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【Living Abundantly】Learning to Ask Questions is Key to Learning

2016-06-28 4,459 Y133 Course - Living Abundantly

Pastor: I am quite fascinated by the Book of Deuteronomy. Why? Because I find it exceptionally well-written.

If you fully obey the Lord your God and carefully follow all his commands I give you today, the Lord your God will set you high above all the nations on earth. (Deuteronomy 28:1)

These are the words of God. He will set you high above all nations on earth. And then He says:

You will be blessed in the city and blessed in the country. The fruit of your womb will be blessed, and the crops of your land and the young of your livestock—the calves of your herds and the lambs of your flocks. Your basket and your kneading trough will be blessed. You will be blessed when you come in and blessed when you go out. The Lord will send a blessing on your barns and on everything you put your hand to. The Lord your God will bless you in the land he is giving you. (Deuteronomy 28:3-6; 8)

I find this particularly well-said. We must know that believing in the Lord is a path to blessing. If believing in the Lord does not lead to blessing, then surely one is believing in the wrong way. When some non-Christians talk to me, they might say, Will manna fall from the sky? Can believing in the Lord fill your stomach? Well, I sit there and think, will manna fall from the sky? No. But in everything you put your hand to, the blessing the Lord ordains will come upon you. That is to say, what you do will be blessed. The Christian faith, the God in whom we believe, is a very practical faith. Everyone must begin to understand one thing: if these things are not happening in our lives, there is only one possibility – we have not carefully followed His words. If a student carefully follows His words, his studies should be quite good.

Learning is Intimately Connected with Faith

Host: Actually, I also hope to facilitate a process of questions, because often you have many questions in your hearts. But sometimes you have a question in your heart, and if you don't ask it then, the question disappears—well, not disappears, the question is still there, but your desire to ask it vanishes. What is the main thing to do during this time? It is to allow everyone to recall those questions they have always wanted to ask but haven't; or those questions they have always wanted to know the answers to, through the work of the Holy Spirit, through their own thinking during the process of listening, and to ask them. Then the Holy Spirit will give you an answer, and the pastor will certainly give you an answer.

Pastor: I may not necessarily have the answers, but I think if we explore together, there should be answers. I may not have all the answers. If I can't answer, I will probably remember it for the next week, month, or year, and then I will carefully investigate and research, perhaps giving you a less than satisfactory answer.

Host: There is another microphone in whose hand? Someone who wants to ask a question can hand it over, or stand here. Distant brothers and sisters, I especially hope that you can actively ask questions. We will go through each question, at least giving some response. The issue we are discussing today is actually very relevant to everyone. I call this Learning is Intimately Connected with Faith. Let me do a survey first: raise your hand if you think your academic performance is very good; raise your hand if you think your academic performance is very bad; what is the state of those who have not raised their hands? Average.

Distant brothers and sisters, I also want to do a survey. If you think your academic performance is very good, give a like. Actually, it is quite difficult to tell everyone that my grades are very good. If you really give a like, your academic performance should be really good.

What is the first question we will explore today? Let me give you a hint, Isaiah. See if you encounter this situation when you are studying.

They know nothing, they understand nothing; their eyes are plastered over, so they cannot see, and their minds closed, so they cannot understand. (Isaiah 44:18) Have you ever been in this state during class? That is, no matter what the teacher says, you are thinking, What are you talking about? Pass the microphone to KX, to describe to us what this state is like – the teacher is lecturing, and I am with my eyes closed and my mind shut; unable to see, unable to understand.

KX: It's like being in class, listening to the teacher, but not understanding. Even after asking the teacher many times, I still don't understand. It feels like they are speaking gibberish.

Pastor: I believe this feeling of listening to gibberish is quite common, isn't it?

Host: KR, honestly speaking, have you ever been in a state of listening to gibberish before? Tell everyone about it. You can share your state of mind. Many times, I may not be able to understand it, and the pastor also needs to understand this state of mind. Can you describe it? Just talk about how you felt at the time: I can't understand what I see, and I can't understand what I hear. Is it because I can't keep up?

Falling Behind

KR: Actually, that course was a very new course. I didn't review it at home beforehand, and it was completely new. The teacher hadn't talked about it before, and the teacher's pace was also very fast. I felt like I couldn't keep up.

Host: Yes, this is the first topic I want to discuss – falling behind. This is a confusion that many people have had. For example, TX, when you were learning code, did you have this feeling? Like thinking, What are they talking about? Once a point is broken, you can't keep up anymore.

