult is that? It's not that difficult. Why is typing slow? Writing is actually much slower than typing. Practicing typing is actually abstracting what it is to the core. Let me give you an example: practice typing like this. Everything starts from the simple, don't just practice blindly.

For example: find a very simple paragraph, and then you practice the first five characters of it. How do you practice the first five characters? Because each character has its own pronunciation, you have to write out the pinyin with a pen, and then you type it. Actually, before you even finish typing the pinyin, the character comes out. It's actually divided into two steps: one step is typing, and the other step is to understand in your mind what the pinyin is. Is it A, is it B, is it C, is it D. Do you understand now? So, when we practice typing, don't detour. This is the correct learning method, so we take the correct learning method. If others can do it, we can do it too. If others do it quickly, we can do it quickly too.

I have corrected quite a few people with this type of problem. Because they like to learn with the wrong methods, sometimes when I am directly shepherding them, I get angry and even yell at them. People's bad habits are very deep. If we are self-righteous to a certain extent, your learning will definitely be very difficult. You must follow the correct learning methods that people teach you, and you will naturally get the hang of it. It's slow at the beginning, but it's fast later. If you are fast at the beginning, you will always be slow later. Which do you think is better? Fast for many years, or slow for many years? When you calculate the time, there's never enough time. If you don't do one thing right, and then you don't do another thing right, that's why you never have enough time.

Among us, some people do translation, not translation into Cantonese, which is a completely different language. They just do it blindly, and I correct their wrong methods. It's very painful at the beginning, but painful is painful, it looks very slow, but later it gets faster and faster. What to do then? I said: don't rush to translate, go and read a lot of historical books in that language, as well as books related to management. He went to read them. Is that slow? Slow, but the foundation is very solid, and later he learned to translate, and translated faster and faster!

【Question】18: Teacher, I procrastinate in learning, I don't like to read, and I often use being busy as an excuse to avoid learning?

Answer: Actually, many people are about the same in terms of intelligence, but a lot of intelligence is used to find excuses. What's the result? If you continue to procrastinate in learning, don't study hard, and use being busy as an excuse, you will definitely accumulate a lot of headaches for yourself, and even be deceived at times. You don't make much money in the first place, and then you get deceived, you're just stupid. People who procrastinate and don't study hard will definitely become stupid. Once people become stupid, it's hard to make money, but it's easy to be deceived, and you suffer losses! But people don't know it. I'm telling you today, will you still procrastinate? You can't procrastinate anymore. Our pastors sometimes really need to run alongside, when they are learning, initially procrastinating, and when they are trained into a good learning habit, they really need to be watched.

【Question】19: When sorting out concepts, I suddenly thought of a question, which is to establish a system of faith. If I want to understand the division of priorities in understanding, how should I start learning? For example: courses, Bible reading, concept sorting, etc.

Answer: Actually, it doesn't really matter which ones you learn first and which ones you learn later. It must start from one place. Our courses are all about building a framework, and then whether you are reading the Bible or doing other things, you are entering a deeper and more detailed understanding. So it's not that important which ones you learn first and which ones you learn later. The most important thing is to learn the framework first, and then slowly delve deeper. Like our 101 course, it's about building a framework, giving you a small number of concepts, and then the rest is a lot of details, going into deeper details.

That's it for today's Q&A.

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大家看了没有?讲的这个经典书籍、深刻文章这些都是。我念给大家听,经典书籍是啥呢?这个是个概念,那这概念跟什么有关系?这个概念跟我们独立思考能力、提升认知就产生了关系。**经典书藉一定是流传了几百年甚至数千年的书,其价值已经被历史证明,经过大浪淘沙、历史考证的内容,才称得上是经典。那深刻文章是啥呢?那些冷静、理性又精炼深刻的文章,让人读完醍醐灌顶,发人深省**。你看这,哦,深刻文章,这是不是概念?这是概念。 **那知识快餐是啥?很多知识大咖,像这样的人二次加工,他们通过拆书,形像地表演,现场制造对立冲突以实现传播的效果**。大家听过知识大咖讲东西不?如果听了,那都叫做知识快餐。他们讲那玩意儿就是把那些经典,经过剪辑、加工,然后加点内容、佐料,让人听了以后看得挺好!但那东西叫做知识快餐。 第四种叫短视频,其实没啥。作者对这四种学习的内容梳理出来四个概念,那它跟啥有关系呢?跟独立思考和认知能力,你看到没?这四种学习内容有关系吗?有关系,那我们今天说学习提升独立思考和认知能力,这是一个观念、一个概念。那分为四个阶梯,那你是常常干啥来着?你常常大概就是短视频,那不就傻掉了嘛!透过电视剧能学东西吗?透过电视剧能学东西就好了,是不是?十分钟的东西就学会,到电视剧一看,看好几十集才能整明白,那不傻了嘛!