Pastor: In today's society, I personally feel that many people rush through their lectures. They just zoom past, and you zoom past with them, straight into confusion. The teacher lectures to complete the task; as for whether the students understand or not, that is not the teacher's concern. This is a very strange state. I am not criticizing the education system, but I want to bring out the issue that this situation is actually a very ineffective education system.

I think today I will bring out the passage that Brother WC mentioned earlier. Knowing nothing and understanding nothing is a fatal problem of being in a state of falling behind. The learning we are talking about is lifelong learning. We are not talking about a lifetime of listening to lectures, but a lifetime of learning. This is called Lifelong learning. So, thinking about this matter is really quite important.

What is Your Goal in Learning?

Host: In this, I want to discuss the first question with everyone, which is that before we do any learning, I hope everyone will first lay out this matter – what is your goal in learning? Let's set this goal first. For example, Sister TY, she works in topography at the airport. There are exams in topography, but as long as you pass, there are no penalties; no matter how well you do, there are no rewards. But Sister TY has always set the goal of getting full marks for herself. This is the first state.

What is the second state? That is, even though I am in British education, I want to get higher scores. I may have seen JN studying English for a while, reading an English novel. Actually, the teacher recommended that she watch novel dramas to improve her English literacy. This is also something I cannot understand, because British education is just for getting scores. What is your goal in learning? So, this is the first question we need to discuss. Are you really clear about what your goal in learning is? Let me ask WS first, what is your goal in learning?

WS: Just to get into Poly!

Host: To get into Poly, right? So, your goal is scores, right?

WS: Yes.

Host: Very simple, right? Then KR, what is your goal?

KR: The Primary School Leaving Examination.

Host: The scores in the Primary School Leaving Examination. Regarding this point, Pastor, do you have anything to say, for example, some people clearly don't need to get high scores, but they try their best to get high scores. Some people are in this state.

Pastor: Let me give you an analogy. We have all washed dishes. Washing a dish a hundred times is not much different from washing it twice. It is still a dish, as long as it is clean enough. But some people with obsessive-compulsive disorder keep washing it. They wash a dish for an hour, wash a hand for an hour. In fact, the effect achieved is not much different from five minutes or two minutes.

When I talk about such things, you may find it ridiculous, but many people are like this when they study. In the whole process of learning, they don't know what they are doing. In fact, it is just that they have no goal. I think this thing of not knowing what you are doing is itself a very serious problem.

Let me digress a bit, because the host mentioned goals. I will bring this back. As long as you can achieve this goal, no matter what method you use, it is acceptable, right? As long as you wash the dishes clean, you can use any method, the faster the better.

When we talk about learning, I may advocate a habit that sounds a bit uncomfortable to everyone. I often sleep in class, either because I don't understand, or because after listening, I feel that I know all the things he is talking about. They find it strange why I do so well on exams, because I learn, not listen. Even if I go to listen, I listen with my questions. My goal is very clear. If I don't understand, then what am I doing? I use this time to rest, which is better, because I think someone is in front, sleeping very soundly. So sometimes when I preach, when I see someone about to sleep, I encourage them to sleep well.

But where is the problem? We need to find the root cause of the problem. For example, some people are under spiritual bondage, their minds are not open. This is a bondage that believers must break. Their minds are not open, it's not that they don't want to study well, but they don't know what they are reading when they read on their own; they don't know what they are hearing when they listen. This person will struggle for a long time. This state is actually a state of being unenlightened. Where does the state of being unenlightened arise? They will understand less and less, and become more and more anxious; the more anxious they become, the more they want to listen, the more they listen, the less they understand, and then they operate in a very negative mindset.

Host: Actually, many parents are trapped in a very uncomfortable state. For example, if KR is very unenlightened in learning, you can't scold her. If you scold her, she will be in a more difficult state.

Pastor: I think that for some time, KR was listening to science courses, and she told me that she didn't understand anything at all. Actually, I think the science stuff, how much can elementary school science have? There's actually not much, so why doesn't a child understand anything at all? We need to solve this problem. I thank the Lord that the matter of KR's mind not being open has been broken. When she came to church, her grades were among the last few in the class. From this state, she has entered the middle or above. The remaining situation that she needs to adjust is this situation of not understanding. If we educate according to my own summary, education is when a child is hitting a wall, when he can't jump over it, you pull him up.

In fact, the teacher needs to complete this matter, and the student needs to learn. When learning encounters difficulties, there is a hand that can pull him up, so he will not be discouraged, and he will not feel defeated. If you let him keep hitting the wall, hitting the wall, after hitting it more than three times, he will stop hitting it, and he will say: I can't do it, I definitely can't do it, that's just how I am. Then he will have this concept.

When I was in Taiwan, I would meet with KR every week, two to three times, for half an hour each time, sometimes only for twenty minutes. Actually, the time was very short, only four or five hours in a month, but her academic performance suddenly jumped from 180 points to 230 points, which was a critical leap. So what kind of role did these few hours of mine play? I pulled her hand up. Why do I want to talk about this? Actually, there are still many students among us. I want to make our goal as a pastor, as a cell group leader, as a pastoral district leader, you must know what you are doing.

I told her that for half an hour, I would let her ask me questions. Remember, a person who can ask questions has already solved half the problem. The most critical thing is not to think. As long as you think, you will ask questions and you will basically be close to finding the answer. By the later times, KR didn't really need me anymore because she had her own answers. I asked her again if she had any questions? She had no questions, so I asked her a question, and she answered quite well. I felt that when a person enters this state, KR, can you describe the feeling of learning as a very good feeling, isn't it?

KR: Yes.

Host: What was your state of learning before? What is your state of learning now? Before and after the pastor's guidance, give the pastor some encouragement.

Asking Questions is Key to Learning

Sister KR: My score in the Science course used to be the lowest in the class, so I was particularly disgusted with this course and didn't want to learn it every time I went to class. After a month of the pastor's guidance, my Science course has made great progress, and the teacher was also very surprised. How did my Science improve so much?

Pastor: Then can you summarize the changes in method? For example, can you ask questions?

Sister KR: I would mark out the content I didn't understand when reading textbooks or doing problems, and then ask the pastor.

Pastor: So asking questions is the key to learning.

Host: My own experience is that I think textbooks can be divided into several categories: content, examples, exercises. If you memorize knowledge by rote, you can first read the content roughly, but you should pay attention to the examples. Examples are a very important part. After doing the examples, you can reach a medium-to-high level. So what is the pastor's view on knowledge, examples and exercises?

Pastor: Some time ago, Sister WS encountered difficult problems in mathematics, which were about the knowledge of set logic, etc. After so long, I was also confused. I led her to turn to the concepts in the textbook first. There were 21 concepts in total. I led her to clarify half of the concepts, and the rest was completed by Sister WS herself. We finished the whole chapter in an hour and a half.

So we need to know what we are doing, we still need to go back to many basic concepts and examples, so that when we do problems, we will remember the examples, and we can finish them quickly. WS also solved the problem quickly. I think the learning problems of Sister KR and Sister WX can be solved.

So I encourage everyone to accumulate knowledge, knowledge is accumulated layer by layer, don't think about skipping to solve problems. Just like you want to buy a three-story house, you can't be impatient, you have to start from the foundation to build it. Once the knowledge system is established, it is not difficult to do it step by step with care and patience, and to learn.

Host: It will be slower at the beginning, but you will learn very quickly later. Next, let's talk about the issue of memory. Some students review very carefully in class, but they still can't remember it; or they remember it, but they still can't use it in the exam. A piece of knowledge is only useful after you express it yourself.

Pastors Must Know in Advance the Problems Faced by the Flock

Pastor: The pastors of the church must know in advance what problems the flock is facing, so that they can solve the problems of the flock. So pastors must learn to ask questions.

Sister PL: My class is a very good class. The students usually take notes very carefully, but in the final exam, they still haven't absorbed the content, and the scores are not high.

Pastor: A professor at a national university did an experiment and re-examined the college entrance examination content of college students, and finally found that not many passed. There is a big difference between understanding and not understanding. This phenomenon is because they didn't understand it when they were learning at that time. Understanding means really understanding. Just like the word of God, if you understand it, you can practice it. This is the same as swimming and riding a bicycle. It is difficult to forget what you have learned.

It is key to understand it when you learn it at that time. I like to solve things thoroughly. I put my mobile phone number on the website, but it doesn't ring often because my colleagues can solve it very well. Jehovah needs us to think, use the resources of the church, and solve the problem from the root. Can KR still read the Science textbook now?

KR: I can read it better than before.

Pastor: What should I do if I encounter problems when reading it? Can I find information myself?

KR: Now I can find information online myself.