昨天我又读了一段我觉得挺好。我跟大家说一下,人生的三次觉醒,我觉得这个总结得特别好!哦,人生有三次觉醒:**第一次觉醒叫见自己,见自己是啥意思呢?我们不明白这是个概念,见自己就是把自己看明白。可以明归途所以豁达,知道最后奔着骨灰盒直跑,就豁达了。第二次觉醒见天地,可以知敬畏,所以谦卑**。所以说他又把人生的三次觉醒描述得很清楚,三个概念:第一个见自己,第二个见天地,那你说第三个呢?第三个我没有忘,我这不是在跟你讲嘛!**第三个叫见众生,见众生可以懂怜悯,所以宽容**。 昨天我读完以后我就琢磨琢磨,我自己好像已经到了三次觉醒了吧?觉醒你听得懂吗?突然间好像活明白了。我跟你讲有很多人一辈子都不知道在干啥呢?真的,一次都没觉醒过就过去了,一次都没整明白就下场了,人生就过去了。你说这活得,哎呀! 你抬头看一看,比如说我们当中有个弟兄娶了一个老婆,那老婆除了在家找事就是找事,啥活也不干。你说闹心不?闹心,她一辈子来到世上不用觉醒,一直活在懵圈的状态就行,是不是?整天没事找事,看着啥都不顺眼。那你觉醒了没有?你觉醒了以后,一次觉醒就见自己,人家总结得多好啊!人家不告诉你,没有人写这个字,没有人建立这个概念,觉醒不就懵了吗?觉醒是个啥?就懵了。但是有人一写,哎呀,学习了。那就见自己、见天地、见众生,这一下子就像醍醐灌顶似的。这是人家古人写的,不是咱们今天这个人写的。

我把这概念和概念之间的关系说清楚了没有?你像这个我们不管读什么书,如果读了之后不知道他在说啥?你就算了吧!比如我读了一本叫做《三位一体的真神》,读了以后我不知道他说啥?我又读了一遍还是不知道他说啥?他里面的概念都是混乱的,没有一点是清晰的,它不是个经典。后来我整明白了,《圣经》根本就没有讲过三位一体这词,这词都是后来人发明的,你说可恶不可恶?发明了一个概念,然后整完了把人整懵了,你说这是啥事呢?你要想把我整懵还是有点难的,为啥?我会学习。

答:大家听明白了他的错误在哪了吗?他老想用自己的话说清楚,他没有这些话他说啥?听明白了吗?就是我们人老想自己发明点啥。你用你自己的话能说清楚早就说清楚了,还用得着听我的?就用我告诉你的话说。直到今天我最痛苦的一件事就是,我刚跟他讲完,让他跟我讲回来的时候,胡诌八扯、胡扯一通。我说:你别整,你就重复我说的,我刚说完,你就用我说的那个讲,再重复一遍就行。他老觉得重复我的不对,哎呀,我就愁死了。那有个小孩写作文老是不及格,为啥呢?老是要用自己说的话说,是不是?你能说到人家见自己、见天地、见众生啊?你说不了。你没有这个概念,你没有这个知识。 我们学这个三角函数,到你那就变四角了,为啥?你给添了一角。后来你妈你爸就踹你一脚,五角了。你说三角函数你就照着说:三角函数。不对,三角数函。哎呀,我的天啊!这三角是没加上一角啊,函数倒成数函了,就是不踹你一脚真的费劲啊。你写笔记,大家知道不?你琢磨一下,我说的东西通常都是先有一个重点,然后我再说这几个小点,都是这么讲的。没有在那东扯西扯,是不是?刚才我在讲啥?我在回答概念与概念之间的关系,我讲的概念一、概念二、概念三、概念四,概念一是这个层次,概念二是这个,就一下就完事了,非得要用自己的话说,你肯定学习不好。 后来那小孩写作文听我讲完以后,哦,用人家的话写作文啊?废话,你不用人家的话,你哪句话不是跟人家学的?连骂人的话都得跟人学,听懂了吗?你不是跟人学的,你自己发明一个,老想发明一个网络热词,是吧?发明完了也没热,这一辈子不就傻掉了嘛!我说的,大家有没有这问题啊?如果有这问题调过来。**学习人家怎么讲,咱就怎么讲,人家怎么说,咱就怎么说。别用自己的话**。也不知道从哪个年级学的用自己的话说,别用自己的话,三角成四角,又多了一角五角。