Pastor: Some of our brothers and sisters have tutored KR. In this process, can we reflect and ask ourselves a question, what problems did KR encounter, and how should this problem be solved? As a pastor, we must learn to solve practical problems.

Host: I would like to use a passage from the Bible to summarize: But his delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and night. (Psalm 1:2) The pastor must read the Bible more times than us, so that he can integrate the things in the Bible. When we learn, as long as we spend time learning, there will definitely be results.

Knowing What Our Problems Are

Pastor: One of our habits is that we don't like to ask questions, we can't see the problems, and we don't know what the problems are? . I would like to ask the brothers and sisters present, what are your problems? Have you thought about it?

Brother: My problem is that I am not attentive and I am not interested in learning.

Pastor: That is, there is no problem. In fact, no problem is a very serious problem. Is our church good? I hope everyone will ask themselves, what is my problem? Sister WS's problem is that she doesn't pay attention to the foundation and skips the foundation to do problems directly, which is problematic. Only when the foundation is clear, and then do it, will it be more effective. Sister KR has learned to collect information. When I was helping KR solve the problem of Science course, KR asked me a question, and I immediately searched it online, and then let KR summarize what she read? KR knew it quickly.

We always exaggerate the problems we encounter. In fact, this problem is very small, but at this time, a negative emotion will arise, and you don't want to make efforts to solve it anymore.

Two Learning Attitudes: Super Care and Complete Disinterest

Host: There are two attitudes that are very harmful: complete disinterest and super care. We will see many reports of people who are super care about the results and eventually commit suicide. I would also like to use the words in the Bible to describe these two attitudes: The Lord, the Lord Almighty, will take away from Jerusalem and Judah all kinds of supply: all supplies of food and all supplies of water, the hero and warrior, the judge and prophet, the diviner and elder (Isaiah 3:1-2)

The result of being very care can be good or bad. At this time, the person's mental state is problematic, and they will ask themselves to do things that they cannot achieve. If the result is not good, they will do things in fear, afraid of being criticized, and the bad things will be magnified infinitely.

Pastor: Chinese football has a problem. Before the game, the coach will tell them that Chinese football is carrying 1.3 billion people, so they will be very stressed. As a result, they kicked an own goal. It is impossible to play well like this, but before the Germans play football, their mothers will say: Just play like a game, just have fun playing. They won the championship without any pressure. The education we receive is very bad education. For example, when children go to college, their parents say: No matter what, don't lose face for the family. Can they do well under so much pressure? The answer is obvious, so we must overcome psychological pressure.

Enjoy the Learning Process

Caring and not caring, care and indifference, I often have very wonderful discoveries when studying topics, so I enjoy this process very much. Every time I give a Sunday sermon, it is actually the publication of my thesis. Constant research will lead to new discoveries, and you will start to enjoy this process.

Whether you are a student or a professional. You can enjoy learning very much, but the lesson is not to care about the results of things, because this has a negligible impact on life. Many brothers and sisters will ask, what was my learning state at that time? In fact, my family didn't care much about grades, and I didn't care much myself. I just enjoyed being in learning. In fact, my parents didn't teach me how to learn. They just didn't put extra pressure on me.

Improve a Little Bit Every Day

Many times, if you care, you may not do well, love money may not make you rich, want to have good grades may not get you good grades; but if you are very free and easy, and enjoy what you do, you will definitely do well. What you care about and what you don't care about, this concept needs to be changed. I care very much about living a fulfilling life every day and improving a little bit every day. You will enter the state of the glorious children of God. In the future, I will also create a very comfortable working environment for the full-time colleagues of our church. I will not release pressure to them, because this pressure does not necessarily solve the problem. My way of solving problems is to let you learn and improve a little bit every day, and take root in the foundation.

Thinking too much does not help solve problems. Many people have this state, which is bondage; because the devil will release lies, but people can refuse to accept them and choose to do specific things and think about how to solve the problem. Focus is a very good quality. It is good to take one step at a time and practice it, focusing only on improving a little bit every day. If you improve today, you will see today's progress; don't look at what you haven't improved yet, because the devil will control people's thoughts and minds. It is very powerful to learn to pay attention to what you have and what you have improved.

A person who lacks the vision to discover the grace of the Lord and the vision to discover their own progress is not happy. And when the grace is not so obvious to be felt; you said it, some of your progress, this progress will be achieved. The grace of the Lord is not just great grace; improving a little bit every day is also the wonderful grace of the Lord. If you don't see your own grace, or don't say it, it will not be recognized, and progress will gradually disappear. Thinking is a good habit. When you move from a state of emptiness and chaos to a state of clarity, it is a kind of enjoyment!

The core of the 201 course:

I. People must have a Mingding: Abraham's Mingding is our Mingding. He opened up a living way for us.

II. The church is a platform to fulfill Mingding: Because we want to be a blessing to many people, we have no way to do it ourselves. We can only train ourselves in the church and bless many people through the platform of the church.

III. People lose Mingding and get hurt: Because they are controlled by ghosts, they live in a state of no goals and no Mingding, care about what God does not care about, get hurt, and live in bitterness.

1.We must do inner healing, which is restoring Mingding.

2.To take on Mingding, we must imitate inheritance.

3.Obey and commit.

4.Fight and win.

Next is a blessed life, with sense of clear direction, good time management and emotional management skills. you will surely be the head and not the tail, above and not beneath. Solved the problems in these aspects, is our church's core system, I encourage you to learn this way, into a clear state, will be very enjoyable!

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我们今天第一个探讨的问题是什么?我先给大家一个影子,《以赛亚书》, 你们看一下是不是学习的时候回碰到的状况。 *他 们 不 知 道 , 也 不 思 想 ; 因 为 耶 和 华 闭 住 他 们 的 眼 , 不 能 看 见 , 塞 住 他 们 的 心 , 不 能 明 白 。 (《以赛亚书》 44:18)* 在上课的时候,有过这种状态的吗?就是老师讲什么东西都 “你在讲什么?” 把话筒给KX,来跟大家描述一下这什么状态,就是老师上课在讲,我是眼睛也闭住,心也塞住;不能看见,不能明白的状态。 KX :就是上课的时候,听老师讲,然后不明白,问了老师很多次,还是不明白,就感觉在讲天书的那种感觉。 牧师 :我相信这种听天书的感觉是蛮普遍的一种状态,是吗? 主持人 :KR,实话实说,之前有过听天书的状态吗?也跟大家讲一讲,就是你可以跟大家分享,这样子的心理状态,很多时候,可能我不太能理解,牧师也很需要去理解这样的心理状态。可以跟大家形容,就说一说当时心里面:我看也看不懂,听也听不明白, 到底是因为跟不上吗?

KR :其实那门课是很新的一门课,那天我在家里又没有自己提前复习,然后就是一个全新的,老师以前也没说过,因为老师的速度也很快,我就觉得自己有点跟不上的感觉。 主持人 :对,这个就是我想要讨论的第一个话题——跟不上。这个是很多人有过的疑惑,比方TX在学习代码的时候,有这感觉吗 ?就是在想“在讲些啥” ?一个点断掉了,就跟不上啦。 牧师 :现在这个社会里面,我自己觉得,很多人讲课的时候,他就出溜,一下就出溜过去了,然后你就跟他出溜,一下就出溜到糊涂里去了。老师讲课是为了完成任务;学生听课,至于听不听得懂,那不是老师关心得事情,这是一个很奇怪的一种状态。不是说我批评这个教育体制,但我想带出一个问题就是,这种状况其实是一个非常无效的教育系统。 我想,今天我会带出来刚才WC弟兄讲的那段经文。不知道、也不思想,这是一种陷入到“跟不上”状态里的一个很要命的事情。我们所说的这个学习,都是学习一生,没有说 听课一生,一生在学习当中,这叫 Lifelong learning。所以思想这件事,真的是还蛮重要的。

主持人 :这个里边,我先跟大家讨论一下第一个问题,就是我们在做任何学习之前,我希望大家先铺张这个事情——你学习的目标是什么?我们先把这个目标订好,举个例子, 像TY姐妹,她在机场做地形的工作,地形会有考试,但这个考试就是你只要及格,就没有任何的惩罚;你考得再好,也没有任何的回报。但TY姐妹一直以来,都以拿满分为自己的目标。这是第一种状态。 第二种状态是什么呢 ?就是明明是我在英式教育的,我要考分数考好 一些,我之前可能看到JN有段时间在学英语的时候,就在那边看一个英文的小说,其实那是老师会推荐她去看小说剧,提高一下你自己英文的素养。这个也是我不能理解,因为英式教育就是为了考分,你学习的目标是什么?所以,这是我们第一个需要讨论的问题,你们真的清楚你们学习的目标是什么?我先问一下WS,你的学习目标是什么 ? WS : 就考上Poly啊! 主持人 :考上Poly对吧,如果是为了考上Poly的话,所以说你的目标是分数,对吗? WS:对。 主持人 : 很简单对吧,那KR你的目标是什么 ? KR:就在小六会考。 主持人 :小六会考里面的分数。关于这点,牧师,有没有说,比如说 ,像有些人明明不要拿高分,还拼命拿高分,有的人就有这种状态。