答:这个听课师傅领进门,来大家再说一下,听课听什么呢?**听师傅领进门,然后学习呢?修仙在个人**。你会发现我有一个非常清晰的看见,我这个清晰的看见是啥呢?就是我讲的时候尽量把东西讲简单了,好让你赶紧进到这门里头,或者骑个门槛都行。所以说师傅领进门,修仙在个人。所以我想讲课都是讲给小白的,一听明白了,剩下的赶紧去探索,赶紧去学习。**然后因为师傅领进门嘛!建立个框架啦,把事弄成个简单的示范啦,然后剩下呢?你就开始主动地学习资料,查考资料,然后把这个事做出来就这样**。 所以听课如果老师在上课的时候传递的是内容,而且不是框架,听着听着就懵了。今天其实我告诉你,很多老师就是念课本的老师,课本要你念啊?咱们当中有没有很多这种念课本的老师?哎,我今天我就问你,就是那些对学校充满信心的家长们,咱们说一说,大家觉得怎么样?这个对学校充满信心的家长们,今天你知不知道学校的老师都是什么人呐?你去学校里面一看,哎呀,妈呀,都是985也考不上的,那他能帮你孩子考上?这回听明白了没有? 我们当中有一个孩子妈妈特别有意思,听说我说要学编程,训练孩子的工程思维能力,咣叽,花了两万块钱买了一个课程,把孩子送去了,送去了以后回来孩子学懵了,再学学不了,为啥?学懵了。那你说学懵了,你怎么整?后来我听说这事,那你让我说她吧,好像咱关系还没到那么近,如果关系近了,她早就会问我怎么学了,偷偷摸摸地去干,你倒把两万块钱给我,不用,收一万就行,这一万我也不收,我教你孩子行不行?

为啥呢?她不知道这学校的老师是怎么样的,她以为专业的事找专业的人,那专业吗?我问你,专业吗?哎,那种学校能招来什么人教啊?反正是他来让我去做老师,我不去做,我干那玩意干啥?都是在行业里头混不下去的人跑去念课文去了。念课文谁不会念?你孩子在家自己念课文不行啊?有的人说都是半桶水,啥半桶水?桶底都没有,半桶水都觉得夸奖他。所以说听课、上课,大家得知道别整错。 你不断地训练自己,就拿咱们当中听我讲,虽然你不一定掌握得那么好,听着听着你再去听别人的,你就觉得他讲得乱,是不是,有没有这种感觉?所以说慢慢琢磨这事,怎么训练自己,怎么理解这事?**就这么理解:师傅领进门,修仙在个人。一开始你门都摸不着,你往哪学?我就告诉你往那走,那是门,你就进去吧,进去以后广阔天地**。

答:这就错,就啥也不用做了。听明白了吗?你看人为啥提出自己头脑混乱,感觉都是问题?什么叫都是问题?连活着都是问题了是不是?其实不是这么论述的。你看人总是知道一些事情,至少他能把这句话写出来是不是?他不是说完全不知道,他知道一些。那我现在有啥问题描述一下,**其实头脑混乱不是别人告诉你混乱,是你自己觉得混乱,其实这种混乱的感觉不用管**。 那我现在不是知道很多问题,先知道一个问题是不是?比如说:儿媳妇跟婆婆关系老也处理不好。这事我有这个问题,有没有?我养了一个孩子,孩子上学很辛苦,有没有?有。然后怎么办?就顺藤开始摸瓜,管孩子这么管呐,关系是这么处啊,答案今天我不讲,我就说人什么叫做头脑混乱?就是人自己觉着混乱,其实没混乱。你看经常有这种事,跟你讲跟笑话似的:哎呀,老师我混乱啦。那把你账号里的钱打到我账号里,那不行。我说:没混乱呐。混乱了没有?没混乱。你说混乱了,我说趁着混乱赶紧忽悠他一把吧,忽悠不了,因为一动钱那家伙老清醒。 有的人就跟我争论呐,他说:人生下来的智商是不一样的。我说:智商不一样有这事吗?他说:有啊。然后给我讲一大堆。我说:我给你讲一个事,有一个小伙子,2加3等于8。你别看他2加3等于8糊涂,你要想占他的便宜,他心里老清楚了。听明白了吗?**占他的便宜,让他给你干点活,他心里头明明白白的,不傻吧?你说智商有问题没有?没问题,小孩都是这样。智商没问题,那啥有问题呢?就是人在对事物的认知上有问题**。