牧师 :我打个比方,我们都刷过碗,那个碗你刷一百遍,和你刷两遍,其实没什么两样,它还是一只碗,只要够干净就好,但是有一些洁癖的人就一直在那洗,洗一只碗洗一个小时,洗一个手洗一个小时,其实达到的效果跟五分钟、两分钟没什么两样。 其实我说这样的事情,你会觉得很可笑,但是很多人学习他也是这样,在整个学习的过程当中,他不知道自己在做什么,实际上就是没有目标。我想这个不知道自己在做什么这件事,本身就是一个很严重的问题。 我稍微跑点题,因为主持人讲到的这个是 “目标”。我就在把这个拉回来, 只要能够达到这个目标,不管你用什么样的办法,都是可以的,是不是?只要把碗洗干净,你用什么样的方法都是可以的,越快越好。 我们谈到学习这件事,我可能会推崇一种大家听起来有点不太舒服的一个习惯。我上课经常睡觉,因为要嘛是我听不懂;要嘛我听了以后,我觉得他讲那些东西我都会。他们觉得很奇怪,为什么我一考试考得很好,因为我都是学来,不是听来。我就算去听,我也是带着我的问题去听,我的目标很清楚;如果我听不懂,那我在干什么?我拿这个时间来休息,反倒更好,因为我觉得有人在前面,睡觉睡得特别香。所以有时候我讲道的时候,我看到有人要睡觉,我就鼓励他好好睡。

但是问题在哪儿?我们要找到问题的根源。比如说有一些人,他是一种在属灵的辖制里面,脑袋不开窍,这个是信主的人,一定要破除的一种辖制。他脑袋不开窍,他不是不想学习好,他自己读,也不知道在读什么;听也不知道在听什么,这个人会辛苦很久,这种状态实际上是一种不开窍的状态。不开窍的状态它会产生在什么地方呢?他就会越听不懂,越着急;越着急就越想听,越听越听不懂,然后就在一种很负面的心态的里面在运作。 主持人 :其实很多家长都陷在一种很难受的一种状态。我举个例子,假如KR学习很不开窍,你不能训他,一训她,就更辛苦的状态。 牧师 :我想,KR她有段时间听科学的课程,她跟我讲她完全听不懂,其实我觉得科学那点东西,小学的科学你想它能有多少?其实是没多少东西,那为什么一个小孩子她完全听不懂?就要解决这个问题。我感谢主,其实KR脑袋不开窍这件事已经破除了。她来教会的时候,其实她成绩从班上的最后倒数第几名,从这种状态已经进到中等以上。剩下她还需要调整的状况,就是她那个 “听不懂” 的这种状况。如果把教育按着我自己归纳,教育就是这个小孩在撞墙的时候,他跳不过去的时候,你拉他一把。 其实老师要完成这件事,而学生需要去学习,学习遇到困难,有一个手可以把他拉上去,他就不会气馁,也不会被打败的感觉。你让他一直撞墙、一直撞墙,撞三次以上,他就不再撞了,他就说:我不行,我肯定不行,我就是这样子。然后他会就有一种观念。

我在台湾的时候,我就跟KR约每一个礼拜,有两次到三次,半个小时的时间,有的时候只有二十分钟,其实时间是很短,一个月下来也就是四、五个小时,但是她学习的成绩一下子就从总分数的180分跳到230分,那是一个关键性的飞跃。那到底是我这几个小时起了个什么样作用呢?我把她的手给拉上来。我为什要讲这件事?其实我们当中还有很多学生,我就想要把我们的目标,做一个牧者,做一个小组长,做一个牧区的领袖,你一定要知道你在做什么。 我就跟她在半个小时的时间,我就让她问我问题。记住,一个人能够问出问题来,已经解决了一半的问题,最要命的就是不思想;只要你思想,你就会问出问题,就基本上就快找到答案。到了后面几次的时候,其实KR都不太需要我了,因为她自己有答案了。我再问她有没有问题?她没有问题,那我问她一个问题,她答得也蛮好。我就觉得,一个人进到这种状态,KR,可不可以描述一下,那种学习的感受是一个非常好的感受,是吗? KR :对。 主持人 :你之前学习的状态是什么样子?你之后学习的状态是神么样子?在牧师辅导的前后,给牧师一点鼓励。

KR姐妹:我以前“科学”课程的分数是全班倒数,因此我也特别反感这门课,每次上课就不想学习。经过牧师一个月的辅导,我的“科学”课程有很大的进步,老师也很吃惊。我的“科学”怎么进步这么大。 牧师:那你能否总结出方法上的改变?比如,能否提出问题? KR姐妹:在看课本或者做题的时候会标记出不懂的内容,再去问牧师。 牧师:所以**会问问题是学习的关键**。 主持:我自己的经验是,我认为教材会分为几类:内容、例题、习题。如果死记硬背知识的话,可以先大概看一遍内容,但是要重视例题,例题是很重要的部分,把例题做完以后,是可以达到中等偏上的程度。那牧师对于知识、例题和习题有什么看法呢? 牧师:前段时间WS姐妹看数学遇到了难题,是关于集合逻辑等的知识,已经过了这么久了,我也一头雾水。我就带领她先翻到课本的概念上,一共有21个概念,我带领她搞清楚了一半的概念,剩下的是WS姐妹自己去完成的。整章我们用了一个半小时就搞定了。 所以我们要知道自己在做什么,我们还是要回到很多根基性的概念和例题中,这样做题的时候就会想起例题,就可以很快做完。WS也是很快就把事情解决了,我想KR姐妹和WX姐妹学习上的问题都可以得到解决。 所以鼓励大家去**积累知识,知识是一层层积累起来的,不要想着跳着去解决问题**。就像你想买三层楼的房子,不能心急,也要从地基打起才可以建立起来。**知识体系一旦建立起来,细心耐心一步步去做,去学习,也并不难**。 主持人:一开始慢一些,后来会学习得很快。接下来我们聊一聊关于记忆的问题,有一部分学生上课复习很认真,还是记不住;或者记住了,考试还是不会用。一个知识只有自己表达出来以后才有用。

牧师:教会的牧者一定要预先知道牧羊的人面临着什么问题,只有这样才能解决牧养者的问题。所以牧者要学习可以问出问题来。 PL姐妹:我所在的班级是很好的班级,学生平时很认真记笔记,但是最后的考试东西还是没有吸收到,分数也不高。 牧师:一个国立大学的教授做了一个试验,重新考一遍大学生高考的东西,最后发现及格的不多。明白和不明白差别很大。这个现象是因为当时学习的时候就没有弄明白。弄明白就是真的明白了。就比如神的话,弄明白了就能够行出来。这和游泳、骑脚踏车一样,学会的东西是很难忘记的。 **当时学习的时候就学明白是关键**。我喜欢彻底解决一件事情,我把我的手机号放在网站上,但是不会经常响,因为我的同工可以很好解决。耶和华需要我们去思想,把教会的资源利用起来,就能把问题从根上解决。KR现在读“科学”课本还能读下去吗? KR:比以前读的进去。 牧师:读的时候遇到问题怎么办?可以自己找资料吗? KR:现在可以自己从网上找资料了 牧师:我们当中有一些弟兄姐妹辅导过KR。在这个当中,我们是不是可以反省问自己一个问题,KR遇到了什么问题,这个问题要怎么解决?作为一个牧者,我们要学会解决实际问题。 主持人:我想借用《圣经》里的一段话作总结:*惟喜爱耶和华的律法,昼夜思想,这人便为有福! (诗篇 1:2)*牧师看圣经的次数肯定比我们多,他才能够把圣经里的东西融会贯通。我们学习的时候,只要把时间花上去学习,一定有成果的。

牧师:我们当中有一个习惯,不喜欢去问问题,看不到问题,不知道问题是什么?。我想问问在座的弟兄姐妹,你们的问题是什么?有没有去思考? 弟兄:我的问题是不用心,对学习没有什么兴趣。 牧师:就是没有问题,其实没有问题是一个很严重的问题。我们教会好不好,我希望每个人都去问自己,我的问题是什么?WS姐妹问题是不注重根基,直接跳过根基去做题,这样是有问题的,只有把根基清楚了,再去做,就会事半功倍。KR姐妹学会了去收集信息,我在帮KR解决“科学”课程的问题的时候,KR问我一个问题,我就立刻到网上去搜,然后让KR总结读到的是什么?KR很快就知道了。 我们总会夸大自己遇到的问题。其实这个问题很小,但是这个时候会产生一种负面情绪,不想再去做努力解决。