答:**那你解决这个具体问题,其实我告诉你,很多的时候要把这件事抽象出他的本质**。我把这句话再说一遍,要抽象出其中的本质,我假设你观察到的东西是对的,那为啥公公婆婆一意孤行呢?这个里面的本质就是他们任性。那为什么他们任性呢?大家说说看,如果给他送到缅北电诈园,老实了没有?还任性吗?不任性。**里面的本质就是他们不知道害怕任何人**,听明白了吗?他不知道害怕任何人,大家都让着他,让来让去就让成今天这样。 那怎么办?你在你家族里头有没有这样的地位,可以管理这件事,有个狠人一出来肯定老实。我们中国有句话叫神鬼怕恶人,我们人要处理这些事,我告诉你,问题都是自己造成的。但是如果说你在家里没这样的地位,你就别去碰。那怎么解决?你能解决你就解决,不能解决就躲开,但是说你还想啃啃老,想吃人家喝人家的,然后人家想一出是一出,你还烦心,你烦啥呀?你就别烦。我告诉你我们很多时候,**我们就说了一个表面的事,但是从来不管里面的关键。其实就是一个人不知道害怕,不知道敬畏,然后就想一出是一出了,就这样**。那如果他是个精神病,精神病有精神病的治法,精神病院专门干这个。

答:那我告诉你为啥?因为你读了这句话,你就只读了这句话,然后你就不知道了。那我再解释把概念和概念之间的关系弄清楚这是什么意思呢?这个概念和概念之间的关系,我刚才举了几个例子,人活着几个觉醒:见自己、见天地、见众生这都是概念。人家作家都解释了一下,然后我们把这觉醒分成了三个阶段,有没有关系啊?第一个阶段就是见自己,第二个阶段见天地,第三个阶段见众生,这难吗?不难。

答:对一个刚刚开始学习的人,还是学习很久的人,他这里的学习方法稍微不太一样。刚刚开始学啥?学认字,是那么回事,什么叫认字?认字就是学概念,大家清楚不?我们学认字终于听到了,思想是个啥?思想是个概念,就是我们脑子里想的东西其实还不一定叫做思想,那什么叫做思想?就是整理出来的一套理论那东西叫做思想!我们叫毛泽东思想,所以说我们要有思想,就是有个概念。 我们从小在学认字,等你认完字怎么办?很多字都认识了,是不是?那怎么办?这个时候你再读一本书,学一个学科,上来就把这一本书从头到后快快翻,而且别一个字一个字地读,一段一段地读,这本书讲了多少个概念?这时候怎么着呢?你就搭起框架来了。**除了开始学认字,是一个一个字学,一个概念一个概念学,剩下读书全部都是从框架开始,然后再深入书里头描述的概念,然后那些概念与概念之间的关系**。我问你学三角函数,sine、cosine、tangent都是概念,这些概念和这个概念之间的关系,比如说sine、cosine的关系是啥?就是90度,加个90度就是sine。所以说我们在这些学习上都要养成框架,从框架然后深入,因为这样的学习效率最高。

答:因为概念的定义是从经典来的,肯定不是你自己做的。你要想把概念定义错那很容易,就用你自己的话一定义就歪了,是不是?所以尽量别用自己的话,人家怎么说咱就怎么说。市场营销是四个P,你就别整四个Q,你说:不,我A比较大。你以为打牌呢。不是四个A,是四个P,听明白了吗?四个P都是哪四个P?市场营销就这玩意。所以概念的定义不正确是啥?是我们自己瞎整,哪个概念都不是你发明的,都是人家说好的。

答:不需要平衡,平什么衡。我就觉得我们想平衡的时候就坏了,是不是?什么叫做小孩子?小孩子刚出生他就是主动学习的,只是后来我们把他给推到被动里去了知道不?你看你写的这段话就是一个混乱和糊涂的一个状态,一看就知道是一个不学习的人。因为你没有真正地实践过,所以你界定就觉得被动学习和主动学习。 **主动学习包括所有啊,哪一个都得通过主动学习**。你听课可不可以是主动的,看电视可不可以主动?但是一看一听就被动了,为啥?因为他没有主动学习的习惯。我问你:小孩子在那一坐一听就听了十分钟,后边的四十分钟、三十分钟都没听进去,你觉得单位门槛高就能迈过去了?就是迈过去了也是个废物。问题是啥?一个主动学习的人他考试成绩也一定会好。 我们就以为主动学习,学习成绩不会好,是这个理解不?主动学习成绩会不会好?咱们大家说一说看,主动学习成绩考试不但能考好,而且还能考到985,会学习的人一定会考到那种名校里去。如果你在西方你家里有钱,你就去学费最贵的那些学校里,那也不好进呐!我就觉得我们这些家长如果是这样的一个脑子你不需要改吗?能不能改呀?你不改你不是害人吗?自己混乱到一塌糊涂,然后还要指导孩子。光想着公司门槛高要进去了,就不想把着把情整对他。

答:如何解决?就是因为就发懵感觉特别难,这是个啥?这就是个感觉。其实真的难吗?不难。因为你不会学习所以你就会难。过去光听课也没听好,看电视剧一个顶两,看点技术文档一看就两顶不了一个,是不这么回事?那为啥这样呢?因为你从来就没不懵过。那你克服一次懵,整个简单的技术文档耐心读,哪个字你不认识啊?那顶上写的,我这不是教你么,你看讲了一个概念、两个概念、三个概念、四个概念,这个概念的定义是这个,这个概念的定义是那个,这个概念和这个概念什么关系?一梳理,哪有多少东西啊。 因为人有很多时候是懒,很多时候不是笨是懒,智商生下来时候都一样,但是那懒惰的、勤快的差别就大了。太多了,多啥啊?哪有那么多啊?没有那么多,只是我们觉着多。后来我就总结了,**凡是看着活多的人都叫做懒。你看那勤快的人,这没有多少活啊!一会就干完了**。一看那个料理,材料在那一放,哎呀,这活咋干呀,怎么这么多?但是人家爱干活的,一会做了一桌子的菜。那不会干的就在那,吃完饭一收拾那碗一摞子,哎呀,这么多。哪有那么多啊?没有。懒,咱就别解决学习问题,咱先解决懒得问题。

答:这个英语很多人都学错了。这个不管它是英语,还是马尔代夫语,还是希腊语,还是什么语,还有太平洋岛国那些奇怪的语言。这个学语言人家都总结过呀,只是我们没留意啊。听没听过:**听、说、读、写,就是从听开始学的**。你说:我不认识这个字我怎么听啊?你这就错了。 我问你:你从非洲领养了一个出生两个月的小黑孩漆黑漆黑的,黑得那就根本没有一点华人的样子。然后你领养了一个小黑孩两个月,到家里来了,到了一岁说话的时候他一定会说华语。他从哪开始的?听开始的。他不是从音标开始的,他也不是从认字开始的。那我们大人根本学不过孩子,因为大人的学习方法是错的。语言的学习听、说、读然后写,我们现在上来就读,上来就写,一下就把大人给整懵了。那你说:你是这么学?我就这么学。 我以前学英语学错了,后来到新加坡这个地方,你不会英语那不就死翘翘吗?那彻底地是完蛋呐!哎呀,这个费劲啊。后来我就听人家怎么说,我就怎么说。人家说听不明白,后来听不明白就慢慢问,一句话一句话,很快我就学会了。到后来其实有好些我都不知道怎么翻译中文。我不是透过中文学英文,我是透过英文学英文,我在英文的环境里听、说、读、写。你说:没有环境怎么办?没环境可以创造一个环境啊,大量地听啊!

答:这题有点难呐。**那人没有学习的热情,其实是一个性格里的一个缺陷。这种性格就遇到困难就会退缩,最后就一事无成,这一辈可难过了**。其实不是上来就有热情,你仔细听我讲的,不是上来就有热情,因为上来都没热情。走正路都没热情,走歪路都有热情,不能顺着自己的热情和不热情去走。应该说:我要做这个,这是我的决定。 那我一旦做这个后来怎么有热情了呢?因为你做着做着就享受这个事了,它是个习惯问题。那你过去养成了坏习惯,今天要养成好习惯,其实道理是一样的。**人往高处走,水往低处流,往上爬不容易,往下出溜是很容易呀!但是出溜到底下以后,人就不容易了,那就是非常的不容易。要钱没钱,要啥没啥,人家也看不起你,你也看不起自己**。我问你活成这样你觉着容易吗?不容易。那为啥要活成那样呢?那样难不难?那样比你遇到的困难还难啊!