主持:有两种态度很害人:完全不在乎和超级在乎。我们会看到很多超级在乎结果的人,最后自杀这样的报道。这两种态度我也想用《圣经》里的话语:*主万军之耶和华从耶路撒冷和犹大,除掉众人所倚靠的,所仗赖的,就是所倚靠的粮,所仗赖的水;除掉勇士和战士,审判官和先知,占卜的和长老, (以赛亚书 3:1-2)* 很在乎的结果可以好或者不好。这个时候人的心里状态是有问题的,会要求自己去做到自己达不到的程度。如果结果不好,在惧怕中做事,怕受到批评,结果不好的东西被无限放大。 牧师:中国足球有一个毛病,上场前会有教练告诉他们,中国足球背着13亿人民,这样他们就会很有压力。结果踢出来了一个乌龙球。这样是不可能踢好的,但是德国人踢球前妈妈会说:就当玩去一样,自己踢的开心就好。就在没有压力的情况下拿到了冠军。我们受的教育是很恶劣的教育。比如小孩去考大学,家长说:无论如何不要跟家人丢脸。这么大的压力能够考好吗?答案显而易见,所以一定要克服心理上的压力,

介意和不介意,在乎何和不在乎,我常常在研究课题时,会有非常奇妙的发现,所以我就很享受这个过程。每次,我在做主日讲道的时候,其实都是我论文的发表。不断的研究,就会有新发现,你就开始享受这个过程。 做学生也好,专业人士也好。你可以很享受学习,但这功课就是,不去在乎事情的结果,因为这对生命的影响,微乎其微。很多弟兄姐妹会问,我当时的学习状态,其实我的家庭,是不太关心成绩,我自己也不太关心。只是去享受在学习当中,其实我爸妈,也没教导我该怎样去学习。他们只是,不会把额外的压力加给我。

很多时候,你在乎并不一定做得好,爱钱不一定有钱,想有好成绩不一定会考好;但如果你很潇洒的,去享受你所做的,就一定会做得很好。你在乎什么,和不在乎什么,这个观念需要改变。**我很在乎,每天很充实的活着、每天进步一点点。你就会进到,神荣耀儿子的心态里面**。将来,我也会创建很舒适的工作环境,给我们教会的全职同工。我不会释放压力给他们,因为这压力,并不一定解决问题。我解决问题的办法,是让你每天学习,进步一点点,扎根根基。 想得太多,对解决问题没有帮助。很多人会有这种状态,这是辖制;因为魔鬼会释放谎言,但人可以拒绝接受,选择做具体的事,去思想怎么解决问题。专注力是很好的素质。一次迈一个台阶,去实践就很好,只在乎每天进步一点点。今天进步,就看到今天的进步;不要看自己还没进步的,因为魔鬼会辖制人的心思意念。学会关注,自己拥有的和进步,就很厉害了。 **一个缺乏发现主恩典的眼光、缺乏发现自己进步的眼光,这种人是不喜乐的**。而当恩典,还没那么明显地感知到;你说了,有些你的进步,这进步就会成就。主的恩典不只是,很大的恩典;每天进步一点点,也是主奇妙的恩典。若看不到自己的恩典,或不说出来,就不会被承认,进步就会渐渐消失掉。思考是很好的习惯。当你从空虚混沌,渊面黑暗的状态中,进到清晰的状态,就是一种享受!

201课程的核心: 一、人活着一定要有命定:亚伯拉罕的命定,就是我们的命定,他为我们开辟了又生又活的路。 二、教会是成全命定的平台:因为我们要成为很多人的祝福,自己没有办法,只有在教会训练自己,透过教会的平台祝福很多人。 三、人失去了命定就会受伤:因为会被鬼辖制,活在没有目标、没有命定的状态中,去在乎神所不去在乎,就会受伤,活在苦毒中。 1.我们要做内在医治,就是**恢复命定**。 2.要担起命定,就一定要**效法传承**。 3.**顺服委身**。 4.**争战得胜**。 **接下来就是蒙福的人生,会有清晰的方向感,有很好的时间管理能力和情绪管理能力。就必是居上不居下,做首不做尾的人**。解决了这几个层面的问题,就是我们教会的核心体系,我鼓励大家学习这种方式,变成清晰的状态,就会很享受!
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