答:其实我跟你讲:这个做着、做着头脑就不清醒,酱糊糊的学了就忘了,其实是啥原因?都跟着急有关。你静下心来,你把东西梳理清楚,然后用本子写上第一步怎么干?第二步怎么干?第三步怎么干?然后下次再练第一步、第二步、第三步、第四步脑袋怎么会酱糊糊呢?我说过你们做事不讲究方法就瞎干,瞎干完了你想在外面瞎走一圈。哎,我刚才走的哪条路?你肯定不知道。如果你清清楚楚地我往这走,下次不就清楚了吗?养成好习惯,找对学习方法!

答:那其实我跟你讲,人家做的这些东西呀,后来我发现很多四十多岁也拿手写,我也不知道他是什么毛病?就那几个英文字母,学个拼音,哪有那么难?没有多难。那为什么打字慢呢?写字其实比打字慢得多。那练打字其实就是把打字的这个事,抽象出来到底是个啥?我给你举个例子:练打字这个事你这么练,什么东西都是从简单的开始,别在那瞎练。 比如说:找一个很简单的一段话,然后你就练它其中的前五个字,前五个字怎么练呢?因为每个字都有它发音,所以你得把那个拼音用笔写出来,然后你就去打,其实还没等打完那拼音那个字就出来了。其实就是分成两步:一步是打,一步是心里得明白,它的那个拼音都是些啥?是A呀、是B呀、还是C呀、还是D。这回明白了吧?所以说我们练打字别绕道走。这是个正确的学习方法,咱就走正确的学习方法。人家能干咱也能干,人家这么干挺快,我们这么干也挺快。

那像这类的问题,我修理了好些个人。因为他们就喜欢用错误的方法学习,有的时候整着整着因为我直接牧养,我就发脾气,甚至把他吼一顿。这人的恶习是很深的,**就是我们如果自以为是到一定程度,你学习一定是很辛苦的。你一定要顺着人家教你的正确的学习方法去学习,他自然而然就上手了。一开始慢但是后面快呀,你一开始快后面一直慢呐**。那你觉得哪个好?一快快了好多年,一慢慢好多年,算下来时间怎么整也不够用。干一件事不把他干对,再干一件事又不把他干对,所以你时间老也不够用,就是这么个问题。 那像我们当中有一些人做翻译,不是翻译成粤语,那是完全不同的语言。他就瞎整,我就把他错误的方法给掰过来。**一开始掰过来很痛苦,但是很痛苦归很痛苦,看起来是很慢但后来越整越快**。那怎么办呢?我就说:你先别急着翻译,你就去大量地去阅读那种语言里的历史书籍,还有跟管理有关的这些书籍。他就去阅读,那慢不慢?慢,但是根基是非常得牢,后来他学会翻译,把那东西越翻越快!

答:其实很多问题人的智商都差不多,但是有很多智商都用在找借口上了。结果怎么着?结果如果你现在这种学习拖拉,不好好学习然后忙为理由,你一定会为自己积蓄很多头疼的事,甚至在某些时候还被人骗。本来就赚钱不多,再被人骗,人就是个傻。**人拖拉不好好学习,他一定会变傻。那人一变傻赚钱也费劲,被人骗倒是容易了,那吃亏呀**!但是人不知道啊,那今天我告诉你,你还拖拉不?就不能再拖了。那我们的牧者有的时候真的需要陪跑,就是他学习的时候,一开始拖拉给他练成一个好的学习习惯的时候,还真需要看着。

答:其实这些先学哪个后学哪个,关系还真的不是那么大,一定是从一个地方开始。那像我们的课程都是建立框架的,然后你在读经也好,其他的这些东西也好都是进入一个更深入更细节的了解。**所以先学哪些后学哪些其实关系还不太重要,最重的就是先学框架的东西,然后再慢慢地深入。你像我们101课程就是建立一个框架,给你一个很少的几个概念,然后剩下的就是很多的细节,进入到更深的细节里面去了**。 今天咱们答疑就到这。
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